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mployer:
She knew all the hotels within the vicinity. Even our hangout spot had a lodging acommodation. I didn't know, she told me

Na real time olosho she be

Offpoint1:
She doesn't know who Einstein or Isaac Newton was, couldn't hold any intelligent conversation.

She be science student?

FindX:
One round no dey do her.

How person pikin go dey fvck for 3 straight hours?

Pass her to me bro, I can drill her for 6 hours

nurez305:
The first red flag was when she started ignoring my calls.

I went to her house to know what is going on and I met a guy there but he excuse us immediately, later she went to take her bath and drop the phone on the sofa. I was with her phone when the text message from that guy that left enter with only "OK" . then I open the message and I saw the previous conversation between them.

The guy said : when you know your boy-friend is coming to your house today, why did you invite me also to come

My fucking GF replied : he is not my boyfriend, he is only a friend


After reading that, I started sweating inside their house after I have spent on the idiot.

I bought her the phone,
Pay her school fee,
Give her money whenever she ask
When her father died, I paid her trip to and fro and also give her change to hold to her village.


I felt like a loser and was very heartbroken. I summon courage and told her to return back my phone after telling her what I saw in her inbox, she accuse me of checking her messages without her consent and she refuse to give me the phone.

I threten her that if she refuse to return my phone that I won't take it lively with her. She reported me to police and they set a trap for me, she told me to come to somewhere to collect the phone, on getting there, I was arrested and the police force me to write a statement that I will never disturb her because of this phone again. I did and they told me to call one of my relatives to come and bail me and be my witness. I did that and I was granted bail and told us to come the next day.

The next day, the police woman try to settle the issue between us and she said we should not fight each other again and continue our relationship. And the police officer told her to delete all the threat messages I sent to her which he did.


NOW IS MY TURN TO REVENGE
After about 2months that will depart, she taught I have forgotten everything she does to me not knowing that I'm only waiting for the best time to strike her back. I went to area command to hire police, the man charged me 30k and told me not to worried that what she does was very bad. I lead the way to her house and she was shocked to see me again, she quickly call her mum and to tell her, we arrested her in her shop then and the police put an allegation on her that she hire tug to beat me up because I requested for my phone from her. She started crying that is a lie. The police ask for the receipt of the phone from her and she told them that I bought it for her, they collected the phone and detained her until her family show.

I later tell the police to allow her to go but I need to collect the phone. The man said it is important I do that.... After everything, I collected the phone and leave them in the station.


Foolish olosho

That is why the redpill has always advised against falling in love helplessly with a bitch especially a Nigerian bitch cos u will surely regret it with severe pains.

U even spent so much on her & I'm sure the other guys drilling her olosho kpekus mercilessly have never spent one-tenth of what u spent on her.
Finally ur eyes don clear

diadem10:
Heavyweight indeed.



Ment. All the big churches are in Lagos. Have they been islamised yet? Na ment? A good brain would know that since Tinubu didn't islamise his wife and Lagos, he won't islamise anyone. Stop limiting politics and competency to religion.

Like, you could see the high strides which Tinubu achieved in Lagos such as his legacies which include Lekki seaport, lekki trade zone, BRT, Eko Atlantic, BRT terminal, high increase in Lagos revenue even at the time Obasanjo withheld Lagos allocation for several years yet Tinubu made Lagos' thrived regardless. But rather than look at these, you're limiting Tinubu to his religion. How is Peter Obi who's got no achievement whatsoever better than Tinubu's enormous legacies in Lagos? Na ment? Tinubu is a first class graduate of accounting whereas Peter Obi is only a D pass graduate of philosophy.

Also, Tinubu is the most liberal leader who always ensure he brings in intelligent talents to nurture and work with him, irrespective of their religion or Tribes. People such as Fashola, Sanwo Olu, Osinbajo, Igbokwe etc..

Point is most Yoruba Muslims are different from the Northern Muslims. They don't allow religion to cage them. Personally, I hope for when religion would only be limited to home and religious houses because that's where it belongs. By limiting religion to only homes and religious houses, this would create more secular carefree avenue for people to use their brain to think outside of the box and improve their environment. Religion or non religion shouldn't be a determinant in any of our settings. Competence should always be championed and should be the main determinant.

Now on the question why Tinubu chose a Northern Muslim despite being a Muslim. It's a political strategic move. He chose a Northern leader from the core North which happens to be a Muslim since almost all the Northern leaders are Muslims anyway.

You all know that most of the leaders in the South are Christians while Muslims are the majorities in the North. Let imagine for example that a Northern Christian happened to get the presidential ticket of a huge platform, who do you think he would choose as his deputy in the South? Of course a popular Southern who may eventually end up being a Christian. Why? Because majority of the leaders in the South are Christian hence choosing one of the popular Southern leaders could end up being a Christian. That was exactly what Tinubu did. It's a political strategic move.

That's why religion shouldn't be a determinant in any settings because it's only a personal thing. Imagine if Shettima was only seen as a Northern Nigerian while Tinubu was seen as a Southern Nigerian. That already balanced the equation and criteria needed instead of bringing in religion into the prism. Point is when you look at Europe, American and Canada, they don't care about your religion whether you're Christian, Muslim or Atheist. What they care about is your competence irrespective of your religion. You wouldn't care about the religion of a doctor who's to operate on you but his competence. Religion shouldn't be a ticket for you to get your way out of your incompetence and I'm talking about Peter Obi who achieved absolute nothing in his Anambra state.

Meanwhile, I believe Tinubu chose Shettima as his deputy because Zulum was Shettima's protégé. Zulum would have been the perfect fit but he wanted a second term as a governor hence Shettima. This isn't about religion.

Bull crap

Aqesimitta:
How did fine Amaka ended up a Asha.wo in a popular city hotel wey All the Okada Riders and Taxi drivers dey pour c.um inside her still remained a mystery?

See Jamb, See Question!

Na greed for money & lack of contentment wey cause fine Amaka to turn into ashawo wey truck pushers, agberos & bandits dey fucck & pour inside

Wallade:
I remember the day wey I visited you wey you dey do laundry for your woman, including her pants and bras.

