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IamaNigerianGuy:
She wants you to know that she was used and dumped by a 'Man of God'

She wants you to know that many of the pastors preaching and praying in Nigeria today are hypocrites, thieves, embezzlers, adulterers, fornicators and liars.

She wants you to open your eyes to these truths and stop defending these evil people and fake pastors

She wants reason, judgement and fairness to prevail and not blind religious sentiment.

She wants you to ask why a person who accuses another of immorality and broken promises should be locked up by the police and intimidated. Is that fair?

She wants you to remember the words of Jesus in Mathew 24:5 "Many shall come in my name, claiming I am he; and shall deceive many..."

She wants you to stop judging her because she is bold enough to come out and confront evil and hypocrisy.

She wants you to speak truth to power

She wants you to know you are not better than her ; you just sin differently

That is what she wants.

GBAM

Boss13:
She just even completed her interview now. It was shared live on Facebook by Sahara reporters. She described her Suleiman likes ending sex from the back. How they both traveled to Napoli, New York and Nigeria. How Suleiman gave her 8000 euros after collecting offering from a 3 days crusade. How she pets him to eat telling him daddy please eat. How they met. How Suleiman was luring her to have three some with him and she mentioned Daniella Okeke as the actress who had party with him. She mentioned how they Met in protea hotel in Ikeja and another hotel again. And how Suleiman even when he is falling asleep will still tell her to continue. Mentioned Suleiman has an average penis size and how they shared pictures. She said she still have the phones with the pictures and the time and date and they were not photoshopped. However, she deleted most of their conversations but started keeping evidences after he gave her concoction to drink.

Whether people choose to believe or not. The girl is saying the truth

Exactly

SBG04:
This girl should not even bother with any press conference, i already believe her. The fake pastor has already implicated himself by confessing that he knew her and sent her money to start a business. The idiotic buffon called a pastor went a step further to insult our collective intelligence by telling us he sent money to a girl he never met before and only spoke to on the phone, is he her maga? Besides what kind of person that has a music career with videos and songs, introduce herself to a "pastor" as a stripper?
When judgement day comes for that bastard called suleiman, i'll be on the front seat cheering

I believe her too

The pastor shagged her

zynzyn:
Cheating is bad and even dangerous these days of STDs!!

However a woman's cheating is more dangerous because of paternity fraud ( which is extremely painful, more painful than what a woman can feel because her man chested). Many men have been known to commit even murder if they suspect their woman cheated AND made them Father a child that isn't theirs! This may explain the apparent 'double standards' applied when women cheat!

The rejection of that supposed double standard and the idea that if he cheats, so can I is what is troubling the marriage institution today. The men are still expected to propose and the offspring still generally bear the man's name. So many guys have settled for baby mamas so they do not have to marry a girl who will cheat on them in revenge! The baby mama arrangement makes it more convenient for them to ask for a DNA test if the lady claims pregnancy for the guy in question!

So I think op has a realistic point, if u are not submissive enough to remain faithful and loving to a guy even when he cheats, make your own money and stay out of marriage!! The inequities are naturally fixed!

That being said, it is observable that at least some of our mothers who accepted the inequities and stooped to conquer eventually derived the benefit of the awesome power a woman can get when her husband trusts and respects her more than he trusts himself!!

It is all down to a woman's freedom to choose!

This is a very troubling perspective tho....

na wa.

But a lot of men are stupid o

You have a wife at home and you are fucking outside naked without cover, get her pregnant without cover...

What if the girl you were fucking was sick?
That is why a lot of married women in Nigeria are nursing STDs

Like a woman who fainted after getting to know that she is Hiv + because she was preggy and in government hospital, the Hiv test is compulsory.


What kind of men do we have here sef

Obyno112:
Good day sir...

Please as a final year student banking and finance..I have registered for ican last month but will like to purchase sept exam form because there is no time to write this march exam...

