Smile4mee01:
I have been abroad for a while now and i am curious to know why some of our ladies decline dating or marrying fellow Nigerians in the diaspora. I have tried to date a few any they are often quick to assume i am after them for their papers while i just prefer my own, someone who understands my culture and where i have come from. Even when i try to date the ones that don't have paper, regular work visa holders like me. They seem to want to be with the guys that have papers.

Also, when i am old, i would like to return to Nigeria. Marrying outside would make that transition very difficult.

I study other races, Immigrant groups from India and Asia. they work together well, and don't have these difficulty.

Should i give up on being with a Nigerian or keep trying ?

Regards.

My experience as an abroad base guy.

1. She sized me down, and me I can't beg someone to be with me
2. The second lady, need a very rich guy that will not ask her to spill bills.

N3TRAL:
The only thing you should worry about as a man is poverty.


Every other thing is secondary. Posts like this should come from girls.

Jesus!!!. I remember when I was worrying about my look. Until I went completely broke. Hunger no make me de look mirror again. Na person way chop belleful de look mirror.

Since I get money. Left , right center , fine boy from different women.

You just told him the gospel truth

tensazangetsu20:


Do you know what it takes to export anything from Nigeria. Easy to say so on the internet but very impractical in reality.

Very difficult

2mininuP:
Normal lately, even if u are not having marital issues once you are a responsible guy be ready to receive such massages.

I don receive am tire. One of the girls don message me

nwekeugochukwu:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7q24mBfehFc

I know the first girl. I asked her she said
She didn't toast him

aminulive:


https://politicsnigeria.com/trouble-as-n3-7-million-dissappears-from-cutomers-account-in-ecobank/

Eco bank doesn't have strong security at all

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Ehen

In the olden days, during the times of our fore fathers, precolonial eras,

I mean the times of our great, great, great grand fathers, when there was nothing like cerelac, all these modern baby foods, feeding Bottle, e.t.c,

How exactly were infants fed? What were babies fed?

Please someone should research and furnish us with answers

Person don de fear . Chai

Kobojunkie:
And if it turns out the baby has some sort of allergy to shrimp/crayfish, what then? Serious suffering?

People de born for idp camp even for prison

ExudeLoveToAll:
Does one person make up marriage?

If you think all the Hollywood paradise in your head will come to pass think twice.

Marriage is not about the man it's about two people coming together to work , work in bold letters in order to create the next smallest unit of the society to ensure societal sustainability.

If you still think marriage is about men, you may be shocked to remain in that delays mindset decades to come. What stops you from planning for marriage just as men plan? You are looking for some body's son to come sweep your feet...

In Nigeria is like that o. Unless na woman way don old you marry. She go gree do 50 50. My guy way marry 34 year old lady. Na she de cibtribute pass. Na en de beg her make en be de man

DyshApp:
A Nigerian man named Okechukwu Azubuike has voiced out his criticism towards his fellow compatriots who marry older Caucasian women while considering Nigerian women in their 30s as too old for marriage.

His statement has triggered a heated debate on Facebook, with different opinions from both men and women.

In his Facebook post, he highlighted the apparent double standards that exist when it comes to age preferences in relationships.

He pointed out that Nigerian men often display enthusiasm and joy when involved with older Caucasian women, even those who are of their grandmothers’ age.

However, when it comes to Nigerian women, the same men suddenly deem the age of 33 as too old for marriage.



Okey Aliyu

A 100 years American woman is more important and beneficial than a 40 year old Nigerian woman

Zonefree:

His name though

He'll return, insha'Allah in Jesus name, Issseeeee!

So you don't know Igbos have Muslims. Them plenty for my class for unn

ExudeLoveToAll:


Once you try to do this and it fails even if you decide to lock up for life everyone knows you gave a shot to pulling others off the poverty line. As long as it's family to me one must give a trying shot at helping. We I said never fund their lifestyles is that once you find that lifestyle before helping them create a sustainable business, that business will fail automatically.

Mikels Nigerian salary and bonuses goes to his family. He made it clear from day one that if he if he retires he will stop. I was in jos when my neighbour ugo was saying it, yet the brothers paid deaf ears.

Mikel wasn't good in football that much. He humility paved ways for him. Every manger wants an humble player. That's the fact.
Out of 5 boys he is the only sensible and educated person in the family. All of them are stack illiterate

ExudeLoveToAll:



The best is to make family members grow their own wealth and never fund any luxury lifestyle for any family members.


You can help create a startup with seed funds and help them grow the company and never fund their lifestyles it doesn't end well. The the business fund their lifestyles, this is a more sustainable approach.

You can only grow someone willing to grow.
When Mikel open up MMM record for his younger brother what happened. He's younger brother was busy showing up in Lagos buying VIP seats up and down.
He opened businesses for all his brothers all failed aside the parents business that's still functioning. He is paying private security for his father o. Omo billing wan finish Mikel abeg. He is talking out of pain.

