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Veteran Nollywood Actor Abdulsalam Sanyaolu, popularly known as Charles Olumo or Agbako will clock 95 on February 19, 2020.

Agbako turned 94 in 2019 with so many younger colleagues celebrating the Thespian who commands undiluted respect in the movie industry.Charles Olumo who hails from Abeokuta, the Ogun State capital began acting more than fifty years ago and has featured in more than one hundred movies.

He is known for antagonistic roles and he can as well function as a Cleric, Herbalist, Chief just to mention a few depending on what the movie script reads.He starred in movies such as Igbo Dudu, Oba Adakedajo, and Saworoide where he played the role of the official assassin of the Monarch.

Charles Olumo is one of those who witnessed the archaic and modern version of the movie industry.
He's expected to celebrate his 95th birthday with colleagues, children, grand children and great grand children

Strange has become a steady word in talking about African social practices far and wide. The African peoples custom and culture consistently have its method for making stun and amazements to individuals of the outside world as well as without a doubt to Africans themselves.

One of such strange practices is being brought to the limelight right now. We investigate a Tribe in Uganda the "Banyankole Tribe".
Banyankole Tribe, Uganda.

The Banyankole clan possesses a minority position in the clans of Uganda, however its association with the word Marriage have brought it into extraordinary acknowledgment of the western world. It's entertaining to state that at whatever point "marriage" is referenced, it is certainly a weight on the bride's auntie.

This is so in light of the fact that Whenever a couple is going to get hitched, the custom of the Banyankole Tribe directs that, and I quote: "The auntie of the lady of the bride first have sex with the husband to be to guarantee that he is strong" (in other words in clear terms, that the Aunty of the lady that is going to get hitched will initially engage in sexual relations with the Man that is going to get hitched to her!!!. To affirm if the man can perform.

Furthermore, it doesn't end there, as the auntie despite everything need to test the Bride to affirm her Virginity!!. Now and again, the custom demand that it was the obligation of the auntie to demonstrate the intensity of the husband to be by watching them make love.

OGUN CORONAVIRUS (Corona soap)
Ewe lapalapa, imi isu odidi atare meje, Adan meje,ewe ogbo, (ewe .........................)imi ojo, efun ati osun, ao gun gbogbo re papo, ao po mo ose dudu, a o maa fiwe fun enikeni ti obani eyikeyi arun. Odaju pupo. it will surely work for corona, its a spiritual Anti virus

OGUN CORONAVIRUS (Corona soap)
Ewe lapalapa, imi isu odidi atare meje, Adan meje,ewe ogbo, (ewe .........................)imi ojo, efun ati osun, ao gun gbogbo re papo, ao po mo ose dudu, a o maa fiwe fun enikeni ti obani eyikeyi arun. Odaju pupo. it will surely work for corona.

Ican't pay the hospital bills, this child is too ugly to be mine - Man cries on facebook

A man on facebook name withheld recently posted the picture of his child and he's really in pains and grief as he doubts if he's the true father of the child he's wife just recently gave birth to.

According to him he said the child is too ugly to be his and he doesn't wanna accept that's the result of his wife pregnancy as he doubts his wife had an affair outside that brought about this child and he threatened not to settle the bills from the hospital.

Nigeria Seeks $500m Loan To Upgrade NTA To Compete With CNN -Lai Mohammed

"If the loan is approved, the NTA will be brought to the international standard that places the country on a very high pedestal".

I need a God fearing guy, but men are afraid to toast me because of my uniform - female soldier
A Nigeria female officer has taken her intensity to look for a God fearing Suitor via web-based networking media and let Nigerian folks know she needs a decent Someone.

She said folks are constantly reluctant to toast her since she is trooper. I don't have the foggiest idea why Some of Nigerian person consistently dread to move toward any you love and care about without having any fear.

It would be ideal if you a portion of this female warrior are bemoaning step by step that folks are constantly reluctant to toast them. Let continue appropriating them and they are people like us.
If you need a wife and you thinks God is leading you to a female soldier don't be afraid make the move and be a man.

This Is The Animal That Caused Corona Virus

Hello nairalanders, this might be surprising but it is the truth... Research has proven that the coronavirus is from one of the word most trafficking animals with the name " PANGOLIN" this animal is often trafficking around the word see picture below for a better recognition of this animal.

Chinese who have been believe to eat any moving things must have accidentally eaten this pangolin whatever, this must be the reason the virus emanated from China.