I want to know my exemptions in foundation. Skill.. And professional level.. After I must have gotten my transcript or probably my bsc ...

I think you should get your bachelor's first...

Then you can talk business

janellemonae:
So much sexism in this country.

All u need to do is go through nairaland homepage. This tonto dike story. 80% of commenters diss her. Few pple diss d husband.

Another example was a post on d front page a few days ago. NURTW chairman impregnated his side chick & was thanking his wife for accepting d side chick. The post wt d most likes was dt d wife (d victim) was useless. Some said its low self esteem. The side chick got fewer disses. No single comment dissed d man dt was d actual culprit. If dt woman leaves dt man, she would be tagged a "baby mama" "a hoe/slut(even if she met him a virgin)", "must have xter flaws", "can't keep a man", "probably can't cook" etc. the man is never tagged.

I was watching this big brother wt an elderly woman once & when bisola & tony cuddle she would start dissing bisola. I asked what abt tony dt was actually married. She replied dt men don't have a problem it's d girl dt should watch herself.

Smh.

You see am

Women are very judgemental towards fellow women, especially here in Nigeria.

Its the women that are the fuel to sexism in Nigeria, not even the men.

Thank God you have admitted it

pressplay411:
OP is a realist.

In a way, yes

JeffreyJamez:
See how someone is setting herself and a few others for very rocky marriage life. How can you be going into a relationship with this kind of mentality?....That all men cheat?....What nonsense?...

I no kuku blame una, na the stupid set of male species can't always think with their 3rd legs na them I go blame.

She said 90% of men cheat...That's just absurd.

You can imagine

Interesting perspective tho, but a lil flawed.

You raised a very valid point @OP

This place is now dry Where are the scholars Busy I.guess?

sexyfire911:
Your own is even good, what about getting three nice jobs in the space of 2weeks only for you to be told that is job is in your hand, you have to sleep with me first before I give you d job, d other said I need to grab my share first before other men in d office start disturbing you. You can imagine

You don't mean it

Na wa

Have you guys started class?

obstead200:
pls go thru the thread again.
Trust me, nothing less than a couple of bitter career experiences, coupled with years of joblessness and poverty, can ever correct the brain defect which this OP has

I read from the first page.
And I have learnt.

But the OP needs to take a chill pill tho.

His mindset cannot help in Nigeria.
Maybe in Europe, underline the word maybe

But definitely not in Nigeria


Bosses here are something else, but you have to conform to get what you want.

That is wisdom.

MrPresident1:
Never outshine the master, never outshine the master blah...blah...blah...

Pathetic excuses for mediocrity, you cannot hide class

You have a point too
But Moderation is the key

willibounce1:
Proud goat. You just jumped into conclusion that your boss is envious of you. He is envious of you because you own the hospital or because you pay his salary? Instead of you to keep shut and do your job you are feeling like a champion for somebody who is paying your salary because you think you a good orator. If them no employ them now, them go talk another thing. I wish I know the hospital so I get you fired and get them to hire someone who is more sensible

Please refrain from calling him goat.
He is not beyond correction

This topic is a very interesting topic.
There is a word... That word is moderation.
You may be good at what you do, but recognise this, the cultural complications here in Nigeria.
What I mean by that is that many bosses have fragile egos, and kinda have complexes, so they get easily threatened.


So what do you do
Moderation.
Don't try to show off, and at the same time don't be a dull worker.

You need the boss more than he needs you, So just conform and get the experience you need.
When you leave his org after getting what you want, then he can go to hell

Hope I make sense tho

NwamaziNwaAro:


Payporte are traitors....


Why associate with this dude behind doors after publicly dissociating yourself with him.

Kemen should be treated like the leper he is.

Excommunicated and Banished.

What is this one saying?

Eluwilussit:
At 22, you are still a boy. It is natural for you to be sexually attracted to almost any female. By the time you get older and more experienced in the art, you will become more confident. Then you can control your desires. At that age, it is almost always about sex. You will soon get your fill.