But I never see you fight another man for woman, maybe you go fit do am sha.

I no send you anyway, that is why I never talk the matter till today.

If you like, vex say I cast you. There is a transformer near your house, just go hug am when power dey ohhhhhh

Bro, na joke I dey o
No take am personal

Wallade:
Brother, you dey bust my head . I read your article and I could not stop laughing at the circumstances men could experience with respect to women.

Unfortunately, they are necessary evil that we must manage. Anyway, big ups to you. I can relate with the various simps you narrated. I am not any of them and I don't wanna be.

Bro u sure say u never wash pant for
woman or fight ur fellow guy cos of woman?

advanceDNA:
Yeah it's a bias...thats because Men and women see sex differently...while it's betrayal for both genders..

Men see sex as conquest...thats why you'll here men say i chop that babe, i finish am, I meet am today, I slay am today...she cheap gaaan.......

When another man sleeps with their girl..she has been cheaply conquered...she is considered cheap for spreading her legs for someone that approached her randomly....

Why will I want to call you my queen and love when you are another man's or even several men's bóoty call/bìtch..

One bottle of trophy for u

femicyrus:
I'll recommend you should learn from pastor adeboye how to be Christlike.
Criticize bad leadership policies like Christ criticized the pharisees for leading the synagogue astray but not be partisan to the extent of trying hard to determine who a political party should field in an election by religious blackmail

Was it not the same Adeboye that was used to garner support for this evil govt.?
Was he not part of those who endorsed this govt. & also failed to speak out for the downtrodden, persecuted & marginalised Christians.
Your mentor Adeboye was partisan when he endorsed the evil APC govt. because his annointed son Osibanjo is part of the govt.

femicyrus:
CAN had a VP in this failed government but never called him out when Christians are been killed/marginalised.
What is the guarantee that fielding another mix religion leaders in government will change anything?

If religion of a candidate is so important in solving our problems, why can't CAN form a political party that will make their member leaders in the country.
We have christian candidates in other parties too, why won't CAN queue behind such candidate in peace.
If I being a Christian can see beyond religion, how much more CAN.

I've not read in the Bible where Christ was so vocal about who should be fielded as political leaders

Oga u just dey yarn bull crap.
CAN never involved themselves in Tinubu's politics especially after they issued their first statement condemning his muslim/muslim ticket.
He is the one that has been desperately & dubiously trying deceive Christians into supporting him by making it look as if some sects of CAN have endorsed his candidacy.
Would u expect CAN to keep quiet & allow her members to be deceived or allow her reputation as the major representative of Nigerian Christians to be soiled?
Do u think if Christ is still here physically he would keep quiet & allow Christians to be deceived simply because he wants to be apolitical?

P1PrinceKT:
When will you let this matter die and move on ?

He said he can win without your votes !

Oga, he is the one desperately trying to impersonate CAN to deceive Christians into voting him.
Do u expect CAN to just keep quiet & allow herself to be impersonated & her members deceived?
U are sounding as if CAN are the ones looking for his trouble & not the other way round.
CAN is only trying to protect her image & to expose Tinubu's lies & evil desperation

Pukkalolo:
You right and wrong at the same time.

You right because actually people can change at any fucking time. A lady can be an amazing damsel before marriage, but once you wife her, she turns evil. You'd be asking yourself, "where is that sweet amazing lady I married?"

I've seen this happen couple of times to few married men I know. Apart from women, humans in general can be unpredictable.

But you're wrong because you can actually know the kind of woman you are involved with before getting married to her if you know WHAT YOU REALLY WANT in a woman. Just like Benee1000 pointed out, "You just have to be logical about it"

The reason why is hard for many guys to know the kind of woman they are involved with is because when they meet a new girl, the only thing they are thinking of is
"how can I make her like me"
or
"How can I get her to open her legs for me"
Or
"how I get her to agree to date me "

With those kind weak ass thinking, not only that you won't know the kind of girl you are involved with, you'll also be in a weaker position. She'll call shot.

Like I said earlier, you can actually know the kind of woman you are involved with if you know what you really want; or better put, if you know what you really DON'T want.

I, for example, there are some negative qualities in a woman I despise: I don't want a lady who's an entitled bitch. I don't want a lady who is highly deceptive and disingenuous. I don't want a gold digging, lazy ass, jobless hoe. I don't want a disrespectful and antagonistic bitch. And more importantly, I don't want a lady who doesn't like or fancy me.

The very moment I meet a new lady, one vital question roaming in my subconscious is, "what kind of lady am I dealing with?"

Once I detect that she has any of those above mentioned negative qualities, I'll stop giving her my attention asap; I'll dismiss her or dismiss myself immediately...

Because of my mentality of always thinking "what kind of lady am I dealing with?" I have become quite good in decerning the kind a woman I'm involved with before going far with her. Unideal as it might sound, sometimes I can even find out the kind of woman I'm dealing with in seconds or minutes of meeting her.

Most times if we want to buy a phone or any gadget, we often TEST the gadget before paying a dime for it. Nobody wants to pay for a gadget that won't serve them well.

Even an employer will often test a job seeker before giving he/she a job.

If you can smartly test a gadget before paying a dime for it, what is stopping you from testing a woman to see if she's worth it before getting too involved with her.

A lot of time, when a guy meets a girl he desire, he's always thinking "how can I make her like me, so she can date me or sleep with me?" but sadly, simply trying to make a girl like you doesn't help you get her. Trying to make a girl like you is sign of a low self-confident in you.

Sounds counterintuitive but the truth is, you need to careless about being liked by a girl to actually increase your chance of getting her.. Girls are most times curious and intrigued by a guy who's not scared of being disliked.

For example, ubunja might have pissed off lot of girls on nairaland with his posts but most of these females are actually intrigued by him, even though they might never want to admit it. They'll wonder in their mind what he's like in real life.

You can actually know the kind of woman you are involved with before getting too involved with her if you can change the goal of your interaction.

The goal of your interaction isn't to make a girl like you or convince her that you are friendly and nice enough.

