₦airaland Forum

vingeophysicist:
you are getting married this year

Its well.
This life is all about money, after God .
And thats the stark reality .

When u stop searching, that's when the search focus on you . if u are financially ok, u will understand what I mean.

May God help us all.

Ukeachu1:
no bleach

For your mind !

Hmmm

HarunaWest:
Hot Mama...your quite pretty......meanwhile ignore the racist idiot up there...

Thanks dear


He's already ignored !

I don't have time for fools like him.

Flattino:
make I nor say Wetin dy my mind

Wetin dey your mind !?

Raalsalghul:
At the bolded, na you na.

Hahahahahahahah




No be me o!


My Reverend likes using that phrase when he wants to yab and crack jokes during service ..lol. He says comedy dey hin blood . and if he wants to become a full time comedian , he will make more money .

Table of 12: five million naira ! And people go rush come hin show ! Just to laugh! Lol

He preach finish I begin shed tears while laughing ! The Reverend is something else !


Confirmed Edo man

Raalsalghul:
Eeya. And I know you hugg your pillow every night.

Nope I sleep freely in total amd complete peace!

The peace I feel while sleeping is unimaginable, without any hands groping for boobs, assz or pussy!

Mehn its heaven having ones space at times.

Mehn I can't imagine how my looks have transformed.. Lol.


Jeez!

PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
mtchew.

I pity her. She couldn't have a child so her husband chased her out of the marriage.

Now all she does is take pictures and pretend to be happy.

What a life.

Take am easy with the hate !

There are lots of women out there who can't have children ,likewise men but they all end up marrying single father's and single mothers . so don't think that's the end of her world.

She go dey OK!

Saffi:
If there’s nothing else to talk about apart from sex. Then you’re dating the wrong kind of dude.

True .

Am not even dating any of them.

And they've kept their distance, which is better for me .

Mo Raye oshi!

5thElement:


Don't worry, when I become president I'll make you minister for women affairs in Africa.

Hehehehehehehehe


That wil be great! I pray it happens as u visualize it . amen!

Raalsalghul:
Na im be say if him spend the dime, he go fuvk tire.
And modafuckers say that love is real.
Talk about trade by barter.

Seems its hard for you to understand simple English

OK lemme repharse


I said its better to have my own money and spend on myself and my female friends . which I have . Also my female friends spend on me, i spend on them and we don't even fuckkk ourselves, how much more Bleep tire .


Men and their selfish way of thinking

I pray sex will not extinct all the men in this country .

All your brain is just wired with sex sex sex.! Haba!

Who do you like this ?

5thElement:
Ayam convinced. Where do I sign? Lol.

I wasn't trying to generalize though. But it's quite common to see ladies beef themselves over petty things.

But I agree, if the friendship is genuine, it can be beautiful.

Am telling you ,its very beautiful and soothing . its like a therapy on it's own.

All those ladies beefing each other are ladies who haven't seen what life is all about .
They are still naive .Thats why they allow men come inbetween them.

We need ourselves , irrespective of whether u have a man of your own and the other person doesn't have . it shouldnt cause beef . Because life na turn by turn . we will all get there someday . if our men is giving us headaches at home , we can talk about it and free the emotional burden . if one of us doesn't have a man , we cheer her up and make her understand , everything is all about the right time .

Wait are u a male or female?

Newboss:
Come, you dey give me problem. First trading day of the week and almost 5% of my equity s wiped out. WTF How person go lose almost a mil because of Nairaland?


Abeg I don hear. In fact make he kill her, I don't care again. Bye

Lol



Wow! Sorry about the loss !

5thElement:
I don't really think ladies can truly be friends. Just an observation though.

True on that, but not all ladies are the same .

We women are different in character and feelings . There are ladies who simply enjoy pure friendship, especially if they see the sincerity and care in your eyes when u laugh and when u advise them, they value it a lot especially coming from a fellow female .

