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mutter:
Your husband went down on his knees and apologized for raping you over and over again!

Please someone give me a glass of water I have to swallow real hard, to digest this as real!

I wonder if you really know what the impact of abuse is.
You might think that everything is okay, but someday even years later something happens that triggers you and all the emotions come up again. You find yourself in a situation that you can hardly cope with the situation and everything just comes up and chokes you.

but you know this jist is fake na... even naija Africa magic is not as perfect as this... both the robedu and the blesie are one person playing with our heads... I strongly suspect mumumugu.

babe someone has called you out on sexuality section... go and defend yourself and family.

you this girl and all your stories from your blogs.... okay oh...









well, now we know why married women are always agressive to female divorcees
toh look for another persons husband and steal na. since someone stole yours...

someone who can write this is already aware of himself...











and some old naija babes will quickly shade yes... most especially when the guy in question drives a borrowed range...
chai! wahala dey oh...

Babymama1:
Poblano soup and crackers for lunch
No I didn't cook it

nne please how do eat this thing that looks like babys vee

DeCritique:
Ha... Fresh tomatoes in pepper soup? Bros dis one don pass pepper soup oh!!


You're sure it's not the recipe for Tomatoes soup you're giving us here? Lol... Every other thing is in order except the tomatoes.

We call ours ehuru not ehulu. Small seeds, not too small that is roasted a little and then pound.

Then which one is efulu again?

nna d thing taya kwam oooo

#sighs

the scratching of the bently thing...



I concur

is this the new model of bullion vans? op...

cant watch. please summarise

Madam, post the full story here how you posted it on your blog... if you want traffic, there are several other ways to get it abeg

He is like a tree planted by the rivers of water, and bringeth forth fruits in its own season

okotv:
a Google search will help

okay. done that

see no evil, think no evil... amen!

this story sweet oh...
chapter2 nko

aisha2:
Na wa oh, so your husbands friend can decide that no one will disrespect his fling but your husband can let them disrespect his lawful wife in her house and even ask that she should apologise hmmmm.

Na wa oh. You owe non of the louts any apology arrant nonsense

Am not particular about the kitchen iss but as a guest people should be more polite.
However, I understand the lady's point of view, she may have wanted a peaceful weekend but the boyfriend possibly wanted a cheaper option hence her aggression and maybe woman of the house had probably been giving her condescending looks and all hence her reaction.

Anyway, if I were you I would be more concerned with my husband not standing up for me than anything else

I taya oh...
u sha dey tok true some times

mutter:
I am not a man
So all this trash you emptied here did not fall into my bin.

As a woman I strongly object to you calling that woman a Love peddler.
That is a young girl that was at the very worst deceived into believing she was in a serious relationship.
She was doing what most ladies and men do - having a relationship and hoping it would lead to marriage.
When I encourage women to have respect and be submissive, some women here cry out that I do not have regard for women, some even think I must be a man.
But I have so much regard for women that I respect them as women. I would never address a fellow woman as a LovePeddler.

Let me tell you something. Some very bad and useless girls out there have had the luck to be put in a mans house.
But believe you my there are so wonderful very decent girls out there that deserve it more than you and are much more respectable than you. That have a more decent relationship than your marriage.

she did not call her a love peddler. it was after everything that op got to find out she was not the main chick. if only the lady behaved well, op would have even changed her initial mindset towards her... I want to ask you a personal question... is that how you visit your husbands friends and assume lord of the ring in their wives' kitchen? nothing like ego here abeg. why didn't the girl wash plate if she really wanted to make things easier for the whole house....


its true that the op would have ignored her. but as humans, our brains are not wired to take the more sensible option at such scenarios

kreamidiva:
Nne, gini bu "otu"?

otu bu mgbogi

manny4life:

Abeg which kain kweshion be this na? Abeg no make me vex.

#JustKidding..

How come I know all these things? Several women cook for me and also my mom, so what is there not to know?

When you enter market, ask them women, they will show you what and how they look like.

Okay. Its not like we don't cook it in family house. I really cant explain why i've never been interested in learning special delicacies... every other basic food has already been perfected by yours truly. But any extra mile, count me out.
I'm trying to learn because i have to marry this year. Don't want oga to be(who ever he turns out to be) to sack me within a month




Errrrm. How come several women cook for you? Nee gi nekwa kognomi...

manny4life:
Our native spice

First season the fish with (any spice) of yours, after steaming up, blend all these together

ehulu - roast on the fire
uziza seeds
uda - one stick
efulu
Fresh tomatoes, fresh pepper or Cameroon pepper with onion,
Utazi leaves (one or two leafs to make it a lil bitter)


That's it..

