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Spider20:
Advising a Simp, is really a waste of time and resources.......
I get sad seeing and reading all sort of warning advice but am sure OP won't indulge.........

All Simp will learn in a hard way.
Even if Archangel Gabriel comes down to render advice to a Simp, A Simp will always remain a Simp.

Exactly

ugodson:
Bro the Most important question u will need to ask and do ur own findings is WETIN HAPPEN BTW D FATHER OF D CHILD AND HER? AND IS D FATHER'S OR X HAND TOTALLY OUT OF D PICTURE? am actually dating a single mother we have been friends from little we even had our first kiss together (wen we never know anything) her x husband used to maltreat her and sadly he doesn't taken his hands off d child,so We are good to go. All single mothers aren't bad but if u get to meet my ex hmmm u are on ur own

Keep FOOLING YOURSELF until you fall into the pit and you can no longer escape...

The ex usually maltreat her and that's all Abi?


When they were having marathon sex and romance for some years, he wasn't maltreating her then Abi,

Lol
Or deh

THE BEST OF MISCHIEVOUS, PRETENDERS AND LIARS OF WOMEN ARE MOSTLY THE SINGLE MOTHERS...

Lightway:
Shut up, you fooool

The person you quoted is an impostor. In real life, SHE'S A STUBBORN AND BITTER SINGLE MOTHER.

justscorchone:
I'm afraid to admit it but this post just shows how many juvenile men are in this forum.

Lol
Or deh
Brother Mrs ancient of the days

BRATISLAVA:
Just marry her and stop asking around.

Small men here will tell you they are high value men who will only have a virgin, or this and that type of woman, yet the women around them are all single mothers so they will certainly end up with them. You don't have the clay to make any woman, so marry the one you see before you, and stop your choosiness. Otherwise you will end up an old bachelor at Shiloh while others men who aren't aschoosy would've had their families settled down.

Marry her and quit the opinion seeking.

Lol
Or deh
No one will love you again...
No sane one will marry you again...

Gift those "sweet" advice to your brothers and males in your family, THEY NEED IT MORE

MrBrownJay1:
you see....NONE of you are bringing anything valid to this discussion, and instead are just focussing on rubbish about me because a man (with no sistas) brought a valid point to this discussion...now put your misplaced ego aside and answer the damn question:
APART FROM THE YEYE INSECURE BS THAT MOST OF YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT, WHAT IS SO WRONG ABOUT A SINGLE MOTHER?!

now focus on that instead of quoting me about nonsense!

I won't waste my time educating a stubborn hypocrite and impostor.

Never ever!

I repeat, NEVER EVER TRY IT, especially if their first husband is still alive.


You can just manage a widower if you're deeply in love, she is deeply in love, she has a job, she has good personality and she can also still give you your own children.

cenaman:
because they are single mothers, they should remain single forever isn't it?

Yes! Unless if their first husband is dead or a mad man.

MrBrownJay1:
i understand what you mean and your "preferences, but just because YOUR EGO IS MISPLACED, doesnt mean they are different. the sole reason that you look down on one and not the other, is because another man is still alive aka in the picture. why should that be a problem to you? its not like you are gonna adopt the child and make it your own. you are dating THE MOTHER and this child already has a father and doesnt need a new one. just focus on your woman etc and basta. yes, you may spend a little money on the child, big deal, so what?! its a small price to pay for having a happy family.

I have been vindicated
Mrs-MrBrownjay

MrBrownJay1:
the issue of single mothers is very simple... if you have no problem with it, then meet them and enjoy your life with her....and if you have a problem with it, then dont date/marry single mothers, et voila!

a woman with a child shouldnt be an issue, unless that woman is a bad person....sadly, many people will automatically view a single mother as a bad person, while many others wont/dont, and will instead judge that woman on the go or her character. some single mothers are fantastic women who became single mothers because of a bad union, a death and/or an accident. you cant possibly judge a woman negatively on the sole act of having a child unmarried (unless of course, you are one of them religious holier than thou hypocrites who forgot that even JESUS mother was a single mother, lol!)

You're either a bitter single mother hiding under a male moniker or you currently have sister(s) that are bitter single mother (s)

Tohsynetita1:
You could do a bit of affiliate marketing. it won't take upto 100k.

You're very very wicked

How much have you made after all these months that you've been doing this rubbish?

forgiveness:
Have you been to Abia and Kogi state before?

Yes!

She's like 95% of most other average Nigerian girls.
Useless
Broke
Loose
Rude
Lazy
They have nothing to offer apart from their private public parts.