I have just 3 good female friends . Two are married with kids and the third is single . , the first one her husband is based abroad , while she travels to go see him at least 4 times a year, she doesn't have friends here in Nija , she's kind of private person but we got along when I went shopping at her Ankara and lace shop . thats after like 4 visits then later we liked each other and became close friends . She looks proud and stand offish but she's not . I knew after a while of bn her customer. She is such a lovely soul.

Then d second married friend is an Alhaja, very funny and open minded lady but very caring . we got along well too , when she patronised my biz. We kind of look alike but am fairer. Beautiful soul as well and very funny with enthusiastic big eyes .lol

Then the last one is a Doctor , she's single and a nairalnader . Marvelous lady , kind and overly nice, she has her own opinion which I respect . Infact she's my doctor ,I seek advice from her whenever am not feeling fine. Then we catch up on daily activities on fixed dates , while we gist about everything. A lovely soul as well.
And we take ourselves on dates , one on one ..

All these 3 ladies , we don't envy one another . Cause we are matured in thinking. I love them to pieces . And they bring out the soft playful side of me

Raalsalghul:
But you expect him to spend, take you out on dates and all that shiii.

If he likes , he shouldn't take me on dates , or even spend on me . he is not doing me , he's doing himself .

I can spend on myself and my female friends who eagerly spends on me too and we don't regret it one bit . the more they spends on me , the more they make it and vice versa. At least I don't need to open yansh before we spend for each other . its done freely with warmth and care . God bless my female friends , they are God sent .

Unlike guys that want to fuckkk the living daylight out of ones body before spending a dime ! Smhhh. They are like devil , who won't give anyone anything for free.

Funmistiqueen God bless you. One love ! We've got each others back!

Cause I and my female friends know givers never lack .

Like I said , let him keep his money and I will use mine on other people that deserves it . I'm not dependent on man to feed me . I feed myself well!

Raalsalghul:
Maam welcome back.
Are you a virgin?

Thanks am back!

So as am not a virgin? I should be opening legs anyhow, abi?

Cos the guy has paid my dowry ?

Smhhhhh!.

princfred:
You sabi how these things usually play out.

My dear, any relationship I go into and it crashes? I seat down and try understand what really went wrong ?
I look at both angles, then dust myself and take notes of wat to avoid doing and wat I shouldnt accept from any man, even if am clocking 50!
My reformed principles won't change , cos at the end na me and my kids go suffer any mistake i make in choosing the wrong father for them and the wrong husband for me.

Daeylar:
Thank you,
This is what people should focus on.
Now how many decades and centuries you spent together before marriage

Exactly correct!

Tell them!

Who has eyes, should read ,decipher and understand!

No be by how long of sexual prowess and passion , ask iceberg slim and his monstrous dick!

Newboss:
When yawa gas like serious gas, my sister, then you go answer the question "Who's your daddy?". . Na that time men go show up with guns blazing to defend their daughter (that's the advantage of not collecting bride price) . I don't care about the guy one bit, all that matters is my daughter. I can take the guy out if he ever maltreats her, without me feeling guilty at all. At least he was warned


But if she insisted on marrying him against my wish, I no go show face. If he like make he kill her, na her problem be that

@ the bolded , really ?

You make me laugh ! You talk like u will live forever and protect her till she's old ?

Lemme tell you , just pray your daughter no fall inlove with a jack ass and dead beat father to their kids .
Just pray .

Cause if u use your gun blazing rifle to kill him or even shoot anywhere on his body , you will be arrested alongside with him if he's still alive . But if he ends up dead? Na jail straight ! No bail! ( that's after they've dated for two years and eventually marry)

So think man! Think!

That's when u really care about the guy , cos he go be like bone wey hook throat!

princfred:
Lol. You see this is how the 3 months can be more than enough . But think of it, what if you meet someone like me who will say ok i wont give you a dime till after we talk to know each other finish lol?

Exactly ! Nothing wrong in it .

Relationship is not poverty eradication .

