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WhiteRuler:
First of all, apologies for any errors you may come across as I am not at the right frame of mind now.

Secondly, this post is 100% real about my life. So nothing is fake in it.

I'm a man, precisely 33 years old. I graduated from the University in 2019 at age 31. You may ask why I was still in school till that age. Well, I have realized that family/parental background matters a lot in a child's life no matter how people try to twist the fact. My family/parental background wasn't a good one educationally and financially as my parents were just petty traders and this has contributed negatively in achieving my goals and aspirations in life. With the above, you can deduce that there was no sources of funding for my tertiary education so I had to find a job after my secondary school while very ambitious about my furthering my education because I always believed in acquiring education up to university level. This led me to doing several odd jobs such as construction site labourer, security guard, cleaning, barbing, hawking, even to remove soak away and many others just to feed and see myself through school. Let me also add that @33 now, there are some jobs I can't do again because of some changes in my health system occasioned by some of the odd jobs I exposed myself to. For example, any strenuous job now is not for me as it makes me breath heavily like an asthmatic patient; any job that requires standing for long or bending down not for me due to broken waist (although these might be solvable issues but for now, I can't tell cos I have no money to visit health facility).

Moving on, while I may be thanking God for the academic success (even though the school is yet to issue me certificate) but I'm having strong feelings about myself. I feel like I have failed in life. I feel like I am a failure. My mates who got admission into university immediately after secondary school are gainfully employed today, living in comfortable apartment (built or rented), married with kids, have their own car and generally doing well. Even the ones who didn't further but venture into learning trade are doing well too. On the other hand, at 33, I have virtually nothing to show for it. Still living in one thatch house, poor, hungry and starving, no wife, no kid(s) (not even a serious girlfriend), no job, no car and nothing to show for my 33 years on earth. This is why I'm feeling like I have failed in life and it has made me to always be ashamed of myself and always trying to avoid meeting my mates who are doing well.

Also, looking at the country Nigeria, most employers recruit under 30. @33, what are my chances of
landing a good job if I refuse to forge age and go for service but collect exemption letter? What are even the possibility of getting a job as I have no capital for business? Note: between 2019 and now, I've learnt several online money making skills but yet to make a kobo out of it all. Note also: ordinarily, I wouldn't seek employment (private or government) because I'm multi talented e.g in football, entertainment or business but these talents need money to develop which is what I'm lacking.

My questions:
Please what do you all think? Do you think I have failed or I'm a failure in life? What is the future holding for me? As at today, the only thing I can boast of is "I am a graduate". Nothing more...like I said, poor, hungry and starving.

Help me with good pieces of advice please before my mind begins to consider evil as fastest way of making money. Thanks.

if you see yourself as a failure then that's who you are. As he thinks in his heart, so he is.

dazzlingd:
Lol, what does a slowpoke (dazzlingd)knows about truth..
Idiot(dazzlingd).. like rats, multiply like flies...u are everywhere...same way his idiotic parents mated to produce fool like him, same way he will mate another idiot and multiply like flies

Fixed.

dazzlingd:
Your useless father didnt train u well, defend ur bald headed god Oledepo as much as u wish, u will never fly in his private jet.
Idiot son of a smelling pig, it's so sad u may not even know u true father as ur wh.ore mother fvked the entire neighbours plus their dogs to raise u up...
I dont talk to smellos not to mention a mentally challenged smello...where did u come from to start quoting me u dirty thing...

U broke and smelly, u can't even boast of 100k in your account l, u are defending a billionaire that gives no shiit about u, call him daddy from now till u die, u will never taste out of his wealth while his true children are flying in private jets and enjoying he wealth of their father.....shameless baboon, I blame your idiotic parents that mated to produce a fool like u

He actually told you the naked truth.Be humble and stop being bileful.

Kobojunkie:
Anointed by whom?
God fired all His former shepherds and declared that He alone is Shepherd over His flock.
So, don't let men deceive you, pretending they come to you as pastors from God. God washed His hands of all human shepherds a long time ago and Jesus Christ,in John 10, echoed this same message to you when He declared that He alone is Shepherd over His flock.

so you are still parabulating in the desert of old testament Sir .

That 15yr old is sowore in the making.

Pastorjohn2:
Child of satan

I pity his Children, Born of a sinful father that produces satanic music
I can already see how sorrowful those unfortunate children will be in future

anointed Devil go to hell because that's where you belong to. Those children shall be happy and no sorrow shall befall them.