This one is not even up to 23, yet she already has a married man, probably not the first in her BODYCOUNT arsenal. That's how most of them live. By the time they're 25-28, most of them will have at least 10 bodycount and will have done at least 3 abortions. After they're done wasting their good youthful lives away, they'll be praying and waiting for one "unfortunate" "God fearing" rich and handsome young man to marry them. It will never be well with all of you.

I blame the parents. Most parents are responsible for this nonsense children are exhibiting.


Ps
TO YOU THAT HAS SLEPT WITH OTHER PEOPLE'S HUSBANDS OR CURRENTLY SLEEPING WITH ONE, MAY YOU NOT ENJOY YOUR MARRIAGE TOO.

Ogun state, one of the most unfortunate state after Abia and kogi. Ogun is even worse because Ogun is supposed to be competing with Lagos but unfortunately, evil useless and old fool corrupt government won't allow the state to progress.

Acidosis:
Ask your sisters.

Oh poe nu

dominique:
Absolutely nothing wrong with selling of her eggs but using it to buy a new phone knowing the financial situation is extremely selfish of her. The reason she didn't tell you she wanted to sell her eggs was because she wanted to use the money for herself. If she had told you that she wanted to sell the eggs to take care of bills, it's you that will be driving her to the fertility clinic every month o

So?

Acidosis:
Every time a woman ovulates, she releases at least 1 egg. So, biologically, selling of eggs has no negative impact on a woman. It's only eggs she sold, not her ovaries. Her ovaries' got more than enough to meet her reproductive needs. It's even better to sell it than waste it (as menstruation).

The bigger issues are that she failed to inform you about the procedure and whatever it was you guys were going through didn't matter to her. It was all about her. These are the main threats to your marriage.

You haven't seen anything yet.

Or deh.
For your mind....
So, selling her eggs or selling some of her eggs will prevent her from releasing one or "wasting" it during menstruations?

Larryfest:
Good morning all, I have been having sleepless night for a while now and a few days ago confirmed my insomnia would last longer than I thought.

We were comfortable and have been married for 5years now with a daughter but things have been rough for a while due to my business folding up and we have had to manage with the little we see from time to time. Earlier this year I had to sell some of the things in our house including my phone just so we could buy foodstuffs and pay our daughter's school fees, just some weeks ago I even had to shamefully reach out to a popular Nairalander if he has a phone he could spare because the one I'm currently using is a Desktop kind of phone (doesn't work without directly plugging it).

Last month my wife came home with a brand new Samsung phone and when I asked how she got it her response was that she won it from her womanhood help group on Facebook (she is very active there).
Last Sunday while arranging the room I came across a fertility clinic document and the receipt of the phone which the amount written there staggered me a bit because it's way more than our house rent that expired recently which has been the cause of my sleepless nights. When she got back from church I confronted her with my two findings and after plenty talks and argument she confessed a friend from work told her about it and she sold her Eggs at the clinic and it was from it she bought the phone.

My people since Sunday I have been seriously weak and confused, a lot on my mind already but now I have to add this to it Marriage is for the faint hearted abeg!!!

ADDENDUM.....

1. Someone asked how much .... well she said she was paid #150k but the nurse who brought her in collected 15k.

2. Someone also made some points about sex, complications and others and even said it's a made up story to tarnish women or whatever well I don't think they pay for story on Nairaland and even if they do it isn't going to cover what's on my mind right now so you believe whatever you want, it's quite funny to think everyone would exhibit same complications as the third party you heard your gist from...

3. She told me it only took her 3weeks of preparation and she wasn't even going to the more than 3times a week and as for medications and the rest, you think someone who doesn't want you to know what he/she is up to would leave clues flying around the house

4. As for the sex part and her risking getting pregnant, she has been on birth control pills for like 4years now so pregnancy wasn't going to stop her from the procedures....

1)
From your write-up, I can smell some LAZINESS....
A Man that cannot take risks...
A Man who doesn't want to leave his "comfort" zone...
You can do better...
You can hustle....

Fact:

Most women are very disrespectful to their husbands especially if the husband is not financially okay and that's your situation. In your case, your wife's disrespect and disregard is even on the higher level.
For her to get to the level of selling her egg and only to by a phone, then she can do ANYTHING and she's also very stupid.
I believe 99% that she's also CHEATING on you... If you want to confirm this, find a way of going through her phone without her knowledge, YOU WILL DEFINITELY FIND MANY ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTIONS...

P.S
I said you're lazy for many reasons...
E.g, how can you be using a "desktop phone"? How much is a new battery? 1k-5k and I'm very sure that you can at least afford that. You need to brace yourself. YOU WILL NEVER GET RESPECT FROM ANYONE IF YOUR CAN'T TAKE RESPONSIBILITIES FOR CERTAIN THINGS.

