₦airaland Forum

overdrive:
not surprised the manager is a woman.they are always power drunk when dealing with their fellow women.

true that

but We need to hear both sides of the story first sha

omohayek:
No, the REAL difference between us is that I try to understand why things are as they are, so I can understand how to go about improving them, while you sit in your chair ranting insulting generalities about how “black people” are inherently worthless, as if that does anything to encourage anyone to do any more than simply give up: why try when the problem is an intrinsic part of your very being?

All you really are is an advocate of lazy, self-hating apathy, too careless and unmotivated to do even the minimal amount of work to educate yourself on the things you pontificate about, even when others have spoonfed you the knowledge as I did when I gave you links to Wikipedia articles on how London was also a shithole at the height of the Victorian era; had you not been a lazy self-hater, you might have gone on to learn that Chicago was even worse right into the 20th century! Lucky for the people of Europe and North America that their leaders weren’t drawn from your cloth, content to berate them as inherently flawed instead of proffering practical solutions to their ills.

What is this punk saying? ??

All these pseudo pan africanist black power goons sef




There is NO EXCUSE whatsoever

We are heading to the third decade of the 21st century, and STILL most of Sub Saharan Africa is still a mess, that exsb animals in the Zoo will be repelled to stay in

continue making excuses


And yes, a few African counties are making strides kudos to them

but for the vast majority, they are f**ked up

ollah2:
Chinese and others are excelling in technology science etc some useless people are quoting a slavery book to justify a useless prophecy been fulfilled. None of these guys read those nonsense slavery books. Books that wik continue to enslave you the more you read them. They went to work with all hands on deck.

You mean the Koran is a slavery book

Interesting

x6blade:
your analyses are wrong

How is it wrong?

Zaytun11:
Let her stay there , am talking from experience, I live n work in Dubai from 2013 to 2015 , I came back home August 2015 , in fact I registered my decision like seriously on till I find my way back to Dubai 2017 ....!

you mean you regretted your decision

ibnlawal:
I swear this hell hole called Nigeria is so f**ked....

To hell with the rep and the thug...Nigeria, country yi to su mi

it's a big shame what the country has become


And people still have faith in this zoo country?

Mizwisdom:
How about taking them along with you now they're still alive, bring back their remains for burial if that's what they want or lay them to rest over there. Sell off your business and move on

My old man is a typical IGBO man

he is not going anywhere.

Even to travel out for holiday he no want.
He IS an adult and he has made his choice to stay

All that matters to him na family business

So they are cool in Nigeria .

thanks for the suggestion tho

RTSC:
It is hard to believe that this is the same China that suffered starvation during the 70s and 80s.

There is no limit to what you can achieve With sincere and purposeful leadership.

They did not sit down blaming America and Japan that colonised them brutally.

They took responsibility for their own development and now 30 years later, they are colonizing south East Asia even to the sea.

The key thing is that they take a LONG TERM APPROACH

The West takes same approach

But monkey Africans don't

That is why Africans are killing their respective countries for short term benefit without looking at the long term damage their actions have on their country


They don t even care

They want to eat TODAY

What happens to future generation is none of their business


Monkey Africans

Zionista:
They don't use witchcraft. They use sciences. Don't mystify what you don't understand.

tell him......

Nlolodo:
The Chinese and the western world are using witchcraft to make life better and easy for themselves, while Nigerians and Africans are using theirs to limit the growth and success of their neighbors... Indeed Naija and Africa is cursed

a cursed continent indeed

Jakumo:
Ha ha ha NiggerArea. Surely you will still need to visit your Babalawo Juju witch-doctor in your ancestral village, in order to renew and upgrade your fortification talismans every year, among other obligations.

naaaa


I don't roll like that

Jakumo:
Chai ! Dis man wikett o. Are you seriously waiting for your parents to DIE, so that you can emigrate from Nigeria to the USA ?

What happens if your parents REFUSE to die on schedule ? Will you be forced to demand that they get on with it and croak already ?

Wait a minute, you are not waiting for an inheritance are you ? Please tell me it ain't so, bro. I KNOW you are not in vulture mode, waiting for death in order to live.

I'm alresdy out....

Don't live there anymore.....

But I still have to stroll in from time to time because of them, and the family business (to collect my share basically)

But when they are longer alive, what then will take me to NiggerArea?

you get the point?

I'm on the move

Introspection:
China has worse traffic than Nigeria, LAs traffic makes the news constantly, 495 beltway in DC is hell and there are lots more that I know for a fact are worse than traffic in Lagos.

But because Nigerians are good at hating themselves, they will bash their country the moment you tell them to.

You think it's about self hate?

its not

lilytender:
We are that bad, we just gave James Ibori the heartless convicted thief a chieftancy title, the same way we celebrate the Lagos lord Tinubu, frog eye senseless looter Diezaini and other thieves too many to mention. With this few points of mine, I hope I have been able to convince you and not to confuse you that farmers are betters than teachers.

you have a point

uuzba:
Did his mother travel there to do omugo when his wife born?

what does that have to do with anything?

Jakumo:
Are you casting doubt on the configuration of my MALE bedroom tackle ?

