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Romance › Re: Guys! How Do U Manage To Cope If She Tells U That She's Pregnant When U Re Not R by UYEMDO35(op): 1:54pm On Dec 27, 2021

SUPERPACK:
So you can't afford condom of #100 or what?

She has zero like for comdom, though I made use of withdrawal method and i didn't cum inside but still scared.

Romance › Guys! How Do U Manage To Cope If She Tells U That She's Pregnant When U Re Not R by UYEMDO35(op): 1:42pm On Dec 27, 2021

Pardon my errors.... I need a sincere advice from you all. Put yourself in my shoes, Feel free to critize me, I know I have tresspass and I am ready to make amendment if is not what am thinking.

I'm back again.

I never wanted to go into dating becuz of dis shit happening right now. I was sent to school to study not dother way round.
I'm totally depressed, I don't want to bring shame onto my family. My gf who is practically collecting money from me... Came visiting, she complaints to me that she hasn't seen her period as at when expected,the word scared the shit out of me. Though! Ever since she told me, I haven't been myself, I'm all alone thinking about my life,i don't want to jeopardize my reputation if it happened to be what am thinking... I never wanted dis to happen to me, it all becuz of friends who push me into dis shit. I was that Jesus boy who use to flew away from temptation and even go round to condemned those who are into the act. But after meeting with dis girl of mine... I became something else. Right now I can't tell any of my Friends becuz dey will laugh d hell out of me.

When it comes to issue of pregnancy am always scared becuz am not ready to father a child for now, I don't wanna hear that shit, it scared d hell out of me. Dad warmed me about premarital sex and now she comes up with issues of not seeing her period, still waiting to hear from her..

Do u think she might want to use that to play fast one on me?

Romance › Re: I Want To Break Up With Her But My Guilty Conscience Won't Allow Me. by UYEMDO35(op): 2:17pm On Dec 23, 2021

Ronnnie:
Am not gonna abuse you by calling you a simp...we all learn one way or the other...but one thing Redpill taught me about girls is that "If she is not helping you build your life,she is wasting your time".
I was in the same shoes as you ..all she could do was to demand and demand, while offering nothing but sex in return,but I was blinded by love thinking she will change but she got worse over time....I had to man up and leave her...bro it was painful,very painful...like I almost went into depression Kos she became my whole life,I found it hard to sleep,was always in deep thought,thinking she will be getting bleeped by another guy was the worse feeling I could imagine..but after few weeks later I got better and now I look at her with no emotions atal for her ...
I know you might be scared of going through what I went through,but just know that the PAIN of Staying with her will be far worse than that...so it better you let her Go...I promise in a year time from now you will be glad you took that brave step...
Accept the Redpill and cut the relationship down....

Thanks boss, I really appreciate your advise.

Romance › Re: I Want To Break Up With Her But My Guilty Conscience Won't Allow Me. by UYEMDO35(op): 2:10pm On Dec 23, 2021

Optimistguy1969:
First things first.....your English need serious attention.
Please work on it.

Guy! Forget English and focus on my write up, I need serious advice no be English I wan chop. Has time goes on am ganna improve.

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Romance › I Want To Break Up With Her But My Guilty Conscience Won't Allow Me. by UYEMDO35(op): 1:20pm On Dec 23, 2021

My story goes like dis...

She has been practically collecting money from me all in the name of so call relationship and I have never benefited anything from her, as a student. I know how hard my parent struggle to send me feeding money only for one girl someway to be demanding anyhow from me without considering that am a student. She is an indigen of that town wey am schooling and they are into farming, atleat! I suppose to be benefiting alot of things from her like garri,oil and yam but instead, she no send me me at all instead she prefer collecting from me, or maybe she iswaiting for me to ask her. Which I can't. If dis is how relationship works, I rather quit than being with someone that will use me anyhow as she like.
We have been dating for quite sometime now and she tactically demands money from me knowing fully well that I will definitely give her. Though! I plan settling down with her but she doesn't care about me. My feelings and emotions are been neglected. I tried talking to her about it and she promise to change but still yet, no improvement. I tried breaking up with her on several occasions but i can't really do it becuz of my guilty conscience.
I feel like she is using my head... Funniest part,whenever I made up my mind to break up with her, she will just show up with some unnecessary excuse which will soften my heart.
Guys I need your advise on dis..

