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Sexyflowers:
Thank you
but i have voters card only
from mile to cotonu how much will he takes to get me to cotonu from mile 2
pls quick reply

Since you even have a voter's card, it will cost you less to cross, as opposed to those with passport (like moi)

So from mile 2 to seme, budget like 1k to be safe (it can never be up to that tho, but just have this)

Then when you get to the border, take the bike guys sha, you will see them (preferably the ones with green vests)
They will cross you for between 700-1k but try and bargain well.

Then when they cross you to the other side, the Cotonou cab is 1k CFA
You will see money changers too, but shine your eyes, and count your money o
Then coming back you retrace your steps.
The bike guys pass one back yard like that, but it's by a new building sha

Safe journey

And don't forget to come gist us as the waka go.

Sexyflowers:
Am from lagos ikeja pls can some one tell me how i will cross over to cotonu i have voters card only

Okay then....
Now you have to find your way to mile 2 Your surest bet is to take Oshodi, then from Oshodi take mile 2 bus.
Then from mile 2 you will see seme
Then you drop at conoil, you will see it.
Then from there, you can take a bike that will cross you to the other side
Then when you get to the other side, you will see Cotonou shared cab

ligopedro:
Please Oga Unclephilio123 have been following this trend. You said with 25k she can even get to Ghana? Is that for real.. I need your reply please bcoz am also planning a trip by mid March going from Benin Republic - Togo - Ghana - Nigeria. Hope 12days will do and how much can one spend to cover all this. Thanks

First of all, are you going with an international passport?

Second, what is your budget like? Can you give me the figure?
Based on that, I can advise you

Kassy101:
Please can I use my gtb naira MasterCard in cotonu Benin republic to buy things through POS and withdraw through ATM?

That could get you stranded bro...

It's best to go with enough cash, then change it at the border to CFA

From the comments I read here, I can conclude that Many Nigerians are nothing but miserable sadists

Just look at these comments

kalindaminda:
I'm amused by the misleading headline. I hope it goads TBoss's family to press charges against Kemen and the whole thing comes to light.

Maybe this will spark a change in the way Nigerians view sexual harassment.

But the issue is that if the whole tape is played, like an hour long tape around the period this incident happened from all angles, and Kemen is right, then Kemen MAY be vindicated, and T Boss vilified.

So it is a delicate matter, and they better be wise (Kemen and TBoss)
if not

This is something we need to look into.

Edwinmason:
men dont want to chop one soup forever but want the woman to continue choping one particular meat forever......it does not work that way

LMAO

Nice perspective tho

Alesandese:
It's his choice.... One thing Nigerians never respect

Exactly

EWAagoyin:
proud of bodycount abi.... only a prostitute will have more 2 body count before marriage... as a woman u need to have respect for ur body.... only male dogs sleep around the females don't.... dere is different between a male and a female.... u don't sleep around because u like sex.... u sleep around because u think its right and that's what makes u to be an in-house olosho... stop the rubbish.

What you said makes no sense.

And on the female dogs part, you obviously know nothing about that
I had a female dog for years and I know wetin my eyes see

ToriBlue:
I'm igbo.

I know
That is why you are reasoning that way.

Snowpikin:
This is what i call MARRIAGE!!!
His wife still stands by him irrespective of d storm hitting his head which is worthy of applause


Not all dis indomie marriages that ordinary breeze from ceiling fan can blow away

If the roles were reversed, do you think he will be dancing with her like that?

Well it's her choice tho, and no one should crucify her for it.

ToriBlue:
Your money is not her money because she will marry and her husband money will become hers .

They are Yoruba people, not Igbo

In Yoruba land, her father's money is also her money.
Her inheritance dey solid

reflx:
also looks like the evicted housemates are back to square one unless they are individually working on something
the pictures from their party looked full of forced smiles
i wish them the best.....really after the reggae comes the blues...

for the other housemates i pray they have a solid exit strategy...Kemen had alot about to say on planning life after exit but he now left ingloriously
20 minutes of fame it is really!

Back to square one like how

bukatyne:
very interesting.

Will I divorce a husband who jazzed me for 33yrs?

Depends.

If the marriage was wonderful and he never took advantage of me, I will reason he did it cos he didn't want to lose me and move on wit the marriage.

If the marriage was bad, omo ... the game is over.

Bukatyne what's up na

Long time.
You and your interesting viewpoints to subjects over the years, with the bullets that follow

Hope you are good?

LAX89:
Marriage is an OVERRATED dogma and expectation of society. You should also look at the world-wide odds of divorce. Individuals now have the courage and self conviction to decide if they actually need, want and desire to get married, rather than just following societal dogma and expectations, devoid of any independent, individual analysis and thought process. Put simply, marriage should be an individual choice, and not a rule of society.

Gbam

Very nice

sdkalu:
In will not divorce her because, she is more spiritual than me, for me not to know all these years means my life was simply in her hands. She could have done worst to me but she didnt . for the sake of the children I will stay. No one will know about it. It will be a shame that my wife has been controlling me all these years without me knowing. She was kind, caring and loving too. In fact apart of juju I must have come to a point that I love her outside juju. Forgive and forge ahead.

That is an interesting perspective

Strahovski1:
Tell her to proceed on the divorce. Infact, help her pay the bills of the law suit

Modified
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To those saying it's not enough. I bet 80% of you are single and you have no idea indeed what contents are of marriage. Yes.

