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Wow!

Just wow!

She's hot, even with three lovely kids..

So it's expected, she will be taken by someone who calls the shots and who is very rich too.

It takes a very rich boyfriend who spends like crazy on her, to make a woman like her tell the whole world she's taken. She try.

Kizme:
my relationship with his family is good. Yes he as been providing financial support

Then why are u worried?

As everything is on point. Strangers here cannot read your bf mind wherever he is. Strangers here cannot see the future between both of u.
Take each step as it comes, keep communicating with him and his family . Keep nuturing the bond, cause if any one here says u should leave him cause he has traveled abroad and u know very well, he still send money for upkeep and chats with u most times.. I wonder will u still accept our advice to leave him? Cos he travelled to US?

Jeferious:
To argue with a lady is useless. Only few men can win a war of words with members of opposite gender. All these ones arguing with the ladies commenting on the thread are not men. They are boys. A real man does not complain. He does not argue aimlessly.

Op, at one time...i would do what you just did. I'd offer her the silence treatment. Trust me when I say that it unsettles her, especially if she's really into you.

Better still, I'd just mirror her actions. Hang out with other girls and lie about it. If she finds out, tell more lies. Keep lying till she gets tired of the lies. She would ask you if you're trying to get back at her for what she did. Deny your vindictiveness....But keep hanging out with other girls...and keep lying. You'd surely drive her to the thin line separating sanity and insanity. Whether you'd choose to forgive her or keep making her mad- the ball is in your court.

In this life, only babies and weaklings are allowed to complain. Otherwise, anything wey person do you, do back seven-fold. First to do no dey pain

If I were the one ehn? With this your behavior of hanging out with different girls? Only you go taya. I will simply back off from you, after seeing with series of girls and u are giving me lame excuses or lies.
E go shock you

I don't have the patience for mind games. At this level I am, no man am with, can drive me nuts with his games. I will simply take a walk.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Please stop being overtly emotional and sentimental here. Nobody said she can't eat in a restaurant with a guy,the problem here is lying about her location.like I asked earlier, if your bf told you he traveled and you behold him with another girl in a restaurant, will you not be mad at him?.If she can't tell his guy the truth,how can the guy trust her?.

If I meet my bf in a restaurant when he said he's at home waiting for me. Yes I will be surprised, I will smile to myself and walk towards his table with glittering angry eyes. if there is an extra seat, I will seat down and smile at both of them, then back to him and say : honey, I was on my way to your house, like u said on phone, few minutes ago, that you were at home waiting for me and missing me but how come u are here with a lady?
And who is she?

His answer there and then will decide if he's lying, if he's cheating on me and if he's simply a waste of time and space. There and then, my decision will be made after he has answered my questions. I don't leave things hanging and presume just by what I see.

I don't procrastinate. I don't run away hurriedly. I face things squarely immediately . So there will be no perhaps. Your guy would have simply gotten his answer there and then, than walking hurriedly away and zooming off. Cmon? That's childish.

tee59:
Igbos are violent in nature.

And you are happy, saying it..


You go like violent love o!

Cause they have mammy water wives hounding and breathing down their necks!

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Since she is innocent,why didn't she tell his bf where she was?

Maybe they just got there, not too long ago. She may not have lied. Or she could have forgotten she had a lunch date with a friend or cousin or colleague. Anything is possible at that point, as long as he didn't see them in a romantic position.

Don't you think it will be easy and straight forward to simply walk up to her and the guy, then ask questions there and then ,calmly. Her facial expression, and how she explains herself, also how she introduces the guy seating next to her and introduce him to the guy next to her, will reveal alot and if she's cheating on him or not.
I don't like concluding on things by just looking at scenarios.

There and there, explanations and questions will be asked and answered than just walking away and assuming.


The issue is this: can't she eat in a restaurant with a guy in peace?

Xaos:
Catch am dey do wetin?

Na you catch her abi you dey work for EFCC?

She might be out with a family friend, brother or cousin.
It pays to know what is going on before you make a decision. Bro, learn to stop jumping into conclusions.

I wonder o


She was seated chit chatting with a guy. Not like he saw them kissing or touching romantically. They both jumped into conclusion. Shes cheating.

So his babe cannot hang out in restaurant with any human called MALE? in peace again.

Your guy is not matured at all! And he wants to get married? He's not serious.

What he would have done is this : walk to her table, greet both of them and tell her to her face with sweet smile that shebi she said she's at home, how come she's here having a blast! Then she will explain herself and make introductions between her bf and the guy she's with.

There and then, he's gotten the truth of what's going on.

No need for all this unnecessary games and drama

Anyways he is still a kid. He's not mature in relationship.

When it comes to Nigerian men, they will blame her for breaking up with her husband cause he cheated on her while she was heavily pregnant.
And I can bet in any date, she may end up with. The guy will only be asking questions like: but why did u divorce your husband, I still don't get it?

She will sigh, stifle her hands under neath the dinner table and say to herself: here we go again! I can't deal! I just want to move on!!!!!!!
Jeez!