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Romance › Re: Single Peeps Only!! Drop Your Number For Whatsapp Connect by UYEMDO35(m): 12:20pm On Dec 23, 2021

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Romance › Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by UYEMDO35(m): 10:14pm On Dec 21, 2021*

I was once like u before but after summoning courage, I had to man up enough to approach my crush who I have been secretly admiring for close to 4yrs.
Though! It wasn't so easy.it was due to frustration from my peer group that leads to me wooing my crush, I first started on social media then she ask me to meet her in person which I did. Though! I had upper advantage than her because she can't speak English fluently but after much persuasions she finally dance to my tune. But as it is now,I just look at everything as waste of time.... She is using my head just becuz am in love with her.
I never benefited anything from her.... I think I rather remain single than being with someone who doesn't care about me,my dreams,my feelings and so on.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Share Your Experience Physically Going To Submit Your C.v In A Company by UYEMDO35(m): 4:51pm On Dec 13, 2021

I'm Just scare of the job hunting...With what am reading here, I'm piss of about the joblessness in Nigeria... Am a prospective graduate to be I never had any experience of applying for job, I feel like giving up sef.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Do You Do And How Much Do You Get Paid? by UYEMDO35(m): 4:13pm On Dec 13, 2021

I am a professional teacher and I love teaching because it gives me joy but the pay is very low.... I end nine thousand naira per-month.

Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been In This Situation? Share Your Experience by UYEMDO35(m): 7:47pm On Nov 20, 2021

I was so timid in the front of girls .. Back den in secondary school my friends try to set me up with my juniors, but I just couldn't have time for dat. It came to a point dat even the girl I had crush on, I just couldn't confront her to express my feelings to her. When I tried sending my friends to help me talk to her on my behalf, she told dem dat I should come by myself to toast her. Though! When I went there by myself, I was lost in thought, very shy to talk, I nearly wewe on my body. Funniest part I can woo a girl for someone but doing for myself is always difficult.

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Romance › Re: She Demands I See Her Parents In Other For Her To Gain My Trust by UYEMDO35(op): 10:54am On Nov 08, 2021

Ingredient88:
Am not even sure if she will be ready in 6years time, look at it in this way, she will wait for results to be ready, 1year gone, Dan gain admission spend 4years or more, it depends, that is 5years already, Dan maybe her school will mobilize her a year after graduation, Dan she will want to finish her service b4 she is ready or try and get something doing b4 going into marriage.........
My advice for you is that you both should continue as friends, if God want she will be your better half someday....you should be focus on your graduation now, and graduate with GOOD GRADES.....

Thank u sir, I really appreciation ur words of advise.

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Family › Re: Which Year Took The Most Important People In Your Life ? by UYEMDO35(m): 10:46am On Nov 08, 2021

In 2014 June 12 around 12pm, I lost 3 people who are so dear to me same day same time same minute.
It's something I don't want to remember again.

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Romance › Re: She Demands I See Her Parents In Other For Her To Gain My Trust by UYEMDO35(op): 7:20am On Nov 06, 2021

Ingredient88:
My brother, in the first place,18years old girl, is very small for you to fall in love with!, You are about to graduate, many journey ahead of you, soon you will go for service and meet with alot of ladies home and aboard, and your thinking will change!
Dating for marriage as you said, how long will you wait for her to be ready and by Dan did you think things will still be like how you guys planned it
You can go to her parents for just a visit as friends okay, not other way round, coz no parents will accept that from you, you know what I mean!.... Love, life and marriage is more Dan that bro, it beyond what you can be preparing for with 18years (waec graduate) ....any journey ahead, many things will happen, to me this is just *a dream impossible*

Am just shot of words, A word from an elder. Thanks sir! I think I will give into your words. I thought of dis before but i was so blinded to see it dat way. when I brought up the issue to her she was like before she could think of settling down it will take 5to6 year... Which I think is still very far.

Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Gained Admission Into Uni by UYEMDO35(m): 7:10am On Nov 06, 2021

U have lose your girlfriend.... Just find someone else.

Romance › Re: She Demands I See Her Parents In Other For Her To Gain My Trust by UYEMDO35(op): 7:04am On Nov 06, 2021

Oglock:
If e no be for marriage this is 4 u
Irredeemable Simps Are Useless...All Of Them

Didn't get ur statement

Romance › Re: She Demands I See Her Parents In Other For Her To Gain My Trust by UYEMDO35(op): 6:55am On Nov 06, 2021

chatinent:
She is wise.

A good relationship should have both parents’ approval. Only then will you be careful with your dealings with her.

It's not too early. It's actually great!

Aren't you dating for marriage? What's the fear?

Best advise so far..... To be candid, am dating her for marriage and I think I have found her worthy.

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Romance › Re: She Demands I See Her Parents In Other For Her To Gain My Trust by UYEMDO35(op): 6:53am On Nov 06, 2021

ednut1:
What are you doing with an 18 year old

bro! You won't understand... Am in love with her

Romance › Re: She Demands I See Her Parents In Other For Her To Gain My Trust by UYEMDO35(op): 6:52am On Nov 06, 2021

OnlineArchitect:
Should we tell him? abi make we allow am learn from experience

Bro! Spill it out, am here to learn so dat I won't make any mistake.

Romance › Re: Final Confirmation & Advice Needed by UYEMDO35(m): 2:09am On Nov 06, 2021

That woman you are about to divorce is your backbone,I see that little boy calling you Daddy ! Please think twice before taking any decision.
I know is painful but u still have to reconsider we are all human and no one is perfect talk to wife and settle it amicably.
I see that little boy bringing joy into your househood.

Romance › Re: Can A Sexless Relationship Survive? by UYEMDO35(m): 1:38am On Nov 06, 2021

I don't think so

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Romance › Re: She Demands I See Her Parents In Other For Her To Gain My Trust by UYEMDO35(op): 1:36am On Nov 06, 2021

ahmthankgod:
Bro, its over early, like too early. For you to earn her full trust? Buh sha its still normal thing. Just go greet them make sure her dad is not around. You hear me bah?

Noted bro.....thanks.

Romance › She Demands I See Her Parents In Other For Her To Gain My Trust by UYEMDO35(op): 1:20am On Nov 06, 2021

Hey guys! I need your advice on dis issue bothering my state of mind...My story goes dis way, I fell inlove with dis girl not quite long maybe close to 8month now. Am a prospective graduate to be. The girl in the picture just concluded her waec dis year. Though! I think I love her so much but my biggest fear is that she demands i see her parents in other for her to gain my full trust and to prove to her how much I really love her, and I don't buy the idea.
Am just considering dat she might want to trap me down or probably she is pregnant for someone else and want me to carry d full responsibility. Apart from that, I really don't know how to go about that becuz I don't know how her parents will react to it becuz she is still very young maybe 18years. My fear is that how do I drop the word to her parents becuz her father is a no nonsense man and am not ready to die yet.
Do u think is too early for that?

Her reasons for dis Is becuz she wants to gain my trust and for me to prove to her how much I really love her.

