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fisayodayo:
I taught in a primary school as a class teacher, I teach more than 10 subjects.
My pay then was 4.5k, I was employed with school cert. then.
After NYSC, I joined a private school that pays 45k, I teach 3 subjects in just a class of 15 students. PC, AC , a table and a comfortable chair.
But yet I wasn’t satisfied why?
1. Cost of living, my tent is around 150k
2. Parents are terrible plus you can’t discipline those children because CCTV is everywhere.
My pupils boasts that I can spank them because I will sacked if I do so. Hmmm
Pupils are spoilt brat and the day you lose temper you may be arrested by police through parents.
Now, I’m out of the school to focus on something else.
Very soon, I will start teaching in a university .

LeoDeKing:
What nonsense?

Is it that the fed govt is so deaf that it didn't hear what Ekweremadu planned doing to a naive boy?

Just getting set to waste our tax payers money on a useless idiot.

BlueAir:
This can only work for hungry women without class and moral training. I know some women I can bet my scrotum,if u try this for their wedding, e go come be like say u make mistake come

Sukkyy2010:
Why acting all this drama, that's denote you've not get over her be that now.

Tonnyray:
Wrong move.
Never form what you are not to impress a female.
1. No woman is worth it and the worthy ones you never have to fake it to impress.
2. More importantly it's a gross disservice to your person.

OutOnBail:
LMAO, Nollywood don mess you up

Dksmile:
With all this actoins who is now deceiving him self you or your ex ,pls I need answer Oga nollywood director .

Divay22:
Any fruit but not cucumber

Stallionhorse:
Lol... Any guy that challenges me in front of my woman.. I always ignore and do like a gentle guy.. But few days later I mobilize my cartel and go and knack wetin no nice put for him body.. Thats why my woman can swear with her life I can't harm a fly.. Meanwhile I'm one of the most brutally feared cult guy in my town.. Wisdom.. Good sha.

Kipaji:
(7) You wouldn't like your kids to arrive in this world through a hole that has been first explored by another man and through a womb that contains other mens' DNA

( 8 ) You wouldn't like to marry a woman who is emotionally and spiritually tied to other men. Imagine sleeping next to a woman who dreams from time to time about the guy who deflowered her and other guys she met between him and you; and only god knows what she does in those dreams. How can you call a woman "your" wife when she is emotionally tied to other men, has been roughly fvqued by other men and (as is more often the case) considers you as a fall-back plan/safe option/financial parachute?

(9) Add yours...

Martinez39s:
Nice post!

I want to add something for the sake of contribution. The reasons pro-marriage redpillers like marrying sexually pure virgins or are advised to marry sexually pure virgins isn't because redpillers think a virgin's female nature is different. Of course we know AWALT is the case even for virgins and females emotionally change easily and rapidly with time. However, virgins are required by pro-marriage redpillers for the following reasons:

(1) sexually pure virgins women are the least "evils" in mate selection and choosing them will prevent you from certain unnecessary headaches that come with a woman's past baggages and embarrassing situations resulting from her sordid sexual past. I can explain further if you want.

(2) it's a red pill rule to go for the best you can. Why commit to and provide for a used pusśy when you can get a fresh used and pure one? Why commit to and go for an aged used pusśy when you can go for a young unused one?

(3) Why commit to and provide for something that other men have gotten for free without much effort? Why should you be treated treated differently?

(4) It is a red pill rule to get a woman at her best years. If she won't give you her best years or you didn't have her at her best years, don't take her at her decline. Put yourself first, go for the best and have some self-respect. If you are not yet established to marry a particular female at her best years, let her go to who is ready. When you are ready and established later, pick the one that is in her best years and makes a decent human being.

(5) If you will follow tradition to pay bride price for a woman, let her follow tradition to qualify for your bride price by being a young virgin who is sexually pure, among other things. Traditionalism works both ways. Don't partake in the nonsense of paying full price for hòe. Let simps and blue pill men rot in their stupidity.

