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CelebritiesRe: Stella Clifford Exposes Lake Asmah, Movie Director Over Sex For Role by victorian(f): 5:34pm On Sep 27, 2018
Sighs cry

Some useless Men! angry


Una no dey taya?
RomanceRe: I Want To Break My Seven Years Relationship by victorian(f): 7:47pm On Sep 26, 2018
You better marry her, if you don't want the curse of God upon your head.

Even her tears of heart break will make you suffer and penniless for more and more years to come.

7 whole years! Since she was 22years!
I pity you! Dump her u hear?
You will then realise karma is fucvking real!
FamilyRe: I Need Advice Before Taking The Huge Step Into Marriage. by victorian(f): 6:54pm On Sep 26, 2018
tintingz:
Have you come accross a Playboy that promise ladies marriage, act responsible, play along with the kind of character you want as a man?

Hope you know what a "player" is?

Now the question is, how do you know a playboy and a genuine responsible guy?
If you read Op's story. She said the guy wants them to settle down, and and thereafter become intimate in marriage
They've not been having sex, cos they are both SU. He wants to do things properly, get married, move in together and start having sex after wards.

Does such actions shows he is a player? Uncle ? sad
FamilyRe: I Need Advice Before Taking The Huge Step Into Marriage. by victorian(f): 11:57am On Sep 26, 2018
sleit:
Thanks a lot for this. You don't know how much I appreciate all your input.
You are welcome dear.
smiley
RomanceRe: Beware Of Single Girls Who Have Apartments. by victorian(f): 2:01pm On Sep 25, 2018
keryj:
they can really be annoying to nerves that u just have to put them in there place. silence makes them feel uselessly superior
Am telling you. The dumb and confused ones, I ignore.
FamilyRe: I Need Advice Before Taking The Huge Step Into Marriage. by victorian(f): 2:00pm On Sep 25, 2018
RomanceRe: Beware Of Single Girls Who Have Apartments. by victorian(f): 1:05pm On Sep 25, 2018
keryj:
shola complained, they said she should go get a life and forget about wiz-toddler and if she lives alone and getting her life while working her ass out to train her kid, they will also say she is a hoe selling herself to make ends means.

many women out there want to hustle legally but ....... i tire for men sometimes. A lady who knows her worth wunt listen to all this crap angry
Haven't u realised most Nigerian men are confused beings.

U still take them serious? undecided
RomanceRe: Beware Of Single Girls Who Have Apartments. by victorian(f): 1:04pm On Sep 25, 2018
shortgun:
Any single girl who pays rent and lives on her own is dangerous to guys.(girls in school not included)
She will never make a good wife.
She is a feminist.
She is always chasing money.
She will always behave like d man of d house.
She doesn't see d need for a man.
She will never respect u.
She has seen it all.
A girl should move from her father's house to her husband's house.
If u are dating any of them say bye to happiness if u eventually marry her.
What if she's an orphan. Her parents died when she's just graduated from school and she has two other younger siblings to cater for. Where should she and her younger ones live? On the streets?

Cause the last time I checked, family members are not receptive to extended families living with them, or else one is ready to be used as slaves or sex objects by so called family members.

What will u say about such lady? Mr Op.
FamilyRe: I Need Advice Before Taking The Huge Step Into Marriage. by victorian(f): 12:57pm On Sep 25, 2018
Pusyiter:
Thanks for being there as friends are rare smiley
Awww smiley

You are welcome dear. Smiles.
Hope to see u in Lagos before the year ends?
FamilyRe: I Need Advice Before Taking The Huge Step Into Marriage. by victorian(f): 12:33pm On Sep 25, 2018
Pusyiter:
Well, the past is past, the present is now and tomorrow is colourful.
I dey jare, picking up the pieces.....
Yes o! Tomorrow is colourful and bright.