Rest assured that my third leg is in full working order, considering the number of miles already logged over the years.

On a serious note, there are of course two sides to the coin in all things, and this topic is certainly no exception to that rule. If you have a free moment later on, you can re-read the first TWO paragraphs that prefaced the pictures of Skid Row shown above, and note the honorable mentions I made about America's myriad success stories, and in particular those accomplished by immigrants to the USA.

If you must know, I am as American as Mom, Apple Pie, the 4th of July, Monday Night Football, Thanksgiving, Halloween, The World Series, and all that chit, whilst at the same time keeping one foot planted firmly on the African land trodden by my ancestors, where the African Grey Parrot lands atop the Iroko tree at sunset, and listens for the sound of the village talking-drum with the gathering dusk, giving way to the haunting bark of the Awawa bush dog, echoing in ebb and flow, through the forest to greet the slow rising of the yellow moon.

E get as e be.

while human beings like me are disconnecting from our country of origin gradually


Once my parents are in the ground, there goes my ties to Nigeria as well.

For now I still have to play cool cos of my parents

lilytender:
No, don't try it. Don't go and corrupt other continents.

Africans in large numbers in the west will destroy the west

That's too many savages to civilise

before you know it, they will start shitting in public/nylon, littering everywhere and disobeying laws

Only the enlightened and civil Africans tired of living amongst the vast majority of illiterates and barbarians shlukf should be allowed to leave

AbujaBlue:
Gunmen has been identified. Turkish born.

na wa

there are people who want to sha scape goat these middle easterners by fire by force

hok4u:
New world order
Ki olorun ma shówa

I'm suspecting same

IjebuWarrior:
The corrupt fool must have paid the OP who in turn paid some NL mod to try and protect his already stained image.

And you blame and accuse 9ja Politicians for corruption... it starts from the grassroots!

To that mod that pushed this to fp!

yes indeed

BookEditor:
You are simply at fault. The fault is from you.

Why did you allow your wife to be your own boos, to boss you around? She is not the type of woman that should be handled the way you're handling her. I think you need serious marriage counseling. Even your wife needs serious marriage counseling too.

It's the way you lay your bed that's how you will lie on it. Marriage is a lifetime journey and anyone who is not willing to get into it with full commitment should not even go in at all.

The fault lies more on her side for all her behavior but on your own part, your fault is not being firm with her and allowing certain things you're not supposed to allow in your marriage.

When you show a woman all the love needed in a marriage, then you also as a man be firm with her and refuse to allow her do certain things and put your foot down or else you will lay the foundation for the collapse of your marriage. I can assure you that if I counsel you for 5 straight hours, I will speak senses into you. I'm talking with going to 2 decades of experience.

First of all, why did you allow her that very first time to go meet her ex in the media? That was your first mistake. The moment you allowed her to meet any of her ex the first time you must continue to allow her with her other exes or else trouble will be let loose. Women are not logical in nature. They are highly emotional and have no iota of logic in them when it comes to relationship issues. It's you the man that will know that you must not allow it.

Just like a child crying for you to give him sweet even when the doctor has medically warned you that this child should never eat sweet and that if he eats sweet his illness will deteriorate. Will you now say because the child is crying seriously you give him the sweet? Won't you find something else to give him? Because the child doesn't think logically and may even put his hand inside fire.

The same thing with women. You are more logical than them as a man. So you will tactically block every opportunity or thing that will make her vulnerable because to her it's harmless but by allowing her, it can turn to something else in future and destroy your marriage.

Also remember that women are not to be given complete freedom to do anything they like because when you give them an inch, they will take a mile.

Secondly, why I said the fault is from you on my first line of this post is because you failed to avoid this kind of problem from the first day of your marriage. If you and your wife dated for long, then you should have known the kind of person she is and from the first day of your marriage, you should have given her a condition to throw her line/sim card away and stop using that line if she is really serious about being with you for the rest of her life. Marriage is a journey and whoever goes into the plough must never look back or take actions that could destroy the marriage.

If I continue to write, I will continue to write on and on because there are a lot things I need to counsel you about and if possible even your wife about marriage which both of8 you don't seem to understand. That's why you're having issues in your marriage.

you are a hard-core misogynist

But you are right in a way

About the man laying the rules amd all

But for breaking sim and all that....

too extreme

as for this comment about women as freedom


dunno what to say

martius101:
You this onyi22...wetin b ur problem sef...you are a broke ass beach ..... it's very lucid.

she is trollin you guys

And you all keep falling for it

MissRaine69:
Anything unknown to a Nigerian the occult/devil/juju has to to be attrtibuted to it. Rather than find out the old school way by reading assumptions are reached immediately.
Waists beads are used for the following
1. As a symbol of femininity and sensuality, only the partner a woman chooses would have the honor of seeing them fully.
2. As a sign that a woman had reached marriageable age and could now have suitors
3. Strung with bells, to show that a woman was still pure as at the time of marriage.
4. Worn on babies during naming ceremonies, some say; to accentuate their waistlines and hips as they grow.
5. As a weight measure; when gaining weight, the belt of the beads climb up and when you lose weight, it falls elegantly on the hips.
6. Upon addition of precious stones, waist beads denotes wealth historically if the husband was wealthy the wife would wear beads made from glass, precious stones and rare shells

exactly
I dig waist beads

kallmemrB:
Funny dude

The guy knows what's up

urahara:
But say , if the ease of doing business in Rwanda is so great, why don't they get massive fdi flows just like the Asian tigers did inorder to get industrialise.

they get FDI inflows

like a lot of it
at least for their size

Rome was not built in a day

urahara:
What do you think about Ethiopia and Rwanda ?
I think they are making an extreme amount of effort to get developed .

