₦airaland Forum

OkaNaUbe:
It means that since Nigerians are fighting small fights such as ethnic, religious and tribalistic "battles" we won't be successful as a nation.

You have wisdom

strangest:
Did you read his story? How can a Nigerian with West African passport enter into Ghana illegally? He had a bad invitation and that was his problem...

that guy who betrayed him screwed him up

I thank God for my circumstance tho...


I would have been screwed over too but God was good to me

SillyMods:
Hilarious story. A good lesson to those who have the habit of berating Nigeria at every opportunity.

he is a victim of poor planning and betrayal....

Assuming he was loaded and came STRAIGHT to Abidjan and had friends to support him with accommodation at least

he would have had a soft landing and lived better than in that condemned failed $hithole he came from


For those who want to jump the sinking ship, you have to plan well and hustle hard to raise as much as you can

And another warning
You are more inclined to succeed at business than looking for jobs in Accra /Abidjan

bukatyne:
I am happy you have realized that adultery kills a marriage so we know that is a no.

From all your posts on this thread, I would say that you have a healthy libido and you are still sexual interested in your wife (I would guess she is still sexy/good looking).

Your wife knows this and has decided to make it a weapon.

I do not know what the problem is however, of she can laugh with you and relate normally till it is time for sex, then it is a non-issue except if she is psychotic or she has issues with your sexual performance.

You know why playing with her, doing more chores etc. Would not work in your case? Because you are rewarding bad behavior. She misbehaves and you keep dancing round to please her. It has registered that if I sexual starve my husband, he will bend over to please me.

If the issues she had with you was not giving her attention or not helping with chores etc, the above would have helped.

Don't just reward bad behavior in your spouse.

What is the solution?
1. Engage her once again, apologize for breaching the trust in your marriage and assure her that you have never cheated again. Whatever the issues are, look into them genuinely and adjust where needed.

If she does not change, then:

Learn how to control yourself sexually. It will be hard however, don't let her feel you cannot do without her.

Stop playing with her or giving her attention. If she ignores your sexual needs, ignore her need for attention and learn to be self sufficient. If she wouldn't cook, feed yourself. Whatever leverage she has on you, learn to provide or beat it.

By now, she would start trying to get your attention by throwing more tantrums... Let her be. If she offers you sex because she is turned on, don't oblige her.

If you do not care about your appearance prior to now, please do. Change your haircut, mode of dressing, get good cologne etc.

When she finally comes around genuinely (not because she needs sex or something else), respectfully lay down the ground rules. If she has issues with you, discussion is the way to go.

Now, if after first engagement, she says your sex life is the problem, get self help books on sex and seduction and up your game in the bedroom.

In all of this, do not cheat or behave in any manner that you will have a blame.

Couples should not treat sex as a treat or reward. It is a duty (I am even taking live out of the equation) you pledged to do.

Goodluck.

this makes sense

psucc:
This is when we are still struggling with EDGE which our service providers has clone to display 3G on the screen. Corporate scam in Nigeria is mind-boggling.

don't mind those fools

Lmao

Hadampson:
See organized society

God, any spirit(mami water/ebora) or village people that doesn't want me to leave zoogeria this year, oya die by fire

I just can't wait to experience what is it like to be in an organized society

@Abini2012 well-done ma'am

lmao

Thunder fire such spirit ooooo

YourFreedom:
WE ARE ONE IN THIS NATION..... WE SHOULD BE OUR BROTHERS KEEPER. THE EMAM DEMANDS COMENDATION IN OTHER TO STIMULATE MOTIVATION IN OTHERS. GOD BLESS NIGERIA.

indeed

division among Nigerians should end

AstralBody:
So u won run comot too? After una don vote Buhari. U no dey come politics section com sing Buhari praise's again? Is everything ok n are u happy now,spike?

he is going nowhere

madridguy:
Quoted the bros to let him know the OP don't need much to travel to Gambia.
FYI, na Canada dey my mind.

You are NOT going ANYWHERE

You will remain in NiggerARea And languish uñder the Buhari you so love and support

Amen!

supporting bad govt and fleeing the scene after they have damaged the country

escapefromusa:
An in your so called Europe and North America , when dogs and cats inherit their masters wealth.

The judiciary used the cats DNA to enforce such directives.

Like I said your mentally slow. Talking about places you have only read about in some "made for idiots" media outfit.

what is this punk ass saying?

Do you know me?

Do you know where I have been to

You obviously don't, and you are still a punk ass kid suffering in a godforsaken failed $hithole country

For Your FVCKING info, once a child is YOURS...

Regardless of the circumstance that made that child yours (single, married, adopted, whatever)
You are responsible for that child, and he/she has a stake in your inheritance


if it's a wife vs baby mama thing

the law (for now) in many places recognise wife and not baby mama So the wife has an edge there

But for children

they are ALL the same


get that into your akamu brain

punk ass Bush man

Igetmyown247:
I don’t know why this makes me sad in a way, I guess I expected more from her, like getting married first before having his baby.. she has sacrificed so much for him to just become baby mama 3, but If shes happy and truly pregnant congrats to them.

