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JackDaAlienz:
Before this accident, my manhood can rise up to 7 inches in few seconds.
After hitting my hips on the bar at high speed while running to defend a shot.
After spending 12k for x Ray and still no bone was broken in my hips.
Still my manhood won't react or rise up again.
What could be the cause?

Somebody said my nerve must have been damaged. Please Doctors what could be the cause. Please help me

Oga. If you think your nerve is damaged (which I doubt, just give it time, I think it's a mindset thingy), then what you need to do is go for an MRI (MAGNETIC RESONANCE IMAGING), this is the test that'll ascertain that.

If you like do XRAY 10TIMES, u may not find that which you seek. An MRI will be a better option is nothing is popping up in the XRAY. However, it doesn't come cheap.

Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

Where them dey see these kind men that can't take a stand from....

Mtchewwwwww.

And she didn't notice all these things before marrying him? Make I hear word abeg.....

Be like e don collapse ooooo

Hmmmm.. AERO? Same aero I flew sometime back... Abeg o

What he did was very wrong and inhumane.

Don't curse him biko.

Kindly DM ME when you see this.

ozalogbo:
I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.

However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.

Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.

Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.

What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?

Na where una dey see all these women marry self You really need to make ur authority known and felt in that house, not saying you should be cruel though.....

7upnigeria:
How true is this?

Just pulling legs.....

Hmmmm

PDP FINALLY WON....

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Prices as of today:- 18-03-2023

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TODAY'S Market Prices Of Grains (white Maize, Yellow Maize & Beans) In Kaduna (lere Lga) -

Prices as of today:- 18-03-2023

WHITE MAIZE= 15K CASH AND 19K TRANSFER PER 100KG BAG (THE WEIGHT IS USUALLY MORE THAN 100KG)

WHITE BEANS- 34K CASH AND 37K TRANSFER (HIGH GRADE)

SOYA BEANS - 28K


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TODAY'S Market Prices Of Grains (white Maize, Yellow Maize & Beans) In Kaduna (lere Lga) -

Prices as of today:- 18-03-2023

WHITE MAIZE= 15K CASH AND 19K TRANSFER PER 100KG BAG (THE WEIGHT IS USUALLY MORE THAN 100KG)

WHITE BEANS- 34K CASH AND 37K TRANSFER (HIGH GRADE)


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pseudonomer:
I don’t think the bolded is right.

It's 2yrs

vickydevoka:
Coming with your partner is easy. She will work to pay off the school fees. Most schools don't offer scholarships anymore n deposit is 50 percent

You actually know what you are saying.

That's nice.

Please I'll really want to have a chat with you, can you pls send me a DM @ vanvicky1@gmail.com

9jaHustler:
I think the first think you should do is to ask Google for schools in UK that offers the course. If you find one, you can read about it. What I can do from this end then I can help but first find school through Google.

Good evening. Thanks for sharing this info.

Pls from your experience which schools will you advise based on:

1. Schools having the cheapest tuition fees and

2. Schools that pay tuition in installments.

Thank you.

Wow, keep it coming LP.

LP will definitely have federal and state presence after this elections.

It depends on the personality of the mother-in-law. I guess with time everyone will learn how to live together peacefully.

However, if it's avoidable, I guess the couples shouldn't have a live-in MIL.

Thank GOD, help finally came through for you guys...

So painful.

I pray all works out well for her

immortalcrown:
The confusion of the contraption called Nigeria will be further displayed.

Funnily enough, I can't stop laughing at this reply, it's sooo hilarious! 😂😂😂

Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

Ex kor Y ni

Ariketolu:
THIS HAS BEEN BOTH A COMMON CONCERN OF EVERY RESPONSIBLE MAN AS WELL AS A FAMILIAR TOPIC AMONG MEN THROUGH AGES, But unfortunately, it is a lost battle

Not long ago, I stumbled on a discussion in relation to how some women abandon their husbands at advanced ages and pitch their tents with their children under the guise of helping them to nurse their (children's) children. In some other cases, the men have been abandoned at old age by their wives because they felt it was 'pay back time' for unforgivable sins allegedly committed by the old man when he was younger. Such sins don't necessarily have anything to do with infidelity or taking a younger wife, but it's enough if the wife and the children all concluded he was too harsh with (or to) them when the marriage was younger or the children were growing up. They carefully elect to wait until the old man has retired and needs the company of his wife and the affection of the children most before they embark on a revenge mission!

In most, if not all, cases, the man must have worked day and night towards the physical, economic, and educational advancement of the family, most especially the children when they were growing up. Ironically, but for what the children now label as 'high-handedness', most, if not all, of them would have ended up as wayward children and unable to make anything worthwhile out of their lives. But they don't appreciate that!

The most painful part of it is that, the wife it was who used to obtain the children's submission to her 'dictations' by mentioning their Daddy's name each time they tended towards obstinacy! 'Your daddy is coming', 'your daddy will soon come', 'if you don't listen to me, I will report you to your daddy when he comes back', and so on. Expectedly, the children would not like to incur the wrath of their daddy, hence, they will 'maintain'! Where the children refused to listen to the mother and she was constrained to report them to the father, the father's reaction by way of punishment is what is now being used against the man as being too high-handed.

