₦airaland Forum

mariovito:
Is this what nairaland has turned into?

On a Monday morning?

This is the height of unseriousness.

Who be the mod wey push this thing come front page?

U can leave nairaland if u think we are not serious and go to another very serious blog.Stop reminding us of unseriousness

Spiff20:
Most of these stories of you guys ghosting girls and they started chasing you are all lies. Some you ghost them and they never remember you exist but y'all will come here and say they were chasing after you.

Madam they are not lies.Stop trying to cover the truth.Women tend to remember those who she rejected once she has run out of options.This is a true fact.

BurnaBaby:
I am the hardest girl to get . 99% of guys who approached me couldn't get me for a date.
The one I am managing right now, it took him over 2year and 3month before I accepted him.
I am a Trophy not a number!
I am a Queen not a maid!
I am a Boss lady not a Help!
I am the first lady not the ADC!
I am the Empress not ............

Las Las na one street boy u dey beg dey give ur pomo free

pepperdemzombie:
What are you hitting? Is it false they deny women inheritance in Igbo land? A story was brought here recently, the lady was killed and burnt to ashes.
Only in Igbo land!

If only u can call the region u are from pls.Why are u hiding it? My aunties husband died last year and till date no one has ever chased her or asked her for anything.are they not Igbos too? Just call ur region if u are a man

Iyaebe:
Initial gragra as if the office is hindering them from performing, men always trying to blame women for their failure since time immemorial.

Thank God without a man u wouldn't have been born.U will still have a son and ur daughters will marry men too.Hope u will hate them as ur doing to others? Frustrated feminist

franchasng:
Nonsense half baked story to swindle people into donating their money for a false allegation.


Why did her husband relatives locked her out?



That's how they will be spreading false news about Igbos and Igbo tradition. Mind you, I also have bereaved relatives and they have been enjoying family support in all ramifications.


Nonsense story

Don't mind the babies my brother.Stupid set of nairalanders talking rubbish

pepperdemzombie:
She should dwell in her foolishness. Who else apart from a fool builds a house for a man in a place like Igbo land where women are being denied inheritance?
The fool might have even bought the land in the man's name and built it in his family house.
What happens to building in her home town in her childrens' names? The chance of going to claim the property there is very low.
Any man that can't live with you there should build his own house or pay rent. She should have just needed Police to remove her belongings, they shouldn't have even locked up a rented apartment.

Pls u guys should stop painting Igbos black pls.Therr are wonderful Igbo people who work hard and don't depend on their brothers properties.Stop this tribal rubbish.if the Igbos hit back u guys u will be talking rubbish. I warn u behave ur self

Candidlady:
Was the bolded necessary

Pretty sure you would have rubbed this same sentence all over her face...


You are not complaining but yet you stated it in your post


Because of the bolded some won't even give you the advice you seek, they will end up insulting your wife


Good luck finding solution to your problem

He only mentioned this before people would accuse him of not carrying out his duties.Try to understand him

Iyaebe:
Each time I see this ugly boy,I get so angry over what he did to his first wife,the only woman that truly loves him and stood by him when he had nothing only for him to repay her loyalty and love by marrying another wife.Presently he’s doing everything possible to win her back but the woman has refused to come back to him(I know this first hand).Men will never think twice to betray a woman no matter how much you shower him with love and support,so let no lady waste her time with a struggling man because he will surely betray you when he’s successful.

Will u please shut ur gutter there.Pained feminist.Do u think everyone will behave like ur ex boyfriend that broke ur heart? Get out please

We don hear.Talk is different from reality.Time will tell.

abuwidad:
White people like Afghanistans right? Because there own skin sef no black like your own. Mind you what's happening in that region will be worse than what they have up north. In fact its worst already

Shut up fool.What is worse than bandits, kidnapping,killer herdsmen,boko haram all in one region.All these groups mentioned are ranked as the deadliest terrorist organisation in the world.Nigeria budgets billions of dollars for fight insurgency alone on the north.Billions of dollars budgeted are injected alone to fight bokoharam and ur here spewing rubbish from your gutter.Wasted brain

seunmsg:
He’s still the governor of Ebonyi as we speak and he will remain so till 28th May, 2023.

Oga he is now a former and there is nothing anyone not even you can do about it.U and umahi can never be above the court of law

SeeThisLoser:
And still the Russian army cannot occupy this city after almost a whole month ? So they just bomb and bomb and bomb but the soldiers are too scared to move in because they know they face complete annihilation by the Ukrainian army.