Op. You will not be paid your balance of this nonsense PR job you did.

muhua1:
I know all these people attacking,sabotaging the government fight against insecurity, sponsored criminals is all because they didn’t get any share from government very wicked people,starting from swore and NMK and those fake pastors,
If I’m garba shehu I will just leak the picture to any news paper instead of talking directly.

yen yen shut up .

When the center cannot hold--------fill in the gap.
Useless government that specializes on propaganda and black mailing.

What is she doing with six children at home? Is she running an orphanage home? Is she into business of hiring of underage children as house help ? What is the relationship between her and the suspect.?

That is the exact way Buhari have destroyed Nigeria Economy.

Amen to that Mr President.

The zenith of stupidity.

obonujoker:
If Jesus came during this age, would he have acquired a private jet worth billions of Naira??

Would he have use donkey to move from Israel to Africa (Nigeria)?

shurch:
the bird is not crying like a bird anymore .

The rat are not crying like rat again. Hahaha...Yoruba Nolly wood.

A polished terrorist.

It was a coup planned and executed by his son and loyalist in the army.Absallom conspiracy theory comes to mind.

Op. How are you sure your future wife is not a town service operator at the moment. Next time mind your business.

Stupidity is when your house is on fire and you are chasing rats about.

Sign of mental retardation.

EmekaBlue:
Church wey get money pass local government

Local government? Or some states combined .

Op.is it hell or hail?

BluDesk:
Can you do better than an Ostrich. Shame on you.

The trust God entrusts to me, you can never have in 100 years. Why does God committ much to me. I understand His ways, thoughts, desires, actions and plans


Go on and keep hoarding resources while those who serve your interests die of need


Shameless hypocrite

you emphasize so much on" I" and you curse so easily,this shows you have a psychological issue. Please go and work on your self.

lexy2014:
U don't need a 160b naira to save souls. Don't remember Jesus or d apostles building structures to save souls

Nothing is too small for the gospel and no amount will ever be too much for the work of the Lord on Earth. In years to come bigger projects than this shall be embarked on by the church of Christ,so save your critism for the future.

BluDesk:
Na so

Judas indeed. So when there's need to discuss Kingdom issues, your best defense is Judas.

Come and see jaxxy

Let me ask you... Did God not say " bring forth your concerns, let's reason together "



You and the fellow supporters of evil are the Judas and the judgement of God will fall upon you


I dare to ask you. Can a person make 160 Billion in a year in non profit sector?


If for example it took 15 years to raise 160 Billion, can you here and now publish charitable deeds of up to 1 Billion annually in the past 15 years the same tenure.?


Go study the acts establishing and. Guiding the activities of charitable organisations in UK for example, and then you'll understand as a charitable organisation, you should have a certain percentile devoted to direct human investments

And don't you ever dare guilt tripping me. I'm not your mate in the kingdom

don't be an embittered soul it will only drown you. If you need further clarification on the church corporate social responsibility Google is your friend or better still go to their headquarter instead of being bileful .

BluDesk:
This is exactly the point



as a responsible pastor he claims to be what does it profit u to build a building in the sky when u have hungry believers and pastors in ur midst down on the ground?


I also expanded it further by saying if for example it took ten years to save 160 Billion, what beneficiary of 500Million was done annually in the past ten to twelve years.?

Judas you are well sighted. I know your type.

DUNKA:
Vanity upon vanity. All is vanity. Too bad

We love this kind of vanity.

Get her a shaving stick and deodorants if her issue is about hygiene because some people like to keep sambisa forest both on the private and armpits .
If the situation persists let her see a doctor it could be an underlings medical issues
If the condition persisted let her go for deliverance na spiritual matter be that.

slyfoxxjoe:
haha. I’m at the level I can fvck his daughter if I do ols. You know not whom you speak to boy. Go find houseboy work for your uncle.

So to prove your level of achievement is to f***k. Uncle you goofed big time.

God thank you. If you know why you will always thank him in whatever capacity you find yourself.

slyfoxxjoe:
Haha. He could not even sit on the presidential seat as acting president. Na house boy this guy be jare

To you now you don talk be that abi?. just pray that God will grant you the grace to be house boy to this special house boy

The incoming president. Happy deliberations Sir