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brother, see, I understand You, but you think it's easy to just cut off 8 years relationship just like that ?

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Losing weight is great but the challenges is how to manage the loose skin which is a function of how the weight loss is achieved (Diet or exercise).

In all, the b**bs will become like a deflated tube that cannot be used unless inflated.

truthCoder:
Don’t take any drugs.

Sex is 80% mind and 20% physical.

First, don’t feel afraid before you start. Sex is not a competition. It is a means of communication.

You dont have premature ejaculation nor should it be your concern.

Are you trying to impregnate? Only couples can complain of premature ejaculation.

Your own complaint might be that you reach orgasm before your partner does.

Practice this sequence.

When you start, make your mind focused on making the girl happy. You have no other job. You are not there to impress with your pounding skill’s . You are there make her feel happy.

Focus on making easy and intimate movements. Kiss her slowly. Run run your fingers across her body. Explore. Follow her signs. If she touches your hand, it means she wants you to touch her hand. ..etc

Slowly make her blend into you.

If you feel like you want to climax, slow down, pull out and use your fingers or tongue. Dont be in a rush

If you climax, its not the end of the world. Just dont stop.

If you go limp, clean up, and focus on her. You will get aroused again. The second round would be longer.

Practice taking three orgasms in a row without stopping. Soon each session would get longer and better.

Don’t listen to kids who boast of banging for 2 hours without stopping. No vagina would withstand such assault without axle grease or engine oil. ..They are all lying. Even has cut scenes. One porn video might be 3 rounds of sex joined together.

Your goal is to communicate remember? If the girl is happy and you are happy, thats all that matters

You have said it all.

It is more of psychological than physical.
If you like, get 10 packs, if you cannot control your emotional connection during the act, you will still cum quickly.
Those that masturbate are good at fantasizing so they tend to cum quickly.

Doing 2 to 3 rounds without stopping was something i was doing back in the days and it was great as my girlfriend then was enjoying sex though it takes a lot from you especially when it is done frequently.

The use of delay ointment is also ok. You don't ingest it so it doesn't interfere with your internal metabolism rather, it reduces penile sensitivity and helps stay longer.

It is as a result of poor tool handling skill.

If it's something you know how to do very well you won't even see a scratch on your hand. You struggled through the process.

Even outside Nigeria, people dey change tyre

How were there sure they were chatting with a girl and not a kidnapper/ritualist disguising as a girl?

People have to be careful about those they meet online.

If he was able to send you to school, that is your starting point.

Whether you like it or not, you have an entitlement mentality.
You have your eyes on the properties all along waiting for you to inherit.
You may even be worse than your dad if you inherit the properties the way you are going.
Work for your own and be fulfilled. If you are left with anything to inherit fine, if not, fine too.

I buried my dad in January this year. He left a lot of properties.
While we have some of his children waiting for my him to die for them to inherit his properties, I am already made.
Some couldn't even rent a house of their own, they lived in my dad's house. One of them lived with him in the same compound with his wife and children and still lived on my dad. Mind you, he is approaching 60 years of age

Don't let your parents wealth be a source of distraction.
Have you asked for fund that you need from him and he refused?
If you want to start up a business you can also approach him too and he may sell one plot of land on your behalf

KosiGee:
Where’s that Nairalander whose dad is obsessed with widows??

This is his chance to shine.

Modified…I found him….

@Tonero5200, say hi to your old man…

https://www.nairaland.com/7091560/father-too-much-interest-widows/2#112195966

His dad will find widows that are ripe to choose from

May he rest in peace.

So what now happens to all those his young beautiful wives?

If it was in the North and such advert was used to describe their prophet they would have started burning sterling bank facilities.

Christianity is a religion of peace

The president cannot recover such money from his salary even if he serves 2 terms.

People pay such exorbitant fees because they are not there to serve but rather loot.

Who pays N100,000,000 just to serve?
where did they get such money from?
How many of the politicians ran a lucrative business or career before they went into politics and are now rich?

seunmsg:
I’m talking about his suggestion that an interim government made up of former presidents, Vice Presidents, governors and professional bodies should take over the administration of the country for six months. Where in the constitution did he get that from?

Is his suggestion not about changing the so called constitution?

When he recently started chasing and destroying illegal refineries that has been in existence since he came into power, I knew he has a presidential ambition

rickpat:
this is funny though..

look bro,that thing might be something very sensitive to that girl either from past experience or even her parents...you don't joke with such....some people joke with abusive words for example 'mad man,you be mumu o, you be crase etc'..me I don't take that at all...some people see it as getting close with their partner...it doesn't work for me...so back to your question..your girl may not like that at all...but she would have discussed it with you or maybe she just used it as an opportunity to break up with you...so bro..give her time...if she does not come around...move on...LEARN YOUR LESSON...SOME PEOPLE TAKE EVERYTHING LITERALLY..LEARN TO JOKE WISELY AND WITH MATURITY...using abusive words as joke doesn't show you're are free with your partner..there are a million ways to joke with the right words. .good luck

This is me talking

Do not stay in an hotel room where you have only a key and no extra locks on the inside that you alone can lock or open.