22 year old is still a boy?

I never hear this kind thing before

oyeb15:
If everybody has cinema @ home & also stop going to shows, how will he have all that he's boasting of today. Moreover, his overhipped/ imitation dance wouldn't have taken him a million miles around stardom if not for d geniousity & legendry of his quiet/ mature twin brother.

That is not true.

Nigerians and bad belle is 5 and 6.

Someone cannot post what he wants to post on his instagram again?

And poor hungry and bitter Nigerians will just be hating on him, like that mugu Crackhouse.

You people should repent

squarelead:
Amen Bro... Thanks... Are you still writing the examz or done with it.

Not done o
we dey push am

pussypounder:
Your lips though
I will nut inside your mouth and you must swallow
Mmmm.....those watermelons too look sweet and ripe I bet the snail looks good downstairs and slippery because you look juicy I will definitely keep my nuts hanging out and offload my thick Akamu in your pot

LOL

""person wife"" you wan nut lmao

N1one:
Story!
Does she look married to you? That gal in the picture is a young girl na..

So young girls don't get married?
My ex course mate back then married just under 20 years tho.

Ugosample:
Times have changed tho

Indeed

sweatlana:
An old woman once said in their time men only marry Virgins so they wait till after marriage before they start "testing the waters"

Times have changed tho

Akthedream112:
BALLY VS GIFTY
SOMA VS GIFTY
BISOLA VS TONY.
MIYONSE VS TBOSS..
WE NO TALK COS CONSENT DEY..

WHY ONLY KEMEN EVERY DAMN TIME...
DANCE FOR CLUB... WAHALA...
KISSING FESTIVAL... WAHALA
TRUTH OR DARE.... WAHALA...
VIP ROOM... WAHALA..
KEMEN VS GIFTY
KEMEN VS UREL..
KEMEN DON TOAST ALL THE GIRLS FOR HOUSE FINISH...
KEMEN CANT PLAY TRUTH OR DARE WITHOUT ASKING TBOSS AND UREL IF THEY WILL HAVE SEX BEFORE LEAVING BBN...
KEMEN VS CONSPIRACY
THEM. USE SEX SWEAR FOR KEMEN?
NA ONLY KEMEN GET DICK?
NA PUSSY HE FIND COME BBN OR #25 MILLION..?
WHY ALWAYS KEMEN?

LOL

Vivipop:
Smiling and teeth opening does not mean consent. Did you not learn that today? We women can be unnecessarily emotional, wanting things to end in our favour most times. Well, it's a woman's world they say.

Thank God you have admitted

realGURU:
So this elders still dey knack, they should respect themselve.

Dey there

For some, it's nack till you drop dead

2shur:
Osibanjo remains the v.p So no level abegi. Women and deceit. I bet if osibanjo was poor and wretched Maybe him wife go pose like dat. Women and money. Now them dey sleep steady inside a/c Dey drink juice Dey chop turkey Inside steady 5 mikano gen standy by light

What is this one saying sef
Did she marry him two years ago? Stop being bitter

2shur:
Osibanjo remains the v.p So no level abegi. Women and deceit. I bet if osibanjo was poor and wretched Maybe him wife go pose like dat. Women and money. Now them dey sleep steady inside a/c Dey drink juice Dey chop turkey Inside steady 5 mikano gen standy by light

What is this one saying sef
Did she marry him two years ago? Stop being bitter

Ngokafor:
.......I dont doubt your persinal experience but if you had bothered to read the story,you will find out that the man narrating the story was sexually molested as a boy by a grown man

....Therefore i dont know where you got the statistics that boys are more sexually abused by 'aunties' e.t.c than girls.

Take this from me...

There are MANY female abusers out there in this our country, even tho some of you don't believe it.

Just protect your sons from them (and the pervert men too)
And God will crown your effort.