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serverconnect:
This is wickedness I cannot buy this for N5

Plant your own onions na.

TheLionofLasigi:
Part of the problem is most nigerians love for short term returns... This is a bad culture

Exactly .
When his mates are managing N20,000 he went for a while N300 milion ... with no experience.
Experience kee am there.
And it is even him that killed himself after all..

ehinmowo:
Just sit down behind your keyboard and be typing. You wey never see anything for life. Just pray make things wey pass you no come your wey. We have seen preachers that committed suicide. Are they not aware of the consequences? Hitler wey say hin na King Kong committed suicide in the end when hin see fire.

Do you know what it means for 19-yearold to lose 300m? U don mistakenly wreck people car b4? Let alone 300m.

Why carry a task beyond your responsibility?
That is what leads to suicide.
You are talking about mistakenly wrecking a car, that is why we have compulsory car insurance and why you should do driving lessons and a test to get a licence before you start trying nonsense.
I did driving lessons overseas and paid so high money to use the teacher's car. When I asked why it cost like that, the teacher said, they have to insure his lesson car specially against learners to get coverage of bashing the car or bashing other cars by mistake. Common sense things.
Dey here dey tell me about mistakingly driving like an idiot.
Small pikin wey no know anything carry N300 milion
Why won't he commit the suicide

Basicend:
My only question is where are students getting this kind of money?

Scammers

Jammy2012:
He was also duped by a partner in crime, his name is Gospel Esekwutem or whatever his name

FOREX na scam trade.
Scammers scamming other scammers into scamming other scammers.

frugal:
Lol. Before he finishes the first sentence, I would have told him "Oga thank you. You can go back to your post now". Which kind bar be that

Correct. Simple solution..

EzzyCarter:
Guy, he said the bar was empty, even if they had changed seats, baba would still have continued with his unappreciated contribution to their talk

Na them cause trouble for their self.
They saw "derelict" bar and entered and were expecting 5 star service.
Derelict bar will give derelict service. So nothing spoil.

emeijeh:
Tribalism has really dealt with us as a nation.
Just look at the title of this thread


Whereas a Jeb Bush from state A could contest as a governor in state B in the US

Who do us dis thing?

Americans are all visitors to the US. They came from Europe to colonise that place and hence they all treat the place equally without attachment.

We are indigenes of Nigeria. Each of us is attached to his region. Hence all the problems we have.

Angelfrost:
You don't know me, or what I have done, or quite capable of doing... So, don't make assumptions or dish out worn out theories. Been there, done it all.

I move with real men, strong even dangerous individuals... We never lay even a finger on a woman!!! Domestic violence is the unerring trait of very weak and despicable men! Talking to them is okay, but sometimes, breaking a few bones gets them better educated!

I don't know you..
Do you know the man?

Toosure70:
It is not for your to break demise of a king , it against the tradition.

King is using the money of Nigeria?
Which kind of king is that?
A king uses his own money with his face on the currency. A king has his army.
I'm sorry but our Nigerian tradition and democracy do not go together.
One has to secumb for the other.
Nigeria army can slap anybody any time they like and you can't do anything about it except come online and complain.

cpu2006:
What a great loose to Delta State. May his soul rest in peace

Na only loose?
Lose & Loss nko?

yeme7:
All these are fake.... People still believe in the existence of corona virus in Nigeria, next protest we are hitting all the said centre of ncdc office... Fake country with fake people who

UK and Europe are on lockdown again this December. Even their Christmas is threatened.
At this rate, they will surely stop giving visas to Nigerians since we don't want to take this covid seriously.
Kuku let all remain in their respective countries and mind themselves.

fapcrook:
I hate men who beat their wives no matter what

So how you know whom these men are?
Because they don't do this in public for you to see .
How do you know that your pastor, boss, oga, brother uncle....are not beating their wives and the wives are just NOT telling you?
How do you know who is who?

Guestlander:
What a cop out. There's no appropriate place for a husband to brutalize his wife.
If you don't intervene, it could be the worst decision you have ever made.

Intervene by separating the fight or beating.
Not by adding your own fighting.
Untrained people always think they are stronger than they actually are. And always get injured in the process.

David NEVER tried to fight Goliath. He would have just died instantly. Instead, with faith in God, he only focused on his one small catapult. That's his only power.

Approach violence with wisdom.
Separate husband and wife. Simple.

Angelfrost:
A real man never hits a woman, except in self defense.

To beat up my sister in my very presence shows 2 things: You have no regard for her, and none for her family... That's unacceptable in tradition and the law!

I can easily promise not send the idiot to the great beyond... But there will be blood.

He can write his statement and apologize from the ICU.

You see a violent situation and approach it with your own violence!?
How stupid..
What if the man escalates his own violence?
Then kills you and continues beating the woman? What would you have solved then?

Please always approach violence like a referee of a boxing match. Separate the two individuals. DO NOT FIGHT anybody. You have not tested your own fighting with the man before. He can have knife or gun or be stronger than you. He is in his domain, his house. YOU are NOT in your domain.

TGON:
best comment by some distance..judging by the goings in nigeria, i can boldly say that africa is moving backwards on a very fastlane

People who politicise everything.
A situation is before you and you are talking about Africa. Was anybody born with Africa stuck up their ass? We were all born as individuals and face our challenges as individuals.

toscolee:
I will separate them from fighting.
I will talk to them, then buy biscuits for the kid.

This is only sensible answer in this thread.
Only you have chosen to approach violence with peace, hence de-escalating the highly tense situation.