The Russian army is overrated.

This isn't total war Mr man.This is invasion and it's strategically carried out.This isn't like Nigeria civil war young man.

BSsniffer:
Lol....inosson is simply slapping his logo on a Chinese car manufacturer that copies it's design from Benz and other popular car brands.....you governor is driving a Chinese vehicle.



Everyone knows that innosson is a copy and paste fraudster posing as a car manufacturer....he has been exposed many times.

Go and arrest him urself instead of staying behind borrowed phone and mudhouse and be saying rubbish about a multi billionaire.E easy to reach his level?

UyaiIncomparabl:
My dear, leave this your westernized mindset in that abroad that you are in. Over here, we are Africans and we should behave like one. We are gradually throwing away our heritage and culture as of old in the name of feminism.

Men are by nature, total providers. Women will just assist when it's necessary. That's how I was taught and I adore the teachings. It has served me well. Even the Bible and Holy Quran command that a man should be 100% a provider in his home. It's just that our heritage has gone to the dogs and men of nowadays are so lazy and looking for working-class women so they will stop working and leech off them. I can't be that woman.

So, who are you a mere mortal to disobey God's commandment when he has stamped it?

Just get your acts together and start doing better. Or you just stay put forever there in that your abroad and be with whitey. Better learn to open your hand. Aka chi chi chi is not good.

U want men to leave a and forget westernised culture but u don't want ladies to leave westernised gender equality and feminism right? The same bible and quran says that woman should be submissive to her man but u won't say that.Honestly Una matter na waste of time

Beebah2000:
No be by force to date. If you no wan feed another person daughter, then NO DATE.
Simple!!!

Not all girls will be like u who depend on their boyfriends to feed.

udejiga17:
Take him to Lagos state citizen mediation center… matter will be solve before you know it.. I have evacuated 3 of my tenant this way.. it absolutely free of charge .

The best advice ever

Czartrips:
Most stupid advice.. How do people think like this?

Do u support the tenants evil act?

Ixodes:
Why you no just tell him to go babalawo place ? all the evil prayer you don dey pray since dey born you which one God don answer?

Yr
Are u supporting the tenant to owe 3yrs rent? God let's d devil implement destruction if ur hands are not clean.Stop supporting evil

wowcatty:
This is the weakness that makes some roaches put unnecessary demand on you Sanwo-Olu. What's with the explaining? People who can't afford to pay the toll need to find somewhere else to live. You want development, you got it and the money invested didn't fall from the sky, it has to be recouped. There's no free lunch anywhere. Lagos won't be the first to toll a road and won't be the last. Sanwo-Olu is showing too much weakness that will catch up with him later. He needs to put his foot down and call these enemies of progress what they really are, ENEMIES OF LAGOS!

Of course am not surprised this is coming from a sycophant like you.Have u ever been to the island before? Gibberish

Viraltrends123:
And i pray u will be part of the person u wish this poverty,bad times and hardship on.Amen Amen Amen

Because you lack comprehension, and that's how you get a curse for yourself.

I was talking about wicked and foolish people, and you happen to be one

U are just a serious sick illiterate.u cursed urself by ya self.Na u go suffer am sha.

Viraltrends123:
I felt sad seeing the comments, with wickedness and foolishness I see in people both online and offline, I think we deserve this bad times, poverty and suffering.

And i pray u will be part of the people u wish this poverty,bad times and hardship on.Amen

Kobojunkiee:
The woman was married to the man at the time of his death, so there is technically nothing wrong with what she did.

Being in charge of the bills does not give one legal guardianship so the in-laws are wrong in assuming they should have been consulted on the matter. So the in-laws should probably work on accepting their loss and moving on from this.

You are a very big fool for your comment.How can u joke with ur husbands life because of church doctrine? Are u for real? God will surely judge both of u fools

Offpoint1:
That's why I clearly stated "irresponsible men" are the cause.

You're a responsible man, you saw the future and you averted disaster.

Women are like kids, they behave like them. You can easily sway them with words or materials.

Really!!!!!! So they are like kids? I see.Well women who deliberately cheat on their husbands are wat pls?

Offpoint1:
It still falls back to the men, 95% of sex are initiated by men... The 5% are runs girls and ashawos.

