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RomanceRe: Lady Prepares Stew With N300, Advises Men Not To Marry Women Who Can't Cook Like by victorian(f): 11:08am On Sep 14, 2018
This babe can lie o!

Anyways she is looking for husband on twitter. She will fit the wife of a very poor man grin

Lol.

Chai!
FamilyRe: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by victorian(f): 11:02am On Sep 14, 2018
CSTR1005:
No responsible man will allow you to take his children away.

If you steal them away, he will hunt you down.

You can leave since you don't like stress, but not with the children.
What I meant is this: If I were the Op, I won't even tell him anything about POP, Abi OPP, whatever the term is. As long as have had three children, my lips are sealed.
If he ask why am i not seeing my menses, I will say it's hormonal imbalance.

But if I made a huge mistake telling my husband, the way the OP revealed all to the husband and after pleading with him that am sorry and hes keeping malice or keeping to himself. I will let him be and focus on my kids and my job. When he's tired of keeping malice, he will reconcile, and if he doesn't ? Everyman for himself.

Then if he present divorce papers to me, I will sign it, then we battle for the kids in court. I won't leave my kids with him, with all the horrible stories one hears about father and children.
My kids are coming with me, let him keep hunting us down. Moreover my kids would want to be with me anyways. So no big deal there.
FamilyRe: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by victorian(f): 8:02am On Sep 14, 2018
CSTR1005:
Dont worry.
He will marry another woman that will take such stress.

If you don't like it, the door is open. But leave his kids behind.
He can marry another woman but am taking my children along with me.

No two ways about it
FamilyRe: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by victorian(f): 7:17am On Sep 14, 2018
Mizwisdom:
Of course he's her enemy. If I were her, I will focus on my kids and my job, I will hold tight to it. He wants to frustrate the living daylight out of her, I just hope she's wise enough to see his true agenda.
That's the plain truth! I hope she sees his twisted plan on-time. And focus on her kids and job. Simply ignore him. If woman carry man for head, she will just collapse with high bp. Carry man on the shoulder, if he becomes too heavy , drop him and focus on the blessings u have already. Let him keep fighting and keeping malice to himself. He get luck!
I won't take such stress from any man am married to. I don't even have the strength for such emotional stress sef. cheesy
What's in this life? Someone will now make unbearable for me in the same house?
He's indeed lucky! grin

Some men can be a pain in the neck sha. While some men are God sent and easy going.
FamilyRe: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by victorian(f): 6:56am On Sep 14, 2018
Mizwisdom:
Sista, anybody asking you to leave your job is your enemy. If such a person is a member of your family, he's called "Household enemy". Now, it seems your husband is one of them, what you do is to apply wisdom. Ask for your full leave from work, then start demanding upkeep money from your husband for the family, you will see how he will gradually start to verbally abuse you, from there it will become physical abuse. If you like yourself and your children, you better hold unto your job


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Honestly her husband is her enemy. Broad day light enemy.. He wants her at his mercy! What kind of wickedness is that? Upon three children! He's still not satisfied. Families are having just two or three these days and close up. This one wants 10 children. What does he want to use her menses for?
Honestly the man is so annoying. The wife get time dey worry.

No man will come and give me bp in this life, after having three bountiful kids! Anyways they know the kind of women they can threaten and worry unnecessarily.
FamilyRe: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by victorian(f): 6:53am On Sep 14, 2018
Your husband is not serious.

Upon the three children u bore for him, he's keeping malice with you? Smhhh.