Eeyah, God will restore everything uv lost in triple folds amen.
As long as there is life and good health, tomorrow will always be better than yesterday. God is with you and family, amen.
Warm hugs dear#
FamilyRe: Mother Refuses To Break Car Window To Save Her Trapped Child by victorian(f): 12:17pm On Sep 25, 2018
newdawn2017:
U re very correct. Say no satanic, injurious & unrepentant men.
Yes o!

Cause such evil men exist in our society.
CelebritiesRe: How Busola, Timi Dakolo's Wife Served Him Lunch by victorian(f): 12:15pm On Sep 25, 2018
Timi go and sleep cheesy

Every married man who is close and playful with his wife, have such moments like yours, if not better than what uv post online.
It's no news.
FamilyRe: I Need Advice Before Taking The Huge Step Into Marriage. by victorian(f): 8:34pm On Sep 24, 2018
Pusyiter:
How I wish she go hear you grin
That's why I dey vex for some ladies. You go dey follow one maga guy like Dopemu while another dey die for you for one corner begging to marry you.
I just hope she listens. It's for her own good.

My dear u can't blame us, it was youthful exuberance and we feeling fly, we are so young and pretty.
if only I had someone to advise me back then. I won't have bad memories of my exs hovering at the back of my head. My kids would have been 11years, 9years, then the third one should be 7years by now with a stable dad and grounded dad and husband next to me and our kids.
But I was thinking of mills and boons, looking for a tall dashing overly handsome either fair or dark guy with broad shoulders cheesy
Those criterias were my doom! cheesy
I didn't know on-time grin
I felt I was falling in love and going through a passionate process.. And yea, I was going through a process but bad and terrible ones for that matter..

My dear, na God save me O.. If not I would have been history by now. I just thank God for everything, at least am wiser and stronger now.


How u dey jare? smiley
FamilyRe: I Need Advice Before Taking The Huge Step Into Marriage. by victorian(f): 4:23pm On Sep 24, 2018
baby124:
She has to experience what you experienced herself otherwise she will never appreciate him and the guy will see hell in that marriage. Some girls need experience in dating to know clearly what they want. This is why I am against an under 25 marrying except she is someone that is kind and able to love and accommodate anyone.

Even the under 25 kind of love or interpretation of love can be very fleeting. Girls need to date before settling, trust me. Dating does not mean they have to have sex. Now I am sure you know the kind of husband you want. You gained a lot from that experience or you and that guy may have been divorced by now. If I married the guy who wanted to marry me at 22 I would have shown him shege and divorced him. So I quietly walked away and I don’t regret it.
Ha! I gained more than alot from my past experiences. Whenever I see guys who are playboys, fowora oja kind of guys coming and smiling those deceptive smiles, trying to woo me, I simply cut them short! I don't waste time on rubbish anymore. I know exactly what I want in a husband.

If the Op is wise, she will learn to love this man coming for marriage and appreciate him. She can fall in love with him, if only she allows herself to. And listen to what some of us are saying. Instead of experiencing series of heartbreaks till age 30 or even above 30 ,and still single.
Some single men out there are not worth the stress, that's the truth. They are time wasters .

Op, use your tongue count your teeth. Opportunity in marriage from a good man comes once after many many years. Think!
FamilyRe: I Need Advice Before Taking The Huge Step Into Marriage. by victorian(f): 2:51pm On Sep 24, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:

TO DO LIST:
1. FIND A NICE, LOVING, ABLE, RESPONSIBLE AND DECENT MAN.
2. DISCOVER HE TRULY LOVES YOU.
3 DON'T LOVE HIM BACK.

4. FIND WAYWARD, IRRESPONSIBLE, GOOD FOR NOTHING DOUCHEBAG. 100% PLAYBOY.
5. FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM.
6. GETS USED WITHOUT CONTROL AND DUMPED IN THE DUSTBIN.