I can speak for Rwanda tho
they are trying

urahara:
Lagos fails so woefully at that.

From what I have heard , Monrovia even by shithole standards is terrible.

that country is done for......

Everything good is offered by foreigners to foreigners
The locals no dey try

And the city is worse


George Weah cannot do anything
The problem is systemic

urahara:
Ghana and some other sub Saharan countries have electricity.

true

But Accra is also developing haphazardly too.

Abidjan does well when it comes to strict enforcement to building codes and all that

Monrovia and Freetown is even useless, no need to mention them

Dakar tried, at least in relative cleaniness and Lome tries, but it's small

many sub Saharan countries need to upgrade

omohayek:
I'm certain I've traveled a lot more than you have, to every continent except South America. In addition, I also took some time between all my travels to actually educate myself on the histories of the places I visited, which is why I know that as late as 1900 many places in Europe and North America also suffered from every single one of the issues you've listed. Try reading up on The Great Stink or Henry Mayhew's London Labour and the London Poor to see how wretched conditions were in the capital of the world's mightiest empire even as late as the 1860s. Maybe you should take a break from hating your race and try to learn something about how the world came to be as it is.

I know Liverpool used to be a $hithole

But that was 100s of years ago

In the 21sr century, even Stinky India is making strides while we as black folks are still fvckin up.

There are certain things that should not even be in existence in the second decade of the 21st century, NO EXCUSES

In the 21st century, electricity and amenities should not even be what people use to campaign

you make excuses too much for the black folks
I don't

that's the difference between us both

AngelicBeing:
Another Arab spring loading, I like the way Arabs come out massively to protest against injustice and rogues in power, Algerian president should listen to his citizens and step down, he has eaten enough sharwama, chicken, beef,, shisha, couscous in the presidential villa, it is time for him to step down

exactly

Defisto:
Algeria is a city in which poverty and excessive wealth get along well. Of course there is something to see, but if you walk through the streets that are not tourist, you can see everything from the other side.

Algiers you mean?

Every country has two sides

even Dubai

But Nigeria issa disgrace

omohayek:
You clearly have no interest in learning any historical facts that might interfere with your self-loathing tendencies. What part of "Algeria was ruled for over 130 years as an integral part of France itself" don't you understand? And had you bothered to educate yourself in the slightest, you would have known that Tunisia and Morocco also benefited from such deep close links with the European states in a way no black colonies ever did, but why let such glaring facts of history get in the way of your self-hatred?

In any case, any city can be made to look good under an authoritarian regime that can force poor people out of sight: that's why Pyongyang manages to present a good face to impressionable people like yourself, who are easily taken in by a few shiny buildings. If Lagos could do what the Chinese have done (and the white South Africans used to do), by expelling anyone without official residence permits, it too would look like an oasis of near-First World conditions, but I don't doubt you'd still be on here whining about how this too is evidence of the allegedly inherently faulty nature of "THE BLACK MAN". There's just no winning with people who are cursed with deep racial self-hatred.

Forget shine shine

Why can't Nigeria despite its wealth build a functional city.?

it's not about sky scapers (how many sky crapees does London or Paris have?)

But it's functionality

See how disorganized our cities are...How hard can it be to build according to plan? or have a proper layout and you build whatever you want WITHIN the layout?

Look at the poor waste management system in Lagos (everywhere filthy like as if Nigerians are black animals, even animals are even more neat that these fvckrrs)
Throwing filth everywhere, etc

What about open defecation.
I was ashamed when I took my friend from Togo round Lagos, and while in the car, somewhere on Lagos island, we saw people squatting on the bridge and $hitting in the water

What kind of animal behaviour IS that?

Lagos and indeed other cities in SSA do not need shine shine, it's functionality

Let the roads br good

Let the drains work

Let us stop shittin in public

Efficient waste management

Let the land lords maintain the buildings (let us have a standard and building code)

and other basic stuff like fixing the fractured transport system

you will see how nice Lagos will look look without even erecting fancy buildings like Dubai


But with too many barbaric and archaic punks living in one space, I don't see that happening


On a side note, do you know that in Tunis, it is enforced that every restaurant MUST HAVE running water and a proper toilet

Every public facility must have same too

They are implementing same in Rwanda

But what what do we have in our $hithole country of origin

Restaurant by the gutter, no running water and toilet

This is just one example of many many other things that makes Nigeria Nigeria failed state (and most of SSA )


Travel more and travel around
you will see what I'm saying

I'm sure you do some travel.