The goal of your interaction is to figure out whether the girl has what YOU want in a woman so you can get closer to her OR whether she has what you DON'T want in a woman so you walk away from her immediately.

It means - when you are interacting with a lady you desire - you should avoid the boring and safe topics, and instead, be bold enough by bringing up real, raw (and even sexually-charge) conversations while also paying attention to how she responds to them.

When you try to bring up these real and raw conversation, you might upset her. But remember, if you want really turn a girl on, you have to risk upsetting her.

Thanks for this

Pukkalolo:
I'm responding to the tweet you posted that says,
"Worse thing to do with a girl?
Tell her how much you like her.
Women dig men whose feelings are unclear."

Lolz...In my opinion, I don't totally agree with that statement.

Here's why:

Ok...Yes, sometimes women dig men whose feelings are unclear, but sadly, Men sometimes also dig women whose feelings are unclear.

And that is the beginning of the problem .


Firstly, as a guy when you're not being clear about feelings and interest in a lady, you're playing games. Girls are expert at manipulation and mind games. The female gender are professionals when it comes to making their feelings unclear. You can't win women in that game because right from their little age, they've been trained to hide their feelings and always pretend.


The best way to win the game with women is to actually leave the game.

Infact, from my experience, women love operating in ambiguity, vagueness and unclearness. That's their main source of power when it comes to manipulating and exploting men.

Girls love it when you to make your feelings unclear, not because it makes make you more attractive but because it makes it easy for her to manipulate you.

After reading that tweet post you posted, I asked a lady who was with me...I asked her whether she prefer a guy who makes his feelings clear or the guy who's unclear about feelings. She said she prefers a guy who makes his feelings unclear. Wow!

I asked her "why"

She said, "when the guy makes his feeling clear, it will spoil the vibe."

I asked her, "What vibe?"

She said, " once a guy makes his feelings and interest clear, I might be forced to either reject him or accept him..."

I said, "isn't that a good thing...is it not good you reject a guy that you don't like so he'll stop disturbing you?"

Her next response exposed her intentions.

She said, "if I reject him and he leaves me alone, I'll not benefits anything from him."

I was curious, I ask "what do you mean by you'll not benefits anything from him ?"

She said, "you are acting like you don't know that there are so many benefits of being just friends with a man?"

Our conversation on that topic continued for over an hour..but I'll stop here for now.

I respect this lady alot because she's actually one of the fewest sincere lady I've ever met.

Her point is, ladies benefits alot of things from being friends with a guy; things like money, employment offer, expensive date, free lunch, free tickets, free attention and so on

When this girl said "when the guy makes his feeling clear, it might spoil the vibe," what she meant is that it might spoil her opportunity to manipulate and exploit him.

This is why most times when a guy meet a lady he likes and then he makes his feeling clear, she might give him unclear and ambitious response like

"I need to take my time..."

or

"I don't want to jump into any thing yet, let's take things slow"

Or

"I'll think about it"

or worse

"let just be friends for now."


Sadly, Men fall for those lines all the time. Basically, she's not saying YES or NO. She's giving him a Maybe(unclear) response. Ladies needs to give you this unclear response so you that you can continue chasing her, so she can exploit you. And more importantly, that's why she prefer you don't make your feelings clear.



The statement "Women dig men whose feelings are unclear," is not totally correct, at least from my experience. That's because most girls who I ended up dating, I actually made my feelings clear to them. Infact the current girl I'm with, if I had not tell her I like her and made my feelings clear ASAP I would have lost her to someone else.

But again, some guys might argue against that. They'll say, "when you make your feelings clear, you've giving her power; because now she knows you like her, she'll start giving you attitude"


Note: When I say make your feelings clear, I don't mean telling her things like, "I love you... I'm in love with you... I can't stop thinking of you...." Or any other bullshit. That's not making your feelings clear; that's making your neediness and stupidity clear.


The truth is, Women DON'T dig men whose feelings are unclear, what women actually dig is, men who they can't easily manipulate and wrap around their fingers.

Making your feelings clear is not giving her power; you only give her power when you start acting like a simp.

When I'm interacting with a lady I admire, often make my feelings and interest very clear in a very confident and detached manner. If she's resisting me or playing hard to get, I'd never start being too persistent; i'd never start trying to convince her to accept me. When I see that she's not giving me the feedback I want, I'm very quick to move on. No time. I've low tolerance for ladies who don't fancy me.

It is foolishness to wast time, effort and money chasing after a woman that's giving you hard time. Anytime you're being too persistent and chasing after a girl that's giving you hard time, you are only disrespecting yourself and also disgracing yourself.




Let me give a real life example making your feelings clear in a more detached and confident way:

About last month or so, a guy who knows about me, messaged me and told me about a lady he's close to. he likes her so much, but he said he doesn't know where he stands with her. He said sometimes she act hot today, then act cold towards him tomorrow. She's pratically playing games with him. She has all the power.

This guy told me he made is feeling for her unclear and he never tell her how much he likes her, but despite that she's not still digging him. Infact he's the one digging her badly.

He ask me what to do about the situation. I told him to stop playing games and that he actually has to make his feelings clear, but in a more detached and confident way.

I told him to tell her something as simple as this:
"[insert her name], I have no interest in being your next platonic friend...if you don't have any interest in me romantically, then I'll fucking leave you alone."


When he told her that through WhatsApp, he showed me her response.

Her response was, "Wow! I don't know what to say right right"

He asked me what to say next... I told him not to reply her anymore. He left her chat that way.

About a week later, she messaged him again. Saying "Hello", But he ignored her message again. She messaged him again. He ignored her again as I advised. Remember, Most ladies can't stand being ignored. They'll feel like they've lost.
She finally called him on the phone. She ask him why he's ignoring her chat...and all... He stayed in control; no simping.

I won't go into much detail...but to cut the story short, this guy now as the power now. If you know what I mean.


In my experience, when you meet a girl, and you're intentionally trying to make your feelings unclear so she can like you more, you are only hurting your chance with her in the long run. Although, initially, it might seem like she's digging you, but somehow somehow, you'll eventually lose her.