7. ADOPTS THE ANTHEM "MEN ARE TRASH" AND "ALL MEN ARE DOGS", "SCUM".

-MOST GIRLS.
Honestly, that was the mistake I made when I was younger and I regret till today. But at least I now know better.
The search for that butterfly feeling was my ruin and thats the truth. I fell for the wrong guys, in fact 120% dough bags cheesy
If only I can turn the hands of time but what has happened, has happened.
Am much wiser nw.
Op, be wise o.

Don't make the mistakes, ladies like me, made in the past.
FamilyRe: I Need Advice Before Taking The Huge Step Into Marriage. by victorian(f): 2:19pm On Sep 24, 2018
My dear, marry him. As long as he is presentable and he loves you. He will treat u like egg and with time u will get to develop deep feelings that will keep the marriage together.
Cause if u ask me? What's love? You may think love is that butterflies kind of feelings, u feel at the pit of your tummy when u sight a guy. My sister that's not love but lust mixed with infatuation. And most times, such feelings don't end well.
Getting the perfect husband, does not exist nowadays. But getting a presentable and responsible man who loves and care for u, is the key to a lasting marriage, as long as you open your heart, accept him wholeheartedly and with time u will be happy u went ahead with the marriage. Also communication, goes a long way. Always communicate before and in marriage.
Guys these days are not ready to settle down, they will just use and dump, all in the name of I love you. Pls, don't miss this opportunity.
RomanceRe: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by victorian(f): 11:40am On Sep 24, 2018
Lovelypet28:
My brother have been to one of those countries you just mentioned and trust me they have STAY HOME mums,they cook clean and take good care of the children while the man works,FULL TIME HOUSE WIVES,the only difference is that the family gets huge benefits from the government so the running of the home is not much of a burden for the man of the house so please dont have the impression THEY are all working women,some are still very traditional,look most nigerian men are just lazy,if you cant keep a home,Bleep it dont get married,please dont get married and be expecting assistance from your wife,dont expect it,if you married a sensible wife she knows the role she is meant to play,but dont bank on it, RENT,FEEDING YOUR CHILDREN,SCHOOL FEES should not even be in dispute,you shouldnt expect your wife to even attempt paying for those.
Let me tell you a secret my old uncles and even my dad were discussing and said these new generation of men are chickens,no balls,they are not MEN.
God bless you! kiss

Men of these days are no different from the women, they are labelling as lazy.

Women sef are now hustling more than men.
RomanceRe: Man Peeping At His Fiancee In The Bathroom In Pre-Wedding Photos by victorian(f): 11:26am On Sep 24, 2018
BiggerbossAmani:


I hate guys with Fat belly with passion besides I don't understand why women find them attractive.

If you look at them very well, they are not teenagers or early 20s.
Theyve both had experience in dating and relationships. Most times, pot bellied men are very caring and attentive. A wise woman who wants to enjoy her marriage, shouldn't let pot belly dissuade her from marrying a man who truly love and care for her. She should just hold him tight and live happily thereafter.

In marriage it's not just about six packs or eight packs or he's tall and huge or he's tall and athletic. Lol.
Mehn, Behavior and character goes a long way.
Inbetween he's OK facially.
CelebritiesRe: "I Am A Nigerian" - Big Sean Reveals (Video) by victorian(f): 11:14am On Sep 24, 2018
From day one, I had a feeling he's from delta, either sapele or warri, but definitely from urhobo speaking part.
FamilyRe: Mother Refuses To Break Car Window To Save Her Trapped Child by victorian(f): 6:41am On Sep 24, 2018
The men insulting me here, I chose not to reply all your unintelligent responses, cause it's no use answering people who just type without thinking.