What's so special about this "marriage" thing tho

why is every One feeling sad?

IF this news is true, SO WHAT?

Life will continue

Nigerians are not mature people in reasoning at all....


Assuming the story is true
somebody willingly got herself pregnant and you are feeling sorry for her

Even IF he does not marry her, does it devalue her in Any way?

Life continues

Igetmyown247:
Stfu, David is a great father to all his kids regardless of anything. Give him props.

every parent has a favourite
it has nothing to do with being a good dad...

especially when those kids are from different women

You may be too young to understand it tho, so I won't blame you

VillagePipu:
The entire country is failed but you run to the SW like refugees. You tha lt is talking nonsense are in Lagos, enjoying the hospitality of Yorubas. Why don't you go back to Igboland?

They gave you ultimatum in the North and your fathers were begging to stay.

Igboland has failed, and abysmally so. Deal with the results of your folly by yourselves.

yeye talk as expected

The thing is....

Chioma child will br the favourite

unlike the other kids he did not plan for

especially Imade

That's some thing women need to know
the circumstance that brought that child to the world determine to a large extent how the father engages with that child

Ask Wizkid if still in doubt

GrowYourSales:
What is all this in the name of God?

I think this generation is weak. Breed of kids born in the fast age.

Well what do I know?

I know that you can get massive sales in your business. Check my signature

it has nothing To do with weakness

men in their 50s are committing suicide too

hopelessness is a bad state of mind

If YOU get to that state, YOU will also contemplate suicide...

#fact.

the key to avoiding suicides is to find a reason to live, and keep your mental stars away from hopelessness

escapefromusa:
So when Regina Daniels has a baby and Chioma has a baby - who's child has more right over his father's lands, titles, favors, privileges and position.

Nigerian youth are mentally lazy, .. a baby mama is better than a legal wife ... smh

They both have EQUAL right to fathers inheritance in case you don't know

As long as that child is proven to be yours, you CANNOT disinherit such child.

We are not in 12th century Europe...
this is 2019.

A child is YOUR child regardless of the circumstance that brought him to this world....
no such thing as "more rights"

So the president is anointing who will lead the lower legislative house...

Signs and symptoms of a failed shithole zoo contraption


And to think that esicated fools will see nothing wrong with this dastardly act is even more sickening

tensazangetsu20:
Trust me you won't be missed. Even if ten million Nigerians leave the country today, the effects won't be felt neither would they be missed. There are over two hundred million Nigerians already. Just stop abusing the country with every chance you get on social media. Hate consumes

I don't want or need anyone to miss me...
And to hr quite honest whether Nigeria misses me or not, i don't give two fvcks

I only miss my family and close friends I made while growing up.
nothing else.

Failed cesspit poverty capital

tensazangetsu20:
Nigerias major problem is leadership but there are many individual Nigerians who have gone against all odds and are doing great stuff. It's frustrating here alright but in the same sea of frustrations they are also opportunities. Paystack, flutterwaves, andela and tizeti and a host of other upcoming major companies are built by young Nigerians. While the leadership is horrible it shouldn't stop us from doing the little we can do instead of sitting and complaining all the time. Complaining and abusing the country will change nothing. It would not change the fact that Buhari will be president for the next four years. It won't also change the fact that the economy might end up being worse than the last four years. So instead of complaining why not worry and do things you have an absolute control over.

Absolute control like leaving the failed country


I come from a relatively well to do home back in Nigeria (my very old man being a successful business man) BUT living comfortably in the midst of SO MUCH POVERTY HUNGER AND HOPELESSNESS is some thing I cannot do even with all the millions

Cruising around seeing how people suffer causes me excruciating pain. .
seeing kids that should br innocent and in school or in the playground becoming haggard breadwinners is painful as well...

Or seeing young men and women roaming the streets unemployed/underemployed

Most Nigerians have not gotten to that level of consciousness yet; instead they will thank "God" for elevating them and then oppressing the ones that are not as fortunate as them.....


The business I'm doing is fine by me, and by God's grace I hope to expand into east Africa.....
Let me invest in serious countries.

BUHARI is president for another 4 yrs

Just imagine

tensazangetsu20:
Your anti Nigerian rants have become so boring. Let go of the hate before it kills you. I bet you aren't in Nigeria but you will never cease any moment to abuse and mock her on social media

I am pained because my country of origin is now the poverty capital of the world

every time I land at Murtala,it's the same smell of hopelessness

and to think that many fools still love those who killed the country is sickening

@Hadampson I see you
comment ça va?

