₦airaland Forum

Microfels:
The write-up is about HER and not about HIM. Maybe he could have ended it with how much he loves her and all that... But that doesn't mean he is not worthy of her. He is just trying to celebrate her virtues.

EXACTLY

solasoulmusic:
Every woman is ready to do this even at 23 I was ready but the issue is background and what people were taught in the household. Those freely given always give freely those who had to suffer to get it will think twice

I don't think so tho...

iRepNaija1:
Most of you missed the point of these people's comments. They're questioning why all his reasons for why he's marrying this woman center around how much she's done for him, not about what he's done for her or how much he loves her. Let's be honest: a man who believes he's got a good woman, who is, most of the time financially stable, will go above and beyond to spoil her and make her feel loved and treasured. Even if he doesn't have money, he still puts in the effort to make her feel loved and treasured. That message was not conveyed in his post at all. He just sounds like a taker and her a giver. I don't care who you are: being assigned one role gets tiring and people grow resentful.

well this list is what she did for him

she can then lost what he did for her

starbuck:
Kai

. Family goals but hunger and poverty won't allow me to achieve that..

it will be fine

just keep working hard

And being good

RaptObserver:
The man na short man. Short men don't age fast fast. Especially stingy ones. But the family is a happy one. Great job to the wife cos na woman dey hold the key to a happy home.

Not always the case

Husbands play their own role too in the stability id the home

DonX001:
Interesting conversations (and debates) on the oil and gas industry.
Learnt a lot.
Thanks guys.

very interesting indeed

aseosa:
Am not like what you just described.
I cherish my black culture and my skin.
Black women are more better than the foreign fake white who find any reason to hate us.
If you have been to America. Or maybe Europe. You will see how black women are discriminated.
Even to the point in which white girls call black women hair unattractive.
So we all just want to be able to be equal.
But not all black women fall for their trap.
But see if you don't like black women.
Just hug the nearest pole to you.
It is not bad to dislike or like someone.
But it becomes an issue when you start to make it a big deal.
So in short.
I would say Bleep yourself animal.
Am way up blessed nigga.
Just stop hating on black women beauty. I do it.

lmao

Sarang:
Give me two years from now Sir and I would save 10million. Entirely Debt free. Are you fucking kidding me! If I save 10million in two years working consistently right now, I won’t even be proud of myself! It means am living a life above my means. Or partying and stuff!

You wanna know what my bills are.

House rent 500 (includes electricity and water and heat and WiFi)
Phone: 98 (includes unlimited internet)
Gas 100-150 (Monthly)
Food 200
NB: I don't drink alcohol or club
Misc 200

This is the bills you are talking about. And I can’t save 4million if am making 2500 a month in 2years?
Not including the ones you send home o. Even if my bills are as high as 1500 I can still do it. When my bills exceed 1500 then am paying for my own house, simple! It’s all discipline.

You are joking! You guys be discouraging people all the time

And how much is 3k$, if it’s nothing. Can an average Nigerian fly DOMESTICALLY at all?!

Nigeria is not just mad. It’s a POOR country. CAN’T compare with Canada.. NEVER!

You have said it all

Hadampson:
Boss, make i no like you... Nigeria is not a good country to do business.

If you want to do the business.. First, don't give your car out to a driver cos the man will use your car to build his house

Secondly, make sure you always have some money in case you come across FRSC, VIO, police and soldier.

Thirdly, get a trustworthy mechanic. Getting a good mechanic is an hard task.

exactly

Zikora1000:
Why is it that northerners don't like their wives doing for HIV test. A. Northerner from Katsina state fell dick and was promptly admitted at nnewi teaching hospital, he was HIV positive. He had three wives who came with him that very day. The head doc, wanted HIV test to be carried out on the wives, the man bluntly refused. His wives didn't know he was positive. One of them fortunately understood what was going on and she fell down wailing. I ask again, what is wrong with the Northerner s?
Igbo women going for inter tribal marriages, I hope you are reading this ? As for homosexyals, may your Anus leak forever including wicked Senator Abbo. Evil man!

That's just terrible

these northern men cheat without condom

wisdomguy4u:
I know this girl when she was sick, I'm from same town with her in Anambra . The family members tried all they could to go public and seek justice for what the slapping senator did to their daughter but for the fact that the internet wasn't strong like it is now then; their voice was not heard. So i can confirm the authenticity of the story.

Dayum

Joromi12:
Yesterday i took a walk around alpha beach. See the results of the so called wall

wow

Misterdhee1:
At the bolded, how many times have you been robbed in Nigeria? Nigeria is bad, but please let's stop making it seem like it's all gloomy.

it's terrible o
tho country condition

googi:
You know dog wey wan loss nor dey hia wisle.

Who destroyed Syria, Libya, Zimbabwe or Nigeria. You don spoil your countari finish you dey look for anoda place wey you go destroy.