This pangolin unlike other animals feeds on ant and dusty impurities, it must have gotten this viruses from unclean things
Thanks for reading
ONE WORD FOR CHINESE??

President Muhammadu Buhari tells the African Union that he is concerned about the worsening security condition in Libya - Buhari says the Libyan conflict continues to have devastating impact on neighbouring countries in the Sahel and the Lake Chad regions .

The Nigerian president calls for the African Union to adopt a new approach geared towards resolving the Libyan dispute President Muhammadu Buhari has raised concerns over what he described as the worsening security and humanitarian situation in Libya.

The Nigerian president raised the concern on Saturday, February 8, at the African Union Peace and Security Council summit on situations in Libya and the Sahel in Addis Ababa, The Guardian reports. Buhari who was represented by the minister of foreign affairs, Geoffrey Onyeoma, at the event stated that the Libyan conflict continues to have devastating impact neighbouring countries in the Sahel and the Lake Chad regions despite the effort by the African Union to resolve the dispute.

ECOWAS mobilising own resources to combat terrorism - Buhari He called on the African Union to adopt a new approach in resolving the Libyan dispute. The Nigerian president also condemned external interference in Libya.

Meanwhile, a former chairman of the Federal Character Commission, Ari Gwaska, has condemned the call for the sack of Nigeria's service chief over growing insecurity in various regions of the country especially the north. Speaking after an all-inclusive stakeholders meeting on the state of security in the country, Gwaska who is the national chairman of the Pro-Nigeria Elders Council (PRONECO) said he believes President Muhammadu Buhari is following United States of America's (USA) lead on tenure elongation of the service chiefs to defeat terrorism. The former FCC chairman said it is not entirely strange for heads of security architecture to remain in office longer than expected. Insecurity:

This could be worse than Boko Haram - Sultan raises alarm over looming danger Gwaska said the US and other top nations have adopted this strategy at different times to quench insurgency. He also noted that it is unhealthy to change competent and trustworthy hands at a critical time as when there is an ongoing war against terrorism.

He recalled that in 2018, President Donald Trump extended the high year tenure for senior Air Force officers through technical sergeants beginning February 1, 2019. In another report, the Centre for Social Justice, Equity and Transparency as passed a vote of confidence to Chief of Army Staff (COAS), Lieutenant General Tukur Buratai and troops of the Nigerian Army involved in the war against terrorism.

The centre said the Army chief has surpassed expectations despite obvious plots from desperate politicians and their collaborators to undermine the gains.

China seek for court’s approval to kill the over 20,000 coronavirus patients to avoid further spread of the virus By Local Correspondent
The highest level of court in Chhina, Supreme People’s Court, is expected to give an approval on Friday for the mass killing of coronavirus patients in China as sure means of controlling the spread of the deadly virus.

The State tells the court that China is on the verge of losing its health workers to Coronavirus as at least 20 health workers contract the virus daily.

The State argues that coronavirus patients admitted at hospitals only have their deaths delayed and infect many others while receiving care at the hospital.

China has been under criticism for human rights violations and organizations have questioned China’s approach in dealing with the Coronavirus outbreak and it is believed the country has already killed many of its coronavirus patients.


Doctors Have Found The Cause Of The Foul Smell From The Mouth!
The State mentioned in a document to the court that the country may lose its entire citizens if the few affected patients do not sacrifice their lives to save health workers and a billion others as there is no hope in sight in the fight against the virus.

The World Health Organization (WHO) has said it needs $1 billion to fight coronavirus outside China.

Countries around the world are starting to cut ties with China and pull their citizens out of the crisis-hit Hubei region, where the virus emerged in the city of Wuhan.

Hong Kong’s leader today held a press conference during which she wore a face mask and said the city would stop all high-speed trains and ferries to the mainland, halve the number of flights and stop giving visas to visitors from China.

Thirteen cases around the world have confirmed the coronavirus is spreading from person to person outside of China among people who have not visited the country.

The man who had leased a loft so his family can live in, has been stunned when following six years, he found that he had been paying house lease to his own better half.

As per an online life client who posted the story, the man was shocked that the house lease continued expanding after at regular intervals and when he could take it no more, he chose to examine.

While making the examination, he found the stunning actuality that his own better half is his proprietor and she had been gathering the whole lease he had been paying.