Thank me later

Are you male or female? How come you know all this things. How do i recognize em when i see em

Herzumpther:
Pepper soup recipe? I don't know what you mean by kayanchiki but I can give you my ingredients and recipe for both my assorted and catfish pepper soup if you want.

Good afternoon.

Okay thanks

Bunsky:
cc
Herzumpther

You don't know how to cook it? You can give me urs na before she comes online.

kaya09:
Why will you ask me something like that,whats your problem. The truth hurts my dear.

What truth are you talking of. If the people around you do not have morals, it does not mean every other person is like that ok?
Please do not bring your dirty spirit to this beautiful thread abeg.

HFOG:
I hope me story doesn't bore you. He noticed me first some two years before I knew he existed. We finished from the same school. I was two years ahead even though he's much older than me (more than a decade). I noticed him in my final year. He was the fellowship's president. The Lord gave me an assignment which was against the fellowship's procedures. I tried to excuse myself and to prove my point I eagerly went to meet my lord for permission not to do what the Lord was asking me to do. Suprising, he said I should feel free and do it. That was the first time I took note of him. Second time, I had a baby in school (fresher). She had access to all my things and we were very close. Suddenly she began to keep malice with me. I think we had an issue or so. I pleaded and pleaded with her to no avail. Others did on my behalf too but she didn't yield. Then the Lord told me to tell my lord which I hesistantly did. Like film my baby changed. I do not know to date what they discussed. But that incidence struck me. Third occasion - I was struggling with the Lord in my room over watching a movie as opposed to reading. I kept lingering till my lord sent me an SMS on obedience not knowing what I was doing. Immediately I dropped the movie and read. The final one - I had a number of suitors and I was particularly attached to more than one. I'd turned down some but my home church get plenty procedures for marriage. Me lord wasn't one of me suitors. I grew restless one evening because one of the suitors was to call for my response and I wasn't decided. In the midst of my restlessness me lord sent an SMS pleading with me to tell him why I was bothered. That was it for me. I felt irritated like someone was spying on me and crossing his boundaries. I mean all these incidences within a semester. I could hardly call them coincidences. We weren't close yet he knew all about my walk with the Lord. Inasmuch as I didn't want to own up that something was coming up I couldn't deny it either. I graduated and few months later during my service he proposed. The way he did the proposal thing so irritated me I just told him to go and learn how to make a proposal. We didn't speak for the next 9months or so. Not a word, flash, text, mail. Nothing. We went our separate ways believing we were not meant to be together. He's very shy/reserved while I'm very outspoken and can do some unnecessary shakara. Somehow during that break I gave other suitors space but it just didn't work. My lord and I got back together and I've been having the time of my life with a man that is so UNLIKE me.

Please, how many types of lord do you have...
You should have just called him hubby or love so we know the difference between our Lord and saviour Jesus Christ and sarah's kind of lord.
Just incase of next time.

Please give me the pepper soup recipe oooooooh...


Please.
I'd like to make kayanchiki pepper soup this evening... biko.

okotv:
the English name is African star apple. Thank you

African star apple is different

ammyluv2002:
I love you..... kudos!

Love you too sis...

Happy birthday...

CoCoLav:
I think so too.

I am an introvert but the things I do...

People will be surprised.

OP maybe you are just boring..try to be more interesting and spontaneous around him.

4 years?! mehn...by this time you should be doing make up on his face and taking pictures
painting his toe nails
shaving his eyebrows while he is asleep
Just have fun.
Plan outings to places he will like...you know him best. You know what he likes doing
watch sports with him if he is a sports fan. for good measure you could just support the opposite team so you can argue and have some laughs
buy the latest video game and the both of you play it together
Spontaneously dance for him....you can even dance on his body
Go to a gaming center...play snooker, go paintballing...
You could also give him some drama, tease him, make him laugh
just basically have fun!
On Fridays after work you both can just go the park, sit, buy pizza and talk.
And then you could write him little letters and drop off at places he is sure to see them...like his pockets or wallet. I prefer this to the normal boring text messages and pinging.

Thank you. I just learnt some things from you now.

Oh my God! Kai, why didn't you invite me to give her a slap on your behalf. Why do some ladies behave like they were not born into a home. Who even gave her access to your kitchen? What was she looking for in that area. Apologize to her for what? You were supposed to demand an apology from them sef for inconveniencing and insulting you as well



Hmmmmn. Women dey see things in the name of marriage oh.

And you think the bible made a mistake?
There shall be no barren means there shall be no barren.
Every woman can conceive at any age... be it thru IVF traditional means.
To all TTC couples,


Please let not your faith run weak...

adexsimply:
you don't believe me?

Even you sef don't believe yourself...