But, the more boldy you make your feelings clear and not give a shit about her reaction, you'll be flooded with more romantic opportunities in the long run. Although, initially, it might seem like you're losing out, but somehow somehow, you'll eventually win.

This is just my experience.
Sometimes, you’d be surprised how a girl will respond with attraction and respect when you make you feelings clear in a confident and detached manner. But the biggest mental hurdle for many guys is the ability to handle that initial "negative/undesirable response" they get from girls when they make their feelings clear. As a guy, it's very important, you develop an I-don't-give-a-shit attitude towards how a woman respond to you.

Like I said, women actually dig a guy who they can't easily manipulate and wrap around their fingers --- and that's a guy who doesn't truly gives a shit

The truth is, when you develop an I-don't-give-a-shit attitude towards how a girl respond to you, you won't be scared of making your feelings clear.



Stay blessed brothers.

We learn daily

OMOJOHN001:
I have been Dating this babe for the past three years and it has not been so easy funding the relationship and other expenses, but God do come through and I still do achieve lots each year.

But this year have been so worse on her own part, because as for me my income still comes on a steady but I felt I need more money to do lots of things at the moment.

Since January this year, I have be the one Financing this babe, To an extent that each week I will ask her to go withdraw money and prepare what she will eat throughout that week, But to my surprise her family will join her in consuming the dish before mid week, atimes Wednesday, a times Thursday, and She will start crying again of not having anything to eat, They do not have anything in the house, No gas, no oil, no garri and all sort of Nonsense...

Her family is just to broke, She has a single mother, though her dad is dead. RIP to him,he was responsible while on earth.

She has been loyal, good and supportive to me the best way she can, I don't even have sex with her on regular bases, Reason is that I am on a course in UniIlorin presently and she stays in Ile-Ife so the distance is another issue, but we still see at least whenever we feel like.

Guy's, I am planning of getting a car this year and start a new life in another state, all my effort have been stagnant a bit because of this babe, She does not just have #5 on her own, She's not working because there is no work in ile ife that can fetch her above 12k, unless she wan add olosho to it though and the only work there is Filling station attendant and Hotel work couple with part time olosho.

Ordinary weaving of hair, I will carry it, Every Penney she has spent this year is my money,

Her mom too, lacks maturity. Imagine her having the gut's to demand me for meney as in-law few weeks ago that she's sick, though I sent her little cash sha, but I decided that same day will be the last day she will hear from me, as I have a plan that very day to break up with her daughter this month and I have choosing today.

Guy's I love this babe and I really want the best for her, For the past three years most of her friends have try to convince her that I will break up her heart and Jilt her, But she was adamant and keep believing I will not, seriously I didn't have such thought in my plans for her.

But with her level of reachedness and Level of needs and Demand and I deserve better, I am moving on with my life, My pastor said something in church today as per fathers day... HE SAID PRAY NOT TO MARRY INTO A FAMILY WHEREBY YOU WILL START FIGHTING ANOTHER SPIRITUAL BATTLE OF POVERTY AND BROKENESS. .

I felt so down, cuz the prayer is the definition of my babe's Family. local man is tired, But the only fear and my concern is (How she will be mocked and laugh at among her mates that told her this prophecy before, This babe so much love me and she will cry hell today,).

I am feeling guilty, How will she cope without having an helper, No Father and Mom is useless. She will have no choice than to start fucking dicks up and down to survive, that's certain, and she knows it.

PLEASE HOW CAN I STOP FEELING GUILTY, because she's really put all her hope in me and my plan us to help her with a shop once I am through with my course,but Omo the billing no be here oooo, I will still send her money today to prepare this week food and her family will devour everything again before Wednesday.

What's the best way to approach this issue. Help a brother.

Guy, the truth shall set u free.
The truth is that u are actually a simp, but after this, u will be emancipated from ur folly. Consider the following points:
1. U are under no obligation to provide for a girl u are merely dating because it is not ur responsibility to do that irrespective of whether u are doing same for ur own parents & siblings too or not.
2. This ur so called girl may not really love u per say, but of course she would pretend with tears & fake emotions because she knows u are her maga & once she loses u, all the help from u will be lost.
3. The only thing u may most likely be getting from her is sex & don't be surprised that there may be some other nigga lurking in the corner who is enjoying the same sex from her without ever doing anything for her.
4. Try & imagine what will happen if the roles were reversed & u are a poor dude while she is well to do.
Do u think she will be with u?
Will her manipulative mum still rate u?
Will the girl lift a finger to help u?
Won't she display her full hypergamous nature & ditch u for a rich guy?
5. Lets reverse the roles again. This time around, imagine its a fellow guy, maybe a friend that is in her position.
Would u offer him any reasonable help as u have done to that girl?.

Bro, let me honest with u. All I see is a manipulative girl sucking u dry because u are obviously a simp. Her equally manipulative family are also tapping from the benefits ur simpiness.
She will continue sucking u while compensating u with sex (which u can easily get elsewhere by the way).
When she luckily meets a man that is far better than u in terms providing for her lazy ass, she won't think twice before dumping ur ass. Such girls never remember how u helped them before & they are so ruthless about it.

See, in every relationship, women are always out to cut the best deal for themselves. They see relationship as a business deal where they must seek their best interest & they will pretent to be submissive & loyal as long as the deal favours them. Once they have nothing else to benefit, they japa.
U too, u have to seek for ur best interest when relating with a woman.
All ur previous sacrifices for her can easily be forgotten by her when she feels she's done with u.

#Corpus callosum#

Kipaji:
Second best test of genuineness.
Would I be TOTALLY fine if this girl I'm helping gets savagely and consistently fuqed in all ways by a guy who hasn't done half of what I did?

Again, if the answer is anything but a clear and prompt "yes", the test is failed.

Funny but true

Datboredberri:
Nawa... Some men have just decided to not be useful...

U got a warm, tight pussy to offer that nigga or u just wanna vomit some bullshit to sound like a good girl?

Can u swear you've never ride dick or you've never swallow nut or never had a 3some?