A man leased a house and moved in with his family, After 2 years the lease was expanded, he didn't gripe since he enjoyed the house and condition.

After an additional 2 years, run of the mill of the landowner in Lagos, the lease was again expanded and the man couldn't concoct the cash.

Weight from the specialist made him hopeless and that point the spouse offered to help, she chose to go get and the husband consented to pay later. He was upbeat saying thanks to God for the life of his better half.

An additional 2 years, Another expansion on lease, he was vexed to such an extent that he chose to meet with the landowner for discourse yet the specialist forestalled him. In the wake of doing underground Investigation to uncover who the landowner was, the disclosure stunned him

What will you do if you happen to be in his situation too

The central defender has finally completed his move to Emirates Stadium after a turbulent week of negotiations between the two clubs

Arsenal have completed the signing of Spanish defender Pablo Mari from Flamengo on Wednesday afternoon.

The 26-year-old has moved to Emirates Stadium on loan until the end of the 2019-20 campaign after completing a medical in London.

The Gunners have had to pay an initial fee of around £4.25m (5m euros), and have the option to sign the centre-back permanently in the summer.

Arsenal set to finalise Pablo Mari move after breakthrough in talks with Flamengo
Mari touched down in England with Arsenal technical director Edu at the weekend to iron out the final details of his move, but had to return to Brazil after a breakdown in negotiations.

However, the Gunners continued to pursue a deal and made a significant breakthrough in talks with Flamengo at the start of the week.

Mari was granted permission to return to London and finalise his switch to the Emirates, and could be in line to make his debut for the club this weekend.

An octogenarian named Iris Jones must have given up on love until she tried her luck on social media and found a hunk that swept her off her feet.

One would think that the relationship would be a relationship scam many women fall for, but Iris insists that their love for each other is strong and real. She went on to reveal the first time they slept together and how she felt about the experience which she described as 'rough.

The 80-year-old, Iris Jones, made her relationship with the 35 years old Egyptian, Mohamed Ahmed Irbriham known in a revealing interview she had at the 'This Morning Show'. She said the long-distance relationship has not affected their relationship.

He said they both have lots in common and the 45-year difference she has with him has not deterred their relationship.
She explained that the first night was rough because she saw herself as a virgin. It had been 35 years since she slept with anyone.

She said she could not walk the next day after their bedroom activities. It felt like riding a horse for her.

APC Senatorial Candidate, Patrick Obahiagbon Weighs In On The IMO State SC Judgement. - Hope For Nigeria

I am maniacally bewildered, overwhelmed and flabbergasted at the paraplegic crinkum crankum that has characterised the latest news about IMO state governorship election judgement , culminating in an odoriferous saga cum gargantuan gaga!

The jiggery pokery of homo sapiens flaunting their incompetence as Supreme Court judges instead of achievements stemming from months of preparation and years of hard work is a veritable bugaboo that must be pooh-poohed by all compos mentis homo sapiens!

I said to my self: What an anathematous disdain of the citizenry! What a deprecable descent from the sublime to the ridiculous! Who will curb the odoriferous excesses of this machavellian and mephistophelean cabal in the country?

With this state of affairs, I dare say that the future of our dear nation is swimming in a pestilential aqua with a disastrous terminus ad quemqueen inherently laden with avoidable cataracts, ice bergs and oxbow Lakes.
It is sardonic and lugubrious and SHOULD STOP.

Amotekun was in the interest of Nigeria, I won’t sacrifice lives for politics, Akeredolu
Says I don’t mind the consequences on my second term chances in any manner
Ondo State Governor, Mr. Oluwaroyimi Akeredolu yesterday declared that he is not perturbed by the possible consequences of leading the governors of the South-west in the formation of regional security outfit, Amotekun.

This is coming as former Vice President Atiku Abubakar has thrown his weight behind community policing and Amotekun, insisting that when the federal government fails to meet up with challenges of securing lives and property, the states have a right to compliment the federal efforts.

The declaration was made in a statement signed by the State Commissioner for Information and Orientation, Mr. Donald Ojogo against the insinuation that Aketedolu’s forefront position in the formation of the security outfit may threaten his second term ambition as the people of the state go to poll later this year.

Ojogo said: “In particular, fears and apprehensions have been expressed in many quarters that his role in the formation of Amotekun could mar his second term chances.

“This is far from the truth because Governor Akeredolu is on the path of national cohesion through collaborative internal security.

