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tintingz:
- Can you prove this claim of yours someone has ancestral curse?

- Are you saying everyone are cursed? Because every human on earth has ups and down moment.

- How do we know when a calamity is an effect of a curse? Can you prove the connection?

Hope you know you're committing fallacies I can't even start mentioning your fallacies. One of it is post hoc fallacy.

What then is your prove of your claim?

You have been brainwashed by this nonsense that the Gods of our forefathers are evil, I don't know your religion but whatever it's is messing with your reasoning.

The Gods are not evil but said to be good and protecting, Olorun for instance is the supreme deity in the Yoruba religion and has Orishas, they are said to play a good role to the people of ancient Yorubas until when the British colonials came, enslave them and force them to drop their religion for Christianity, Muslim Jihadists also did same, this happened throughout the whole Africa.

I'm not a Christian nor Muslim nor in any religion but I will disagree with you when you try to paint the Gods of our forefathers as evil, you have been misled, try and read about African cultures and it beliefs and stop watching some misleading Nollywood movies.

Where did I say everyone is cursed?


U asked a question, why is it that the curses of People dont affect politicians?

And I replied.


U then asked again why is it that average and good people are affected by some curses and I replied.

I never mentioned everybody is cursed o!

Ha!


Even the gods of our fore fathers I mentioned earlier, I never said they were evil, all they need is constant worshipping, which people whose families are attached to those god's are not doing. Because of Christianity and all.

And whether u like it or not, when those god's who are abandoned, without giving them, what's theirs or without worshiping or feeding them with animal blood, they start causing havocs, that's the truth. Believe it or not.

They start causing havoc until they are appeased and worshipped before they calm down.

Oma307:
you calls that destiny. when they left their brains in their cupboard, thinking their beauty will make a good decision. it is unfortunate

That's how some people's destinies are.

It's unfortunate no doubt but I can tell u both are scheming of more ways to outdo each other as we type.

mexzony:
I guess they are scared of the backlash from Nigerians. Thu have put themselves in a difficult mess to get out of if they are actually bin a war. I guess no one wants to be a loser here but then again this is one of those wars one does not actually wants to find himself or herself in but alas they have entered it.

That's also one huge reason as well, backlash from people

It's battle to the end.

And it even favours flavour wella.

The guy is not ready to let go of either one of them.

He wants them both!
such a greedy man!

Guyman02:
I don't think you know these ladies, they are both from prominent rich families, they are models, they are ex beauty queens, they own private businesses, they are the ones spending their money on Chinedu (Flavour) ask anybody who stays in Enugu.
They are just mad, poverty is very far from them.

They are not mad

It's their calling and destiny. Nobody can stop them. They can't help but fall helplessly in love and helplessly obsessed with flavour.

Flavour is a lucky man sha ordained from above

sweetilicious:
That's why I don't want to judge.We don't know what people are going through or have been through.We just see the peripheral and decide we have figured people out.I still don't want her to take decisions just cos some people are telling her to.

Exactly! That's how people are.

And I won't judge her too.

She who wears the shoes knows where it pinches.

tintingz:
These things also happen to average people even to good people and religious people.

Why not provide evidence for your claim?

These things happen to average and good people through ancestral curse, what parents or grand parents have placed their hands on to either gain power or wealth in those days.
When one grand parents or great grand parents was once a rich man or politician or richest hunter in his time, do u know what they've done in their lifetime to maintain such status. Even their unborn grand children have no idea, but the curse still. Passes on, unless it's broken and destroyed by prayers and deliverance.
Those average and good people, do u know who their grand parents or great grand parents were? U don't know.
All u are seeing is what's in front u now, but u don't know how the foundation of that average person was created from.

Most suffers from curses they know nothing about.
And some sef, the mini god's their family was dedicated to by their grand parents to gain affluence, the grand children may no longer be serving those mini god's, because of Christianity and the mini god's are still alive crying for food, and that food could be blood. Yes blood. Our forefathers used to appease the gods with blood of fowls, goats etc. But now, Christianity and I don't believe any god exist has taken over, while our forefathers god's are been neglected over the years.
So from fowl blood, due to neglect, they will start destroying the grand children or great grand children with anger, screaming for more blood.
And misfortune happening here and there over average or good people.
Check their ancestral background, u will find alot of loopholes and manipulations done by forefathers and even mothers. It's a vicious circle.

The two women are in a battle field And the priceless goal is Flavour.

None of them is ready to give up flavour and end up been called a looser.

Nigerians, as we all know ourselves will laugh mock , even insult any of the beauty queens, who gives up on flavour. Her instagram page go hear am. In fact nigerians with bad mouth, will push her into exile.. Lol.. Chai!