Taiggarr:
You lost your late WRETCHED ILLITERATE father a long time ago .

Was it well with him and your family

Oloriburuku ọmọ ofo jatijati
Woe betide you and your entire family and generation.
You product of a broken condom by an ugly old hag WHORÈ and a drunkard old fool.

FOR EVERY RUSSIA COLONEL KILLED, HUNDREDS OF UKRAINIANS HAVE BEEN KILLED AND MILLIONS OF DOLLARS WORTH OF PROPERTIES DESTROYED.

IT WILL NEVER BE WELL WITH BUHARl AND ALL THE ROGUE LEADERS OF THIS COUNTRY.

victooman:
Please help advice me,

We both finished our NYSC service last year, luckily enough we started a POS business and as God will have it, we are both doing well, we both make a minimum of 5k at least on daily basis.

The main problem is that of recent she is talking about applying for her masters degree, l told her what is the essence of going for masters degree when the degree we obtain has not been any useful to us, why not expand this particular business, be financially stable before you start talking about masters, beside we need to build our self financially well if we have to settle down.

She told me that is her long time ambition and she is not expecting any money from me, she left my house this morning with anger.

Please Nairalanders, did l do anything wrong? What is the best way to handle this issue?

That girl is definitely a wh0re...
You are not first and won't be her last.
Most of them are just very selfish and unreasonable
There have also been other options and there is definitely one motivating and bankrolling her at the moment.
If you are in doubt, pretend to reconcile with her, agree with all her demands and secretly hack her phone... YOU WILL SEE ALL THE ANSWERS YOU ARE LOOKING FOR....

faceland:
Look at those Asian looking Europeans.

China and Russia are NEIGHBORS
THEIR ARE CHINESE-RUSSIAN RUSSIANS... IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN.

obiekunie01:
fantastic!

PUTIN MY MENTOR!

ONE OF THE GREATEST MEN TO EVER WALK THIS EARTH!

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

I dey feel you ma nigga

Serial48:
So after 6years of illegal cohabitation and plenty of sex, Babe took me out last night and asked me to marry him. Guys i was too into the moment that i forgot to take pictures.

You don't deserve bride price honestly.
Imagine if it was another guy marrying the waste product and leftover...
Chai

Mooh247:
Yes I am a freelancer and I know freelance site gets commission and payooner also get their charges but my estimate is for an example regarding the possible earning of a graphics artist

Lol
Keep FOOLING YOURSELF
Keep wasting away forming "lady's man on Nairaland

A so-called freelancer that's usually on Nairaland 247 ....

Wet rey

Stenewiser:
oga stop supporting nonsense simply because you think and want people to see that you civilized.

You dey mind the fool?

Person wey still dey collect pocket-money...

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Mooh247:




Some nigerians suffers from poverty of the mind

The white colonialist and slave masters have perfectly preconditioned black people to desire poverty and see poverty as a virtue

Investigate source of income as a right thinking person to ascertain legitimacy of wealth don't castigate wealth to promote poverty

A graphics artist earning $10 per gigs and having 2 gigs per day, 14 gigs per week earns $140 per week that's $560 a month.. am sure such kid can afford to give his parents ₦300,000

A female blogger with make up artist page on tic toc, Instagram and YouTube can't Monitise her content for profit, the fact she uses an iPhone means she is prone to Ritualists and dates a yahoo boy

Everyone should desire 9-5 civil servant job and earn 60,000 to 40,000 since that's what is right

PS: Dear Nigerian Parents, Buhari Kwaraption Government, EFCC , SARS , Nigeria Police, Village People ,

I: Using an iPhone is not a crime
Ii: having money as a young man is not a sin or crime
iii: people earn money online legitimately





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Oh Poe nuh

Kriss216:
How many times women dey celebrate Mother's Day in a year?

Last 3 weeks was Mother's Day
Last 2 weeks was Mother's Day
Last week was Mother's Day
Today again Mother's Day

Kilo shele?

Na who get time dey follow up
I celebrate worthy women in my life at every given opportunity.

ikibekingsleyoo:
If na Lagos or delta fine,but plateau state?e can't happen ,plateau people wey like tribalism,go come let one white man be there governor,e don fail at arrival

One pink or pale man. Not white

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qekng40:
Just look at what Buhhari is causing


Just imagine!

Edited: You lots quoting me should continue ooo, like I even care!

Like it or not Buhhari has made it simple for every Tom, Dick and Harry to contest for an elective post because of his tenure!

So its not about being myopic or being a bigot.

Y'all should chill, gerrit or forgerrit!

Re-edited : OK, let him go and win.. make no body mention me again! Daydreamers

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Or deh