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He means, making you fufiled as in achieving your childhood passion of becoming an Accountant, irrespective of your inability of of getting job with the ACCA certificate in future.

I however second the advice Yamakuza gave you above, it will be very good to study a course in line with what you are currently doing, with certificate and experience, l know you will land yourself a very good job and learning will also be easy for you!

sorry for the stress you are going thru now. First, it takes a big courage for a graduate to take up a security job!

On your final entitlement, what do you think is your entitlement they are denying you? This things are usually stated in the employee policy.

These are what l think your entitlement will include, but it depends on what your employee policy says, you cant get what the policy didnt cover, but surely get what the labour law covers...check ur policy to know if you actually have a case before sueing them.

(1) Annual leave allowance - it will be prorated base on the no of months u worked in that year (not statutory but a major market practice in Nigeria)
(2) 13th month - prorated as no. 1 above (if the company has it as a policy - not statutory)
(3) Severance Package (if its the coy's policy - its not statutory)
(4) Pension (statutory - make sure ur pension contribution is up to date)

Note: if you resign without giving them enough notice as stated in your employment contract, you will be owing them!

thank you camrygmail.

@Toyosi
HealthPlus also has office at Ikeja GRA, close to Reddington hospital. I have been there a couple of times, not very sure if l saw it on their shelve...you can contact them on 08055315802, 7400722 to ask... Lekki office No is 2714496.

Jummy4real
God is your strength! I have never heard of flushing uterus, but flushing tubes which I did. I will suggest first, thickening the lining of the uterus, this might even be all you need, the result even said a bit gummed, so its not as if its fully gummed. As we know, if the lining is not as thick as it supposed to, implanation will not be possible. So lets start from thickening your endometrial lining, clomid may not be your best friend this time around!

Finally seek a second opinion, i have not heard of such term before (i mean flushing uterus). Ebony13 is right with what she explained, but l heard pple with asherman's syndrome usually dont have a regular period.

All the best.

Liss: @Udoka2,

Thanks a lot for this information. Highly appreciated.

However, I am also shocked at the figures o Why so high? Abeg when you finish consulting and hear something more cost friendly, let me know.
Will do as you suggested on the linkedin forums. Can I have the centre address/phone nos? Also, I presume it won't be manadatory to have tutorials as one can study by him/herself. Will also keep checking out for more information and will paste it on if I get.

@Yemmight,


Please try again to see if you can get through to your friend/former colleague o....at least we'ld be able to get a second opinion.

this is the email l was sent:

As requested, the name of the Person in charge is Joel Omeike, the office is located @ Ikeja, his mobile no is 08170686054, 08170686852, 08098237473, bb pin 25E204FB, email address p4pe.ng@gmail.com


lf you can, get the physical address and probably go there and make one on one enquiry. I intend doing that when l start my annual vacation in September. for now i dont know if they are real or fake!

Congrats ebony, that lab is too fast! My result took a wk to come out.
Hebrew woman. Thx and safe trip!

Aladunni: Acupuncture I am not sure that is exisitng around here o. Or is it the same as this popular 'massage'? Thanks for the encouragement, but what does 'pill' do. Will it stop my periods or the pains. Why is it bad for me?

there is a place they do it in Lagos...Chinese acupuncture.. by Mcewen street, near KFC herbert marcaulay rd, Yaba.

Beetle
I think say na only oyibo d do acupuncture am. I never do but I saw a place they do it around sabo yaba. Not thinking of it shaa. Thanks once more for ur concern.

Ebonyi
Amen.

@beetle
The last question is No. Thank you, I will read it up and probably ask d dr next appt.

Camrgmail.
I promise, tx dearie

Beetle
I can say sore throat. And no I hv not taken any otther preventive drugs except those u mentioned above.
I will read up d NK cell activity, tx for that.

Bukieluv
I understd u and others. The dr alrdy told me I know too much, so I don't want to seem teaching him his job. However am using official hospital,and I don't want to go to a private hospital, not ready for such spending now jare. am not in a hurry as far as its not sickness am calm to wait.