NaijaOlosho:
First comot 2 of his front teeth

Because you assume you will be stronger than him?
If he is stronger than you nko? And he bashes your head? What next will you do?

hashtagged:
Your dad never hit your mom cause she was a good woman. That's why I said it depends on the reason why. I have seen some ladies slapping and trying to beat a man if he retaliates and beat the crap out of her is that wrong?. Its better to avoid violence, if she wanted to fight him I would just let them have their fill. But if he is beating her cause of an argument or cause of his mood I would break his bones.

Arguments are ok in marriage even if everyone is shouting as far as there is no violence if the lady decides to start hitting the man and he hits her back in retaliation I would give a fvck except he hits her first then I might fight for that lady

You people that will go to a man's house and beat the man in his own house again!!??. If he reverses and kills you nko?

In a boxing match, if one of the boxers starts to give the other one too much combo hits left and right, the referee jumps in the middle and STOPS the match. He doesn't add his own beating to the stronger one. His job is to meditate not to fight. And that is what you should do. MEDIATE.

Oesophagus99:
I know the type of sister wen I get...


I will grab the man and we will beat him up together and then I will call parents to intervene.

And when he dies, both of you will be charged for murder.
Tomorrow if she marries again, you will attend the wedding to see if you can kill the next husband?
Abi?

snowball11:
I will give him the beating of his life that will remind him of how not to beat a lady, no matter what!

You will add more violence to a violent situation?
You will quench fire with petrol?
And when he brings out a gun and blows off your head what will happen?

Never approach a violent situation with more violence..
Devil exists and all he wants is for all human beings to eachother, break God's commandment and be condemned to hell fire for that.
Don't add to more stupidity.

etrange:
Those saying the woman might have led to that with her sharp mouth surprise me. Since when has it become right to beat up people cause they say what you don't want to hear? Or is it just cause you're stronger? If others beat you up each time you say what they don't want to hear, would you still be alive? If it were OK to hit anyone who says what what pisses us off, how would the world be? You think the man doesn't also say things that get on the woman's nerves?

This kind of response is the reason people don't speak up when they suffer domestic abuse. Nigerians love to blame the victim especially if the interest of their party would be protected while at it. Otherwise, why would anyone ever excuse domestic violence in this modern age? The situation of things in Africa makes me wonder if the continent is going forward or backward.

There are many women in this world.
The man probably saw and heard them before he selected his wife and married.
Those women all said rubbish that pissed off the man. That's why he didn't marry them. He married the one that said the things he likes very well.
However, now they're together in the house, she's now saying what he doesn't want to hear. Hence his anger. He has ended up marrying the same type of woman which he rejected before outside. (Should I say, " women are all the same? Your mother, sister, aunty, wife...)
This is the reason for his anger. He is betrayed.
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The only solution for this is for the man to either marry anybody without expecting anything special.
Or right from the beginning expect his wife to be stupid and prepare his mind for the impending stupidity.
This is the importance of courtship. Decide what you will do WHEN the woman definitely pisses you off and if you know you will get violent, just DON'T MARRY.
Keep your prick in your pant and live celebrate life.

CaptainStephen:
He is a dead man

And you will go to jail for murder

Drsnives:
I don't care if my sister is at fault or not, I go make sure I so beat the guy to stupor

What if the guy beats you up very well? And resumes to beat the woman after?

Marshalees10:
For the guy� I'll tek him to suplex city a couple of times, One RKO and then I'll cap it off with a Kevin Owen's Pop_up SuperBomb

For my sister, she's definitely not staying. Not until he comes back to his senses at the least.

What if the guy gives you the RKO? And continues with the original beating?
Don't just assume that you will be stronger than him.

binary007:
Deeper life boarding school.

Is he the only one that went to boarding house?
All those his shawarma and shakara, senior boys will help him finish his food..
Spoilt kids.

baggioni:
Even with this news of extension, those that will rant will rant.

Oga, things are not done this way.
I lived overseas once and got a phone and SIM too. You buy sim card from a shop, put into your phone then call customer service. They take all your details and that is it. Just that first day registration. They keep that your database and use it for everything that is bothering them.
You can't be disturbing subscribers 10 years after they get their SIM to come and que up and register again. That is plain stupidity and database carelessness on the part of the mobile operators.

southniyikaye:
Have met so many people with disabilities and one thing I notice in most (notice the most) is, because of low self esteem, they are violent, wicked sometimes and tend to react quickly to even matters that requires you laugh slightly and walk away...
And at the same time, some of them are nice, have come across some that have positive vibe so if am to judge, i will say 70% are violent while the rest 30 are good...

Do you have a disability?
If you are disabled, 2/47/365, for the rest of your life in this Nigeria with no light, no job, no facilities, you will know how they feel.
If not just keep shut.

shoricha:
That is hunger for you

So go and farm in your father's land.

micflo28:
Please don't originate another pandemic worst worse than Covid-19 ooo

....worse than...

The meat will be cooked. All germs and viruses die during cooking.

Everybody be forming Oyibo here. Don't you buy meat and fish from one very dirty stinking market with blood everywhere? How come you haven't died since from all the flies and germs in that market?
Because you COOK your food very well.
Even suya man roasts the hell out the meat before giving you. No more germs.

ezenwajosh:
I seriously don't understand the kind of environment most nairalanders lives live in

.....most nairalanders live in.

Please let's hear word. Does Nigeria have gold paved streets? 90 % of the country is bushland. What do you expect? Your phone is in your hand. Open Google Map and take a good look at your environment with it. There are animals here and we eat the animals.

NOETHNICITY:
What do I need it for when natural tomato full ground

Same here.
I stopped bothering myself with that nonsense, when natural tomato is still normal price and affordable.