We all know u a fuccking pretender.
So, don't judge a nigga who's trynna be real

pleboi:
So that day I been trapping hard since the early morning ... I and my homie been at the trap house with them bad boys indigenes of my school then... We were sipping on them crystals and green herbs.... Then I got a call from this bitch I been screwing since 100 level...she was like she misses me and the weather was cold she wouldn't want to be alone that night...So at exactly after 9 I and my homie were on our way to go see this thot... We got there her roomie was with her.... But gush! her roomie is damn ugly with a bony build... Anytime I was over there she would be giving me eyes like please come give me some of that dick...but I don't Bleep with you if you gat no as*... you know what I mean?... So my bro tried wooing her but her ugliness was forming... And she left the room... By after 11 I have already eaten to my fill and took one more stick of the blunt... I sprang into action with the thot and my homie was lying at the other side....I bleeped this bitch so hard she was begging me to cum.... She was like babe ain't you done yet... Surprisingly after she asked that question I still bleeped her for 30 more minutes and she cummed hard before I cummed.... She got that thick wet pussy and the thick body with big ass and big tits the complete package...When I was done the thot stagggerd to the bathroom and after that went to bed happy.... I and my homie could not sleep till day break cus that area was full of oppositions/enemies and also cus of the crystal meth... My homie later confess say konji don kill am as I de bleep that banny! Lol

U are a dumb ass selfish m*therf*cker.
Why couldn't u invite your homie to have a taste of the thot's warm pussy?
Nigga, a party ain't bad at all.
If da bitch can take a cock in her pussy & another cock in her anus at the same time, then u should have gang banged her silly ass.
I bet u, her flat assed roomie would have also surrendered her pussy if she sees your nigga having a feel of the pussy, cos she'll be so fuccking jealous & would wanna prove herself.
U bitch ass m*therfucckers would have enjoyed a foursome lastly

U are a wise man bro.
Kudos to u for this

Lacash:
Hello house, pls I have something really bothering me here and I want you all to help me throw more light to it. My girlfriend told me there is this male colleague of her at work who always appears so holy and saint. According to her, they do greet normally as a colleague sharing the same office, but there is no much rapport between them. But getting to work about two days ago, she met him at the entrance of the office, then she stretched forth her her to shake him, but instead of shaking her, he stretched forth his fist to her telling her to chop knuckle which she did, Lolz. Going to her seat, he called her back to shake his hand, and to her greatest surprise, he left condom in her palm, Lolz. She said she asked him what that was, and he said he did that because he’s in love with her…Lolz. Pls I want to know your thoughts on this. Cos to me, I believe he’s only perceiving her as a bleep Object. Mature contributions only, bikonu…�

That girl ain't telling u the truth bro.
Make a secret investigations (check her chats or investigate from her other work colleagues or friends) & u may be shocked that she is already giving the guy greenlight but she's pretending not to like the guy in ur presence so that u will trust her & not suspect her with the guy.
Don't even be surprised to discover that the guy may have already fuccked her.
A guy can't develop confidence overnight to suggest sex to a female colleague especially when she claimed they don't rapport unless she has been sending him subtle signals.
Even if u discover that they truly don't rapport, it is very possible that she might have been giving him signals.
You know most women like to seduce or gain the attention of men wey no send them or give a damn about them.
They love mysterious men & non-conformists, which her colleague happens to be assuming they truly don't rapport together.

#Basal ganglia#

CaveAdullam:
1. Women have three lives: private(sexual, lustful, dark side), public(obvious, real, innocent, angelic), and fake(social media, friends, simps).

2. Like women, every other human has different masks they put on for each occasion every day. Take for example our bodies: it is full of scars, but in a fine dress people appreciate us while remaining oblivious to the scars

The dress is a mask. The belly cover is a mask. The head is a mask. Our characters and attitudes are masks.

3. The secrets of her private life are for her knowledge alone and the men she allows access to in terms of sex or trust or both.

A1. The man who can unleash her from her sexual bondage and takes her to the edge is the man who is aware of this side.

A2. The man who's not judgmental about her sexual side because both of them have similar experiences is the man she can trust and can relate with - both may or may not fvck.

B. The other group of persons who are aware of this private life is other women in the sisterhood, they are like the men she trusts because they share something in common: similar sexual escapades.

C. To know about her sexual side she must trust you and you must be appealing sexually or share similar escapades. Why is this important?

a. Trust means you will not reveal her secret to those who only know about her two other lives.

b. Not being judgmental means she can have leeway to explore to the fullest with no hindrance in sight.

c. Guys love to KISS AND TELL because fvcking women are like conquering a warrior (see this from an evolutionary perspective as a result of the costly nature of a woman's egg).
On the other hand, women hate KISS AND TELL because it signifies that they are fallen warriors. It means they are cheap. It means their value has reduced. It means a drop in suitors rate.

4. Real life is the one her neighbors, family members, and CLOSE FRIENDS are aware of. That is, the religious angelic innocent good looking girl.

a. She is the obedient girl. The girl wears tattered clothes and wrappers in the neighborhood. The girl without make-up.

b. 99% of the time she's on this mode because most times she's around these people. She has established her character and behaviors that blend perfectly with this life and people have become aware of it. Do you know the importance of this?

bi. It will make these people come to her defense when any accusation is raised against her.

bii. It makes these people doubt her private life when there is any tiny revelation about it.

viii. Redpill says AWALT( All Women Are Like That) but these people(Bluepill) always counter with NAWALT( Not All Women Are Like That). Both the red pill and blue pill draw their conclusion as a result of these lives.

biv. Both are correct. But AWALT is more correct. NAWALT believes every woman will act in the SAME WAY ALL THE TIME. But that's not what the red pill says in AWALT. AWALT means every woman has that TENDENCY to act in the SAME WAY under the right condition, place, and with the right person.

To simply: Every human has that tendency to eat but not every human eats at every sight of food. However, all humans eat because hunger and food are positively correlated and hardwired into their psyche.

