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wanaj0:
Well, the actions of some (most) Nigerians has made Malaysians to view Nigerians in a bad light. Most of the Nigerians claim to be students but not doing any real schooling. Most are into crime or other vice. Yahoo yahoo and prostitution are the main one. Difficult to find Nigerians with any form of employment. Yet they go to clubs and spend money, ride cars etc. Everyone has got to see that most Nigerians are in to crime and treat them as such. Imagine Nigerians entering Taxis and refusing to pay the correct fare. Now taxi drivers even refuse to carry them now. Dont even talk about the black money issue. Cant think of any country where Nigerians are liked. We need to look at ourselves and change our attitude.

There was the case of a Nigerian who went to a church and told a Malaysian woman that he is expecting his parents to send him money but does not have an account. The Malaysian woman thinking of helping gave him her account number. Once the money was paid, she gave the money to boy and that was the last time the boy came to church. Weeks later the woman was arrested by the police. Apparently her account was used to collect yahoo money that she new nothing about. How do you think such a woman will look at Nigerians?

As a people, we lack integrity and character. Why should the agent lie to you?

Vicjustice:
That's absolutely up to you

tia mor:
my girlfriend is from the southern part of nija has been in love with this guy a christian by religion also from the norther part of nija. they had been dating for some time now. recently, he proposed and they are also planning to go for their marriage introduction next month but the issue here is that her beloved fiancee has strongly voted NO to court marriage except traditional and church marriage.
his reasons are that she is bound to divorce him in future if they both marry in the court but in church marriage she can"t divorce him whether they will have kids or not.
she loves this guy dearly but she is not certain what he is up to with the refusal of court marriage just as she can"t see herself excluding court marriage in her marriage to any man. please what is your honest advice?

Don Waka:
people i need help i just got grecce 1 month visa and i intend to travel this December but i want to move from grecce the same day i get there to a better country in Europe please advice me. i won go hassle

ibrak200:
Poster: if your mind says you should go and you feel like going.then follow your mind and pray to GOD for safety. To be rich you have to work for it.may be its your destiny to make it there.GUDLUCK

chinaaman:
YES,
1. If She is a promiscuous girl:
If your girl friend has a roving eye for all those around , in no certain terms will you ever be able to have a secured future with her.Trust is vital in a relationship and if she's not even your trust she's unquestionably not worth being your girlfriend.

chinaaman:
2. If She keeps dominating you:

This is the case when your girlfriend keeps ruling your entire life. She doesn’t give you any space and treats you like a child. You should live your life the way you want to. If even after speaking to her, she doesn’t seem to care, it is probably better to end the relationship.

chinaaman:
3. If She doesn’t respect you:

Respect is very important in a relationship. And both you and should your girlfriend, should give respect to each other. If you feel that she does not treat you with respect, bring it to her notice and tell her that no matter what the case is, she has absolutely no right to treat you like dirt and make you feel bad about yourself. If she continues with the same behavior, please get away from her.

chinaaman:
4. She has some dangerous addiction:

This is the case if your girlfriend has some kind of addiction that can ruin her life. This may be alcohol, drugs, etc. Being with such a female, can actually put you into depression. Sometimes it is even possible that she gets you addicted as well. Hence, it is better to break your relationship with her.

chinaaman:
5. If She is after your money:

You cannot possibly be with a girl who is with you only for your money. You feel that she expects you to spend for her all the time and asks you too many questions about your financial status.These are signs of a gold-digger.

chinaaman:
6. Efforts are one-sided:

For a healthy relationship, both the partners need to make effort. If you are the only one who is making all the efforts to make the relationship worth, while she is just not bothered, it is time to speak to her. If she still doesn’t try, maybe it is wiser to end things.

chinaaman:
7. If She keeps lying to you:

Small white lies can be forgiven. However lying should not reach an extent, where it becomes hard to trust the other person.