See the way women in the forum replied my posts, with sense. None use abusive words. Can u men see the difference? But some men will just spew rubbish and start typing with insults. And we wonder why, women are chosen for employment in places of work more than the men?
Anyways I have said and that's it. Kee ya selves!
FamilyRe: Mother Refuses To Break Car Window To Save Her Trapped Child by victorian(f): 6:36am On Sep 24, 2018
newdawn2017:
Even @ d@, is marriag na by force? Y endure pain 4 4rm a satanic & unremorseful man. undecided
That's true.
Some women are weak to leave such marriage. While are some strong to seek for divorce and leave such demonic man.
There are three types of people in this world: The Weak, the Indifferent and the Strong.
I know all the men in this thread will attack me, but they honestly don't know what some men out there are doing to their families. They think every man is like them.
But the truth be told, there are some married men like that.
FamilyRe: Mother Refuses To Break Car Window To Save Her Trapped Child by victorian(f): 3:46pm On Sep 23, 2018
Godmother:
I'm sure there'd have been more wrath if the man saw her refusing to save the child.
Due to constant verbal abuse, her mind is not thinking straight.

Have seen such type before, so I understand what's going on in her mind.

Some husbands are terror at home and they would rather the wife and kid disappears and not come back home than for their car to either get crashed or stolen. Nothing must happen to their beloved car or else na war at home.
PoliticsRe: Osun Election - Davido Begs Buhari: 'You Are Man Of Integrity Sir, Please Do..' by victorian(f): 2:26pm On Sep 23, 2018
Davido begs!?

Wow! shocked

Incredible!
RomanceRe: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by victorian(f): 1:49pm On Sep 23, 2018
Dash him 200k

At all at all naim bad pass.

If you have only 870k, for God sakes u can't give out almost everything for a boyfriend.

200k is ok.
CelebritiesRe: Ras Kimono’s Wife, Efe Is Dead/ by victorian(f): 1:41pm On Sep 23, 2018
Eeyah, cry

She missed him alot.. cry

May their souls rest in peace amen.
FamilyRe: Mother Refuses To Break Car Window To Save Her Trapped Child by victorian(f): 1:31pm On Sep 23, 2018
She's scared of the wrath of her husband, if they break the glass, forgetting life is more precious than the car glass.
Maybe the husband is a bully at home, and she's not ready to face another bout of his abuse if anything happens to his car.

What a life undecided
CelebritiesRe: Photos Of The Most Handsome Man In The World by victorian(f): 6:18am On Sep 23, 2018
Metuh:
I hope you will be able to still say this when you finally clock 50 without anyone coming?


Where is it written that only a man should propose? Village girl
Keep waiting for a lady to propose to you, you hear?

You go wait taya, or better still join the bandwagon of baby daddies littered everywhere.
CelebritiesRe: Unbelievable: The Claimed Linda Ikeji’s Baby Father Denied Responsible, See What by victorian(f): 6:16am On Sep 23, 2018
celestialdamsel:
That’s why abstinence is the still the best
So true my sister.
Abstinence is the best. No one will feel used and dumped.
FamilyRe: ........ by victorian(f): 6:14am On Sep 23, 2018
1Sharon:
Haha... a 50 year old in any workplace is the same. They can't stand being told what to do by much younger employees who achieved much more than them.

It's not ur ur employees fault, you are older than them.
If they don't want to be told what to do, I don't know why they don't just stay at home and become self employed.
Honestly I wonder too.
No matter their pity story, I don't employ such age bracket, 50 upwards? Nope.
CelebritiesRe: Photos Of The Most Handsome Man In The World by victorian(f): 8:00pm On Sep 22, 2018
DeBrain045:
AsIf if cee c propose you, you will not accept.



Cee c don't even need to propose you, you will be the one to propose him
God forbid! I can never propose to a man. My life never bad reach that level.

Any woman who propose to a man will forever regret it. The man will use her take make Shakara for as long as they are together.
Cee c's apelike guy with sharpened teeth is not my type!
End of discussion.
CelebritiesRe: Photos Of The Most Handsome Man In The World by victorian(f): 7:23pm On Sep 22, 2018
That's my spec! kiss kiss kiss

So cute!

Unlike the gorilla hugging Cee c in one yeye photo shoot like that!

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