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princfred:
In her case, being super rich( which scares many men by itself) combined with that unsexy face is a real deal breaker for the few who may fancy her . If she were a poor or not too rich, a wider pool of men will be comfortable to apply.

That's it! Super rich from a Nigerian lady will definitely scare men away.. And what she delved her hand into, in bringing those riches do not want her to be married with kids. Its a taboo for her

So it's either she choose bn super rich or nothing and live an average life like most ladies then marry even before now sef.
I know what am saying sha.
Time they say is the greatest revealer of all things.

princfred:
In her case, being super rich( which scares many men by itself) combined with that unsexy face is a real deal breaker for the few who may fancy her . If she were a poor or not too rich, a wider pool of men will be comfortable to apply.

Still the same thing but we are both looking at it from two different context.

princfred:
That may not be the case [b]until we hear cases of her refusing many marriage proposals. [/b]Have anyone proposed to her and she refused? Does she know her face is not attractive? Have anyone told her? Do Nigerians ever tell ladies that "hey your face is soo unattractive you really should get a face lift to stand a chance"? The norm is to call for prayers or mock her behind her back or just look and pass. Some will even tell her she is beautiful on top, that her time will come bla bla bla but will never toast her because they know the truth. This applies to her fellow ladies too.

Unnecesary deception and eye service is a culture here. Even from this thread you can notice this trend. So the lady may never have a clue. Your spirit can be lying to you.

I know most people don't tell their friends the truth if the person is not looking good. They always say wow! You are looking cute but seriously that's not the case.

Do you know there are ugly girls getting married every Saturday, even the masculine kind of ladies, also ladies with rabbit teeth marrying. So Linda is not that ugly or hideous for a man not to want her. At least she's even adding some flesh and the face is just average with slight wrinkles by the eyes region, which can be fixed with Botox injections.

But by and large, assuming we want to say she's ugly, just assuming. There are more ugly girls getting married. So my dear I know what am saying. A man will still want to marry Linda as she is. But none is coming forth. Most men who knows their onions are watching from a distance and it hasn't crossed their mind to desire or wish to ask her for marriage, cos of what surrounds her spiritually.

And at the bolded, she cannot refuse marriage proposal outrightly or else Nigerians and even suitors will start suspecting exactly what am suspecting. What you are seeing happening to Linda is not ordinary and she knows. But there is nothing she can do about it, because she chose stupendous wealth over marriage.

May God keep us alive, then u will see what happens some years ahead. It's the same story, that will recycle over and over again, until everyone will get tired of telling her to go marry and just keep mum, and leave her alone.

princfred:
Yeah the thing is no one will ever tell her(even those she buys car for) so she may not even have a clue. Even look through this thread; a thousand and one replies, yet no sensible solution or advice. Its the Nigerian thing they rather feel good mocking and envying her than say the obvious solution .

My dear, just now now!
Do you know as I was still thinking about Linda ikeji.. My inner spirit said, Victorian
Don't deceive yourself and let people not be deceived Linda ikeji will never marry in this life time, except she wants to end up been poor after marriage.
It seems she delved her hands into something that's why she's so rich. It's not just blogging and all. There is something fishy shes keeping to her chest. And the taboo is She will never marry. No wonder she doesn't invest in her looks.
Can u imagine?
she knows she cannot marry. But she can have sex. And God help the man she has sex with..
O ga o
Anyways May God see her through when she's ready to let go of what she holds tightly behind closed doors.

That's what the inner spirit said. It's well.

Make I dey church jare. I don't almost late.

See ya

princfred:
She for go for plastic surgery since to make her face mre appealing but no one tells her her face is too strong and not appealing. Instead dey just they mock her.

Yes o! That's also true.

She needs a face lift, liposuction and face rejuvenation, with some botox filling to soften her face. If Obasanjo late wife, back then who was 60years old but was looking like lady in her 30s, with fresh face and skin.. How much more Linda.
All these very rich ladies, I wonder what they use their monies to do, after helping family, friends, buying cars and houses. They forget to invest in their looks and skin.

And Nigerians sabi mock and bully. Forgetting , similar thing can also happen to them later on in life. And theirs could be worse off than Linda situation, with no money self to even help their case.
Linda had better do the needful and look youthful again. At least she has the money to make it happen.

Biafrareform:
All these thing just to get a woman.

Na wah ohh

Your eyes never clear.

Can't u see Praiz the artist, Paddy Adenuga, Lynxx, Don Jazzy, etc some rich guys out there we don't even know sef, looking to have stable headed girlfriends and wifey but unfortunately none is showing up.
The ones desperately wooing them, they don't like cos the guys know a wife material when he sees one.

See dbanj, it's not like he didn't want to get married on-time but after search hi and low! He got fed-up until he met his co-star in one dance show like that , after series of shows with her and possibly he must have complained he wants a gf who will end up as his wife. All he wants is a cool level headed well brought up gorgeous beauty.

And luckily for him, his co-star has a fair lovely cousin, far away in the north, she rarely clubs, she rarely parties and when he met this cousin in person? He was blown away with her soft natural looks and there and then he said that's the woman I truly need in my life. He married her codedly and he's living a stress free married life.
He's smart.

