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habsydiamond:
Welcome to the land of SIMPS... She told u she has a boyfriend.... After if she gree nao and u see her with another person u go say she cheat on u abi... If she leaves the guy she's dating because of u that means will return the favor when the time is right. I no won talk much this morning... See as we dey look the op sef

habsydiamond:
Welcome to the land of SIMPS... She told u she has a boyfriend.... After if she gree nao and u see her with another person u go say she cheat on u abi... If she leaves the guy she's dating because of u that means will return the favor when the time is right. I no won talk much this morning... See as we dey look the op sef

����.... lets watch and see.
I know she will never do that to me

MasonKendall:
Am trying to be realistic.

I hear you.

mmadu4:
na OGUN go kill u shy guy indeed . fool.

as it gotten to that? oh! u are funny indeed.

Premiumwriter:
Boss you for chill since her friend dey with her. Although I like your direct approach as it suggests you know what you want and are ready to go for it without apologies.

But her friend is around. That makes it a casual hangout and the friend is not supposed to hear those things.

Chances are she will most likely reject you. She won't sell herself cheaply in front of her friend. Forget friendship, girls are always in competition with each other. She want her friends to envy her relationship but you've taken that away.

It's still a probability tho.

But next time no express your desire for relationship when you're in a group hang out. Now your story go spread for their cycle if she reject you.

well said ...... thanks for following up.
I really appreciate your advised the other day.

anthonyuncle:
you have positioned yourself to be played, used and dumped!

platinum premium tears loading

tears will never be my portion.... I'll do what it takes to get her... then we shall see who will be in control.

BeautyO:
A man is not supposed to be all over a woman the way you are .. you indirectly handed over the control of the relationship to her .... trust me even if she say yes it will still end in premiere tears for you . unless you toughen up..

well said....... I just can't control my feelings.
what do u suggest I do?

MasonKendall:
I'll advise you to use all the money you have and gamble on Leeds United to win the EPL next season.

Lols....you are funny.....lols again.

I want to ask a few question before i proceed with my story.
Have you ever fall in love before?
How was it like falling in love with your crush....... and what was your experience?

After going through with some of the advised from my previous post on nairaland, I decided to apply wisdom on the arrival of my crush....though! I didn't beg her.

I'm so much obsessed with a girl I had crush on for the past 4yrs.... I just can't stop thinking about her...... Ever since I had tête-a-tete with her... I couldn't take my mind of her...I think am so much and deeply in love with her...even after much rejection from her.... I still kept trying my luck.
The reason why am obsess with her is bcuz...she is the girl I had crush on for the past 4yrs... And I love her so dearly.
Being my first time of getting a girlfriend..... I don't want to make any errors, so I decided to invite her to come over to my house....which she accepted and promise to come......so yesterday being Sunday...she promise to come by 4:30pm..... So I had to tidy up my house and even cooked some delicious food for her just to impress her.
I then waited for her arrival.....but she didn't show up at the time mentioned above..... I got worried...I thought she was not going to come....not until she called me around 5:30pm.. That she was close to my house.... But what amazed me most was when she came with her friend...I felt a little uncomfortable talking to her....but not withstanding I had to summon courage and kept our conversion going without minding her friend being in our midst.
I then proceed by letting her know the reason why I invited her to come over to my house.... I told her that am still very much interested in her.....but she was like.... I have a boyfriend... I now reply her that in life we are bound to compete....she was shot of words..... Couldn't say anything.
To cut the story short....... I asked her why she was still showing me a caring attitude despite rejecting my proposal.... She couldn't say anything... Then I asked her to be really straightforward with me by telling me right in my face and also in the presence of her friend that she's not interested in dating me......
She was like.....
She : as it gotten to that?....
Me: yes.
She then asked me to chill and wait till she give me the final feedback.

What do you think might be my fate? nairalanders!

Openpeace:
Make u come finish the story we dey wait.

no problem sir.... she is coming to my house tomorrow.
after everything I'll update u guys on the main intoto.

Dreyton36:
I used to be like you but that was when I was about 14-15yrs old

Here's how to avoid heartbreak and rejection pain
Don't expect any positive response from her
When you expect her to accept you and she later turns you down you'll be heartbroken
When she visits you don't act extraordinarily stupid by trying to impress her
Just be yourself my son
Remember one thing , if you express yourself to her you won't die , that day will surely pass

Ensure when you're together you make a physical contact, try to hold hands with her while talking to her
When you hold her hand everything you say will go into her heart and not her head only
Ensure you don't expect a YES

LIGHTS UP MY KPOLI IN PEACE

thank you for your words of advise.... I really appreciate you sir
u just gave me what I needed

candygist:
My guy, the game is in your control right now. All you need to do now is to welcome her with respect. Make sure your house is in good shape, Cooke a delicious food for her and let her know that you made it just because of her, have money for whatever drink she needs. Just make sure you treat her like a queen. And tell your friends and neighbors not to disturb you on that faithful dey because u guys may end up knacking. Na ur hand e dey.

boss! your head get oil... u just motivated my vibe

Opak001:
my profile is non of your business, and I have been on this country for long before you can get a V.
when you get older in this country u will know Y..
lazy youth!!!

well said..... words of an elderly man.

Prosmobi:
Begging a girl to date u is a falony also the relationship won't last.move on with ur life.Any attempt to beg her to date the relationship will end in premium tears besides u need a redpill...

noted

SimeonOTC:
o.p said " I added her on Facebook and for 'God so good', she accepted my friendrequest "

Anyway, o.p you calm down, but its normal, okay!
its normal, its your first time, just be normal, reduce your obsession and everything you are doing, you are over doing it but hey, its normal, its your first time, we all did it..okay!

lastly o.p, just use this as an experience and eye opening should in case you guys are fully into it.

but o.p,

It will end in tears

noted... best advised so far.