So it will be a continuous struggle for his affection and continuity in getting pregnant after the other util they grow old and wrinkled. They both were created to serve and worship flavour for life.
No single grain of sense between those two ladies. Na because of flavour they come life. Smhhhh

fyneguy:
You did not have to compare Nina with Ceec. That was quite dumb!

Yes, Nina is doing well, but saying she is gaining more ground than Ceec was dumb!

Nope it's not dumb comparison

I nailed it.

All Ceec does is to show her hips and thighs with her protruding shiny forehead.

Although Nina does similar but Nina has more strictures on ground than ceec

Take it or leave it

tintingz:
I wonder why the curses of the poor masses are not affecting our rich and corrupt politicians.

It's simple.

The politicians are in deep cult. The curses on them and their lineage placed by their occult masters even supersedes what the masses are laying on them.
That's why u see some of their children misbehaving. You see their houses get burnt out of the blues, u see sometimes a politician and his whole family in a tragic accident, all dead with no survivors.
Especially the ones whose hands were stained with blood to get to where they are today.
So how do you think, curse will work on a cursed person? Placed by himself with his own hands and by his verdict, all for money and power.

jackals:
They actually aboundd everywhere tho. I dont give a damn about most of them

I don't give a damn too but as a Warri babe, we don't just look on while haters victimize us. We fight back immediately, and head for the jugular. That's how most of us are wired .

It's well jare.

Akuruoulo:
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u really dealt with this Easter.
nice meal dear.
where are u from ?

Yea I did

Lemme pamper myself jare.

I'm from delta state, the warri part.

And u?

Toybreezy:
You are right but let's look at it from another angle. It could be possible that she was abused in the marriage and maltreated but she couldn't do anything at first because she was just a helpless bread seller.

She's stronger now with money and fame, if you were in her shoe, will you continue tolerate being abused?

Its just a thought, only a thought!

Don't mind Nigerians, they expect her to continue with the abuse, assuming the husband was abusive.

Then when everyone heard she died of heart attack, they will smile gleefully in secret


Yeaa! That's the end of jumoke. Smhhhh.


Nigerians ehn? Are one funny set of hypocrites

sowilli:
she can’t go far not with social media insults. Where is Nina? What succcess. The cars and trips abroad. What you guys fail to realize is there are people who make money from publicity of these guys. It’s called media... garner attention, the more attention, more money. Where is Efe, Ese, ttt and the rest. They are doing their thing, all good but they are not in the media like they used to be. Wait for the next BBA is over, you will be the one looking for Nina. Madam, if you want to measure success in the media space, you mention mikes of Mo Abudu that commands the respect of world leaders or mention Mary Njoku. We know the ones that trade insults online.. like of Tonto Dikeh.. where are they? You

Really?

It amazes me how u can compare Mo Abudu, who is in her 50s and must have started media stuff so many years back to Nina who is in early 20s. And Nina started months ago.

For God sake, where is the comparison? Its just like comparing Micheal Jackson to dbanj? Haba!
Please think in a wise way, let's not get carried away with emotions.

sowilli:
money is good but the reasons for the divorce are obvious. If money could keep a relationship Jeff Bezos won’t be divorcing his wife. If money and fame can’t make this woman stick with a man she has got two kids for whist she was known as a bread seller, money and fame won’t get her a better man, foster her relationship with people or make her happier.

I can bet my last money on her, she's not even looking for a better man out there.

She will be more focused and driven to achieve more successes in her life.

Any newly divorced successful woman out there, will not start looking for a better man after her divorce, she will bury her head in her business, relationships with people who take her career far and her kids.
If a better man comes along, fine and if he doesn't? No wahala. Life goes on.

Life is not all about man! Man! Man!

sowilli:
An illiterate with no talent in the media space cannot go far. Take this anywhere. She is a product of grace not talent or hard work. Her story attracted attention which is the whole idea of media. They people who used her story have cashed out and she is only being empowered to make ends meet. Unfortunately, pride is coming in gradually. When a fool has plenty to eat, he becomes a burden to the earth. The least she can do is to be lowly and humble to everyone. Throwing insults and all she is all about means she is heading to the valley.

Don't worry u will shocked, she will go far in life with her illiteracy.
When people expect one to fall, God rises up and say Nope, my Grace is on her, she won't fall or fail.

And so because shes an illiterate she should accept all sorts of insults from people, right? Just to show she's humble?

Really?

Nigerians sef... See nina almost everyone was saying she won't go far, she's dumb, she's olosho, shes slow, she's this, she's that. She won't go far in life.

Now where is Nina? Haven't u seen her achievements lately?
She's even gaining more grounds in Success than ceec.