(6) men must set good standards and not come cheap. Besides, women would go for the best and wouldn't settle if given the option. Why should yours be different? Men setting good standards and not compromising on it will incentivise more females to sit up to meet up (if they can't find their way around it and exploit loopholes). Though they won't change on the inside and will put in more effort to cover up their shenanigans so they can compete to meet men's standard.

(7) add yours (cc Ubunja, LordAdam16, Skepticus, JESHAL, CaveAdullam , etc)

Martinez39s:
Though we can end up agreeing to disagree, but it is good that we air our views and compare notes and experiences.

That being said, I will like you to note that the way women and the conventional male mind look at sex are different. Men are the ones that associate morality and ethics with sex and they project this on women due to ignorance.

To women, sex and having their fun is just like drinking water from a tap and there are no shame, morality or ethics females associate with sex; it is strictly enjoyment. Being the solipsistic, emotional and self-centered gender in the intersexual dynamics, they follow their emotions and "wonderful" experiences which they like when it comes to sex, especially when they think they won't get caught.

What is doggy to a female? What is sucking d!ck to a female? What is threesòme with two guys and double penetration to a female? Absolutely nothing! As long as she likes it, she knows can take it, and the secret opportunity is there, she has no problem. It is strictly enjoyment. Morals, ethics, upbringing or religion won't stop her from doing with the sharp guy what turns her on, the only that will stop her in such scenario is if she is not interested (ie. turned on) in the style and doesn't have the kink.

With women, there is nothing like sex styles and kinks for hoès/bad chicks/prostitutes/ slay queens and sex styles and kinks for good girls. Such distinction and classification don't exist with females, they only exist in the minds of naive men due to society upbringing. With females it is either they enjoy it or not, shikena!

This is why all girls are sexual freaks to the guys that turn them on and apply game. That's why as a married man if your wife is forming holy holy and refuses to give you doggy claiming it is the stuff of hoès and she picks offence, know that you are being scammed because she will giving it to the guy who turns her on and unleashes the inner hoè.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 167, REDPILL 2022

I don't care about a woman's dark side!

1. Humans are in their real form when no one is watching, they are free to do what they like because they are not threatened and opposed; they are not criticized and bedizened with arrows of shame and guilt. They just live for every moment as they have no one to please.

2. Men feign strength in the presence of others and women feign submissiveness. Pretense is a result of them being compelled by an outward entity to demonstrate or represent a realm of quality beyond their capacity. And as a result, you will not know their depth.

3. Women are more neurotic than men, and can easily let out their emotions, especially under pressure. However, with their dark side, they are very protective and secretive about it. The details of her dark side, her inner wh0re can only be ascertained by her; with the sisterhood, she is careful about this side of hers.

Women do relate with each other emotionally and can either render help to themselves willingly or grudgingly. They are careful about this dark side of themselves because when things go sour, women slut shame themselves even more than men thereby unleashing told secrets.

4. You can mistake superficiality for ingenuity during the vetting process and end up committing to a chameleon. You will be shocked when you discovered it by chance because you never considered her dark side when vetting.

How can you be able to get a glimpse of her dark side?

5. Romance is the damn of men, like wine in excess fill in the stomach, he ends up acting in weird manners even though wine also brings warmness, joy, and gladness to the heart. Romance and wine act similarly when it comes to men, but one is for beautiful maidens and the other for the stomach respectively.

6. To know this dark side, you must act on the same emotional plane as women. Not that you are foregoing logic and rationale, but you must be cautious about them as women shy into their shells when they first notice it because logic is an embodiment of criticism and judgment; those that are conflict avoidants stay aloof from this zone because the result if not favorable is ostracism. Keeping secrets is for this reason.

7. You need to connect with her on the same level of emotional bonding: bring yourself to her level, assume your ways are like hers or share a similar scenario you have experienced concerning this dark side. Make fun of it and express excitement about it. The essence is to make her feel relaxed. Once done, she begins to feel that you have a dark side too and will gradually let hers out. Amplify every little detail shared to get to the nitty-gritty. She may not expose all of her dark sides but at least, you will get hold of it and what it contains.

