₦airaland Forum

thegroomspa:
My dear I don't want the film to play to the point where I will get to know they bleeped each other that could be suicidal...I acted fast but I can still handle myself now than.

Why do you think she's still single at 34? Generally, women that marry late are either super-focused on their career, which makes a lot of sense. Or they simply lack the capacity to trully be with a man.

No doubt that Zamfara is now a one-party state.

seanwilliam:
Russia is bleeding

Russia wants to blow up the dam

FhiBi:
He always want me to cook for him at least once a day and bring it to his office. On Saturday and Sunday,I'll be the one to come to his place and cook dinner for him.
If I default,he'll not eat anything. The thing is that he can cook but he depends on me all the time.

Manipulation

Lol.......Girls moan when fingered. Get a job, you'll stop thinking of useless things.

loliapoopy2013:
Am confused and don't know what to do. As am typing this message, am crying and devastated, my heart is broken into bits.

I have 2 sons, aged between 10 and 14. I have refused to live with any maid up till this time, fearing they might be abused.
Am into confectionaries, so despite my stressful business, I manage my boys as my husband works offshore.

A month ago, my mum brought a 19-years-old cousin who looks like a 14-year-old boy to assist me in kneading dough. I panicked because my husband has warned me never to bring any relatives to his house. But because he is a boy and my relative, and was very industrious, I never thought of anything evil, I let him stay.

Yesterday was my birthday, I didn't want to celebrate, but my friend brought me a cake which motivated me to go to the market to get goat meat for pepper soup.

According to my friend, immediately after I left the house, my 10year old son went to take his bath, and that's when my cousin followed. Not liking their movement, she went and peeped, and behold, she saw my cousin having anal sex with my 10-year-old son���. She started banging on the door and they immediately started taking their bath, pretending as if nothing happened.

My friend told me as I got back. I confronted my son about why did he not tell me. He said my cousin cut himself, drew out blood from his body, and warned him that if he tells anyone, he will die, fearing for his life, he refused to tell me. I asked him, why he didn't tell his elder brother, and he said his elder brother is always playing ball downstairs. I then ask him how many times have they done it, and he said almost 10 times. That at first he enjoyed it but he is beginning to feel pain and doesn't know how to end it. I ask my son to bend over, people! my son's anus is wide opened and filled with injury, ������

Please house, what do I do? These are my fears:

1. My son has been introduced to gay sex life by my evil cousin.
2. How can I help ( counsel) my son and rehabilitate him?
3. I might lose my marriage because my husband warned me to protect his kids from relatives.

I need advice from you guys please����������. Please, no insults. I will not purposely put my son in harm's way����.

You're a barst*** if you don't send that boy to jail. Just so you know the effect, most gays i know were raped by their family members.

Newman001:
I met her through facebook few months ago, we chatted and the rest is history. I wanted something serious with her and i told her severally because I wasn't too comfortable with the numerous calls she receives from guys.

One day a friend of mine told me that someone he knows collected her number and my so call girlfriend slept over at the guys place after just two days of knowing the guy. I confronted her, she denied initially but later owned up and apologized. I forgave her because I know no one is perfect.

Few days ago i put on auto record on her phone and this night she is at my place sleeping so i open the records and there is this particular conversation where she travel to a near by state to see another guy.
Im just confused right now. I have invested so much emotions on this gal and don't know what to do.

Despite that she is working and the little time she has, she spent it at my place she still got time to be meeting and sleeping with random men for money. I'm thinking of confronting and breaking up with her right now or just codedly place her on the level she deserves and let this slide.

Don't tell her. Enjoy!

Just so you know, Atiku believes that Federal Universities should be autonomous. I.E. Privatisation of Federal Universities.

Oduduwa707:
Nonsense! Olosho dey disguise.

Woman fine, she automatically turns olosho.

That convoy is in Traffic. BTW, you're standing by the roadside

Omo, the vileness on top this election ehn.

Eriokanmi:
That would be world against Russia. How would they win? Even the nuclear weapon they're bragging about has an antidote. While the fool is busy threatening to unleash nuclear war on his perceived enemies, the quest had stockpiled iodine in billion volumes serenely.

Let's see how far he'd go against the world. To those backing this foolish man, America is the fiercest when it comes to war. Once they make a step forward, they hardly go back until their enemy's lands are in ruins and that's why they hardly fight. War is their middle name . They should go and watch American war documentary. Maybe they'd have a sense of reasoning. Enough said

More than 75% of the world still trade with russia. By GDP value, more than 50% of the world still trade with russia. Nigeria's number 1 arm supplier is still russia--till date. Let's talk real life data.

Wait, is rivers APC cursed?

general111:
The question is, is she willing to change or not?
No matter how dark the past was, if a person is willing to change, then there is a glorious future ahead...

Meanwhile, The rate at which hook up is rising, 8 out of every 10 men will surely get married to a runs girl

Lol, someone that's willing to change will open up about her past.

YourLandMyLand:
perhaps they did it for the right reason.
the bibkle says thou shalt not suffer a kidnapper to live

Someone sent them. He's just a pun

GeneralPula:
A dirty fight. This seems to be a gang fight. He’s definitely in a fight with some people. His own Kakus or somebody else? Only him knows..