What of families that have only one child and the wife is still menstruating but no child except that one boy or one girl. I have a friend who's 42, she has 15years old son. The husband does not joke with his son and wife. Abroad vacation today, abroad the next month. Enjoying themselves. Her husband didn't leave her o.
She has only one son. And there is peace on their home.
U that have three children, u don't have peace in your home. Smhhh. It's not good to marry someonelse husband. Cos no matter how hard u try. The partner will still be ungrateful.
Madam, u don't have any problem. If he wants to divorce u, let him go ahead and take your children along with you. He can go and marry sweet 16. And give birth to 10 children with a younger woman. Honestly your husband is very ungrateful!
FamilyRe: Any Engineer Of Washing Machine? Giving It Out For Free. by victorian(op): 2:33pm On Sep 13, 2018
cruchenutii:
We thank da Lord.
Yeaaah! cheesy
FamilyRe: Any Engineer Of Washing Machine? Giving It Out For Free. by victorian(op): 12:28pm On Sep 13, 2018
nwarosa:
Such foolish talk. I guess that would be your only reason to give out something for free.
My dear, don't mind him.. Hes clueless in the power of giving.
FamilyRe: Any Engineer Of Washing Machine? Giving It Out For Free. by victorian(op): 12:27pm On Sep 13, 2018
busar:
but I gave my email on the main thread (clearance sales) that I want the washing machine since last week. It seems the other person didn't come for it.... Please give me. Boosayry@gmail.com
Someone has picked it up an hour ago.. Sorry.. She's a nursing mother.
FamilyRe: Any Engineer Of Washing Machine? Giving It Out For Free. by victorian(op): 12:27pm On Sep 13, 2018
cruchenutii:
Madame, this one you're giving us all your stuffs for free recently, hope you're not planning to leave the World oh.
Perhaps planning to join Aaliyah on the other side?
Hahahahahahahah cheesy

You are not serious!
A cheerful giver never lacks. Since last week till today, have given out some of my properties for free, and my buisness meetings av been going on successfully well. A business partner, I and my lawyer went into meeting with, was so happy with my presentation, he was all smiles after answering his questions intelligently, at the end he shook my hand and said uv captured my interest, young lady! Your name supersedes u, u are indeed a Victorious woman. Don't worry, am with you in this business, my lawyer will meet with yours and Pls sign the necessary documents. cheesy
I replied, definitely I will sir!

I was so happy all through yesterday. My lawyer said I answered the buisness mogul intelligently and I should keep it up!

Am heading somewhere with this free will of mine. Today I received another great news early this morning. Favours and prayers of those I placed smiles on their faces is working on my life. God bless them all immensely.

All these things am dashing out is nothing to me.. Am heading somewhere with my good will smiley

God is Great
God is Awesome
God is Marvelous
God is my entire life, I can't thank Him enough for using me to add smiles into people's faces and people adding smiles to my face too..

I give God the glory.. thank you Jesus.

He never fails.

Am so so happy! cheesy
RomanceRe: If A Lady Sends You This Message On Social Media Or Via Text, Please Do Not Open by victorian(f): 3:14pm On Sep 12, 2018
deedy111:
Dash me abeg
Your email.
FamilyRe: Any Engineer Of Washing Machine? Giving It Out For Free. by victorian(op): 3:13pm On Sep 12, 2018
LCD TV and table sold..


AC remain.... Going going.....
FamilyRe: Any Engineer Of Washing Machine? Giving It Out For Free. by victorian(op): 12:35pm On Sep 12, 2018
cyndyuc:
Uchecyndy@gmail.com
Ok , have sent u a mail. Gmail
RomanceRe: If A Lady Sends You This Message On Social Media Or Via Text, Please Do Not Open by victorian(f): 12:33pm On Sep 12, 2018
jonath0012:
Babe, I am damn interested.
Your email
FamilyRe: Any Engineer Of Washing Machine? Giving It Out For Free. by victorian(op): 12:30pm On Sep 12, 2018
cyndyuc:
I'm interested ma
Your email?
FamilyRe: Any Engineer Of Washing Machine? Giving It Out For Free. by victorian(op): 11:26am On Sep 12, 2018
akindele91:
Am interested dear pls mail me your number on edwardjame36@yahoo.com
Ok.
RomanceRe: Man Gets Awesome Reward From His Girlfriend After He Made Unusual Sacrifice by victorian(f): 11:25am On Sep 12, 2018
DavidEsq:
I wee even make anoda dis evening. My wife go beg me tire today, but I go do am ojukokoro cheesy
Eeyah cheesy

