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samysmoothfresh:
lighten your soul and do away with bitterness and frustration!!!!



Do not let the frustration from your recent marriage get to you!!!



I know you suspect him of cheating and fear the worst but please dont let it get to you!!



Frustration kills......




Bitterness ensnares......

Keep hallucinating. Lol

samysmoothfresh:
who frustrated your life like this and made you become this bitter soul that you are?


Are you the wife or is the mad girl your sister?

I can see u are raving mad but no one to tell u.

No need wasting my precious time on you. I have better things to do.

samysmoothfresh:
look at what this one is saying with conviction..............


Awon werey feminist...............

#spits

Get the Bleep off my mentions!

Mad goat!

Imbecilee.e!

The only issue I have with op marrying her is she can easily cheat on any guy dating her. If she can cheat on the first guy with op, then she can easily cheat on op with another guy.

Op don't marry her.

Assuming she didn't date op and was faithful to her bf but later come back and says it's over between she and her by, cos he's not serious and now wants to date and marry op, I see nothing wrong in it. Which means she can be faithful and has learnt her lessons.
But she cheated! That's not a good sign.

The married man is into money rituals.

His wife has nothing to do with it.

Hotzone:
Sorry if I don't mention the name of my organization but I am seriously worried and deeply in love with my female senior colleague who wants me to pop the question as soon as possible. While feeling reluctant to respond to her feelings, I am much distracted and feels intimidated with respect to her position of power and money.

If she's what u require in a wife? Then marry her. Also watch if she's humble.

For me, I can't marry a younger man nor a guy working beneath me.

Thank God I married an older successful guy, questions of she will be older than u in looks after some years won't arises. Cause he looks older already.


Anyways the choice is yours op.. Think about it carefully.

CanineOfJackal:
Victorian.she is the single paper billionaire here

Why did u call my name?

What's happening here?

Point of correction : AM MARRIED!

Marshalxv:
in her case, she didn't divorce her husband, the man was still alive when she left to live with her lover. if you're tired of marriage you seek for divorce.

That's true.

But even seeking for divorce won't stop the unless Randy lover from sexing the girls

She messed up big time.

lefulefu:
not only single mothers with dauthers oo. There are men now impregnating their own blood dauthers. There was a story here dat happened last week here in benin city about a father who impregnated his 13 yr old blood dauther. He's currently now in detention but everybody here is following the story. I am surprised dat nairaland didnt bring up d story. In short ehn some men are just becoming completely useless.

Na wa o

Some men are really useless. God forbid

Fourwinds:
to me life would have be better off for her than remarry.... Check most of these single mother have idea about such happenings but turn a blind eye.... Very pathetic

It's true. Very pathetic. Smh

Terrible.

Marshalxv:
The innocent girls are the ones paying for the sins of their mother. What a world we live in

That's one of the problems single mothers married to another man faces in life, especially if she has a girl child or female children

kenddys:
hml ma


you will enjoy your marriage still death

say amen

I will enjoy my marriage til old age, NOT Still or Till DEATH.

But with lots of children, grand children and great grand children around me and my hubby in Jesus name Amen and amen.. so shall it be.

kenddys:
come and be my gf

I hate shouting!


and detest beating

Eeyah too late.

I'm married And fortunate to have a kind caring man as my hubby .

Am just in romanceland enjoying the views and thread here. Nothing more.

Na dem dey rush awon beaters and boxers.

I wish them great luck in the beatings.

Ordinary shout! I don run!

I am allergic to loud angry voices

Kinggnicole:
She didn't mock herself. She's just a funny person and that's a badass way to tell her family to give her a break.

Pheew...

Mehn! I can't do such to myself, assuming am still single.

When I was single few years back, my mum was on my neck about getting married.

So one day I got tired and I sat her down and I said mummy, u know I love you? She said she knows. I said good.
Now it's not like I don't want to marry or I enjoy break ups from my exs.
Men ,back in your days no longer exist, as we speak.
She looked at me with surprise and said how? Men are men. No man is perfect. I said mummy I know.
OK wait!

Let's act.
Mummy u are my babe. And am your man. Let's act and pretend we are dating each other. She sighed and said OK, so what should she do?
I said let's pretend u did something that annoyed me and I want to correct you.
She said OK. I asked her, hope u are seated well? She said yes.

So I started as her man.

