₦airaland Forum

SLIDEwaxie:
Relax and learn... When they said- bail conditions, you automatically think it was only money. If he has the money and no sureties, who probably would be Lebel 13 officers of the government, you think they'll let him go? And besides, no government worker would stand as surety for him because of his madness. That's where his problem starts. ₦800,000 is sure fire, but the surety will be the problem... How much is ₦800,000?

U get brain walia....no be kudi b him prob now bt who go stand as surety for the werey wey no knw wetin dey disturb him.

Abi1985:
I wonder how people cope after losing serious money on parlay or single game. I remember how I lost N500000 on European football match, I wasted so much money that I could have use for something tangible. Losing so much money alone made realize that I am horrible on sport betting, so I decided to stop all together. It has saved me a lot of headache and stress. Today match between Manchester United and Newcastle United is a prime example , even though Manchester United were the favorite, they lost.

Omo, that thing get as e dey do person for body after u lost all ur money ontop sport betting....that's y u see say person wey get mind loose money ontop sport betting fit get mind to kill person i swear....E worst pass make dem send person go sambisa......At first, after losing so much cash enh; u become weak, angry, violent etc. Infact, in some cases it might lead to mental disorder.....imagine losing 500k or a millon in jst 5hrs or not more then u start to remember how u used abt 2yrs to gather such money with pain and reckless sleeping..........mtcheew, Sport betting isn't for the soft minded people....Na person wey get mind dey gamble and that's y i talk say person wey dey gamble fit commit murder.

police no dey that place bah.....But come o, 700 dollars for a room in a month....wahala dey idioyinbo land o

CosmicDust:
Here is my story....

I have a 3 siblings and I am at odds with my eldest who is a lady. The way it is, I may never have a conversation with her again.

She was the first person to be invested in by my parents after which I came. Luckily enough, she was able to strike gold in her career and do well for herself. She went abroad for her masters with my parents supporting with half-payment. Unfortunately, whenever it came to family demands and helping the other younger siblings, she has either been negligent or grudgingly does so.

Few years after going abroad, she decided to lockup and sends only 40k home which is supposed to cater for food for a month.
Now parents are retired, the whole family weight falls on my following sibling and I. The youngest one education is on me. Happy she will finish soon. Parents need to be supported in challenging times, one is coping with diabetes and the other is with some challenging issues I can't say here. Their savings are being sapped by their needs to keep living on.

But my so-called elder sister based in Canada despite knowing their condition is silent. She still sends her peanuts, while I and my younger brother who is an upcoming fashion designer do 2X what she does. This aches our parents and sometimes makes our mother cry and our father rant with regret.

A time now came, our mum got admitted in the hospital. Condition was so salient that she had to be hospitalized for weeks. Hospital bill was 450k. The Canada-based first born doing a good job, who was always talking to her, praying with her on phone, etc only sent 100k. We the others did the rest. Glad mum is back at home but her heart is broken and has refused to talk with her. She's been in Canada for 5 years and has refused to even support any of her siblings to come abroad too.

My other siblings say because we all refuse to be dictated to by her is the reason for her behaviour. I don't care. Mine is that if you know that you are going to be useless to a family, let your parents know before hand so the money used in training/feeding you can be used for farming business which will despite bad weather bring returns than on a child who feels is not obligated to support the parents who supported you all through.

Untill ur sis tell u her own part of the story, u no go know wetin dey sup for aboard.

she made a mistake, it was supposed to be 4.2M......42m for where, when no be say Tinubu na my papa.

Either Tinubu or Peter Obi, time will speak.....But when things start to go north way, make any werey person no para o...if u knw u knw.

Dearlove2me:
The truth is right now, I feel like going somewhere for a while. I feel like I need rest. Somewhere I can forget about all my problems and breathe a fresh air.
My husband has not been honest with me since the beginning of this marriage and I doubt if this is an attitude of a man that loves

He has always been in debt even before I married him. and he wouldn't let me know what he do with the money he keeps borrowing from people. Even my friends I introduced to him, he is owning them and can't pay back.

The bad side is, he borrows and stop picking their calls not respond nicely to them.
He behalves badly to them.
I'm suspecting he's into some kind of addiction that demands money. Maybe gambling but he wouldn't tell me.
He's constantly on his phone.

He is owning loan app everywhere. To the extent that the app had to send hurrible messages to his contact's lists including his bosses, office colleagues and my relatives.
It's so embarrassing and tiring.
He has apologized several times that I should give him time to work on himself to stop an addiction, but he refused to explain what it is. Claiming that I might leave him if I know.
But he has not changed abit.
We are always hungry in this house. No baby food for my 6months old baby, no pampers and everything is total struggle. I quit my job last year but I'll soon start job search once my baby grow a little.
In this house, If I don't look for food, then, we starve, I don't look for means of getting pampers, food, wears,then my baby will suffer, because his daddy is not capable of providing anything for us. It's so annoying.