Every hotel has a spare key for all their rooms so there should be a lock to keep you secure from external access.

The OAU PG student that was killed in his room for which the hotel owner and his accomplices where being tried is an example of such a case where someone accessed a guests room while he was sleeping because there was no inside lock.

The first thing I do when I check in to any hotel room is to check for inside lock and a camera.

Please be safe.

Try IVF

Google family link can help too.

You can control the app they install and see the time they spend on each app e.t.c

Mooh247:



Warri for BAT2023


Last Last even Peter Obi go endorse Jagaban


Have you seen Peter Obi spend any Kobo apart from the 40 million nomination form he reluctantly obtained through proxy

A candidate without campaign office few days to Primaries... No support groups, no forum to canvass vote, no customised busses for logistics, no fund raising event, no campaign website, no endorsement from royal fathers

.

People like you are the reasons why money bags will continue to dominate our political space and steal our collective wealth

joyidor:
Feel free to learn the cause of their break ups. Na school I dey? Well men will always be men

And women will always be what?

If you don't know, ask Will Smith.

Dunce join the race too?

Always in Kenya

Criminals

Lizzyolatunjs:
Hello my fellow nairalander family and friends. A silent member, please help me all. I always saw people bringing family issues here until I personally fell into same trap today.

Please my people am at crossroads and I need advice, bring it all on pls. I would like to know why my husband of 10years would save chats , screenshots of our whatsapp messages when we quarrel and I mouth off to him. I mostly dont even go back nor remember such episodes. However I just said let me check his pictures randomly and lo and behold screenshots of all our personal messages? We have kids together and there has been cheating on his part in the past. I have forgiven and forgiven but seeing my messages saved as screenshots broke me.

We have good chats too but I didnt see any of that so it was specifically done. Elders and colleagues please help me out. Thank you all

What prompted such?
Are you a toxic person?
Do you have itchy fingers to send terrible messages when angry?
Do you deny such actions later?

I am asking because I have been with such a person that does things that nobody will believe and because of sentiments from members of society about women when they start crying yet telling lies, I couldn't defend my allegations. Same person is the first to go out and made countless allegations of things I knew nothing about and didn't even happen and when you say she is actually the one doing these things, no one believed.

I no longer judge people, he has his reasons. As a woman, you can fix whatever the issue is. Talk to him about it and not in the mood of quarrel.
Purge yourself of every anger and bitterness so you will flow with him.

You already know where it will end.

Is cooking part of your work description?

If keeping your job is worth the ending, then that's fine

Ogbolos

True.

After winning election, then you can continue the fighting

Naijanascam:
Good one......... congratulations to the victim for being courageous enough

Because he is a lawyer he was able to achieve this.

How many people will put the required resources on the line to pursue a case because of N500?

It is a victory to the masses who have suffered such oppression for years.

Sekoni003:
I have a rule; regardless of the bond or memories we used to share as friends of the opposite sex, once you get married, I tone down communication between us to the barest minimum. It's a hard choice but I'd rather not see myself as the man who ruined another man's home.

About about being close friends with already married women, that's another big NO for me. We are humans with feelings and emotions, not pre-programmed robots. Women especially tend to fall for someone who's always there to listen and be a shoulder to lean on and all that stuff. I've had several instances where I've had to subtly and politely decline a close friendship with married women. Your husband's shoulders should be more than enough for you to lean on. If you have problems, get a therapist. Muchísimas gracias

My gang

I don't make friends with a married woman.

Even the ones I knew before marriage, I keep all at arm's length.

YolobaMuslim:
You guys are starting what you can't finish.
We the great Yoruba Muslims will not close eyes let you Yoruba Christians dominate us.

Time to swing into action!

Kolo, na una establish the school?

I don't have problems with them attending missionary schools, it is their wahala that i don't want.

Next thing they will say their girls should be allowed to put on Hijab.

That was how they created problems in Osun and Kwara states.

They should go and set up their own schools to teach their own values and allow Christian schools to teach Christian values.

DaniDani:
Too many universities in this country already, why not something else, like industry? Why are Nigerians so much afraid of establishing industries, especially multi national industries?

The FEC just approved 12 new private universities while the Govt owned universities are on strike.

From 2018 to 2011 is a downgrade

backbencher:
What the NNPC boss is saying is simple.

Modular refineries can only work when government allows petrol to be sold at market price, otherwise they won't make enough of a profit to function well otherwise.

The govt should give them crude oil at a subsidized price rather the subsidizing imported petroleum product refined in other country, that way all costs associated with logistics which is significant, will be eliminated.