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Jack005:
You decided to be an option cos of peer pressure and wrong advise... It will end in tears in the long run .

I hear u sir.

Dheji2:
That's the narration of what is to happen to you if you don't leave the girlfriend of a notorious thug.

hmmmm! noted

Dheji2:
I see a young man dragged to a dark corner I see him being stripped naked and robbed I see all manner of assaults launched at him I see shiny metal objects buried in him I hear a loud shriek I hear the shriek faints into a whisper I see a gang of assaulter fleeing the scene I see a lifeless body falling onto the cold floor I ask the spirits for elaboration I learn that a life was just wasted over a sloppy kitten
This I just saw

you speak in parable.....can u come out more clearly?

AlexB300:
once they break his heart, i pray we don’t see his obituary on Nairaland. Getting babe to fight depression ke
You just sat on the devils lap lol

guy! u no get joy at all.... how can u be wishing ur follow man his obituary.... hope am not d cuz of ur misfortune?

Truvel:
Dis Na Romeo & Juliet Novel. Bro, It's Obvious Dat U Are Just New In D Game. So, I Will Advise Dat U Photocopy Ur Heart & Keep D Original At Home.

noted

tosik:
obituary ke??abeg wish him goodluck with her new girlfriend....the guy is now telling us the best medicine for depression is go and have a girlfriend....same to u lol,stop being single lol........

smiles..... thanks for understanding. not like bad belle pipu.

realman42:
Upon all the threads that pipul are opening about naija girls being useless u still want to build your happiness around them.I pity you.

nothing is wrong with naija girls.... when u are with the right person u gat notin to worry about.

SmellySperm:
instead of facing your studies you're building ur happiness on what will end in tears..

be like u Neva know wetin we OGs dey face after school

Noted

SmellySperm:
instead of facing your studies you're building ur happiness on what will end in tears..

be like u Neva know wetin we OGs dey face after school

noted sir.

iLegendd:
I didn't bother reading what you posted — just the title.

The line, "Has finally accepted," is a line that shows desperation.

You don't coerce a woman to like or accept you. Such a union crashes in few years because she will cheat with the one she truly loves — the one she is secretly yearning to propose, but he hasn't.

you're right bro..... but I gat no choice than to accept my fate.

Numerouno94:
Anything that has to do wit thugs nd cultists i wash my hands off. Lota beautiful ladies re out dere why put ur life at risk because of one imaginary luv? I hv got alot to achieve in life; can't allow one daughter of Eve ends it abruptly.

noted! I'm in already....no time to go back.

Acecards:
choichoichoi I laugh in Japanese.... Mr Look-into-my-eyes better run if you can, no go date cultist girlfriend.

lolz..... you are funny...lols...again.

Acecards:
Mr Look into my eyes

smiles

Cutehector:
Op is a princess

what do u mean?

white3663:
Similar to my life story, 300 level, introverted too. I asked out a girl, didnt work cos she has a bf, i also collected many numbers too. I now LIVE! i do things that makes my heart shake, i speak my mind, i no longer live in my head, all this happened this year. so i know the feeling, FEEL LIFE bro, viva la vida

thanks for understanding,bro.
I think am doing great.

Dabronze:
meet as much women as possible when you meetin gurls 1st tyme make sure u touch them by holdin hands with a smirk smile on ur face but let it be on us spare tym face ur study more.

thank you for your kind advised.
am so grateful.

Dabronze:
ok are you a student?

yah! I'm in 300level.

longetivity:
You are dating a cultist girlfriend, e don do for u

las las no to threaten me ... e no pass dat.

Tbvxl:
My best advice is for you to date the both of them. The first girl can eff you up anytime because she's got a guy she's been with for 6yrs. And moreover don't fall in love deeply with the first girl(talking from experience) she might be using you. As for the other girl,try to ask her out also and just play your cards wisely.

well said..... thanks nigga..
I love your advise.

Dabronze:
Op from your write-up looks so childish it shows that you are still a virgin

sure! indeed.... practically yes.

Godada:
There are two messages here that is quite confusing. Sort that out.

Now what I am going to add here is quite simple: don't build your happiness and mental wellbeing around anybody be that a girlfriend, guy or anybody. She accepts you, depression disappear. So if she abandons you, you go do wetin? Rather find ways to improve and update yourself. Find a skill or hobby with a potential to change your life.

Build your confidence. Confidence comes from doing things that you fear. About your suicidal tendencies, you better knock that outta your head.

thanks for your kindly advised.....
I wish u red from my previous post u would understand better....
anyway! am so grateful for your fatherly advise.

tosik:
because a girl accept you depression vanish??hope you will also release the next episode if it end up in tears....anyway goodluck bro

lolz.....you're funny bro...loz again.
anyway! thanks.

I think sometimes someone need to go out and have some fun.
All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.