You try o, as a man.
RomanceRe: Man Gets Awesome Reward From His Girlfriend After He Made Unusual Sacrifice by victorian(f): 11:15am On Sep 12, 2018
DavidEsq:
cheesy cheesy cheesy. If u see the starch wey I make yesterday morning, com use am sama catfish Egusi pepper soup ehn! U go bah! cheesy. I even get the video sef. I need sell that video o! cheesy
Wow! cheesy you are very wucked! tongue

You are making my mouth water cheesy

Sighs! By God's grace I will create time and prepare it..

I miss Banga, mixed with fresh catfish, dry sama catfish with goat meat, Mehn I see there! And swallowed with starch! cheesy
FamilyRe: Any Engineer Of Washing Machine? Giving It Out For Free. by victorian(op): 11:07am On Sep 12, 2018
Only one person can have it.. Expect my mail to the ones that placed their email ID here. It's well.
FamilyRe: Any Engineer Of Washing Machine? Giving It Out For Free. by victorian(op): 4:03am On Sep 12, 2018
Am giving out a 2 n 1 , Printer and scanner free..

Quote me, if u are interested.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: If A Lady Sends You This Message On Social Media Or Via Text, Please Do Not Open by victorian(f): 4:02am On Sep 12, 2018
People truly need help. If you have help, God will bless you more.
I pray to be in a position to help people especially ladies and possibly men whom I feel truly need help.

Inbetween am dashing out a Printer with scanner 2 n 1.. HP product.

If u are interested quote this message. Thanks.
RomanceRe: Meet The Kano-based Nigerian Man Who Has Willed 20% Of His Wealth To His Cat by victorian(f): 10:16pm On Sep 11, 2018
Cat wey dey go kill use as asun after his demise with ata rodo.

He's a joker! grin
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong? by victorian(f): 10:07pm On Sep 11, 2018
SmilingMary:
My worry is you, for thinking that having a good job, living in a comfortable flat, having a car, makes someone/anyone "mature"... Maturity is in the content, not the container. You too left productive seeds, went ahead to pick stones.
No need worrying about me, cos am perfectly fine.
And news flash! He doesn't have a car, am the one with the car, changing from Chrysler to SUV.
So, I left an empty soul, filled with stones and no value whatsoever. he was surprised I wanted to date him, as he doesn't have a car but for me? A guy having no car is irrelevant. His flat sef is not even a complete flat. It's Mini flat . The job sef is not even up to 150k salary. But I overlooked all that. I thought about his age, felt if he can fend for himself, that means he won't be a leech on me.. And to all fairness he wasn't a leech.

Anyways, the last time we bumped into each other. He's still the way he is. Nothing has changed in his life. Same ol, same ol.

So save your worries.
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong? by victorian(f): 9:41pm On Sep 11, 2018
gloria34:
glad to have a family here. thanks sis
Anytime dear
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong? by victorian(f): 9:40pm On Sep 11, 2018
gloria34:
i understand. thanks
You are welcome dear

God will strengthen u and keep u away from time wasters, gigolos, and arrogant men and boys in Jesus name amen.

Be focused on making yourself better , pray and be patient . You will smile at the end.
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong? by victorian(f): 9:31pm On Sep 11, 2018
Homeboiy:
why won't she make the relationship work?

She's a single mom looking for whom to love her

nonsense, you want make the guy leave tear rubber come dey drive tokunbo
You sef!
Take it easy with the bashing, biko
Shes a made a mistake once been a single mum. But this time? She must be very careful whom she gives her heart to.
Don't fall victim twice, and don't become another single mother for another guy this time. Ain't worth it.
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong? by victorian(f): 9:28pm On Sep 11, 2018
lefulefu:
they might just be paddies and op is mistaken that for dating. That could explain why d guy acted like dat when op was asking him about the identity of d girl on his watsap dpcheesy. Tell me which normal guy will tell his girlfriend dat it aint her business to watever female's pix he puts on his dpcheesy.
I wonder o...