5. The social media life is the one she portrays from the confinement of her locality, outside her locality, or WITH HER FRIENDS - NOT CLOSE FRIENDS. Refer to 4 above.

a. It is this social media life that she used in tracking and trapping simps and thirsty men. This is because one can manufacture different social lives in different styles within a short period, and it is very fast.
The second reason: social media is ubiquitous and accessible to many people in many different localities.

b. As a result of this effect of social media, she can easily amplify her lifestyle, leverage it, and accrue her wants/needs.

c. The effect of social media is the bolstering of the entitlement mentality. Because she can be able to amplify herself via social media and latch upon men who are not cognizant of her other two lives.

d. Because of this social media use, she develops a sense of grandiosity. Arrogance is here. The misdemeanor is here. Contemptuousness is here. A lack of poor character is here. Lack of accountability is here. No sense of responsibility is here. No development is here. Pride is here. HYPER-hypergamy is here.

e. If she looks down on men it is because she leverages social media use. Simps and thirsty men are helping with the amplification because they are unaware of her other lives, and if they know they will no longer accord her the usual respect she garners from nothing.

f. When she meets other women who happen to be her friends and accomplice she maintains this life because it is a game of testing who has a good social media advantage over the other.

6. Women then misconstrue this social media advantage as REAL VALUE. Remember: women are status sensitive. So, if they can engage a king, automatically, they become queens even though they lack the prerequisites and materials needed for sustaining an empire.

7. They judge other men low because these men are not up to the standard of the men they frolic with.

8. Men are judged by their achievements. While women are judged by the caliber of men that are committed to them. No matter how big or rich a woman becomes, she needs a man, a high-value man, and society will first judge her using this yardstick. It is because of this reason she uses her proximity to high-value men to judge other men.

9. Since women can act this way, it means they can fool anyone who wants to hinder them be it Father, brother, husband, shepherd, or tyrant.

For this reason, necessary quality parenting and leadership are important in the lifecycle of a woman. And with it plus her willingness to cooperate, she can display her best. Men don't care about a woman's status, provided she oozes feminity and she is smart.

To end this note: DAY 188, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Don't buy into women's propaganda, develop yourself because of yourself and your love for humanity. (However, women always seem to be effective catalysts to achieving this aim).

Cc. Tonnyray, JESHAL, DEMZEE, Martinez39s

Perfect piece

Teetee777:
People don't know much about Nigerian politics or Nigerian history.
Nigerians are divided into 3 regions which consist of Hausa/Fulani, Yoruba and Igbo.
Hausa/Fulani consist of Muslims, and Christians and some people want to use politics to divide them through religion.

Some people will say northern Christians will not vote for northern Muslims, while northern Muslims will not pick northern Christians as a candidate but no matter their differences in their religion, Northern will never support other non-northern irrespective of their religion.

Look at the case of banditry in northern states, upon the atrocity of the Fulani tribe towards the Hausa tribe, you will never see them go against themselves, but look at other tribes in southern states how they killed themselves over land.

Northern is northern irrespective of their religion, they will never support southern against their tribe. There is nothing like northern Muslims or northern Christians among them but all are northern tribes.

Southern candidates should not expect the vote from northern especially southeast candidates, one of the tribes that northern hate in Nigeria as of today is the igbo tribe. Igbo tribe always abuse the north at every slight opportunity and you expect the illiterate northern to vote for your candidate, politics is not like that.

Before APC primary election, I said that the northern would never vote for southern Christians in an election when they have the opportunity to vote for southern Muslims, that's what plays out between Tinubu and Osinbajo.

Upon all people in the race of presidential election and you except northern Muslim and northern Christian to vote for Peter obi even those Igbo tribes that are living in the northern part of the country will tell you that it will never happen.

U just displayed ur shallow & poor knowledge about the north & its politics.
U fall into the large category of southerners who falsely assume that all the pple from the geopolitical north hate southerners especially Igbos.
Let me use Taraba state as a case study.
A state like Taraba state has always voted PDP (Obasanjo, Yar'adua, Jonathan both in 2011 & 2015) unanimously.
Buhari has contested elections 5 times & he lost 5 times in Taraba state in favour of southern candidates of PDP especially in situations where southerners were presented. Go & check the records

Taraba is geopolitically classified as a north eastern state.
If we are to go by ur false & misleading analysis, can we say that Taraba state hate southerners even though they have overwhelmingly voted for Obasanjo & Jonathan?
Is that not an insult on the sensibilities of Tarabans & most other northern Christians in Plateau state, southern Kaduna, Adamawa state, Gombe state, Nasarawa state & southern Borno state who have consistently defied the odds & put their lives in danger to vote for southerners?
That APC won presidential election in some of these northern states does not mean that the northern Christians refused to vote southerners.
When the pro-Igbo Jonathan lost in 2015, he still got thousands of votes from northern christian. Its just that northern muslim votes overshadowed the christian votes due to their higher population advantage.
U seem to erroneously view the geopolitical north as a homogenous society where everybody (Christian & muslim ) have the same view & approach to situations.

It is quite sad & unfair that u had to insult, blame & malign the long-suffering northern Christians over ur failure to win elections in Nigeria.
Northern Christians have over the years, displayed true love & support for a southern (Igbo ) presidency.
Go to most of these states, interact with indigenes & u will change these myopic views of urs.
Ur problem is entirely self-inflicted.
U lack purpose, direction & unity to fight for a common cause.
U have poor knowledge of politics, hence u guys have failed to build bridges with other ethnic groups & seek their support in a non- arrogant manner.
Many of ur frontline politicians have also betrayed u guys to the northern Hausa/Fulani hegemonists in exchange for a 'plate of rice'.

With all the support of northern Christians to Igbos, they are constantly insulted with derogatory names like 'aboki', 'malam', etc.
When Igbos start attacking pple of northern origin because of any misunderstanding with Hausa/Fulani, they never spare northern Christians who are peaceful & profess the same Christianity with them.
U guys classify peaceful & easy-going northern Christians as Hausa & kill them together with the real muslim Hausa/Fulani that might have caused the problem initially.
Its shocking that the same Igbos who have the highest voter apathy in Nigeria are blaming northern Christians for their political failures

I just decided to respond to ur misleading comment that is riddled with false assumptions & half-truths aimed at misleading the public & currying sympathy to urselves (Igbos) for ur problems (which are entirely self-inflicted by the way).
Ur lame attempt at blaming northern christians for ur political woes is dead on arrival.
U don't galvanize support for Peter Obi through blame games, lies & emotional blackmail.
That is not how life works

virginprincess:
How is it your business if i claim to be a virgin ,beside stop having this mentality that are girls are loosed and wayward like your girlfriend.