Thought for quite sometime now, I have been suffering from depression, which has led to my low grade in school. It came to a point that I attempted committing suicide, but I had a second thought of those who cares and expect so much from me... Especially my loving and caring DAd who as always been there for me all time.... I just couldn't take my own life.
I thought of sharing my problems with people... But no one was there for me..... I was emotional depressed.
So recently, I decided to share my problem with a trusted friend who I trusted so much.... And he told me that the only way I can do away with dis my depression is to have a girlfriend..
So after much thinking.... I decided to go after the girl I have been crushing on for the past 4yrs. It was really tough for me...... So I decided to express my feelings to her...... After much rejection I got from her..... I decided to invite her over to my house and she came with her friend..... Which I felt so uncomfortable to asked her out..... But 'thank God; I was boldly enough to ask her out again in the presence of her friend by saying that.... She should look me straight into my eyes and tell me that she can't date me..... But instead, she told me to chill that she will give me her feedback as soon as possible...
So after much suspense..... She decided to text me that she has accepted to date me..... But on one condition...that I shouldn't disclose it to anyone including her friends and mine also.
I was very worried and disturbed.... I decided to pay her a visit...and asked her the reason why she asked me not to disclose it to anyone or Is she not proud of me? but her reason was that, she doesn't want her boyfriend who she has been with for close to 6yrs to know about it.... That she is just trying to protect me from him....because she knows what the guy is capable of doing to me, if he gets to find out. Although....the guy in question is not in town presently. he traveled for a very long time. The guy is a ''thug'' a very dangerous one for that matter. ( I hope say I never get myself into trouble)
So I decided to tell her not to worry about me.... That am capable of protecting myself...( as if I can even face him)
To cut the long story short.. I decided to let her know that there's still chance for her to quit the relationship, it shouldn't be as if I force her into accepting to date me...(trying to be toughen up..didn't say it with all my mind)
But her respond was...No... That I didn't force her.... It comes from her heart...(i just smile...mission accomplished)...
I decided to let her know that I didn't fancy her text message... That she should look me straight into my eyes and tell me that she has accepted to date me.... Which she gladly did.... Then I still insist that she should prove it..
Then she kissed me....( It was my first kissed ever in my entire life)
I felt so happy even until dis very moment. I think she has really played an important role in my life.... All worries and depression gone. I find myself thinking about her her always.... Chapter close.
Advice needed for those who cares to read further.....
Yesterday! I was all alone reading and meditating... All of a sudden a jovial friend of mine came with girl who I have been crushing on since last year.... But I couldn't muster courage to approach her....becuz... She was just too beautiful.... Extra ordinary beautiful....full of embodiment of beauty...
So I decided to to tell my friend who brought her to my place.... I didn't take it serious.... But i didn't expect that he could bring her to my house.... Until yesterday...when he brought her to my place.... He was like...( guy!...no dull yourself... See what you have been looking for is right in front of you...oyah start to dey toast her...make I sharply dey go)
Being a shy guy, I was stammering and shivering... All I could say was.... How....are...you..doing? Hope...your..dey...was..good... With voice trembling.
For close to 3mins, I couldn't utter any words, I was just standing and smiling like a fool... Thought it was impromptu.. Until she finally utter a word by saying..... (Tope)! lets be going... dis your friend has a big problem... I was so embarrassed... I felt so disappointed immediately she left..... From the look of things... It seems she likes me..
Or what do u think guys?
Mind you! Someone has already accepted to date me....but is a 50/50 relationship...but am very sure that it might like crash anytime soon.
Advice needed please...... Can I go for the beautiful girl or should I ignore her and focus on the new found girl...
Advice needed from matured mind.

smiles..... very funny.

habsydiamond:
trust urself only..... When u put ur trust in people, they tend to show their other sides

well said

MeekySmudger:
,...One thing about them, Another Nigga would still use this format or another one for her when she becomes yours,Then y'all start passing her around like that,...Lol

if u say so..

NiRfreak:
See woman dey advice u here...I dey shame for u OP

thank u..... save d shame for yourself.

booscy:
I think it's too early on a Monday morning to be discussing Trivial issues especially with the way the country take hard.

Time na Money Abeg.......... If you like invest your time and energy waiting for four more years for woman or begin now to channel your energy into making money

all works but no play.....there's a season for everything.

anthonyuncle:
better you walk away with your head up high than to be left beaten! bruised!! and crushed!!!

hmmm! am even confused now... I got ur point.

MasonKendall:
If you are in this country and you don't know what hardship is and means to escape it, you no go know anything, even if you find yourself in Cotonou

hmmm! I get ur point..... having a girlfriend is not a crime.

anthonyuncle:
look at this pompous simp.
your inexperience is so radiating.

she has been in control for four years and still counting.
you better unplug yourself now.

giving up now, will be a total waste of time.