Well Lilian such is life on Nigeria. Your divorce will always be topic of discussion everywhere u go. Sorry.

AreaFada2:
You should have put a picture of Bobrisky, Reginal Daniel, Cossy Orijiakor or some curvy lady, to make slay kings and queens read your post above.

Some people do not know that what you get from a relationship depends to a large extent to what you put in. No magic in it.

You just nailed it my dear. Lucky man you have.

Smiles no need jare.

Am also very lucky too, having him in my life.

When one goes through nasty relationship experience in life, as the years go by, the person will appreciate a good focused industrious partner , when he or she walks into one's life. God forbid bad people walk into my life again. Amen.

AreaFada2:
Oh no doubt, money is good. And along with peace of mind is even better.. If you didn't have peace of mind your glowing would be less as it would be only superficial.

That said a woman who brings something to the table will also likely get something out of it.

I have no doubt that you are only so happy because you both make each happy. That is the most important part.

Sadly, these days in 9ja, when money is short, drama is never really far away.

Hmm you are right about when money is short, but if both coupes are transparent to each other. They can support each other.

For us, I think he admires the fact I own a company at a young age, way back 12years ago, and still operating till date but this year, am having very low returns, which am not happy about.

Then We understand and trust each other, that's another part.

Wherever we are apart from each other , especially when we are away working, or if he has to stay late outside at night? . We do video calls, so we both see where we are and what we are doing at that moment . I think the video calls place our minds at rest that none is cheating on each other. After video calls, I sleep peacefully.

Then, back to my business, its kind of inactive for now due certain natural issues. Which we've tried to make work but everything we've done so far only yields to more promises from clients but no money dropping

Thank God he is understanding about the high and low side of business. He owns chains of businesses in Lagos and other states , he is very supportive and doesn't mind he is taking charge of every bills at home and at work for the time being.
He knows am hardworking, and my biz been inactive is unavoidable . Later I will bounce back with something different. So he is calm and always encouraging me to keep my hopes alive in my biz. He even helps in advertising my biz to his friends ,clients and colleagues. While I do my own quota.

There is nothing as soothing as having a supportive spouse when one is down financially. It keeps hope alive.

AreaFada2:
My dear who don fine don fine. In fact Na her "fineness" make Emenike pursue her.
Just like Adaeze Yobo.
I have seen some "Agbani" Lacasera sellers selling at traffic hold hold up. Their beauty nor be here.
Yeah money is good.

I know but money and love refines the beauty and makes it glow more.

When I was dating some useless idiots in my past, I was ruggedly fine but looking older than my age, cause of their unnecessary drama and annoying attitudes.
But since I started with my man, my looks became more refined, soft and fresh. Even me, myself I look at myself in the mirror and marvel.
My friends, neighbors, work place marvel how I have changed and revolved through the years.. They are like wow! U look so young and very pretty! Even as I clock 36. I know what am saying. Some men can make women age and look old with a speed of lightning .
Emenike's wife look pretty when he met her but she's glowing and look superb now.

My dear money and peace of mind refines a woman especially.

Emenike is a real blessed man! When a man takes care of his woman and gives her peace and assurance, financially, materially and morally . Her beauty glows forever, irrespective of her tribe.
God bless every man out there taking care of their women. Amen.

God bless my hubby too amen!

eyinjuege:
He doesn't want children. Not everyone is cut out for parenthood, and I admire him for realising this and breaking the cycle by not having children.
Every child needs an atmosphere of love, peace and good wishes to thrive

He doesn't want children cause he has never been showered with love Or care since he was born till date. He is realistic to himself, why continue the same cycle of his dad? Better to live single and die alone.

His dad no try at all. And his mum too. They both failed him.

50 naira condom would have prevented this lost soul from been created.

The parents no try at all.

Na wa o

Too bad.

IloveToMess:
heheheheheheheheheheheh
all this English is mere cover up biko

Thank you, I accept it's cover up.

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IloveToMess:
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talk is cheap

Can you please post a picture of your husband let me compare him with Mike and see who's more charming

i'm the neutral person here not you

I'm waiting..

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U are indeed a kid, now I understand your type. You can wait forever.

I should post my hubby pic, so u people can destroy my peaceful loving home and turn him against me out of the blues bah?
Sorry to burst your bubble, my private life and family pictures remain private.

And moreover he is extremely important and cherished to be compared online with Mike Godson. He's not that cheap. He cannot be compared to any man.

And he doesn't need cheap accolades online. So keep your eyes off him.

If u like believe, if u like don't believe.. Who cares?

ElidaxZiel:
do you realize you are also a girl, or are you speaking out of jealousy

Am Not jealous. I have my own kids and I didn't make noise about it.

Anyways she should learn to stay quiet on her relationship with davido, so that the babies can roll in from her body.
Too much noise spoils things.

Make she get belle na

Davido don wait taya, upon all the assurance he gave her.

What's she waiting for?

BrainnewsNg:
Must you tempt everyone?

:DYes!

Lol!