“The decision taken in respect of Amotekun was in the interest of the entire Nation but not the South-west alone. The political insinuations and blackmail are the required ingredients needed to make it credible. But such will not discourage the governor in any manner.”

The commissioner said it was expected that there are possibly, political vultures waiting to reap from an imaginary scenario, especially as the state approaches the 2020 Ondo State governorship primary of the All Progressives Congress (APC).

“In words and in deeds, Governor Akeredolu will not sacrifice the compelling need to make lives safer in the South-west on the altar of political convenience, comfort and partisanship. The welfare of the people must come first.

“It, therefore, suffices that Governor Akeredolu considers more compelling, the need to institutionalise an acceptably complimentary and more enduring security framework in the South-west.

“For those who have chosen to impose deceitful contentment on themselves for sake of political ambitions, especially towards Ondo 2020, the choice is free for them to make.

“The people are conscious and enlightened enough to discern the undercurrents; and more importantly, the consequences of those choices are lurking in the corners of our collective psyche, waiting to unleash on all of us.

“Of all vices, deception is dangerous. It becomes most lethal when it graduates to hypocritical humility and pretentious cooperation. It must be stated that Governor Akeredolu, not oblivious of human imperfections that are not peculiar to him, prefers to live life accepting who he is and loving it rather than pretending to be what he is not,” Ojogo said.

Meanwhile, former Vice President Atiku Abubakar has thrown his weight behind community policing and Amotekun, insisting that when the federal government fails to meet up with challenges of securing lives and property, the states have a right to compliment the federal efforts.

Atiku in a statement by his media aide, Mr. Paul Ibe said that as enshrined in the Nigerian constitution that the primary responsibility of government, at any level, is the protection of lives and property of the citizens.

Accordingly, Atiku said that in carrying out this function, the state employs different layers of measures to ensure effective and efficient policing.

He said that “it is without doubt that in the past decade particularly, the current policing administration in our dear country had been stretched to its limits and it is obvious that the reality of our domestic security upheaval will demand of us to recalibrate our police systems”.

Atiku who was the presidential candidate of the PDP in the last election said that “in the First Republic, before we gravitated too much to the centre, policing was done federally with each native authority and region having some mechanisms to deal with little upsets that were the security concerns of those times.

“In the present day Nigeria, there is hardly any state of the federation that does not contend with some type of security challenges. Because our security challenges are diverse in forms and impacts, it is thus incumbent that centrally controlled police architecture cannot exclusively deal with those challenges”.

“There is need for the creation of additional policing structures in the country to address the rapidly growing challenges of insecurity and crime. The time is ripe to seriously confront the reality of insecurity in the country by addressing the urgency of introducing state police, zonal police and community policing to complement the efforts of the current federal police.

“It is obvious that current levels of insecurity in the country are giving rise to major initiatives such as Amotekun and the issue need not be controversial in the first place.

“The police are likely to be more effective if they constantly operate in the same local community or local government because such closeness might create a bond with the local people, thereby enabling community cooperation and participation that would engender proactive outcomes in crime prevention,” Atiku stated

“The issue of security shouldn’t be politicised and monopolised in the face of our current alarming security challenges characterised by the fear of even travelling on our highways by the citizens who might be intercepted by kidnappers and taken hostage for ransom”, he said.

He explained that local policing shouldn’t be mistaken for an effort to hijack the role of the federal police or a competition with the federal government, adding that the obvious inadequacies of the federal police to effectively deal with these rapidly growing security challenges make local policing not only desirable, but also necessary.

I have been the one flushing his poo since we got married, yesterday he poo and left it, everywhere was smelling and I wanted to use the toilet but couldn't I had to run to my neighbors house and beg them to use their toilet.

it was so embarrassing that I have to go through this every day for the rest of my life, hubby came back wants to bath and met his poo, he started shouting that I left the toilet dirty that why didn't I flush it, I told him I can't that's why.

And we got into argument that night, I told him why would I continue to be flushing his poo everyday and he said why did he marry me if I can't help him?

The next morning he called his mother and reported to her, You won't believe what came out from my mother's in-laws mouth, that I don't respect my husband if not I did be happy to be flushing it, that I should apologize and don't try to repeat it again.

These really got me angry and I told her over my dead body will I apologise and she banged the call
Right now my husband has left the house since two days now and hasn't come back.

please I need your advice!

My wife and I got married months ago, we courted before this wedding and I've known her to be an S U, as we popularly call them.