Food › Re: How I Made Chicken Stew Out Of The Blues. by UYEMDO35(m): 3:12pm On Nov 05, 2021

I feel like eating that right now.... Poverty na disease.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Are You Surviving Being Jobless ? by UYEMDO35(m): 4:55pm On Oct 11, 2021

It has not really been easy, being an undergraduate I can relate much about been jobless..... I can't really tell when last I tasted good food talkless of eating meat,fish,egg or pomor. Na garri from back to back.... Life no easy but though, I still thank jah for keeping me pushing up till dis very moment.
Well! I can't hide my feelings.... If am able to see a good paying job, I don't mind working..... I really need money to sortout my fees and accommodation before my landlord kicks me out.[color=#990000][/color]

Education › Re: Third Class Graduate With No Direction by UYEMDO35(m): 10:32am On Sep 30, 2021

webhead:
Good day bro.

I am not a guru in this online business thing. Neither do I consider myself to be in the position to guide someone who wants to go into it.
I started my first online business a few months ago, after taking few online courses, and I've started to see results.
The point is, I am still learning (and trust me, I still have a whole lot to learn).

Noted....thanks for your feedback.

But, like I said, there are plenty of places/gurus for that.
Nairaland and youtube is a great way to start.

If you really serious about this, buy a course on whichever online business you've chosen to start.

Like the FIVERR ACCELERATOR PROGRAM, PRINTING PROFITS, BIAHEZA DROP SHIPPING COURSE, KEVIN DAVID'S FBA NINJA COURSE, DIGITAL MARKETING INSTITUTE'S COURSE (based in Lagos)

Its not a get rich quick scheme ooo

Education › Re: Third Class Graduate With No Direction by UYEMDO35(m): 9:54am On Sep 30, 2021

webhead:
Bro, the best advice anyone can give you is to start an online business!!!!!

Self publishing on Amazon, while difficult at the start, is an online business you can start with no money. You can start by publishing low content books with just a laptop and internet connection.
Check the thread for that here on nairaland or buy a course to make things easier.

Or start doing freelancing, youtube, digital marketing
Checkout the fiverr accelerator course.
I hope you found this helpful.

Good morning! Sir....
Am a prospective final year student to be, I don't know what d the future will bring forth,
I have passion for dis online business of a thing but I really don't know how go about it... I will be really glad if u can put me through...

Politics › Re: Court Adjourns Suit Challenging Atiku’s Eligibility To Contest Presidency by UYEMDO35(m): 1:45pm On Sep 27, 2021

Alright

Career › Re: "The Girl I Dumped Years Ago Became My Boss At Work" by UYEMDO35(m): 10:19pm On Sep 18, 2021

Janetjim1:
Lol! Fiction!!

I still sell affordable laptops with free delivery and pay on delivery.
Details on my signature

Am interested bro.
I need your WhatsApp digit.

Education › Re: Were You Broke In School? Share Your Story by UYEMDO35(m): 5:36pm On Sep 17, 2021

Am Still in school... I can relate to it... Men!! Life in school no easy oo. They are sometime I go hungry,sometimes when am sick i can't even afford money to buy drugs. I could remember when I had no money for a week.

NYSC › Will I Serve At NYSC After Completing My Sandwich Degree Programme by UYEMDO35(op): 9:23am On Jun 14, 2021

Will I Serve at NYSC After completing Sandwich degree programme?

I have got one thing to learn in life which is {patience} . I am 23yrs of age, I never meant to apply for sandwich programme... We were deceive and brainwashed.
Now am having sleepless night after hearing that I won't be able to go for Nysc service after completing my degree..

My question now is that.... Will i still be able to serve?

Politics › Re: Big Question Of The Day by UYEMDO35(op): 12:54am On Jun 14, 2021

IJOBA11:
IS THAT YOUR EXAM QUESTION

It might likely comes out in our exam, It is an Assignment

Politics › Big Question Of The Day by UYEMDO35(op): 10:56pm On Jun 13, 2021

Big question of the day

How can localism and decentralization be used to address the challenges in Nigeria local government......
Where are the political guru in d house..... Come and show yourself.

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