₦airaland Forum

Beebah2000:
Lol
The drama is too serious joor.
We no dey act The Witcher ooo

Please kindly deactivate your account.. you girls especially people like you are the reason why we men are suffering. You are confused set of human being. Who cares whether u leave the group or not. Let me ask you a simple question? Do you have anything to offer to us?? Nothing you are just bunch of liabilities... Am giving you 24 hrs to leave the group or u will never find peace in this Nairaland. I have marked ur moniker.. take note.

Factfinder1:
May God bless me to the point of always affording to travel at anytime and meeting important people and helping the less privileged

that is the best blessing from God. You can travel anytime u wish without thinking about the cost

steveneche:
Am currently dating this lady, she is 32 I am 25. I really like her because she is mature, caring and financially independent too

We have been together for over a year now but am feeling sceptical about proposing to her. I have this feeling she will reject my proposal and that might affect our on ongoing relationship

I don't want to loose her so I want to know what you guys think especially the ladies in the house


As lady, do you think you can get married to a guy who is over 5year younger than you?


Candid opinion please!

No reasonable girl at that age will reject your proposal

Datboredberry:
With the way most of you dish out insults...

Yes... She's entitled to choose or size you up... That's normal, intelligent even... Every living thing chooses a mate that has the most to offer...

You are entitled to choose also...

Your entire comment makes no sense...

First of all, you might be a suffer-head... Don't assume others are too... You might feel content being broke, struggling to feed... You seriously want to start a family this way?

See your child(ren) starve, sent home from school...etc.

It's not rude to be wise enough to know that 50k is not enough for even a family of three...(man, woman and one child)...

You should simply say that you can only marry if the woman earns the same amount too... A combined salary... A total of ₦100k... That's manageable...

But you're being unnecessarily defensive...

Wicked woman..

Datboredberry:
With the way most of you dish out insults...

Yes... She's entitled to choose or size you up... That's normal, intelligent even... Every living thing chooses a mate that has the most to offer...

You are entitled to choose also...

Your entire comment makes no sense...

First of all, you might be a suffer-head... Don't assume others are too... You might feel content being broke, struggling to feed... You seriously want to start a family this way?

See your child(ren) starve, sent home from school...etc.

It's not rude to be wise enough to know that 50k is not enough for even a family of three...(man, woman and one child)...

You should simply say that you can only marry if the woman earns the same amount too... A combined salary... A total of ₦100k... That's manageable...

But you're being unnecessarily defensive...

See let me tell you. 90% of girls are very lazy. All what they do is just to move around with different men. What shock me most is that, some of them after graduation they still dont have any reasonable things to do. I met a girl of 30yrs and she is a graduate. When I ask her, what are ur future plan? She told me that she want to go and learn Microsoft office. At the age of 30 years? Is that what u suppose to be doing..
Me that at 34yrs! Am already a graduate, a chartered accountant, I have one business offline and one business online. I earn reasonable amount of income per month. What have u been doing when u were young? Majority of them were busy flexing and prostituting. Now, they will put unnecessary pressure on the innocent boy that is earning 50k.

minks:
Looks like you got yourself a drama queen. Get ready, this shit is about to get real.

I don run ooohh

Sonnobax15:
My guy ,this bone be like wetin wor hang for your throat

But mennnnnnnn,our people say meat wey you no wor chop,no kukuma use your teeth share am . Comot body now when e never too dey late before acid go rent house for your body

Aaaaaahhhh I should japa

brosom:
men always japa when a girl fronts marriage proposal back to back

true!! Me I want to japa now

dreyboard:
One of the reason why I like nairaland , someone will Sha make you laugh no matter what, this op is likely to be a comedian with his post

not funny.. need ur advice

Sonnobax15:

Op think say na every banny wey he jam he go just easily lash and discharge,but na once he jam the type wey put the relationship for jar 4 with full speed

tell me what will I do?

Bluezy13:
Go too far too.
Or simply back out.
Don't be the rate determining step in her life.

Am thinking of backing out

Bola146:

need ur advice.

I just met a beautiful girl 2weeks ago.. my intention is to have sex with her. I have never promise her marriage but to my greatest surprised the girl is going too far. She had already assumed that our relationship will lead to marriage. Last time she went to our family house without informing me. She is already telling me that we should settle down together. Anytime she tells me about marriage I always tell her that we need to know each other first.. what will I do?

My love life was filled up of Fuc.k fuc.k..

xeratek:
Abeg no make me laugh

na wetin dey hungry me this morning

Pus.sy

Me that is looking for a girl to pregnant and someone else is here want to abort... this life no balance..

gambia:
Just ghost her.

when I go japa .. her eyes go clear...

My girlfriend don't want to hear this... Always demanding Everytime... I just dey look her!!!

Parisian:
And what has your mother attained post menopause after birthing a fool like you ?

I can see d depression all over you. This is just the beginning..

kmcutez:
Seems the Ooni is impotent. He should try and lose weight and see if that helps.

you that have gotten ur monopause.. what have u done to urself. Idiot.

Truvelisback:
I know it's hard Bro. Just throw ur net to the river, u will definitely find one. There are ladies who aren't the money or how financially bouyant u are. These ladies are financially independent. They are only seeking to have a man of their own for close intimacy and family sake.

Abeg!!!... show me one.. where will I go and find them..

Truvelisback:
As the only son, it's important u get married. I get ur points. I know that there are ladies out there that are burdens, financial stress and headache to men. My advice for u is to get married to a financially independent lady. I.e A working class lady, non entitlement mentality lady, lady who don't depend on men for survival or men's money, and lady who is morally and emotionally supportive.

All these things you are listed is very difficult now adays.. currently am looking for a girl to marry to.. but what am seeing today are all money hunger's

Holes are doing there best to control men

Ovamboland:
Lies

Go and make research.. Google is your friend.

NGpatriot:
3 years, meaning from start of construction to commission.

Fastest rail construction in the history of Nigeria.

Who told you that it is Buhari that started the project.. project that was initiated by Goodluck Jonathan

Where I fit see this kind of girls..

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Hassanmaye:
What is ACA

Association of chartered accountant.. am a qualified chartered accountant ICAN

90% of girls are liabilities.. there have nothing to offer rather than puss.y.. My girlfriend ask me of 100k today!! I ask myself why am I giving this girl this money..?. For the past 3yrs she has not bought me a single thing before or even to give me one Naira. I have to tell her I don't have. She got angry. I deleted her number and block her on WhatsApp and fb. That is spirit of entitlement

My girlfriend ask me of N100k... I told her I don't have she got angry and wake away.. me I jejely block on Facebook, WhatsApp and calls.. see entitlement