8. If you are eager to get her, that is, you are chasing her all around, she will not expose much of these details; the women you chase will never because they don't trust you enough and they will cover up for this dark side with grandiosity making you feel they are what they appear. Female celebrities in every sector of life are on this table. The grandiosity of some may be out of their achievement, however, it is this achievement that encapsulates their dark side.

To know about a book, you must read it.

Authority: Be wise.

Cc. Someoneschild2, dhiqson et al.,

BigDawsNet:
You don't hav to believe

But let me tell you another crazy fact... we hav Aliens here on earth in human form...

They hav our resembles
They speak out language and accent
They marry human and give birth
They are in government
They are celebrities

You can't identify them and you are not supposed to.. if you do, you may be gone forever

Martinez39s:
It’s not every greenlight one must respond to; It’s okay to ignore if you are simply not interested.

That being said, tell her to make time for both of you since she understands her guardians and the curfew, if any, they've set. Let her tell you when she is usually free or away from the prying eyes of her guardians so you both can know how you will see and bang the hell out of each other. If things are too cumbersome and hectic for you to navigate —as per when she free for you guys to meet— maybe because of the time, location, and extent of guardians monitoring, it is okay to close her matter and move on to other girls. If you linger, you risk the friend zone because you will inadvertently look desperate. When she is ready and free later on at a point (eg. her guardians relaxed; she now has a good job and she now stays on her own with freedom; schedule changed and is now convenient for you both etc.), she will come around. She will put in great efforts to see you if she wants you. Chill!

Note two of the following:

(1) Make sure you don't meet her at her place to fùck because if you both are fucking and someone unexpectedly drops by or her guardian who travelled or went to work comes back usually early, she will throw you under the bus unexpectedly even though she was enjoying it and screaming "harder! Faster!" She will say it was you who forced yourself on her, all to protect her image of a holy and chaste lady in the eyes of her guardian. Your only saving grace will be if the guardian or neighbour/visitor doesn't buy her smelly bullsh!t. The guardians will likely believe her since they see her as a good and upright girl, and the only for a good and upright girl to get your d!ck is through coercion... according to their mindset. Moreover, some guardians are crazy and they might harm you.

(2) Also, if you are fùcking her, don't overdo it so that she doesn't break her curfew. Once time has reached for her to go, demand that she leaves and come back when next she is free. Some women can be emotional that they get carried away by d!ck pleasure and damn all the consequences; if such happens and she comes back late and her guardian thoroughly questions and drills her to the point she can't lie or cover up, she will likely throw you under the bus to protect her image and the guardians will likely believe her since they see her as a good and upright girl, and the only for a good and upright girl to get your d!ck is through coercion... according to their mindset.

Any more questions?

Uzomacharles:
She will always break protocols if she wants you...

Martinez39s:
Nice! Another good way to put it.

Maintain your sharpness for life. One thing people don't take seriously is that all your efforts in maintaining frame right from the moment you met the girl wouldn't matter when you soften up and start simping big time down the road. It doesn't matter if you have been maintaining frame for twenty years and your application of the red pill has been impeccable so far, one or few moments of simping big time (or going amiss big time) can spoil everything and deal irredeemable damage. Your previous efforts won't save you. Ensure you are always on your A game.

Female nature won't let a woman allow a man she perceives as a beta and simp to get away with or successfully carry out alpha moves on her (except he has leverage and she benefits from tolerating such). Betas don't get away alpha moves. One a woman sees you as beta or simp (probably because you simped for her big time, defied red pill rules or you let her walk over you), it is nearly impossible for her to ever see you as an alpha again and give you alpha benefits. If she is in a marriage with, she will endure but the pussy has dried forever. First impression matters.

Counter opinions are allowed.

ubunja:
i hear you. but sometimes it's not that deep.