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chinaaman:
YES,
1. If She is a promiscuous girl:
If your girl friend has a roving eye for all those around , in no certain terms will you ever be able to have a secured future with her.Trust is vital in a relationship and if she's not even your trust she's unquestionably not worth being your girlfriend.
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chinaaman:
2. If She keeps dominating you:

This is the case when your girlfriend keeps ruling your entire life. She doesn’t give you any space and treats you like a child. You should live your life the way you want to. If even after speaking to her, she doesn’t seem to care, it is probably better to end the relationship.

chinaaman:
3. If She doesn’t respect you:

Respect is very important in a relationship. And both you and should your girlfriend, should give respect to each other. If you feel that she does not treat you with respect, bring it to her notice and tell her that no matter what the case is, she has absolutely no right to treat you like dirt and make you feel bad about yourself. If she continues with the same behavior, please get away from her.

chinaaman:
4. She has some dangerous addiction:

This is the case if your girlfriend has some kind of addiction that can ruin her life. This may be alcohol, drugs, etc. Being with such a female, can actually put you into depression. Sometimes it is even possible that she gets you addicted as well. Hence, it is better to break your relationship with her.

chinaaman:
5. If She is after your money:

You cannot possibly be with a girl who is with you only for your money. You feel that she expects you to spend for her all the time and asks you too many questions about your financial status.These are signs of a gold-digger,

chinaaman:
6. Efforts are one-sided:

For a healthy relationship, both the partners need to make effort. If you are the only one who is making all the efforts to make the relationship worth, while she is just not bothered, it is time to speak to her. If she still doesn’t try, maybe it is wiser to end things.

chinaaman:
7. If She keeps lying to you:

Small white lies can be forgiven. However lying should not reach an extent, where it becomes hard to trust the other person.
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Pelummy:
murnin pals,Is Bangladesh a visa free country?

Pelummy:
a fwend of mine has d invitation to bangladesh from his team cos he his a footballer,bt he does not know how to go abt it.

Pelummy:
@ Justwise, yea! cus i av d copy of d invitation myself.pls & pls jst help out if u av any info, tankx

Pelummy:
@ All,what ar u guys suggesting we du wit the invitation given to him?

moonraker:
agreed

the problem with them for me is their arrival in los. its one of the last flights to arrive at MMIA,

Nanigezee:
Please its urgent, i want to travel to london but i dont know how much is the cheapest flight ticket price from lagos to london? Pls how much would i need in nigerian naira?

Gboliwe:
You cant possibly be a final year student and still dont know how to spell C O V E N A N T. Learn to represent your school positively. It doesnt have an 'n' before the 'V'

Gbyte:
Hi My name is Rose, I'm a final year student of Convenant university and i'm a muslim, my parent want me to marry a muslim and am currently dating a christian, they even warned me recently when I went home for this Ileya break and I don't know what to do. I used to date a guy who is in the UK now, his name is Femi, Femi is a muslim and claims to love me but he's been in the UK for 3yrs since I was in my 100l, we even had to break up because of this and now he's asking me back, he's a muslim but he's not saying anything about when he's coming back home, I love Femi but I cant just tell him I've agreed to come back and go on cheating on him sleeping with someone else but he's also not telling me if he's coming home soon. I'm not having any problem leaving my current boyfriend because I told him I'm a muslim and we might not end up together because of that and now that my parents have just reminded me of it, I told him again and he said I should just decide and he'd support whatever my decision is. The problem am facing right now is that I don't know if I should go back to Femi or I should just move on because I don't know if i can cope with long distance relationship. Do you I should leave my current boyfriend knowing very well that he  loves me and I love him, or I should just ignore what my parents are saying and move on with him or I should go back to Femi who is in the UK or I should just wait for someone to come into my life who is going to be a muslim? I need answers please
Note: Names and school are fictional but the story is real

essy1:
Bizarre reports from the Volta Region say a 70-year-old lady has given birth to snakes at a fetish shrine in Kpando. The lady is reported to have first given birth to a green-skinned snake which measured seven feet, and another one which had two heads. Ten days later, she reportedly gave birth to two more snakes, with one dead.






The old lady was said to be based in Accra and had carried a protruded belly which looked like pregnancy for the past 31 years.

After combing through several hospitals for years and not finding a cure to her protruded belly, she was said to have been taken to a fetish shrine by name ‘God is King’ at Agorneme, near Kpando Zongo.
The shrine is run by Mamisi Asilevi and the old lady delivered the snakes not long after she was taken there.,,,,,,,

“I suffered this ailment for the past 31years. My stomach was as big as a pregnant woman who may deliver triplets. Most often, I experienced pains and stomach disorders. I realized that whatever was in my stomach could move around and sometimes rests within my chest,” the old lady narrated.

The owner of the shrine, Mamisi Asilevi, a farmer by profession, was adjudged the best farmer of the year in the Kpando District in 2010.

She said the old lady would be at the shrine for some six months for further treatment and also for doubting Thomases who might want to visit the shrine to verify the report.