Haaaaaaaa so if a responsible girl initiates sex with her boyfriend she's a runs girl abiiiii? So from ur statics no girl initiates sex except runs girls abiiiii? I just dey laugh u and ur comment

Candidlady:
Make una see question

Allah kai!

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
How did they not know about his kidney failure before marriage .
I know the optimistic part of me would really want to give that kidney to my husband but the logical side of me would not support that decision , marriage is not a do or die affair in my opinion since it's a new marriage and there's no child involved it's okay to leave if she feels pressured , it's not wickedness , the man could do same to her if she were to find herself in an unfortunate circumstance , I mean we see it everyday where the women can't have a child and the man ends up marrying someone else or having children in secret , and some will cheat on their wives because she's no longer pretty after 5 kids and is worn out from her very demanding job

The stories I see of this marriage thing is making me doubt that I will even marry who I love , in the selfish world the selfish succeed , you can't force someone to drink medicine for another person's sickness , if she offers to help willingly it's different but saying she has to because he's her husband is ridiculous , it basically means that she has no say in the matter , it's a very toxic type of entitlement

This ur comment is just ridiculous.Pray u Don't fall into the man's situation like this mmm

omokab:
my friend the man is not right at all. He's just an opportunist who got money from donation and gift. He doesn't understand the simple economics. Tell me a rich man or a rich country that doesn't borrow loan more than their net worth . you need capital to finance your project and when you don't have already
Made capital you need to borrow. What you use the money to do is what matter most. Let dangote start operation from his refinery and see the returns on his investment .When a nation is borrowing to finance a capital project which will be of benefit and increase his income definitely is in good direction but when borrowing to finance expenditure that nation is going to collapse. A difference between Jonathan government borrowing to pay expenditure and buari government to finance capital expenditure.

Other countries borrow money to finance projects that fail too.Example the Chinese taking over Entebe airport cos of failed returns on loans

Ayemileto:
Based on the full article, I don't think it applies to business men (like Dangote) because they aren't doing big boy around town, and they are not using the loans to purchase liabilities. Instead, they are investing with it.

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As for the cost of Dangote refinery, I don't know of banks that borrow people more money than their collateral sha. Maybe they exist and I just don't know.

But, as at when Dangote started his refinery, the cost was supposed to be $8billion (I saw it in newspapers then). I don't know if they changed the initial plan for the cost to have jumped so high, or maybe it's because of inflation.

But, I think the $19billion tag placed on the refinery might be to avoid questioning on the $3.2billion NNPC paid for 20% stake.

Let's not also forget FG sells forex to Dangote at a cheaper rate because of the refinery. So, it might as well be to get much more forex out at a cheaper rate.

What I'm saying is that, it might not cost up to the $19billion price tag. The price could have been inflated for several reasons.

In Nigeria here,banks give politicians money without collateral.Business men like Dangote,Otedola,Adenuga etc collect loans more than their collateral.The risk involved is that if the said investment fails to yeild returns,u lose everything.Etisalat is a good case study in Nigeria.After taking $1,000,000,000 loan for their biz,they couldn't pay up.Wat happened nxt their assessts were taken over by NCC.So in actual sense Oyedepo was right.He handles money and knows Wats involved.

We4all:
Next time, ask your parents to instill some manners in you or come let me lend some to you. Your brainless head direly needs it.

I lack manners but u are mentally invalid in this ur useless life.Nine months wasted to give birth to you

We4all:
This man should shut up already. I thought you said you guys were perfect for each other?

Anyways, men do worse things to women and they still endure. This man should just manage her like that.

Shut up fool.Should he scape goat for the crime of another person? May ur sons never marry faithful wives.Amen!!!

Favfables1:
1. You slept with a guy...
In the toilet for that matter...
And you were paid...

In other words...
You exchanged your body (sex) for material things (money)....
On word in the dictionary accurately describes you right now ...

2. What kind of man is he, if I may ask? ...
A man that sleeps with who.r.e.s? ...

Well...
I can't tell you what to do...
I would come clean with my cousin-sister if I were in your shoes ....
I would tell her the ENTIRE truth...

And u will also wish not be judged with ur past life if u marry someone else's brother tomorrow right? Hypocrites

Czario:
Fake story....since they're not yet married you should tell her. But you accepted payment afterwards...that says a lot about your character.

But her as olosho will marry someone's brother abiii? Will u because of her past condemn her not to marry tomorrow? Why then is she not comfortable that her ex sex client wanna marry her sister? She's a bloody hypocrite