@Liss
Are you on linkedin? if yes, join CIPMN and also phr/sphr/gphr groups, l asked similar question and somone introduced me a place in Ikeja, for tutorials. I have called the centre, the exam itself was about 70k, tutorial 80K (for six wkends) and materils 72k. According to the centre organisers there are two prometric centres in nigeria, Abuja and Lagos where the exams can only be take online. Exams are held twice a year, May and l think Dec or Jan. However the person that introduced me said he doesnt know why the guy is charging me that high, cuz he didnt pay up to that, only paid 36K for tutorial, and will be paying exam fee when he is ready for the exams.
From online enquiries this is one of the sites where u can have an expereince of how the phr exams question looks like www.quizlet.com, in the search box type phr exams, it will give u flashcards of the exams.

I am still consulting will make up my mind when am done!

@GenBuhari
U are right with ipio dh spe.rm count, I saw d possiblity of conception as u also said cuz of the great motility rate, I pray he hv great morphology too.
Ipio, I will advice also that ur dh stay away from evryday se.x, especially let him stay away for 2-3 days before ur fertile period and during ur fertile period, he shd go ones each time. He shd also eat more of tigernuts someone has testfied of its efficacy in spe.rm count boosting, me I know its very rich in zinc.

Thank you everybody for ur prayers and concern

Beetle and camrygmail
I mean 17th of July.I hv had 3 miscarriages in d past. I was on progesterone and baby aspirin before the bleeding started on 25th June. I stoped all medication since then. If d case is progesterone or blood not flowing to d uterus I don't think there will be bleeding in d first place. However the Dr said he will do a quantitative blood test in 4wks if the results remains inconclusive.
I hv come to a realisation that this journey is not by drugs nor by having enough ttc experience, which are very good though, but by GOD. Apart from prenatal, I hv handed over to God entirely. I think I hv done my best medically and knowledge wise.

I still believe am a WINNER, I see God coming thru for me and everyone of us IJN.

Ipio
I have liTtle concern on his count though conception is possible wt that, give him good multivatmin for men, pregnacare for conception for men and wellman are good. His motility is very good, what abt d morphology?

Ceemnlo
Welcome onboard, Beetle has done justice to ur post, she is our gynea in cases like urs. Its well, she only needs further investigation so good conclusion can be made, but what's uR gynea saying?

Hello mums,

Back from d hospital appt, my update.

Scan- still nothing shown
PT - still positive

Doctor's conclusion:

(1). The horomones from the preganacy (believed its has been miscarried cuz of negative scan result) has not wore out from my system (today is 4wks from d bleeding day)

(2). Possible i hv concieved again and still very early for d scan to pick it. I told him it seems I ovulated on 17th or 18th. (Meaning today is 5or6DPO)

To come back in 4 wks time for further and conclusive investigation and will run a quantitative blood test by then if d result remains inconclusive.

My Redeemer liveth. Am praying harder now,

adetunrayo: praise God my prayers have been answered.

i have said to myself that i wouldnt post on this forum until my God has done it and he has really done it.i have been following all the replies,advice, word of encouragement etc for months.

i pray God will answer those that are still waiting in Jesus' name.

Congrats on ur BFP, but I don't like ur choice of words. If everyone of us decide not to post where would u hv gotten d advice, tips etc. I think its good to either become and remain a silent member or active memeber. If u wish to upgrade to active, then tell us ur history, it helps us bond with u better.

@mynairacct and onyinema thank u for ur wonderful inputs. MyNairacct, ur post made me research on TESA. Thank God for this, it shows there is hope with every challenge of this ttc journey. But is this procedure readily available in Nigeria? Can u gv more info where ur DH went for it, it could be of help to many of us here.

Rocksqueen
My sister, you are really rocking! Don't mind seanbell we gv her 'allow' she took 'allowances' the only thing we want from her is BFP, or else....leave that for me

My Update
I will be going for reassement on monday I.e 23. But on 17th and 18th I had want humanly I called ovulation. It was too strong like when I was still single. 17th serious pain and 18th lots of EWCM. My people, I think its only a miracle that I need ooo, I hv conditioned my mind on whatever the result says. God shd just hv his way... HEAD or TAIL am always d WINNER. Again b4 d supposely O, my temp droped to 36.1 from 36.6 or 36.4 all d while, and picked up to 36.5 and 36.7 ysterday. Make I no bore una with my stories cuz I still hv more to talk.

read this http://natural-fertility-info.com/vitex

i go there for research on any herb l intend to use, i find her recommendations useful. l followed her direction when l used vitex, though instead of 1000m.g l took 800 mg, because mine came in 400 m.g each capsule.