In my search for a decent woman to make my wife, I met her as she looks innocent and acts all decent. She told me she was a virgin and I was happy I found an undefiled woman.

On the wedding night, I found out she lied to me and I was very angry. After a while, I decided to forgive her. Since then, things were just normal between us.

Recently, I noticed she demands for more whenever we're having good times together. She want styles that I've never explored all my life. She seems more like a professional in the job.
This is not the woman I wedded, please help me!

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Northern Youths Council of Nigeria, NYCN, on Thursday, kicked against the formation of ‘Operation Amotekun’ in the Southwest zone of the country.

National President of NYCN, Alhaji Isah Abubakar, in a statement issued in Kaduna, urged President Muhammadu Buhari, not to allow what he described as “unconstitutionality” to prevail.

He also described the security outfit as military wing of the Oodua Peoples Congress in disguise.
“Amotekun group in Southwest is OPC Military wing in disguise and in the same league with the proscribe IPOB. The President must not allow this unconstitutionality to prevail,” he said.

Isah said Southwest governors must desist from backing such groups as the Amotekum, adding that Amotekun is a threat to peace and national security and an attempt to jeorpadize Nigeria’s sovereignty.

He said Nigerian Police, DSS and Army shouldn’t take this lightly with the governors of Southwest. He also said the National Security Adviser should promptly take steps that will avert the looming threat to Nigeria’s national security by Southwest governors, OPC and others.

BUK reportedly translates physics, chemistry and maths textbooks into Hausa language

Bayero University, Kano, has reportedly translated physics, chemistry, and mathematics textbooks into the Hausa language to aid learning.

A twitter user, with the name Muhd El-Bonga Ibrahim, has hailed the development as very good work, saying it will help those who find it difficult to speak English language , the country’s lingua franca. He also urged that the same thing be done at the primary level.

Professor Liyu Mu’azu, who led the translation team, said that they translated eight textbooks in the field of science and technology.

DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT AGE 22 TO 28 YEARS OLD

Don't make our mistakes. Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire. Have kids early so you can grow with them. At my age I don't have kids yet and it's my greatest regret.

Grow with your kids and succeed with your wife. You might still not succeed at your target years, so start your life early and with consistency you will grow.

When I was 22 years, I was thinking about making billions before I marry. Many years later Billions didn't come and No kids, No wife.
I had an opportunity to marry the love of my life when I was 23 years in my Graduation year in school but all I was thinking was "What am I going to feed her with?"

Right now she's married to another guy, she has given birth to two kids and all grown. The guy that married her was still schooling by then but they worked on their success together.

I failed, so please If you can feed yourself 3 or 4 times a day, it means you can feed your wife and you have to believe it. Marry early and don't wait.
Don't make our mistakes because I see my childhood friends play with their kids. Most of them are not doing as well as me but they're happy in their marriage.

Trust me, it isn't about money, though it count but rather your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom.You can be poor and comfortable. With a well planned life they're happy. Trust me it isn't about money.

What was my problem? Build mansion, buy Rolls Royce, marry a Sharon Stone type of lady? Never because I still don't have those things I dreamed of and of course the years I wasted, I can never have them and I mean never.
I can't be 60yrs old and my kids will still be in their 20's. What am I supposed to be? Their grand father or father?

Please young men, take my advice seriously. Let the little you have speak for you. Settle down early because God can change your life in a blink. With a good wife by your side you will succeed.
No matter how hard life is, no matter the situation, no matter what the devil or demons will do, start your life early and stay blessed.
A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE IS ENOUGH

BREAKING NEWS
Iranian General Esmaeil Qa'ani has been appointed as the new chief of IRGC Quds Force.
He says "Iran’s missiles are ready for war, We are just waiting for an approval by President Rouhan.

Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.

1. I'm too young for that
2. Who cares about marriage
3. I'm focused on my books
4. I want to gather some money first
5. Marriage is full of problems
6. You're too old for me. (A guy of 30)

These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.
But these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to have sex with boys.

No problem, God is watching you
At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;

1. How far?
2. Don't you have any one yet?
3. Are you not planning to get married?
4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married?
5. Don't you know you are getting old?
But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.
At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with again.
You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don't want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.

No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.
My sister, it matters a lot.

Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?
At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she's a Muslim, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.

If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say
1. My brother, I'm not like them.
2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating.
3. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage.
You don't expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there.

Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you.
Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.

Everything in life has its own season and time.
There's no lady at age 30-35 seeking for marriage who haven't been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE .

God who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don't disturb the peace of God. Cos, He will be busy planning for your younger sister.

It's never too late to ask for forgiveness or have a second thought of mind. For our God is a merciful and gracious Lord.
Change your mindset and turn to Him now, before it's too late
Please share this message to save a sister's future.

Sex is an important element in marriage and until there is sexual intercourse between a husband and a wife, the marriage is not yet spiritually recognized. This shows how important sex is in marriage.

When you look at how aggressive men are towards sex you may think that what a man needs from a woman is sex. Of course, if he has not married you yet or he does not really intend to marry you what he will need from you is nothing above your body. But if he really intends to marry you or if you guys are already married sex is never what he needs from you - maybe let me say it better; "WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS NOT SEX."

Many young girls think because they are sexually active and experience they will easily be married and have their husbands loving them. And when a man approaches for marriage they think the greatest asset they have to show the man is sex.
Others also think once they are giving out their bodies it means they are giving out the best for which reason they will be chosen above all.

There is this young girl who is very beautiful and sexually active. Due to that she thought sex is all that matters to a man. Ironically, she struggled for long before finally getting married.
Her sexual dexterity could not win her the heart of a man until out of the blue and reason beyond imagination a very handsome good man married her. The wedding was grand and her tears were now gone. Unfortunately only a year after the wedding the marriage fell on rocks. Within five years three different men came her way but none could stay.

The problem was simple. She thought sex was all that matters so she would never submit. But submission is what men need, not sex. It is time for our young ladies to know that when a man is ready to marry he will not look out for a woman who will satisfy his sex drive but a woman who will submit herself to him. Excuse my language, "every woman has vagina but not every woman has humility." So when you are a humble woman, you are an expensive jewelry. And a man of integrity will fear to lose you.

What does the holy say, "wife, submit to your husband." The reason is that a man's true love goes out only for a woman who is submissive. Your beauty cannot make another woman ugly but your humility can let him love you above all other women.

Sadly, many young ladies in our days call submission as "control." And you will hear them saying in tiny romantic voices, "As for me I don't want any man to control me oh." If you don't want to submit don't think of marriage because no man in his right sense will offer his love to a woman whose heart is higher than his height, no matter how short he may be.

When a woman bows her knee before a man, the man will automatically bow his heart before her love. And love her sincerely. There are, of course, recalcitrant men who will not value women of humility but I tell you that every true man does not need sex, but submission. It is submission that truly makes you a romantic wife.

So be the QUEEN you want to be but when it comes to dealing with your husband, play the role of a humble maid. Don't forget that it is the spirit of humility that has caused many maids to hijack their mistresses' husbands. Be your man's queen and be his maid also.

A year ago, a 49-year-old city sex worker has decided to retire from the trade.
Sarah Mutero pulled the curtain to a trade she thrived in for many years.

After calling it quits, Mutero received a parcel of land worth Sh120,000 in Makuyu, Murang’a County. Some well-wishers have also promised to pool funds to build her a house after she ditched the trade.

Stanley Ngara aka King of Condoms of LVCT- and who is spearheading a programme to retire sex workers in a humane way said sex workers have played an important role in the fight against HIV/Aids.

“Men will seek sex in all ways, but when it comes to sex workers it is a different game. They don’t accept intercourse without condoms however much men insist to pay more for unprotected sex. Society has a negative perception of sex workers but in reality, they are in the front line in prevention of sexually transmitted diseases,” said Ngara.

He added; “Their clients are men in other relationships and from surveys, seven out of 10 clients ask for unprotected sex. Out of these seven, five are willing to pay handsomely. If they accept such deals you can imagine how HIV/Aids can spread. We must appreciate them with a retirement package”.

For 23 years Mutero had been a sex worker, having serviced hundreds of men at her hometown of Embu, Nairobi city centre and in Majengo area.

She claimed she would service 20 or more men in a day in her younger years. But as age set in, hard economic times and stiff competition she could manage four customers daily. This means an average of 100 per month and for 23 years she took care of over 28,000 men.

“It is not an easy thing to satisfying such a big number of men, some being ruthless, yet we end up poor. We earn peanuts that we can’t even save. Everything I have earned in servicing needy men went to clothes, shelter and food for my children as well as education,” she said.