Toto wey guys don nack tire, u still dey claim virgin on top?

sorosoke101:
My parents never caught me, but my mom never wants to see me with any lady. Just this evening I brought a girl home to stay with me tonight in my own room oooh,after sneaking her in my room, I don't know how my mom found out. All hell was let loose I quickly bolted the door and all sorts of insult and curses have been landing on my head ooh. Can you imagine at the age of 34 my mom still wants to be breastfeeding me as if I am a kid.

U still live with ur parents at the age of 34?
Ur mum doesn't want to see u with a girl at ur age of 34, are u not due for marriage already?

Kipaji:
"Before I started writing this, she just left my place"
Lol, what was she doing there man?

She was riding his cock

Pukkalolo:
CaveAdullam, you've said alot hardcore things in this thread, and I totally agree with most, if not all of them. I must say, you are pretty much smart guy.

My problem with female shit test is that many guys see it the wrong way.

Yes, Girls test guys alot. In summary, she's shit testing you to find out if you're high quality guy she can mate with. If you pass her test, I guess she'll allow you have access to her sexual companionship.

If you do a quick Google search on how to pass the female shit test, you'll see hundreds of search results of different ways to pass the woman's test. But there lies the problem.

When it comes female shit test, the solution to the problem is actually the problem.

The problem isn't that a woman is testing you; the problem is that you are trying to pass her test.

Wierd, right?

Ok, let's go back to school for a moment. Why do you try to pass your teachers test? First off, you view your teacher as higher authority so If you don't pass the teacher's test, you'll be purnished.
Secondly, if you pass the teacher's test you'll be rewarded by being promoted to the next class or something.

Why are men so concerned about passing a girl's shit test? Well, because when you pass her test, you demonstrate to her that you're a strong guy, then her attraction for you goes up and she'll reward you by allow you have access to her sexual companionship. Isn't it?
If you fail her test, she assumes you're a low quality guy, and then she'll not allow you have access to her sexual companionship.

Mtcheew...To be frank, there are lots things that's wrong with this kind of thinking.

Paradoxically, trying to pass a woman's test means you perceive her as higher authority than you. It means you feel she's has more value than you. It means you feel she's above you.

Think of it, if you see of yourself as more valuable than the woman, then you won't really give a shit about her passing her shit test. You'll even get irritated when you sense that she's trying to test you.


Wait, let me throw light on what shit test is.
A female shit test can come in different form:
* it can come in form of her throw confrontational questions/statements at you.
* it can come in form of her insulting or criticizing you.
* It can come in form of her giving you attitude or disrespecting you.
* It can come in form of trying to bait you to do things for her or spend for her.

If you look at these different forms of shit test, you see that she's just acting like an entitled bitch.

Remember most young girls in their prime have entitlement problem, and they often feel they are above men.



When a girl allow you sleep with her, that doesn't necessarily mean you've pass her test. Even if you fail her shit test by doing foolish things for her, she can still reward you with the pussy. For example if you act like a simp towards her by treating her with lots of financial favour and non-financial favour, she can still reward you with the pussy for doing all those favour for her.

Crazy as it sound, a girl might shit test you, and you pass all the test like a bad guy, then she gives you the pussy as a reward. After getting the pussy you feel like an alpha male, but then then you later realize she's has giving you HIV or gonorrhea.

My point is, getting a girl to give you sex doesn't really mean shit. A girl agrees to sleep with Desmond but she refuse to sleep with Smith. But that doesn't mean Desmond is a better person than Smith. That doesn't mean Smith is not an high quality guy.
Getting sex from a girl doesn't automatically mean you are an amazing guy. You should never define your self-worth by your ability to get a girl to date you or sleep with you.

Back to female shit test talk.

The thing is, if I say "stop trying to pass a female shit test"..... then I'm not giving a good advice...because passing a woman's shit test actually shows you're a strong guy.

The real question is, why are you trying to pass her test?

If you're trying to pass her test so she can like you more and give you access to her pussy, then you are of all men most miserable.

But if you're trying to pass her test because you hate being dominated by a lady and you feel that by passing her test she would see that you she can't easily play you, manipulate you or exploit you.... then you are smart guy.


Instead of trying to pass her shit test, you should be the one testing her to see if she's worth your attention.

You might find it hard to believe, but the truth is, Not every girl is worth your attention:
*Maybe she just wanna add burden and problems to your life.
* Maybe she want to give you STD.
* Maybe she's just looking to manipulate you and exploit you.

The idea is not to try to pass her shit test, the idea is to walk away from her as soon as she tries to messes with you.

When I'm interacting with a lady, my mentality is, "once she bleeps up or act like an entitled bitch, I'm dismissing her immediately"

When a girl is acting like an entitled bitch, I'm not thinking "how will l pass her test so I can sleep with her?" Instead I'm thinking "Is it not time for me to dump this entitled bitch?"

Guys always think I’m fronting or exaggerating when I say that I never date manipulative or entitled ladies. I only roll with sweet girls who are respectful, submissive and supportive.

How do I accomplish that?
Because I'm willing and always ready to walk away from girls from who act like entitled bitch. I am totally harsh when it comes to this. Infact I'm a huge jerk when it comes to this.

When a girl start saying nonsense or start misbehaving, I just walk away like that. I wouldn't even tell her I'm leaving. I’ll walk away when she's still mid sentence talking. I don’t give a shit wether she gets upset or not. I value myself and therefore I will not spend a second with a lady that do not value me.

The funny things is, attractive ladies in their prime can’t take this. In their mind, they be like, "who's the hell does this guy think he is"....."what is he even feeling like"

Some of the ladies often try to change their behavior, and try to get my attention back.