The South Americans trying to get into USA paid more money to kayoti than you. The poor in their countries cannot afford kayoti.

They are like Nigerians fleeing "shittass" country.
You will live in consentration camps, drink toilet water or get bombed in Libya, drown on raft boats and get roasted like suya before your dead body eye go clear in hell.

Which other country do you know or built to put a welcome mat for you? Until you are treated outside for your gread, you will never learn.

Point to one community you or your ancestors have ever built apart from those who loved their
own community.

lmao

cayotes are smugglers

not all of them use cayotes

And for those who do; they had to sell their life possessions to embark on that journey

I will never travel as a smuggled person

I have my carte de sejour and other visas
why would I need a cayote?


Those content with the fvckery and filth in NiggerArea can continue to stay there and bask in its empty and foolish state.

I am NOT ready to do that, that is why I left the country

Good luck to una wey wan build NiggerArea
all the best

Benekruku:
Their lots can only shoot down points, they cant make a reasonable one.


Constructive criticism is what the FGN requires. Not all this NO NO NO

And tomorrow, when their is a clash between farmers and herdsmen, Everybody points accusing fingers to the FGN.


Accepted! RUGA is a NO. Whats the way forward to mitigate against the atrocities perpetrated with trade? They go dumb!

the solution is to strengthen law enforcement

Every herdsmen who break the law should be dealt with ruthlessly.
Simple and Short.

They believe since their brother is in power they are above the law

but then.

when the law deals with them
they comform

googi:
The first million a Nigerian makes, he looks for ways to throw it into foreign countries.

I see Canada as a choice for many of you. The mistake most Africans make is that they think the so called "civilized climes" they hear about apply to them.

No, it does not apply to you, it applies to their privileged class. You are the firewood they use to burn their engines. The same jobs you will never do at home because of your PhD, "MD" or DrSc, you will beg to do it when you are desperate and hungry or go into crimes.

The new generation of Blacks in Canada and US cannot even make or buy the same house as their parents. Over 50% live from pay check to pay cheque. Many of them cannot boost of a thousand dollars in the bank.

Note most of those 50 are 90% of you.

Who told you millionaire and billionaires do not have security? Try them u hia?

You think they go on social medias to display "gifted" instead of remaining anonymous?

Until Africans learn how to make use of their God given resources, stop throwing it away to those enslaving you by branding mentally, continue to use your labor to enrich themselves, Africans will continue to cry inside and outside where you are wasted as slaves, body parts and poo lickers.

Kotinu!

what is this one saying?

smh

you really think NiggerArea led by a Buhari, cheered on my millions of dumb, uneducated almajiris, agberos and cultists have a future?

Syria was once like Nigeria
the ones who smelt a rat ran away

but those living under the illusion of "I am doing well in Syria" remained there
now Syria is done for, and that "comfortable" life they thought they were living is now a mirage and they are now refugees


NiggerArea is on the brink of implosion
many have seen it and ran away

look at the fulani herdsmen and theur impunity

look at the federal government insisting on RUGA for fireuhj herdsmen when his country men that he swore to protect are dying like fowls

Look at the northern groups threatening a sitting president and people from the south

And look at the South spoiling for war if the plan is forced down theur throats

What about the excessive hate and division in Nigeria today due to the destructive politics played by APC especially?

The so called "middle class" are just living in a bubble
when it burst
una eye go clear


that is all I have to tell una

mmadu5:
see his dirty body , upon all the money this man has he cant even treat his skin , shame ,

lmao

ChiefkeefGB4:
What is the point of hustling and making it,when you have no security. No where is safe in the country,be there deceiving yourself. You will still leave your gated estate. Why do you think wealthy Nigerians need convoys with armed security to move around.

In the western world even Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg don't move around in convoys.

good question

Godbpraised:
and have you checked the number of people who are indebted in canada or USA, how many people in these countries can boost of $10K, that this young man have. i know is not about money, but guy it is not easy anywhere. success depends on how smart you can think and improvise your investment ideas, not necessarily but your location.

how many Nigerians can boast of $2k net equity (assets minus liabilities)

I'm very sure 80% can't

So what is your point?