Its a good idea , as long as it's not all about fuckkkk!

NothingDoMe:
.

That's the sad reality about relationship these days .

And its sickening .

I simply get pissed off when I see those red flags .

Triangles1:
Are you truly female bcs only man can reason this way.

Am a female o


Years of experience, has turned me into a man.

My luck!

Newboss:
LMAO .

If he bail, she don dodge a bullet .

Actually, the 2 years is backdated to when they started dating (not when they knew each other), and how many days and nights she's spent at his house and with his folks and her folks .

The system we have these days is so bad that any idiot with a nice life can walk up to any girl with big ass and nice boobs and tell her he wants to marry her. By the next month, they're already doing traditional wedding . Sorry o, my daughter won't have my consent on that.

She can go ahead and marry him if she insists. I will attend all the occasions but I'd make it clear to both of them that they are on their own. I no go vex at all because she has her life to live. But when yawa gas, make she no even call my name because I know that I did my best to protect both of their interests .

If yawa gas! There is nothing u can do to the son inlaw , even if they dated for Two years and more . With the kind of son in-laws wey we have these days ?
Most won't even answer you .

Gone are those days men respect their in-laws. Those days are gone .

Let's be realistic and frank!

princfred:
I pity that your daughter whose destiny you want to tie on top of iroko. So after 2 yrs the guy bail nko? Then another 2 yrs each for another 2 guys? If am your daughter and here this kind talk from you, na teenage pregnancy i go carry do you can faint in peace earlier.

Lol don't mind him

End time fathers.

Instead of him to teach his daughter things to watch out for in a man while dating , he prefers she dates for two Years and typical of men , when they see free pussy without pressure. They can date forever and breakup at will. When she breaks up, she start another one again for another two years until she clocks forty. Be giving her pussy to harry , emeka, Tosin, Charles every two years .

Later he wil still be the one to insult his daughter that she can't hold a man .
After several years of men using and dumping her

Smmhhhh

NothingDoMe:
So you actually think that marriages crash because they didn't date for at least 6months?

The problem with marriages these days can be summarized in one word: "expectations". People don't talk about it much before marriage. They spend time having lots of sex and not really talking about expectations:
1. What are my responsibilities?
2. What are your responsibilities?
3. Are there responsibilities from extended family?
4. Are we going to swap responsibilities at any time?
5. Are the responsibilities compulsory?
6. Would you like to remain in Nigeria for ever?
7. Where would you like to live?
8. How many kids? How do we achieve this?
9. Would you like an open book marriage or would you want some things to be kept secret?
10. Social media: Are we going to be giving the world the opportunity to follow us as we progress in our marriage.

Social media is among the top factors of crashed marriages because it creates unnecessary competition and expectations. Also exposes you to " Options". People that will slide into your DM in your hour of trial.

Parents too don't bring their kids up with the right values.

God bless you .

All people in relationship think about is fuckkk, fucckk, fuckkkk!

No meaningful conversations
No asking of questions to know each other

All they think about is food and Sex!

Why divorce no go enter after one year of marriage . After fuckkking tirelessly for some months with reckless abandon in the marriage , their eyes will now clear about each other character .
Even if they date a million years and no communication except food and sex !.

Oh the sex is hot ! After marriage and they start living together their eyes clear.

Smmmmmhhhhh..


Guys wooing me , when I tell them no sex , let's talk and know ourseps better. They become dumb, nothing upstairs to talk about . immediately have cancelled the idea of taking any of them serious .

Cause I know immediately sex enters, there will be nothing to talk about unless when are u coming to spend the weekend . that's all.

Smhhhh!

sacramento1212:
Lol...and after you'll be polluting the forum on how you almost married ritualist twice and that men are this and that. Not knowing you may even be the problem. How can you even reason like this?

My brother ,its well.

My advice ?

She should choose US.

The husband can join her later .

Even if it was the ex who processed it .

Cos if the tables were turned , then man wil accept and travel abroad . he will even break up with her and remarry in the US, no be today, yansh dey back!