Looks like the same group that's trying to frame him for different sexcapades is behind this.

olatade:
What is a man of God doing with police escorts? Are there no angels to guide him as they preached to xtains in the bible?

It's not in my bible. Even Peter has a sword.

altcoinng:
https://altcoin.ng/twitter-founder-jack-dorsey-launches-new-social-network-bluesky-social/

Blockchain taking over

Yo

Obavoh:
My wife put to bed 2 weeks ago.

My mother usually takes care of her but her aunty decided to come this time.

I usually have sex with my wife 2 weeks after she puts to bed. It pains her a little but I am very gentle with her. She knows I am not a cheating husband that is why.

Last night as I tried to make love to her, she was crying as usual. Before you know it, her aunty started banging the door and was shouting that I want to kill my wife.

I felt so embarrassed and went tried to explain to her that it’s not so. She said if I try it again she will carry my wife and children back to the village and will return her bride price.

She asked me to wait for at least 4 months before I touch my wife again which I promised her I will as I did not want her to report to my wife’s family.

What can I do? I don’t want to cheat on my wife and I don’t want to disrespect my Inlaw by sending her away. She is a nice woman but she is making me uncomfortable in my own home.

You know it's paining her, yet your prick still dey erect? The though of hurting your wife a little should scare you if you truly love her.

I was shocked that people actually opposed his comments. Perhaps they just didn't understand.

@DaddyFreeze2020

Anyone abusing Tinubu on this matter is just being woke. We have a collective responsibility, no doubt. But the West are borderline hypocrites on this matter. Coal for example is the cheapest source of energy. It is by far cheaper than nuclear, natural gas, oil.

Africa is responsible for only 2% of climate change emissions, and we signed a pact stopping us from investing in coal plants.

The Same Europe that's championing that same pact, ditched it the moment Russia placed a Gas embargo on them. Coal plants are now being resuscitated in the same country the pact was signed. Ever wondered why both Johnathan and Buhari ditched the idea of coal exploration in Enugu? Dangote was restricted from maximising his coal mining in Ankpa, Kogi State for this same reason. Sometimes we just need to ask ourselves salient questions. It's not about the candidate, for those that'll come for me. If Africa reaches a Net Zero emission, the climate change won't slow down. Not by an inch. The real perpetrators ain't doing much.

One thing i know is that, no opposition ever wins election with major contenders fighting the incumbent on a divided front. None! I hope we all have the Nigeria of our dreams, and i hope we have realignment moment before election.

ednut1:
Sowore is only in the contest to make noise and also chop election donations. He should rest

He's the only candidate without a corruption issue, so he should not rest oo.

vickydevoka:
Guys the bring gals everyday with plenty heart break. That one never stop guys to the bring gals come. Make nairalanders stop to the make our ladies single. Believe you in me of you are afraid of carrying out anything in life you won't be happy in a long run. Singleness doesn't pay in old age. Getting married abroad is very difficult. Just say now guys don wise. Marrying abroad is 100 times better than coming to 9ja to marry

I can count a number of ladies that picked their spouse from Nigeria. Two to be precise, and they're both happily married. When people have poor ability to attract good people, they tend to make it a generic problem and not their problem. If you choose right, you'll marry right.

Ladipo35:
Another set of people that post things Just for attention and comments. We all know women don't do things like this. No woman will jand to abroad and be thinking of bringing a man along, not even her husband sef

So , next

First time in UK, and it was my fiancee that brought me over.

Confusedgirlie:
I knew him before leaving the country. He was in Nigeria and was doing quite okay, even though I was earning more than him.

We separated for a while since I wanted to focus a little on my new life. But recently, we connected again. I'm just realizing I still have something for him in spite of the time and distance. But I'm really confused about starting anything because it will mean that I have to bring him over.

What are the chances he won't take advantage of me?

There are hardened heartbroken ladies on nairaland, so be careful of who you take advise from. BTW, what's the big deal of bringing a guy you love over? I don't get. He didn't take advantage of you when you were earning more than him in Nigeria, so he most likely won't. Honestly, if you love this guy, and you're sure he loves you, then give it a shot. Life is really simple, don't judge your future relationships based on your past experiences and experiences of others. Just use your brain, ensure his feelings are genuine, then bring him over.

superCleanworks:
I wouldn't sit in those propeller based things.
high risk biko.
looks like a magnified drone.

Helicopter is what?

chingle5:
The girl suppose shout on top the idiot man head... What kind of rubbish is this ..... Abi he is mad.... He feels like he is the owner of the school nonsense

This will be worse. It's best to let her skateboard go than not to graduate.

Solomon lalong is also sleeping. I doubt if he's actually sleeping though.

Racoon:
It is serious. Not all that glitters is always gold. This to affirm and confirm the doubts of those who are convinced that japa is not the solution.

Ehn? This conditions are still better than what doctors in Nigeria suffer. 36 hours call nah joke? It's not as good as NHS, that's the point. Don't stay in fire because you're scared of frying pan. Have you even asked yourself why those doctors ain't coming back?

LibertyRep:
The Police shouldn't throw her men under the bus already.
This will only demoralize them and embolden their alleged oppressors.

Your senior officer they insult you, you reply am back like that?