I stood up from my seat and stood abit close to her.
Me, saying: but why didn't u pick my call when I called you in the morning (with a hardened scowl on my face)
Mummy replied: hmm I didn't see your call( she was looking perplexed at my hardened face)
Me: but why do u think I bought a phone for u before? Do u think its just for fashion? ( my eyes were looking mean, as I hover over her with angry eyes).

My mum wanted to stand up from where she was seating and I shouted at her.

Me: are u walking out on me? ( with a very angry face)
Mum: she stuttered and said erhmm wait first, Vicky stop. ( she looks frightened)
Me: I shouted at her, u dare not walk out on me! U do u think u are! Am talking to you and u are walking out on me? ( looking at her threateningly as i walked closer)

Mum: ( about to cry) and with soft voice, she said Vicky stop please u are scaring me o.

My heart just softened when I saw tears about to fall from her eyes. I sighed and came back to my normal self. Then she wiped her misty eyes and said don't tell me that's how guys of these days behave?

I said mummy that's the kind of men, am unfortunate to date and that's why I always breakup. I can't deal with such fear

She said wow! Thank God she has lived her life with my dad and that, what's this world turning to?
I said mummy, so please, I beg you in the name of God, let the marriage thing rest!
I will marry, don't worry. Then I hugged her. And she smiled shakily. Saying don't worry I won't talk about marriage again.



Phew! Fast forward to date : thank God am now married to a very kind loving soft hearted man

I love him so much! He's God sent.



Sorry for the long epistle o

Reminiscing biko

Na wa o.

She's so cruel to herself.

She's simply mocked herself by her own self.

This one don turn psychopath.

Sighs

computerizeniaja:
Your just a poor mofo,,Yarning trash

Get the fvck off my mentions, im.becileee!

Some women are destined to end up with married men.

It's her life, at least she's happy.

No wonder he can no longer take care of his baby mamas.


Wizkid, u realise where you shook your head enter so? It's no small feat, spending on Naomi o!

pejuakinab:
She don escape tho
Welcome back to Nigeria where your suffering continues.

Better to suffer in Nigeria , live , eat and breathe in peace without dying brutally, than living abroad and death comes in a very painful way after slaving for months.

I prefer Nigeria Biko.

I don't think she got the estate from ambode.

She must have slaved her assz, carrying cocaine abroad. Or money laundering. It's either of the two, not necessarily fucking ambode.

Nigerians sef, no get chill lol

Deadlywoman:
I did yeah... and after a couple of days when we had a misunderstanding he reminded me about it. He said I don't know how to let a man be a man

I was being considerate

Eeyah can u imagine?

Let him be the man o, he will be so happy taking charge.

Deadlywoman:
That's not romantic

Cause u are old fashioned. Lol

Loosen up a bit biko.. He's only trying to help and make u feel less stressed.

Go with the flow or don't complain.

Nothing wrong in carrying your bag. He is simply romantic.

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lefulefu:
Mercy Aigbe has really hit the jackpot this time. She got a mega big god.victorian u see wetin i dey yarn with u yesterday about these nigerian politicians. All these nigerian politicians will just be splashing the taxpayer's money on their mistresses. Come and see Lagos Governor Ambode using lagosian's tax payers money to buy his mistress an estate. No wonder he lost for the primaries and fell out of favour with Tinubu. He must have been using the state funds to service his numerious mistresses.

Wow!

Na wa o!

Op has been hurt so bad emotionally by a lady whose above 30s, that's why he is so bitter ,hateful and delusional towards women above 30s.

Fraspree take it easy, breathe in and breathe out. Ladies in our 30s are not your problems in life. Inugo?

Pusyiter:
Only in Africa in fact 9ja this exist
Dev. countries, eye contact and chemistry alone, you get laid if you want to

Pusyiter!!!!

My main paddy!

In Nigeria, the backwardness too much here. Only very few are enlightened to such extent.

mrAMG:
No big deal.

Priorities still remain priorities for men after sex.

Only boys will manifest their insecurities by calling you cheap after sex on the first date

I had sex with my hubby on our first date , we courted for like a year afterwards before getting married .

It's all about maturity of the man. Like you said small bois will call one cheap and break off. Matured men won't see the lady as cheap.

Sonoflord:
I know

We have been chatting before just that I lost your number

Oh OK.

Type your watsapp number here. I will send a message.