Marriage IS NOT a task! Neither is it some kind of Job or Project. It's not a do or die affair. It's a union where 2 happy people come together as 1. So your sister shouldn't be in such union as her happiness has been slain. Why live with a man knowing well, that he is sleeping with another woman? The thought of it alone can lead to depression. Let's be realistic.

Irrespective of how they sort it out and settle the dispute, the scar would always be there. When she see him making a call, she would be suspicious. If she see him greet a woman she would be suspicious. She would always have the thought that he is sleeping with other women though she may not express this. But she would never forget. And this is not good at all. So what is the point? Is it by force? Why live in depression especially when the woman he is chatting with looks better or sexier than she is.

So let her be.

P.s I'm a married man and yet, I don't encourage anyone to stay in a marriage where infidelity looms.

Nice
very nice

graphiti:
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Did she claim to be a saint/born again in d first instance? Mtchewww! A case of treating pimples over leprosy
#woman=woman's greatest enemy!

I dey tell you

graphiti:
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Did she claim to be a saint/born again in d first instance? Mtchewww! A case of treating pimples over leprosy
#woman=woman's greatest enemy!

I dey tell you

larrybee2017:
I have been following this apostle Suleiman saga with keen interest, not to blame though but to just keep my thought pattern alive. What a waste of a father's effort and a waste of hours of pain in labour by a mother who, I'm sure was so excited at the sight of this agent of hell.
Though I'm not a fan of the said man. But I wonder how a woman could be so cheap to come out bold that a man of God slept with you and in return pays you. What a waste!!!! It so funny how youth of nowadays would die for another woman's husband yet claim they are been cheated. What a patient God we serve.
To say this b***h had the gut to even honor press conference in this attire shows change is truly here and pride of womanhood gone with the wind. Gone are the days when you are ashame to even look at your man after s*x. Many could rather sleep with their men with light off. What happen to the pride of a woman. What happen to mother's?
If only God show many women the babes in their womb, many would have terminate them even before they form.
What in the world is this thing set to achieve if truly keyamo is not high on weed. You agree(that is if it's true) to waste your destiny on another man's bed by becoming a toy in his hand and still have the gut to sue? I know many dump ones will say go on girl and make him pay. The truth is, this thing I see here seem to be acting under a strong influence and when the weed clears off we shall all see the result. Im sure of your own free will you slept(if at all) with this man. Why not take other men whose destiny you have destroy to court too? What happen to mechanics and poor men still struggling on the street? If he where to be a barber I'm sure this good for nothing won't need the service of keyamo. What a shame on you and your supporters.

Women are the worst enemies of women

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First of all, why should a woman be ashamed to look at her man after sex What kind of reasoning is this biko?

Anyways we all can't reason the same way, so it's alright

emeijeh:
F00l watch what you say.... He is a man of God

Man of God my foot!
That guy is a criminal, fraud and a cheat.

geekybabe:
Lies. Lies upon lies. Perv

Na wa... Please don't get too emotional

geekybabe:
Lies. Lies upon lies. Perv

Na wa... Please don't get too emotional

ToriBlue:
He don't want another set up that will involve him since Big Brother is now a feminist.

Exactly

ShawttySoFyne:
He can't evade the eventual eviction.

You wish

LordOfNaira:
Bro, I just weak for my country people.

Imagine, the man is stylishly asking us to see every evidence, even if very credible, brought forward against him as cloned. He thinks every Nigerian is foolish. As a matter of fact, this is a disrespect!!!

First, when this matter arose, he quickly described it as a fight against the church and many foolish Christians immediately took up the fight for him. I am sick and tired of this sort of staggering gullibility. A man slept with a woman and the woman comes out (she might even be a tool in the hand of their God to expose fraudulent pastors) to expose him and the man quickly describes the fight as a fight against the church. He has succeeded in whipping up sentiments and his followers and many other Christians are blindly refusing to hear this lady out.

If there is truly hell, many Christians will follow their pastors into it. If Jesus came in this time and called these fraudulent yahoo yahoo pastors "brood of vipers" their followers will stone Jesus and curse him.

Thank you very much

Many Nigerians are not reasoning with their head

NegeduGrace:
am not trying to justify the doings of the men right but u can't hear a story from one party n use it to judge or make conclusion.Ani Idibia knew tuface has kids outside but was still very happy to say yes to him,any woman that is not capable of keeping her marriage off the Internet can't even build a home.how many times do u see olu Jacob or joke silva coming on Internet to seek people's opinion concerning their home? if u check the industry lots of our actors re still married to their wives for a long time because they married those who love them n understand that they re from different background but came together to form a home which can't be built in a day..always let God lead when making a choice of a life partner n not material things,,not all rich people re happy afterall

Thank you! !!!!

It takes two to tango, and you can't say that the women are completely blameless too.

Na wa

lefulefu:
yess oo..faithful guys are everywhere....its just that ladies need to look beyond a guy"s flashy car and fat wallet.no be dat one dey make a man a husband material .

This makes sense

TheSonOfMark:
Everywhere! People cheat everywhere and aren't shamed for it in most supposedly developed countries of the world.

Jhene Aiko cheated with Big Sean even though she is married to someone else. She's moved in with him even though she is still legally married..and she's not being slut-shamed.

Will and Jada Smith are reportedly in an open relationship where each is free to sleep with others.

It's not uncommon to see "In An Open Relationship" on the social media profiles of Americans and Brits. Folks act like it's normal but even I - for all of my supposed liberality- am still culturally shocked by it.

Justifying cheating isn't peculiar to Nigerians.

The issue is that it is one sided here in Nigeria

Men can do as they like while the woman can't do shit...

Look at the Kannywood saga etc