I have dreams before I married him, but right now, I feel lost. There's no romance, no love, no affection in this marriage anymore, as I wouldn't even let him touch me because of the stress, suffer he constantly brings on us.

Money I raised to start up a business, (340k) I ended up using it to pay for his debt last two months because the people were always coming to embarrass us in the house and neighbors were coming to pleade on our behalf. I had to clear up the loan, yet he couldn't explain what he did with the money.
With that start up capital, I would have been growing by now, but here I am. Still at the zero point.

I'm really tired
I'm so confused here.
What should I do?
What would you advise?

and u are still living with such a man.....why not give him some space at least and see what the result will come out with....He won't change in as much he knows that u are alwys there to settle the debt he owes or buy food for the family.....No go allow make nature play u reality.

squash47:
U just collected it because you pitied the man. No body will accept old notes from you in this country. Trust me, u just dashed the man your goods.

Modified: How Does this lady's always hit front page ? I'm curious. Because almost all her post reach front page.

Any way, I dedicate this FTC to all Tinubu supporters worldwide. Nobody can take away our mandate... They labored and lost the election, they will still labor and lose the court case. Tinubu is here to move Nigeria forward. No body can stop that. Not even a thousand Obidient E-rats

read news b4 u comment na....Nawa o for Nigerians with their way of misconceptions

Come nd marry me nd save ur self the stress jeje

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Na person wey chop belleful na im dey use foreign acct take gamble......Now wetin u want mk we do 4 u biko......This case na high case o

Dem Dem don use these ones pants and boxer's

Naira20:
What's the difference between this one and the last one?

One is past and the other is present. lol

Do normal, do normal, do normal, una no go hear....Oshey o, minster of anger.......Oya carry ur cross alone na....God go see u through. We movee

jantman:
I don't gamble. I am too sneek to be called into the dirty game called betting.

like seriously, gambling is crazy...that tin na juju

Praktikals:
Sorry about your loss. I can help you recover some of ur loss. I will show you proof.

set awon oloribu....person wan japa from something nd u wan cage him back inside...

jantman:
Greedy wench waisting away their spiritua potentials

Gambling don show this one pepper sotel him turn motivational speaker...Allah and God go help us all...

Marry her na nd face what is to come.....i don talk my own finish bdat o

Na lie o, orange group na ekpoma be their base ......set awon orange beret...lol...if u knw u knw

At least he is right with his words.
God help us all.....Person wey find him self for heaven enh, na grace o and not luck at all.

Dimples2022:
You made me laugh out loud at this time!

Na truth i talk o....wait and see na

cliqtips:
Lol..
So, the guy no give her him own too.

Make una stop seeing sex like say na only the guy enjoyed ahm

na money d guy dey pump gv her na nd she dy gv d guy kpekus.

after u dupe the guy now, u go change ur name to Vanilla for Instagram....we know ur type.

cliqtips:
Please, what do you mean by this statement?

And how old are you?

How many years have you guys been together?

mtcheew, no carry matter go far abeg....she don gv the nigga her boli chop tire.

Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

What should I do?

NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.

I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.

I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.

Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this?

Minister of finance, I salute u o.....U don already open ur yansh outside na....u re scared if he would leave u so now u re planning on running away with his hard earn money.....Na u sabi manage bank acct then why u no go meet bubu make u manage zoogeria acct also.....Walia, fear women o...they have their own way of doing 419.....

Bobo don observe say him babe wan do him 360. Him sharpenly stay on a very high frequency.

58k....God go gv u buyer o

will Smith ko would smite ni

AMI3:

lol, true talk

amaka4obiiiie:
Because you play your game alone and only come here to show off. Thank God I didn’t see this game before

why re u pained like this na....shebi u too fit book games then mk u go book ur games alone too na....Na wa o

Tonyman55:
STAGE 1 DAY 2
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Haaa, gbese...this one is a wrong path to success

NwekeUG:
Yashim Elisha, one of the seven Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC) officers killed by bandits in Kaduna State reportedly got employed in NSCDC in 2022, IGBERETV has learnt

Yashim Elisha and other personnel were ambushed and killed at Kuriga mining site in Birnin Gwari Local Government Area of the state on Monday, January 9, 2023,

Friends and family members have taken to Facebook to mourn Elisha. Emmanuel Dondo wrote on Facebook



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