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Sighs Some useless Men! ![]() Una no dey taya? |
You better marry her, if you don't want the curse of God upon your head. Even her tears of heart break will make you suffer and penniless for more and more years to come. 7 whole years! Since she was 22years! I pity you! Dump her u hear? You will then realise karma is fucvking real! |
tintingz:If you read Op's story. She said the guy wants them to settle down, and and thereafter become intimate in marriage They've not been having sex, cos they are both SU. He wants to do things properly, get married, move in together and start having sex after wards. Does such actions shows he is a player? Uncle ? ![]() |
sleit:You are welcome dear. ![]() |
keryj:Am telling you. The dumb and confused ones, I ignore. |
keryj:Haven't u realised most Nigerian men are confused beings. U still take them serious? ![]() |
shortgun:What if she's an orphan. Her parents died when she's just graduated from school and she has two other younger siblings to cater for. Where should she and her younger ones live? On the streets? Cause the last time I checked, family members are not receptive to extended families living with them, or else one is ready to be used as slaves or sex objects by so called family members. What will u say about such lady? Mr Op. |
Pusyiter:Awww ![]() You are welcome dear. Smiles. Hope to see u in Lagos before the year ends? |
Pusyiter:Yes o! Tomorrow is colourful and bright. Eeyah, God will restore everything uv lost in triple folds amen. As long as there is life and good health, tomorrow will always be better than yesterday. God is with you and family, amen. Warm hugs dear# |
newdawn2017:Yes o! Cause such evil men exist in our society. |
Timi go and sleep ![]() Every married man who is close and playful with his wife, have such moments like yours, if not better than what uv post online. It's no news. |
Pusyiter:I just hope she listens. It's for her own good. My dear u can't blame us, it was youthful exuberance and we feeling fly, we are so young and pretty. if only I had someone to advise me back then. I won't have bad memories of my exs hovering at the back of my head. My kids would have been 11years, 9years, then the third one should be 7years by now with a stable dad and grounded dad and husband next to me and our kids. But I was thinking of mills and boons, looking for a tall dashing overly handsome either fair or dark guy with broad shoulders ![]() Those criterias were my doom! ![]() I didn't know on-time ![]() I felt I was falling in love and going through a passionate process.. And yea, I was going through a process but bad and terrible ones for that matter.. My dear, na God save me O.. If not I would have been history by now. I just thank God for everything, at least am wiser and stronger now. How u dey jare? ![]() |
baby124:Ha! I gained more than alot from my past experiences. Whenever I see guys who are playboys, fowora oja kind of guys coming and smiling those deceptive smiles, trying to woo me, I simply cut them short! I don't waste time on rubbish anymore. I know exactly what I want in a husband. If the Op is wise, she will learn to love this man coming for marriage and appreciate him. She can fall in love with him, if only she allows herself to. And listen to what some of us are saying. Instead of experiencing series of heartbreaks till age 30 or even above 30 ,and still single. Some single men out there are not worth the stress, that's the truth. They are time wasters . Op, use your tongue count your teeth. Opportunity in marriage from a good man comes once after many many years. Think! |
CAPSLOCKED:Honestly, that was the mistake I made when I was younger and I regret till today. But at least I now know better. The search for that butterfly feeling was my ruin and thats the truth. I fell for the wrong guys, in fact 120% dough bags ![]() If only I can turn the hands of time but what has happened, has happened. Am much wiser nw. Op, be wise o. Don't make the mistakes, ladies like me, made in the past. |
My dear, marry him. As long as he is presentable and he loves you. He will treat u like egg and with time u will get to develop deep feelings that will keep the marriage together. Cause if u ask me? What's love? You may think love is that butterflies kind of feelings, u feel at the pit of your tummy when u sight a guy. My sister that's not love but lust mixed with infatuation. And most times, such feelings don't end well. Getting the perfect husband, does not exist nowadays. But getting a presentable and responsible man who loves and care for u, is the key to a lasting marriage, as long as you open your heart, accept him wholeheartedly and with time u will be happy u went ahead with the marriage. Also communication, goes a long way. Always communicate before and in marriage. Guys these days are not ready to settle down, they will just use and dump, all in the name of I love you. Pls, don't miss this opportunity. |
Lovelypet28:God bless you! Men of these days are no different from the women, they are labelling as lazy. Women sef are now hustling more than men. |
BiggerbossAmani:If you look at them very well, they are not teenagers or early 20s. Theyve both had experience in dating and relationships. Most times, pot bellied men are very caring and attentive. A wise woman who wants to enjoy her marriage, shouldn't let pot belly dissuade her from marrying a man who truly love and care for her. She should just hold him tight and live happily thereafter. In marriage it's not just about six packs or eight packs or he's tall and huge or he's tall and athletic. Lol. Mehn, Behavior and character goes a long way. Inbetween he's OK facially. |
From day one, I had a feeling he's from delta, either sapele or warri, but definitely from urhobo speaking part. |
The men insulting me here, I chose not to reply all your unintelligent responses, cause it's no use answering people who just type without thinking. See the way women in the forum replied my posts, with sense. None use abusive words. Can u men see the difference? But some men will just spew rubbish and start typing with insults. And we wonder why, women are chosen for employment in places of work more than the men? Anyways I have said and that's it. Kee ya selves! |
newdawn2017:That's true. Some women are weak to leave such marriage. While are some strong to seek for divorce and leave such demonic man. There are three types of people in this world: The Weak, the Indifferent and the Strong. I know all the men in this thread will attack me, but they honestly don't know what some men out there are doing to their families. They think every man is like them. But the truth be told, there are some married men like that. |
Godmother:Due to constant verbal abuse, her mind is not thinking straight. Have seen such type before, so I understand what's going on in her mind. Some husbands are terror at home and they would rather the wife and kid disappears and not come back home than for their car to either get crashed or stolen. Nothing must happen to their beloved car or else na war at home. |
Davido begs!? Wow! Incredible! |
Dash him 200k At all at all naim bad pass. If you have only 870k, for God sakes u can't give out almost everything for a boyfriend. 200k is ok. |
Eeyah, She missed him alot.. May their souls rest in peace amen. |
She's scared of the wrath of her husband, if they break the glass, forgetting life is more precious than the car glass. Maybe the husband is a bully at home, and she's not ready to face another bout of his abuse if anything happens to his car. What a life ![]() |
Metuh:Keep waiting for a lady to propose to you, you hear? You go wait taya, or better still join the bandwagon of baby daddies littered everywhere. |
celestialdamsel:So true my sister. Abstinence is the best. No one will feel used and dumped. |
1Sharon:Honestly I wonder too. No matter their pity story, I don't employ such age bracket, 50 upwards? Nope. |
DeBrain045:God forbid! I can never propose to a man. My life never bad reach that level. Any woman who propose to a man will forever regret it. The man will use her take make Shakara for as long as they are together. Cee c's apelike guy with sharpened teeth is not my type! End of discussion. |
That's my spec! So cute! Unlike the gorilla hugging Cee c in one yeye photo shoot like that! |
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