You don't write people off like that. Because the more u right them off in your mind and with words. The more God rewrite and repolish their stories all over again with more twists and turns.

Just watch and see what happens to olajumoke. Her success is just the beginning

incogni2o:
Abeg The curse cannot do anything. The guy saod nothing wrong.

Just his own pinch of salt

What he said was so wrong

He had no clue what she has gone through In her marriage and where she's coming from, even if the man gives her hell in the home. Everybody just feel she should suck it up, smile fake smiles to the camera and continue living in a hellish marriage.
All for people to praise her that she's a good wife

Really? And dying in silence? If u look at their pics displayed, she looks so unhappy but feigning a fake smile.
Anyways most nigerians love lies and love to live a deceitful life and I'm happy olajumoke is not one of them.

Someone cannot be successful and still be living with a thorn in the flesh everyday and night. You can't be giving me hell at home and expect me to pretend all is well to the public , then stay put and be suffering. Hell no, I won't. I will leave, that's the truth.

One has suffered ill-treatment being poor, one can't keep suffering the same treatment or worse when one is rich. It doesn't make sense.

That's just life. No one should judge her oresle what happened to her in her past life will happen to the person judging her . That's the beauty of life, I have come to see and realise happen well to people . Which I love the most. It can't be escaped.

Dacronym:
Very soon me too would Be attending Your Wedding Soon Too

Amen! Thanks dear

femi4:
first time, you no see anything to criticize

Haba! Do I really criticise that much?

And moreover they look cool.

sunisonflex29:
only s
on bro.I have been telling my sisters that I will be the one walking every one of them up.not uncles. Some years back..see d pic below

Awwww


And u look focused. Your sisters are blessed. I love this

Please stay inline with God o.

[quote author=sunisonflex29 post=77741557][/quote]You are welcome dear.

God will always keep you , protected, focused, stable and with great success coupled with wisdom to always keep the role of being the head for many many years to come & God bless the new home of your sister, too amen.

These pictures have made my day.

I'm happy

pandv:
I am serious and I will surely attend the wedding .

Lefulefu na babanla ukwu be hin spec, and im not within his range.

My own na moderate one with boob's to die for ( no need asking for a pic )

Lol don't mind me


So it's not about been serious about it. It's about let things happen naturally, that's all


But lefulefu too like woman Biko, I can't compete. Make he stick with him ukwu babes dem. Na those ones sure for am pass.

Asquare84:
This should be handle by your father or uncle except the family have issue and are against her marriage

Uncle ke? When she has a brother?

Nah bad idea.

Not uncles can do it sincerely with good intentions as her brother.

Op thumbs up!


You are a good son. We are proud of you! Nice one.

Your head correct!

Texman21:
so will anyother girl but idk everyone have his/her on taste

Good!

So guys here should not start bashing Nigerian girls that we wouldnt want any cute colourful petals with sweet smelling scents offered to us.

pandv:
This Lefulefu will make a good husband for you.

Hahahahahahahaha


Na so.

Fresh full red roses, On the first date with a bottle of chilled sweet and sour white wine.

I will be wowed!

.....

lefulefu:
come to daddy

Hahahahahahahaha

I talk am before!

Sighs

Bad wife, worst ever

generationz:
Lol Churchill is a narcissist and a player.

He played that woman and made her bitter.


Yes some guys love women who call them out on their shit. Not necessarily commanding.

Two weeks ago one of our tenants was telling my mom how much he is crazy about his girlfriend and would love to wife her. He was like " mama I like am she be my madam o , she dey command me." and my mom laughed.

When the girl is around the guy sometimes takes broom to sweep compound. while she's lounging.

Of course she will know her roles as a soon-to-be -wife but some men don't just like a 100% yes woman.

They want a girl who will bluntly tell them when they've fvcked up without being rude .


I suspect you are like that lefulefu. You are one of the most easy going guys I know on nairaland. You hardly fight anyone.

Seems you will end up with a hot headed babe

Lefulefu na chairman for women affairs, both single and married type.

If lefulefu eventually decides to marry , I must and I mean I MUST attend the wedding! Make I see the type he go put for house.



Lefulefu, holla @ your babe!

Akuruoulo:
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am not the flexing type. just eat my rice, and drink my VALETTA .
SO ,how was urs ?

Same here too.. I'm not too

Nice meal and wine

But Im having a great time at home.

I prepared yam, mixed with catfish pepper soup. Then palm oil dished in saucer by the side, that's in the morning. That's one of our traditional meals

Then Afternoon, I ate some fruits

Evening, Jollof and peppered turkey with a bottle of wine gifted to me by one of my close female friends.


Mehn! I'm full.

Thank you Lord.

Work resumes Tuesday, how about yours?

Such a lovely family and cute sons