DonBenny77:
Of course you belong to your family. They own you. And is your responsibility to make your family smile before you consider strangers. Build your family I'm not saying you must grant every request but try for your family because when you die na still that family go reciprocate. Some rich men impress the streets and let the family suffer then when they fall off.
Mikel particularly is a stingy guy, compare him to Mane from Senegal in terms of being charitable. Mikel would rather spend millions on a whip for model than support his family.
Don't downplay family, family is everything

See the jobless people

mariahAngel:
Mikel has had enough.

He has gotten to that point where he doesn't send anybody anymore. For him to speak out like this.
Africans and entitlement mentality are like🤞🏼

When you give each member of your family 500 million each n pay them salary at your active years. The moment you stop when you retire. Just know you are an enemy

PHIPEX:
So even with sit at home, these people still win the awards?

But I thought the propaganda machine told us the East was finished because of sit at home, what's going on?

Oga her school is based in Jos not east Saint Paul's academy Jos. Though own by the Igbos in Jos. The school was formed in 1995 Bcus the other Anglican school don't admit Igbos that merited the exams bcus the dominated everywhere. Every since the school was formed till today they have been producing the best students international.

Racoon:


https://independent.ng/breaking-chioma-blessings-obidigbo-clinches-best-award-in-wassce-school-candidate-2022/

Come to think of it. If a school in Jos that pays less than 100k produces good students. Omo!! My friends brother came out second in Nigeria same school " saint Paul academy". He got scholarship in us to study medicine.
Since how many years this school has been producing. Buy this year the break record

Eyinju112:

Smart!!!

But that format isn’t gonna work for me.

Ok. See u. Omo ladies too much this days

Eyinju112:


0060976739 Thelma. sterling bank.
If you drop, I go know say you serious. To find baby mama no hard hahahaha

If na u de dat dp. No need to go far. Just drop it number. Make we connect. I wan de sure no be man I de follow talk

Abagworo:


Isioma is more common in Orlu Imo State than Delta and Igbanke. The Ewerechukwu is an Edo girl but obviously Igbo in ethnicity going by her name.

Wow!! My sister in-law name is isioma from delta Igbo. Imo people de answer all name. My saw name imo people self de answer am

Puss360:
This guy talks too much..

He doesn't. Person that hardly grant interview. I watched it from beginning to end. He keeps dodging questions

Eyinju112:


😂😂😂😂😂

I u go find am. Send account number for running around.

Yugoslavia247:
Waiting for those that would be confused to bash Igbo or not. As her name get chukwu and from Edo.

Abeg who get that antelope wey leg go two ways

So u no no day Delta, bayalsa, rivers n edo the bear igno names. But they are not Igbos. If u hear name is Isioma. Just know say na Edo (Igbanke people) n delta( aniomas) name.

Mindlog:


Says one who looks reptilian.

Is bad to be ugly? Me I'm ugly. N I like it. Imagine if I find with the kind money way I get. Abeg rich n ugly I'd better make girls reduce. Girls even too much for me

Eyinju112:

Yes you’re right, but under the law. Law don’t recognize kids that are born out of wedlocks. So no one can question him if he decides not to pay for child support.

So davido fit no pay wow!! . Most people are doing baby mama recently. Incase u get tall for slim lady abeg contact me o. I need baby mama too. 500k every month. Married men die faster than single fathers

Eyinju112:

You don’t call that baby mama. She’s an ex wife. And before you can divorce a woman there must be an agreement that the man is gonna support the kid financially. The case is different if it’s an ex-wife.

But that is not totally true, in as much as the child is yours you must pay child support

Eyinju112:

You don’t call that baby mama. She’s an ex wife. And before you can divorce a woman there must be an agreement that them man is gonna support the kid financially. The case is different if it’s an ex-wife.

Ok. Now I get.

Eyinju112:
Why did you have his baby without him doing the norms. You got pregnant for a man who isn’t thinking marriage with you and you think it’s gonna be that easy? You agreed to become a baby mama, face the consequences. No man is irresponsible when he’s in love, if he’s acting irresponsible towards you and your kid, then there is something you must have done wrong.

And The way some women think they can tie a man down with their pregnancy or baby still amuse you. Evidence go plenty but you go still Dey explain explain till you go tire😂Become a baby mama at your own risk

Even people way de pay for their head no de last for marriage. Please what's the difference

Truths9ja:
wow you love his wife no be small

No. He loves attention

etrange:


No, not really. Please, don't make such bold statements about such a sensitive matter if you aren't well informed on the subject. There's a difference between other sexual assaults and rape. If this is called rape, then there was an intercourse without consent. The lady was walking home, he accosted her and raped her. She was a stranger to him, so it's not as if they were together and he misinterpreted the signals. So don't water it down by making look as if it's just a matter of societal difference.

Where you dere? What if he is innocent

dominique:


Typical of you Shamelessly Nigerian, always making cases for perverts. You did not read that he held her against rails and sexually assaulted her? Can you do that just by looking at someone? Keep justifying idiotic behaviour till you go outside the country and disgrace yourself like this animal did.

I'm telling you what the UK police told me. If you look at a lady in an unpleasant manner and she does not comfortable she can called the police

dominique:
The sentence is too short!

In the UK if you look woman too much it's called rape