As soon as they know I'm willing to move on at any moment, they try not to mess with me.

And the funny is that dating actually feels easier with this mindset because I don't waste time, money and energy trying to convince her to like me. I'm not stressing myself wondering whether I'm saying or doing the right thing.

If I'm not impressed with her behavior or she's not giving me the vibe I want, I simply walk away. No making excuses. No arguing. No apologies. I just bounce away.

Here's a real life example to explain what I'm talking about. 2 weeks ago, during the weekend, I was hanging out with my homies at a cool joint. One of my guy hosted a little get together... so we were just chilling and have fun. They were couple of ladies around. I started interacting a lady who was with us. She is a friend to one of my homie's girlfriend who was also present with us.

I and this girl conversation was actually flowing well, I was liking her already. Before I knew it, she said something that turned me off. She said she's looking for guy that'll buy her Brazilian wig; basically she said "Mehn, the only guy that can win my heart right now is the guy that buys me Brazilian wig and a big large pizza, then take me go shopping."

Before she even completed her sentence, I had already started walking out of her. I left her mid sentence. I didn't even looked back to see how she reacted, but I was sure she's was shocked by my behavior.
Through out the the rest of the get together, I tried my best to avoid her like plague.

Right there at the get-together, she was already telling one of my homie, that 'I'm so cocky and so full of myself, and that what's even special about me.'

Funny enough, about 40 minutes later, after I walk away from her, she approach me and try to initiate conversation with me again. She asked why I left her just like that. I confidently told her, "I got bored talking to you."

She was shocked by my response: no guy has ever told her something like that.

Then she said, "If it was because of what I said about Brazilian wig and a guy taking me out on shopping...I didn't really mean it... It's just normal girls talk, and I was just trying to pull your legs."

Lolz...I accepted her indirect way of apology. After that, we started flowing again. Her respect and attraction for me actually increase more after that incidence. Before I started writing this, she just left my place.

You might say I passed her shit test. But passing her test was not the goal. The goal was walking away from her silly ass once she says or does something I don't like.

Remember guys, Never tolerate bullshit from women. Getting respect is better than getting sex. Put your self-respect over anything else.

Stay blessed brothers.

One of the best inputs in this thread so far

Meedon:
Last year, a pastor took someone's wife from the church he went to minister (he usually come there for Crusades) and married her.

The husband was heartbroken, but he couldn't do anything. This said woman have given birth to 5 children before this pastor took her.


Everything Ubunja revealed here is valid. Pastors are very rich in pussy and resources.

Pussy wey don born 5?
Wetin remain for pastor to enjoy there?

He will soon get tired of the pussy & dump her ass

ubunja:
yes, men can turn down sex due to self-control and morality issues. That's commendable. The "but" here is that no man must think doing so has a bearing on how women view him. As concerning value and worth.
Because at the end how it plays out is That pucc you're passing on to appear special/different from other men, the lady is just going to take it to another guy! Usually some guy who's always available for quick cheap no-stress sex. Some guys just make it so hard and complicated to give them sex girls simply stop offering.

I'm sure we've all heard of a situation where some morally upright gentleman of a guy had a lady always visiting him acting funny for him but the guy was always "controlling" himself until the lady gave up, stopped visiting and somehow ended up getting pregnant for some clown.
What the gentleman did is really not playing hard to get in the dating sense, he just missed opportunities.

Okay let's switch genders for better clarity.

How does a woman play hard to get?

We go back to the foundation of male/female dynamics: Men love sex, Women love money. Men want sex, Women want money.

A woman then plays hard to get by being stingy with SEX. Cause sex is what men want.
While a man plays hard to get by being stingy with LOVE aka commitment, cause that's what women want.

A man doesn't play hard to get by refusing sex just as a woman doesn't play hard to get by refusing love/commitment/money. A man takes the sex but refuses to give the woman that one thing she wants (love/commitment/money) -that's him playing hard to get. Because until a man is in love or committed the woman hasn't actually got him.

Same way,,, a woman takes the love, commitment and money that's offered to her but denies men that one thing they all want: sex. Cause until a woman has given a man sex, the man hasn't actually got anything worthwhile from the woman. He hasn't yet "got" the woman.
The moment of truth for women is when a man finally commits. And the moment of truth for men is when a woman finally gives sex.

If you're a woman it doesn't matter if Davido or Chris Brown wants to sleep with you. What matters is Do they want to commit?Do they want to marry you? That's the question cause that's what really determines your worth IN THEIR EYES. Being good enough for sex is inferior. Being good enough to committment is superior. Its when a man commits that you have got got him.

That's why when a woman cheats a man's first question is "Did you sleep with him?" Cause for men there's nothing serious until sex happens.
And when a man cheats women's first question is "Do you love her?" Cause women understands that men will fucc anything, its when a man commits that things become serious.

Men and women are looking at sex and love from opposing sides, so what they value, what they see as valuable, is also opposed.

When a girl tells her friends "Moses loves me!" What do the friends ask? They ask, "What has he done for you?!"
Meanwhile, if a guy tells his friends, "Dorothy loves me!" They're going to ask "Did she let you smash?"

Which is to say, A woman can't say "Moses loves me cause he had sex with me". Not really, cause sex is not something men control. Just as a man can't say,"Dorothy loves me cause she bought me this and that". Cause a womans commitment is worthless. As long as he hasn't smashed Dorothy, his friends can't really be convinced Dorothy loves him. Cause the only thing of value Dorothy has is the pucc. Until she puts that on the table, she's holding back.

All this is to illustrate both men and women understand the "moment of Truth" concerning each gender. A woman can't use commitment to show a guy she loves him, just as much as a man can't use sex to show a woman he loves her. Women express love by sex, men express love by commitment. Hence that woman who's hard to fucc is the woman everyone fights for cause she has value.Just like that man who's hard to commit is the man everyone fights for cause he has value.
Which brings us full circle back to the virgin and the Bad boy as the most valuable in the dating field.

What of prostitutes who Bleep hundreds & thousands of men?
If we are to go by your analysis, can we conclude that they show love by offering sex?
Or are they some kind of exception from what u are saying?