seunny4lif:
Modify

1. Get your Passport or No passport
2. Have around 250K meaning loads of cash because as a Nigeria Passport holder.
3. Get to Mile 2 or Badagry and you will cars loading to Seme border or to even Cotonou.
4.Beware of all those Okadas, Nigeria Police, Nigeria Customs, Nigeria Immigration officers in facts beware of all Nigeria agents at that border .
5.Go to the Immigration office and make sure you are stamp, if you want but they will ask for money like its their right.
6. Enter Seme and you will see driver loading Seme to Lomé or Accra or Cotonou
7.Enter the Cotonou city with those driver and they will drop you at the motor park
8. Eat at the motor park because you can still get a lots of Nigeria meal at the park but mostly Yoruba foods.
9.Tell the Driver you want to board a bus to Bamako, Mali
10. Okada will pick and drop you at Mali Motor parks maybe around 1000 CFA
11. Exchange your Naira in Seme Border or Cotonou but the exchange is almost the same
12.Make sure you buy enough drinks and be already for at least 4 days journey
13. Thinking maybe the driver will not stop?Don't worry the driver will stop for meal or prayers or at border or just for a rest.
14. You will discover at least 4 Nigerians in the Bus of 30 or 40 People.
15. Some buses have AC because the weather is crazy now 40C
16. Reason for holding enough money? Nigeria passport holder are rich according to the rest west Africa countries and the behaviors of Nigeria officers at Seme border make the other also target Nigerians
17. Bamako to Gambia or Dakar by Car or Bus no problem.
18.Gambia girls like Nigerians because we are rich, so be careful and be more be careful of Nigerians guys through your Journey

N.B
Seme border is the worst border ever.
I have been to 20 Africa countries by Land but Seme is a worst.
So, many agents and yet Okada, e.t.c all work for those Agents
Be careful
From Benin rep to Mali, You will see meat and tried.
Suya will be the only thing you will like to eat because no Nigeria foods and i bet you would try their meals.


Gambia Jollof is a Bomb
Hold over 250K

Good night

a flight may save him All the stress

especially if he buys a one way ticket

and if you need to hold 250k to move
is it not better to just take a flight to banjul direct?

tensazangetsu20:
You wanna leave Nigeria and go to Gambia . I don't understand what is it with Nigerians and thinking that Nigeria is the worse country in the world. On the African continent only south Africa and Egypt would give you a better standard of living and present you with more opportunities. You wanna go to Gambia a country that is one of the poorest in the world, has a very small population, has absolutely no natural resources . A country that is poor, horrible for business of any kind and still has a lot of major issues like mass unemployment

actually Nigeria is one of the worst countries in the world AS AT TODAY

So much hunger, hopelessness and despondency in that failed $hithole....


And this is coming from me who have travelled to many many countries /cities....

Tho I will not advice him to migrate to the Gambia (well except he wants to enjoy the fancy resorts in Serekunda, )

but the underlying issue is that Nigeria is a dead, failed and finished country

That is why so many youths want to flee to *anywhere* at the same time


Useless cesspit

Hotfreezers:
Coming from someone whose foolish ancestors died of kwashiokor and starvation, I'm not surprised.

Starvation made your fathers start adding palm oil to garri to give your emergency nutrients for kwashiokor, starvation made your fathers start eating stock fish from Norway to give you emergency nutrients during the war.

Your died is founded on starvation and you think I am part of your unfortunate lineage suffering from what killed your fathers.

unemployment hunger and frustration no.good o

Hotfreezers:
I don't expect anything better from someone who wakes his father with sliding tackles and his mother with heavy knocks on the head.

Your people lack home training and you're just a chip off the old block.

as usual, another senseless post

Eberex:
Eya, how old are you by the way? Are you up to 30?

Because your level of reasoning can be compared to that of agboros and touts who exhtort money from motorists. If your governor did well, why was he kicked out and not allowed to run for the second term?

Every governor starts well, take it or leave it. Be it hausa, igbo or yoruba. Maybe you did not understand simple english, or do you want me to translate it in yoruba for you?

Stop rambling your mouth. Lagosian for mouth.

the guy must be a kid

He reasons like one.....

His brain cells are too weak to see things in proper perspective

He is not to blame tho, hunger and despondency prevalent in that failed shithole of a country must have got to him so bad....

Hotfreezers:
Why won't you be asking retarded questions when you lack deductive and analytical reasoning.

You elect animals to lead you in your muddy caves but run to Lagos to enjoy good governance. If you held your Governors to account the way youake noise in Lagos, would they rubbish your future as they are doing?

Go and think about your bleak future and stop asking foolish questions here.

Senseless response just as I expected from a numbskull dunce like you.....

ElFabchuks:
Another dance dey come.. That time Zlatan go be like Lil kesh after shoki go

lmao

Hotfreezers:
Don't worry, Lagos is not Abia or Enugu where they elect incompetent mediocres to lead them.

look at this one

What does Abia/Enugu have to do wity this discussion now?

Why do you lack sense like this?

jibrilELsudan:
I WILL LIKE TO FVCK HER AND CUM IN HER MOUTH.

are you sure you are okay

Google7:
Every daughter is beautiful and adorable. If you have one you will know, if you don't have one you will soon know.

The stretch of innocent hands of a daughter, her helpless eyes, her security seeking cuddles PROVIDES deeper satisfaction than all the money in circulation of US economy.

She's a bundle of joy that can keep you awake in the night and DREAMING in the day.

You have said it all