If this is true

then Umahi is one of those governors

icankel:
all these years u have been living in Nigeria u have not seen like 50k and turn it into 3mil?

lmao


why so savage?

chigo4u:
Just go on twitter or instagram and do even 1k giveaway and see the amount of people that will subscribe and yet someone is saying people are making it in Nigeria lol

I tried doing a giveaway on a whatsapp group I belonged to; because business was so goof; and I decided to do that to make people happy.
the exchange rates then was casted then too (I'm talking 2017 here)



if you see how people were sending me private messages telling stories about one problem or the other, from school fees to drugs money to other things

it was a pathetic thing.

so yes I have tried it, but will never do so again....

people are hungry angry and suffering in Nigeria

the high jump in crime rates in recent months should tell you that

aboki tht normally don't kidnap are kidnapping

Yahoo boys have increased

prostitution is increased

etc etc
.all these are signs of a failing country

SaintLucia:
U are not making sense. Go and double your hustle, no food for a lazy person. There is security in where I live. No be today dem dey loot Nigeria, it's only a lazy person like u that will continue to wait for politicians to feed them. Go and hustle even if Na to sell pure water, there's dignity in hustling. The Asian Tigers, America, and Europe you see today didn't arrive at where they are today just like that, go and read their history. Go and work, I'm done with u.

your mentality is repugnant, and is the reason why Nigeria is a third world failed shithole destroyed country

So every one should just be building enclaves for their own comfort while the vast country is in the doldrums?

The Haves, have been doing that, and the country keeps getting worse

chigo4u:
If you are offered a visa out of Nigeria even you will run faster than your legs. Check the number of people making it in Nigeria vs the number of unemployed. Like same Nigeria that is officially the poverty capital of the world. Pleasee

that is the issue

the middle class is thin in Nigeria

the poor; hopeless and miserable forms the vast majority.

my parents live a "good life" in Nigeria and I was privileged to live the kind of life I did as a young kid growing up into adulthood and all that

but I cannot say because mine was like that, that is the story id NiggerArea.

I saw so many suffer

SaintLucia:
Dey deceive yourself over there and continue to reason like a hopeless being. I'm very sure you are still living under the care of your parent. A lot of people are making it in Nigeria through legitimate mean. Na today Nigeria no get electricity, roads, water etc abi na today dem just born u? You better emancipate yourself from the shackle of ignorance and poverty mentality and increase your hustle. No food for a lazy person even in Europe, America and Asia.

what is this one saying?

AngelicBeing:
The truth is bitter hence patriotic citizens pick offence at my post but we can do nothing against the truth, the truth we know and do is what sets us free as individuals, families and as a nation, meanwhile, continue to pray for Buhari and APC, Buhari is the messiah that will take Nigeria to the promise land, let me go back to Antarctica where I currently live, it is cold here, let me drink my Jack Daniels with fresh fish pepper soup, once Nigeria gets better, I will relocate back, but try and start your prayers and fasting for Nigeria

lmao

werey ni bobo yíì se

MacLovington:
I laugh. Many have invested that money and much more. Same Nigerians ran it down. From Diaspora experience. Same people you created job for, siphoned the money and collapsed the business. A Nigerian lady that returned to build a hotel at Ojodu Berger was murdered by her employees earlier this year. After 35 years of hardwork in UK.
Na today?

All those I know leaving unanimously say they are doing it for their kids' future.

you have said it all

AngelicBeing:
Hahaha, God is tired of daily useless prayers void of mercy, love, kindness, faith, goodworks and goodwill to one another, the western world including Australia don't pray like Nigerians do,

Australia government is responsible and has the best interest of her citizens at heart ( with less prayers) while the shithole jungle called Nigeria has wicked leaders ( that don't give a fvck about her citizens, with thousands of churches / mosques, voodoo centres and fall down and die prayers almost in every street in Nigeria.

Australia / western world is progressing but the shithole jungle is praying daily, becoming poorer and the headquarters of poverty and darkness in the world, and God is tired of useless prayers void of doing his will and also showing mercy to the poor

brother why so wicked?

Hadampson:
This thread dey travel section and i no see am... Thanks for the mention boss

I don laugh tire walai

Nigerians and their usual nonexistent business plans

lmao

grandstar:
I'm not doubting you but many who traveled later regretted saying if they had known what they'll encounter, they would have never gone in the first place.

Many doing menial jobs aren't happy but shame won't make them come home. The pay over there may seem high in Naira but won't get you far.

it depends on what one wants in life sha


someone who wants to amass wealth (the typical shithole NiggerArea mentality( can NEVER be happy with living abroad

but for those of us who treasure sanity and living the true essence of life, we can NEVER be happy in Nigeria

that's just the way it is

sacx:
Your choice of words is hilarious. You want to escape from this country . Bros you are not going anywhere. We will do this next level together.

Lmao

you are so funny

Predstan:
I

The white collar you get in Nigeria, how much does it pay you? It might not be even up to the minimum wage in Canada. Your kid can afford to go to a standard school for free up to secondary, he can even get grants to attend university.

With your white collar job, you end up in traffic for 3hours. You get home, no light probably water don finish inside tank u no ft shower, u on gen ear don block. Even your kids Na shaku Shaku day are dancing in school... every kids in the steeet don turn yahoo boy; the landlord beside your house is even a yahoo buy who turns on the volume of his speaker to the highest. You won enter plane go do meeting for Abuja but airline don reschedule your plane without informing you ahead. Immigration asking for bribe. Police arrest you in the bar asking for bribe.

lmao

you have a point tho