Another reason for the children's resentment towards their father is the mistaken impression that the father never contributed towards their education. While this can be true in some extreme cases where the father is irredeemably irresponsible, the truth is that in most other cases, because the father had to pursue money most of the time, he would give money for school fees and upkeep to the wife to go and settle whilst he goes 'hustling'. These facts are usually unknown to the children and the mother never told them it was their father who provided the money. Such children would later grow up and rebel against the father for his 'irresponsible' behaviours when they were growing up!

It will amount to over-generalisation to conclude that all women and children do this. Far from it! Recently, I was discussing with a former colleague in one of the banks where I previously worked. She told me that she was outside the country with Daddy. What for? One of their children just gave birth and both of them had travelled abroad to 'baby sit'! I think that's how it should be unless the old man elects not to travel!

Even in very extreme cases where the man had been beastly during the 'sinning' period, why should the woman wait until the husband's old age to 'pay him back'? Why not call it a day with the relationship when the man could still have been able to find someone with compatible behavioural patterns?

What Shall Men Do?

In the first place, a man must learn to be responsible and responsive in matrimonial homes! He must be actively involved in the children's affairs! Where some roles have been delegated to the mother, he should let the children be aware!

Second, no father must allow the woman to surreptitiously turn him into a masquerade in the estimation of the children. That you went out and you're returning home should be something that your children are looking forward to. If you continue to allow yourself to be portrayed as the family masquerade, in your old age you will definitely pay for it.

Furthermore, as a father, learn to correct your children in and with love. Let them know the reason a particular course of punishment was administered. Whatever level of punishment to be administered must be commensurate to the act of misdemeanour! Just like the Yorubas would say: 'Abéré ò gbudò sonù, ká lo gbé Ṣàngó síta'! Let the punishment fit the offence!

Finally, fathers must learn to provide for any 'incasity' at old age! In other words, learn not to eat with both hands. If you haven't been doing that before, start saving for the rainy day (old age) today. If your spouse and children decide to be supportive at old age, all well and good, but if it turns out to be otherwise, there will be no regrets. Times are changing fast too! The children also have their own lives to live. If anything comes from them to the parents at old age, fine, otherwise try and be prepared! Whatever you have as savings would eventually go to them upon your inevitable departure anyway. No parent knows the art of raising or bringing up children. Only God does!

This battle of mother and children in relation to men, in most cases, is a lost battle for men. You cannot win it. The most deceptive belief a man can have is to think that he knows everything that goes on under his roof. This is because there's usually a lot of 'Má jé kí Daddy ẹ ó mò tàbí gbó o' in all homes! In other words, 'don't let your daddy know or hear that o'! This usually exists between the mother and the children to the exclusion of the father! They understandably spend more time together than men do, no matter how hard the fathers try! I think it's unconscionable for any woman to 'conspire' with the children to dub her husband a devil after using him as a tool to train the children to achieve greatness! God bless our homes, Amen!

Caleb Arogundade

Best response...the best.

Men should IN ALL THEIR DOINGS... "SAVE ENOUGH MONEY FOR THEIR OLD AGE".

Please is there a whatsapp grp for this?

ghettonews:
Pls does UK needs certifying of my bachelor's transcript for masters

YES they do.

vanvickie:
Good morning house.

Thank you for all the insights gotten so far.

Please I have a few questions as I'm a newbie (even though I've been reading up this thread and past ones)

1. Which school in the UK is relatively among the cheapest, say 10,000 - 15,000 pounds?

2. Which school(s) have flexible payment plan (like payment in installments up to 5times after the initial deposit)

3. Which school(s) are suitated in a relatively cheap and affordable environment.

4. Which school(s) have the lowest initial deposit/fees for enrollment.

5. The estimate of the total amount I will need as I want to go with my spouse, she'll be the dependent, while I'll be the main applicant.

PS: I want to apply for masters in biological science or any health related course (studied microbiology BSc) and I am.

I plan to start with the Jan 2024 session.

Please I am open to any email or content I can read up for answers to these.

My email is vanvicky1@gmail.com.

Best Regards.

Please team assist a newbie answer above questions


1. Which school in the UK is relatively among the cheapest, say 10,000 - 15,000 pounds?

2. Which school(s) have flexible payment plan (like payment in installments up to 5times after the initial deposit)

3. Which school(s) are suitated in a relatively cheap and affordable environment.

4. Which school(s) have the lowest initial deposit/fees for enrollment.

5. The estimate of the total amount I will need as I want to go with my spouse, she'll be the dependent, while I'll be the main applicant.

PS: I want to apply for masters in biological science or any health related course (studied microbiology BSc) and I am.

I plan to start with the Jan 2024 session.

Please I am open to any email or content I can read up for answers to these.

My email is vanvicky1@gmail.com.


Regards