Even my 60 years old neighbour is looking for a responsible and God fearing handsome man.

So its well.

[quote author=Raalsalghul post=74701320][/quote]They must have checked my star. Get confirmation , OK she has a bright star. So she can be used. Forgetting that not every person who has a bright star can be used for rituals , especially when God's stamp is on the Lady or male .
Killing such person , u kil for nothing . cos money wont spill out .

Women are really endangered species in Nigeria .

But God gave me the grace and strength to escape .

Do u know how traumatic it is ? Worst experience ever to go through especially when all the lady feel is love and commitment towards her partner .

Worst ever.

Anyways thats in the past but I sometimes remember during reading post like this one, and it comes rushing down my brain like it happened yesterday.
I thank God I can eat well. Sleep well , buy whatever I want without any man breathing down my neck and telling me my life story because of bills .

I thank God for taking care of my needs . God is great!

Baba God I thank you!

Daeylar:
I just tire for the babe.

And she is making it seem like the only reason men are coming for marriage is because of breast and ass and these are the kind of men we should be rushing to marry.

Men who only come around for breast ass and looks. Such shallow reasons.

Or maybe that's how men are.



That's all.
It's to be careful.



It's better for a babe to keep going from men to men. Dating and breaking up under 6 months rather than marrying a man not good for her Or wasting time dating a man she knows won't work for 1 year or more, so that she will clap for ladied that they know how to bend down and build a solid relationship or know how to tolerate men
After all if a lady knows under 6 months that a man is not for her, isn't she expected to break up and find someone that will work?


If the same lady dates a man for 3 years or more and breaks up, They will still attack her for wasting her youth on a man when she was supposed to be smart and date many men.
If she stays single, they will attack her for not using her time wisely to look for a man. They will attack her for being single.

SMH
When will women rest?

Those men who married women cos of ass and boobs , the men has either dumped their wives and ran away with a younger lady with firm boobs and tiny waist and Dunlop ass, while the wife is all alone crying who sent her message In marrying such man, cos her boobs is no longer firm again after breastfeeding four kids!

Some men are evil! Am telling you !

If a woman is not prayerful against such men, her life will just waste for nothing .

For am at rest . No bagga! Can give me unrest over marriage orelse i cut off the person from my life !

Women should relax their minds and rest wella! These days that men cannot even take care of one wife and a kid . they can wail forever as if someone tied their hands and legs to go and marry .

I have a friend , she's a single mum works in a federal government parastal . she has two teenage kids in university . she takes care of these two kids like no tomorrow . papa don run, cos he is too lazy to even hustle hard . The kids don't even feel their dad absence . and her boobs and assz still stand gidigba! She's very selective on men

My sister ,only very few men are men . the rest are just there .

Daeylar:
So women should rush to get married because breast is still standing and ass is bouncing?
That is why we should make hay while the sun shines? Because of breast and ass.


After this one finished typing, in her mind she has done well. SMH

Marriage advisers be advising rubbish.
This one is just looking for men to clap for her.

Don't mind her

She thinks life is all about getting married to any dead beat guy because the ass and boobs is standing firm.

Does she think all men are husband materials ?

Thank God she mentioned men who were cursed in life but babe still sleep with them ,carrying along the guy curses or different men curses .lol

@22, I got engaged to a ritualist , if not for God I would have been history then. I escaped to avoid been killed . it was a traumatic experience and I stayed off men for 5years !
@ 30 years , another guy I wanted to marry , aslo had the sick idea to use me for rituals again!

Possibly they feel because I look successful , their juju go accept me but fortunately for me , it failed and I freed myself through God .

Later one useless op, we will talking about marriage as if most men out there are God sent ? Smhhhhh!

Anyways my own is look well, Pray about any suitor cominf your way before u marry . Be very very careful , not all men u see wearing trousers are meant for marriage .
Not all men smiling are u are angels , some are demons in human form.

Word!