Sarah Mutero.
In sex business, pricing is determined by standards and location. In villages, Majengo and places like that, a session popularly called “shot” goes for Sh100. In the city centre it costs Sh200 and higher in upmarket areas.

In Majengo, sex workers rent the mud houses for Sh4,500 per month and have to close business at 11pm. She was among sellers who spent the night there while others with young children or those whose husbands are not aware what they do for living go home early.

In the sex business, she said, some morals are thrown out of the window if one is to make good money.

“If a shot is Sh100 how many men do you have to sleep with to make ends meet? Many. That is why we don’t disregard customers as far as they can pay and are above 18 years. Though I am old, young men prefer me because we treat them well, and if they are beginners we show them how to put on condoms and do enjoyable sex. My clients are aged between 18 and 35 years,” she revealed.

Mutero was among the old sex workers in the city and decided to retire and set a precedent for her workmates, some in their 60s.


“Young women are taking over. I also find it weird when some customers we meet tell me I served them five or ten years ago. They wonder how I am still alive and in the business. I have turned down many asking to marry me, especially after I give them delightful sex,” she said.

She added; “I want to retire and settle down quietly. I am not addicted to a point I will retreat to the streets. No, I just want quiet life with my children and I am not interested in getting a husband.”


Sarah Mutero.
The mother of two sons said that her children “respect me and I suspect they know I am a sex worker. They have prayed that I shift from what I am doing. I wish my children do not get into this business or seek sex from prostitutes.”

This particular story is very objective in that this frustrated lady is proclaiming she never solicited for the aid from her suitor and was betrothed to him at a tender age without her consent. Now her level of education and exposure can't allow her to marry a 45 year old illiterate.

Let me be as Frank and polite as possible, my name is Lucy and I am from Edo State.
There is this present suitor of mine who is about 45 years and wishes to marry me.

He sent me to school at age 15 when he was yet struggling, my parents earlier on betrothed me to him when I was six years and I assumed it was all a childish gesture.

He assisted in the market of my mum and bought a taxi for my dad. We lived in a bit of comfort courtesy of his benevolence. Well, I never forced him all this while.

Now take note am a virgin so it's not like we were making love.

I have practically lived my life in his arms.
He was committed to the relationship while I was committed to making my parents happy.
Recently he bought a house for my dad and is currently building one for my mum.

I have since graduated and started working in a first-class international IT company.
What I presently earn would double whatever my suitor has seen in his life. Now he has proposed and I declined this infuriated him and he approached my dad in bitter complaints.

Now the family has called a meeting insisting I must marry him.See I can't marry him because of my exposure and he is uneducated. How do I attend board meetings dinner with an illiterate? How do I face my colleagues that would be laughing at me?

I have offered him 200 million as compensation to be paid 50 million a year for four years, he refused, my mother has threatened to disown me, my dad has not eaten since.

My suitor is worse he seems to be on life support because he has been dumb since without speaking to anyone. Please, what wrong have I done? He can start again I have the money to compensate him.

What do you advise I use in approaching this pressing issue?

Please drop your comments.

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A baby has been born with a strange-looking face which forced the mother to abandon it after delivery.
According to the doctor who delivered the baby from her mother, he states the abnormalities in this baby is due to the premature birth and also the engagement of some hazardous activities by the mother during pregnancy.

The mother has abandoned her premature baby girl born at an Indian city because she looks like an alien figure. The 28-year-old mother, who refused to reveal her identity, gave birth to the girl at a government-run hospital in Patna district of Bihar, in eastern India yesterday.

The shocked parents called the child a curse and refused to accept her like that. After she was brought home, the mother refused to hold her in her arms and feed her.

The mother said: “I have no idea how did this happen. Me and family are completely devastated. I am in shock as I was really looking forward to becoming a mother of a healthy child, be it a girl or a boy.”

Doctors believe that the girl wouldn't survive for long as none of her organs have developed properly and that the probability of survival of such cases is only one in 10 million, according to The Express.

The rare genetic condition called Harlequin Ichthyosis happens due to an acute case of malnutrition causing thickening of the skin and facial deformities. Within hours of the news of the bizarre looking girl's birth broke, scores of locals flocked to the hospital to have a glimpse of her.

As a parent, is forsaking your children part of your activities too Drop your comments and don't forget to give a like on the post.
Doctors were forced to intervene to remove the number of people gathered outside the hospital to see the baby.

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