IloveToMess:
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Forget gragra we know una, just pray that guy looks your way, you will forget everything you've said here..

No be only pray, add dry fasting join.

Come and remove me from my husband's house, cause he's the only man on earth.

My hubby's handsome look, basket baller's height , broad thick shoulders and chocolate dark skin, with luscious lips beat your Mike Godson look hands down!

There is no argument on it. Mike that looks like a woman God forbid!

Although the floor is yours to argue with yourself forever.

Mike cannot be compared to my hubby who is in control and In charge of my total beauty and awesomeness

Mike no reach, not in this life time or other life times to come. He's a sissy.

So you and him should go and rest.

IloveToMess:
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Enough of this your nonsense pretense, you and i know the guy is handsome abeg. If he "tries" proposing to you will you say no and be saying all these rubbish all because he doesn't gim on the face You want his face to look rugged like Nigerian roads or what, dont you think your choice might be a resultant effect of the neighborhood you were raised, cos ghetto girls prefer their love "ghetto" .
My dear you are not serious las las i swear.

Anyways, I don't have your time.

*yawns*

BlastAfonja:
So what is the difference between Handsome and Pretty in this context of yours??

Handsome means a very good looking guy with a manly rugged edge attached to his face and built. Such men always have women swooning around them, with average or more money.

Pretty means a soft looking, good looking guy with soft almost feminine face. The guy may not be soft within but his looks do not have that manly ruggedness. He is pretty and such pretty looks, most women will complement and admire but not necessarily want to get close as dating him. He knows he is cute, we all know he is cute but women are always using his cuteness against him saying he is too fine and they don't believe he doesn't have a babe. But that's a lie coming from us.
deep down the women knows he doesn't have a babe But we use it as excuse not to make him feel hurt, that he has a babe or babes somewhere.
He needs a little rough edge added to his fine look.

How can he achieve such rough edge? Mehn? I don't know. But one day, let him be patient. The ribs of his ribs and bone of his bone will come his way. I just hope they don't miss it, when they see each other last last. Cause there is only one woman meant for this kind of guy. Not the kind of woman, he would have ordinarily gone for anyways. But the woman will be so smitten by him. But he won't so smitten by her except experience of heartbreaks and all, reshapes his mindset. That's when he is likely not to miss her when their paths cross.

Ironic shey?

She's not happy

Thinking about her marriage all over again

Was it worth it?

gwama:
A handsome man like that, without bleaching, who is still not married, what is he waiting for? That all women end up with him ??

In your eyes, he is handsome.

In most women eyes he is a pretty guy. And guys who are pretty don't usually have women falling after themselves to have him. Most pretty boys are single. That's why he's still single and the remaining kind of women coming his way, may not his type.. So why bother dating just anyone?

Dudeweedlmao:
How can she leave what's not even hers?

Lol

She has high hopes on the bond between her daughter and davido


Her daughter is "akobi"

Hopium:
If there is any iota of Truth to this, then Sophia is dumbo. Why show the world the guy's chat.

She dey look for a top personality to date her like she looked for David abi? The way some people think self is amazing. So after becoming a baby mama and chef chioma later got the heart of your baby daddy, you still they look for top personality?

If David ever loved you, you ought to be the recipient of his 'assurance' but social media attention won't like you think straight.

But wait, what kind of man dey allow this cheap LovePeddler use am score SM points like this?! SMH. Like some said already, "men manage leftover like her, not woo"



In her 1960s wild dream.

Lol! David has got nothing for her. The only thing David owns her is the upkeep of her baby. Nothing more, nothing less.



So, what did she got in return after dating a top celebrity. You see sometimes, we overestimate our worth and in doing so we expect too much. Na the dude no Sabi package him profession. But don't doubt it, dude might be living large than a handful of the so called Nigerian celebrities ooo. He isn't a technician in Nigeria, he is being paid in dollars. And for him to make the move to woo the ex girlfriend of a celebrity like Davido, don't underrate him. The Nigerian welder must be loaded.

That's true
I now understand where u are coming from.

And unfortunately that's one thing she doesn't realise, until it's too late to settle with a comfortable young guy.

1StopRudeness:
I don't get? Is she with Davido??

She is still with davido.

Cause he doesn't take her everywhere he goes like Chioma, does not mean he has stopped fulfiling his roles behind closed doors.
That's why none of his baby mamas are going nowhere.
Their allawee every month is no joke .

I knew it!

I knew she just wanted to smear his image.

Instead of this title heading to be Ehi egebor abi wetin be her surname sef?

Ehi apologises to her husband, I was only angry, he is not occultic.

But now the heading goes : Woman apologies to her husband, he's not occultic
Can u imagine?
If na to spoil someone name? The headline will be so loud!
And the pages would have reached 99pages, with most people saying their knew it! We knew he's into rituals and killings. His wife has said it all.
Now she has apologised that she's wrong. Everybody quiet like mouse!

Make e no go rest!

She ain't leaving Davido!

Why date a man for 7years?

7 good years!

She outplayed herself.