@Ipio
Congrats on ur result. Every gynea is different maybe mine believed in antibbiotics after such procedure,he also prescribed me same after flushing cus d result showed one blocked tube. I took one two times a day, meaning I used two packs.

Camrygmail
I no vex my sister, she actually posted her decision to discontinue the subject-matter b4 I kinda seconded her.

THIS CASE, MATTER, ISSUE, SUIT, COURT, ARGMENT, DISAGREEMENT, DEFENCE, STATEMENT, OPINION E.T.C is hereby CLOSED.

Make we no derail this forum abegi una, me inclusive. the more we talk the more we dig out issues that have various opinion by everyone of us.

TTC is one thing I don't wish my enemy...suffering and smiling!
One love!

swit2have

You really brought out too many issues from your post. That was also my only concern, but if they two have discussed and agreed with prayers and decide to go ahead, l think its all well and good. Calling it Adultery was the only problem most of us have with alwaystrue. I like the part you said Believers shdnt be the one pushing for it @Believers, God will see you throug this decision. If you have peace in your mind, pls go ahead, but if theres no peace, it means God is not in it..cus the gift of God adds no sorrow.

Toronto123
Good to have you back. Am sending you truck loads of babydust...the time to bless you is now!

@seanbell and Rocksqueen
Whats up!

I didn't ask her how many cycles oo, but it seemed it worked fast for her. Kindly share the story on it at ur conveinent. At times when all humanly and medically possibe are done, instead of not doing anything we can gv it a trial.

Thank you Ipio jare, I think we need to discuss important stuf jare. Abegi tempers shd cool.
I will research more on d ewedu stuff and inform d house. The english name for ewedu as I just found out is JUTE leaf.
Ipio pls how is the pain like? And hope u took antibiotics after d procedure, I was place on 10days antibiotics apart from d painkiller, you know d process can cause infection, that's not ur portion, but pls do take antibiotics for prevention, my gynea prescribed me ciprotab then

@all
A friend who was for ttc for 2years just became a mother shared what worked for her.
According to her from CD1 till end of period, she drank pepper soup (the kind they cook for women that just gv birth) from end of period to O, she drank Ewedu soup. According to her Ewedu leaf boosts Ovulation.
Has anybody heard this before?

Hmmmmm adultery ke adultery ni... @believer I salute ur DH for taking this step, knowing men for what they are, it must hv been a hard task convincing him to take this bold step. My prayer for you is that God will make it stick for you, we shall all rejoice with you this cycle.
@champs, toronto etc pls share ur IUI experience wt her.

Kemidebbie
Congrats to ur sister. Don't assume O is over, still do what u can, u neva can tell!

Champs am sending u lots of . Whatever has a beginning equally has an ending. These emotional roller coaster must end one day! You are nearer to ur testimony! Cheers.

@ipion

I had tender stomach for about 3 days after d hsg, but d cramps stoped same day, though I abused painkiller that day. You will be fine.

Ebony
What you need is a BFP and not temp drop! Pls ignore that for now...I hope u hv read abt implantation drop? That's what happened, trust God for ur BFP pls. God is still in d biz of surprising his pple and He wl do that to u this cycle.
Sending u plenty HUGS!

Genbuhari
Thank God for ur wify. I pray there won't bE no more issues.

Aladuni
Pls sis I feel u. When its getting tough is when God is stepping in. I see God stepping into ur matter. I thank God for ur courage to still trust in Him. It is wll with u dear.
Medically what are u doing now? As u said earlier if u need to move away from ur location to seek medical solution pls do. Start something pls and I know God wl gv u d desires of ur heart. Don't look at ur DH, he may suggest u wait on God's time alone, men are fond of that, yes wait, but do ur part and God will crown it wt success.
I pray every woman ttc has her own money, because most men usually seem unconcerned, even when they are really bothered in their mind

MSTIA
No wahala my sis... Vitex can be taken at anytime during the menstrual cycle except during the period of your menstruction. Follow the instruction on the bottle. However mine said 400m.g thrice a day but l took twice and reduced to onces after sometimes. l reacted to it initially but the reaction stoped when l continued. Never taken metformin before.

@Champs and Seanbell, ebony and others
How are you doing... expecting goodnews from everybody's to round off this quiet week!