Jack005:
A future simp in the making... Begging a girl to date you will always end in tears, maybe not now but in the future.

thanks bro.

heendrix:
The quicker you know 9ja girls are liabilities the better for you. if it were even a foreign girl I'll not have problems with the beg. Hope you got enough cash to take care of a baby tho cuz as per Nigeria's setting she's now ur responsibility and you're now automatically her Father

noted..... well said.

Opak001:
You romance like na zero,plus you can lie here but can't lie to her,when she come start by reading genesis to revelation.
yeye lazy youth.

smiles! your profile has already describe the kind of person u are .
if I am a lazy youth, what then are you?

heendrix:
No matter what happens you don't beg a girl to come into ur life. now you've begged and she sees you as a weakling trust me you'd keep begging in that relationship cuz when she's at fault you'll have to be the one to beg till she finally breaks ur heart without remorse

Ion know if it me that got Ego but Something I've got to learn over time is if she gives you attitude let her go another would come

hmmmm! well said.

PrimeWatermark:
Would have advised you to go ahead with your plans, but since this would be your first time of dating, please step back!

Cos you're so much in love you would end up a very bitter soul by the time she breaks your heart.

Find someone who loves you more.

noted..... I'll see to it.

Donspicey:
Brodaman you suppose be scriptwriter for Bollywood....


Well my advice:

Move on bro.....

I should move on just like dat.... but someone here is in love.

heendrix:
Begged her?? alas the simp she's long being looking for is here

You don't need no advice bro ur eyes go clear itself

thanks for the advice

Aflix:
This your story get as im be ooo.

smiles..... just take am like dat.

but take note that someone here is in love..... I just can't stop loving her.

Please my fellow nairalanders.... I need advice on what to do
First and famous pls bear with my grammatical errors....

My story goes like dis.... Am a guy of 24yrs old currently in 300level.... I was born into a Christian family... So throughout while I was growing up, I never had any serious relationship with a girl... You might be very surprise that am still a virgin.... When it comes to girls stuff... Am always naive about dem.... am always shy and timid to approach a girl that I love because I don't want to be embarrassed.
So! as at 2018, there is dis girl I had crush on but I was just too shy to approach her..... I just thought she was just too good for me to like..she was that charming princess which every guys would like to date....not someone like me. So recently due to 2 much pressure from my friends...... They were like ( guy! As big as u are...u no get girlfriend, holy holy go kill u dere) am dis kind of guy that boast about having many girlfriends else way..which i knew within me that there is no girl in my life.....I thought about it... Then i took a bold step...
I later made up my mind to go and approach her and tell her the way I feels about her.
First step.. I added her on Facebook and for God so good, she accepted my friendrequest and that was how we started our conversation.
After I got use to her.... I told her that I wanted to see her In person....and also have something important to tell her.... Which she ask me to come to her usual spot were she hangs around... So that night I had to rehearsed the choice of words am to use why communicating with her.... The next day, I went to see her... And she was like
She : dis is me.... What is so important that you want to tell me?
Me : I "stammered" I couldn't make use of the words I rehearsed on...
I then went ahead to tell her that ..... I like her so much and i want us to be friends. She was like
She : is that all?
Me : yes..
She: that won't be possible...
After much begging she told me that she'll think about it and give me feedback as soon as possible.
I waited for few days... And she later accepted our friendship.
To cut the long story short.... I later expresses my feelings to her but she reminded me of her statement when she asked me ""is that all"" and I said "yes" she said, why didn't I come out clearly instand of beating round the bushes.... She told me that I came late.... That she has a boyfriend who loves her so dearly.
Still yet, I didn't give up on her... I kept on persuading her to date me....I Even ask my friends to talk to her on my behalf, but she still didn't agree to date me..... So I manage to collect her contact which I have been calling her frequently..... But what amaze me most is that, she always respond to my invitation.
So recently whenever I am online on Facebook she do text me first.... Hello!dear... How are u doing, dear? Hope u are fine, dear? Hope u slept well?
She has been showing me a caring attitude dis days..which am really confused... So I resided to tell her that if am so important to her in her life.. That she should come to my house, so that we can talk about us and from there get to know each others better.
But to my greatest surprise, i thought she was going to turn my invitation down..but she accepted to come to my house and that is the big issue on ground..
Advice needed pls....from matures mind.
1 What do you think I should say to her?
2 should I still ask her out again?
3 Should I just forget about her?
4 what do u suggest I do?
5 should I ignore my feelings and let her be?

What we need in dis country is job creation not more universities, the ones we have is okay for us.

What we need in dis country is job creation not more universities, the ones we have is okay for us...

Please can a part-time graduate also apply for Nysc registration?

my boys are doing well

Psalms 121
KJV:I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.
2
KJV:My help cometh from the Lord, which made heaven and earth.
3
KJV:He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber.
4
KJV:Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.
5
KJV:The Lord is thy keeper: the Lord is thy shade upon thy right hand.
6
KJV:The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night.
7
KJV:The Lord shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul.
8
KJV:The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.

They pay more attentions to their studies....
They don't joke with their time... They're always wishing to be the best.
Dey don't seize to give up...... They spent much of their time making research.

Same here also.
Am also scared of asking a girl out.
But I have numerous on social media but when it comes to physical discussion, I always find it hard to approach a girl a for relationship.

That's good for him, at least others will learn from him.