Such guy must-have alot of guts and arrogance to pull such stunt off.

Such a rude and I don't care answer.
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong? by victorian(f): 6:41pm On Sep 11, 2018
highpriestess:
loool.
men behaving like babies.


they don't always know what they want.grin
op, if you have eyes see this and walk away in full before he breaks you into pieces .
Am telling you! Some men are so clueless and confused.. throwing away gold and picking sand instead ... Smiles... I look back and I shake my head at such mentality.
And I didn't regret leaving his sorry assz!
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong? by victorian(f): 6:23pm On Sep 11, 2018
highpriestess:
gbam, op needs to understand this.

how can your so called boyfriend not care about who's on your dp or what he puts as his dp?
it's crystal clear he doesn't consider her feelings aswell, maybe he thinks they are just friends with benefit, if I'm the op, I will just have to take a long walk out of that shiity relationship.


onething with dating small boys without brain.
Exactly! But it's not only small boys who behave such way.

Have seen guys in their 30s behaving like that as well.. After much pressure to know where I stand in the relationship. He will then come clean and say well? I am still taking baby steps to understand you and feel where am I, as a man going in this relationship. I don't want to make any promises for now.. But u know what let's be friends of benefit, and enjoy the moment cos I love the feeling when am inside of you. Please let's leave it as friends of benefit .


I will be like what? Upon all the sweet toasting and all.. Pretending he has the same goals as mine... With all the words that at his age, He can't be fooling around. Now he is saying friend of benefits. Are u kidding me? Some guys will never make it in this life, that's for sure.

That's coming from the mouth of a 33years old guy, who has a good job, stays in a flat but still unsure about what he wants between him and a lady he wooed by himself. He's still unsure if he wants a serious relationship or not. Can u imagine? The story has changed from he needs a serious relationship to friends of benefit.. Lol

God!

Op, for your sanity better move on.. We are saving u heartbreaks here.
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong? by victorian(f): 5:51pm On Sep 11, 2018
highpriestess:
you are wasting your time with that guy.
like he doesn't care about your dps or your affairs with others?

He doesn't take you serious and he feels you can also cheat aswell since the relationship isn't serious.
I can't even date a guy that's not jealous of my every move.He's not into you, please do well to understand this.
Exactly! He feels she can cheat cos he cheats without blinking an eye. And he doesn't care if she does cheat. All he's after is sex, then if she breaks up with him no wahala, if she doesn't he comes back and keeps fucking.. nothing real about him jare.
He's still sowing his oats with other ladies out there.
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong? by victorian(f): 5:06pm On Sep 11, 2018
SilentWisper:
well technically it's none of her business. Since she's not his wife undecided
It's her buisness, as long as she is girlfriend and lover.

Assuming they are just friends, then it's non of her buisness.
Any bf who says it's non of my buisness? Hmmmm.. Hmmmm.

The guy should just kiss our relationship goodbye. What rubbish?

Well anyways non of my past exs have ever said such to me

It's very rude to say to someone, u claim u care about and supposedly love.
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong? by victorian(f): 4:56pm On Sep 11, 2018
gloria34:
I still have three months to finish up here, and when I finally gets home, he won't be home. after staying away from relationships for long, I really want this 1 to work
My dear with this mentality of you want to this to work? U will really take shit from the guy.
The guy is also interested in the babe he used as his dp.. He's stringing both of u along.
For a guy, u are dating to say it's non of your buisness whom he uses as dp is just warming up, his arrogance and authoritative attitude towards u.
With time, u will realise what am saying.
Better retreat , set him.loose and be patient to date a better guy.

This one will just break your heart in a selfish and non chalant way at the end . The signs are glaring already.

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