So at the end. Most of these rich guys have their eyes sets on daughters of millionaires or billionaires, who rarely have good home training. They love to club but they don't want to marry club girls.
They feel cos club girls are always all. Over them, then all women should be all. Over them.. But sorry that's far from reality.

The good homely girls don't club, they don't party, they go to school or work, market, shopping. Mall, then back home. That's their life

So until u that have money come down from your high horse and take the pains to ask around for such wife materials, u won't see them.
Last last the good homely girls will be matchmaked by either their family or family friends or even church members to people they feel will make the girls have peace of mind in their husband's house.

That's why someone said, even with your money, some ladies will not date you.

Cause these ladies and their families look at the character of the suitor coming and his pedigree, not just money only.


I hope am making sense

Rextayne:
Davido for done bang this girl kpekus tire.

No he won't knack, he go dey worship her face 24/7 .... Smhhhh.

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Generals06:
Lol. You ever imagined what would happen if he keeps fuccking and the lady does not get pregnant despite fertility tests confirming she is ok?

I don imagine nam tay tay . Even before I got to the second page.
And he go just dey fucvk dey go, cos no shi shi go drop unless she's pregnant. Then another lady will jump ship, He continues the same circle. Just dey fucck dey go with no mercy! Until he fucck so many gullible ladies out there. What a crafty man!

Honestly I wonder with so much money, she can't just try and marry a responsible guy?

And she's starting to look old and fat

Whatever the problem is? May God help her.. It's not funny anymore.

LivingFree:
Don't be upset... like you said the pms are rolling in

I wonder why he's pained.. He should be busy replying pms and chatting them up on bbm. Then keep fuccking until anyone gets pregnant. He shouldn't be here, replying us sef.

Even his name sef, FannySwindler

He swindles women already.

shaybebaby:
Aww, you are making my head swell. Thank you.

Thing is men don't often realise that making the child's mum comfortable in her own right equates making the child comfortable afterall she is the one tasked with the primary role of caring. And this continues even if you are no longer together because women are often left doing it alone.

And for women, they are caught up with the status quo they do not think about the practicalities involved AND what happens if the fathers stop keeping their end of the bargain.

To protect yourself as a woman is to protect your children as a mother.

Correct!

Martin0:
ummm agbalagbafo na wa oo, who send me anyway I say make i holla you!
enjoy your time

Thank God u remember who send you. Lol

When u call me, agbalagbi abi agbalabo

Only God knows where u got such name from?

And the next thing that came to my mind is agbalagbafo

Thanks for the holla, happy weekend to u.. Enjoy!

shaybebaby:
Nigga just trolling Jare my sister.

Me sef throway pink hat for you.

Don't mind him, he thinks all women in Nigeria are desperate. Even saying married women should stop contacting him. I was like who does he think he is?
Anyways if some women have not learnt their lessons in the different cunning antics of some men to fucvk mercilessly for free, scattering the pusssyyy, ,increase body counts and dump afterwardS, just because of trips to America , when the baby is about to be born, then it's finished for such ladies.

I like you, intelligent and well calculated plan &strategies trips me alot. You've made my day, already


Thanks my sis.

Martin0:
this agbalagbi where u go hide since e don tae oo

U nko, agbalagbafo, I dey around

shaybebaby:
Present state of boobies is great but I don't know what it would be like after having a second bubba chew it for a year.

I will take your answer as based on your inexperience of raising kids and the sacrifices required to maintain the balance between emotional, financial and their overall wellbeing.

So for me to be a stay at home mum, it means I have to give up my career or atleast curtail it to do that. The kids will grow but I will not have the benefits of a long career in my old age I. E pension so there is an opportunity cost there which must be made right.

You playing your role as a married man includes fidelity which is not on the table here so we already know that this situation is different and cannot be that.

Secondly, without the legal framework of marriage which assures me of half the assets should relations breakdown, what incentive is there for any woman to put her career on hold to raise children when in the event of a relationship breakdown, she has no rights to the assets acquired as a result of her staying home and allowing the man to pursue his career?

What do you mean by proper parental relationship? Myself and my ex don't live together but we co-parent and make decisions regarding my child together.

You can have regular access to my pumpum as long as you wear condoms and ready to pay for flights for me to come Nigeria or you come to me.

As you rightly said, it would be my child too so these demands are to protect the said child in the long run. I will not have a child until the guarantees are put in place.

And I'm not so sure of your intelligence if you cannot deduce that I am not located in Lagos from my post.

Lastly yes, I am doing you a favour.
1)your child will definitely be British, so even if he/she were to be born in the UK, I have saved you the hospital fees.

2) You will have the option of never paying school fees if I raise the child here, education is free.

3) I bring something to the table financially, assets of my own and a good career. So YOU have the peace of mind knowing that your kid will be cared for no matter what because mummy is capable.

Take it or leave it.

Chai


Intelligence at its peak!

Mehn shaybebaby! You are too much! In fact 3much! I love you die!
Am no lesbian o! But I love intelligent ladies! Mehn u are too much. Such intelligent piece. With this deal, u are as good as covered and safe, in whichever way he behaves in the future.

I duff my pink hat for u!



Any lady that believes op and accept his conditions like that? Is just big fooll. Sorry babes but that's the truth.

Sleezwizz:
Na u go sabi say she b side chick... na ur type dey get multiple boyfriends....

Monitoring spirit oshi...

It's either you are Odunlade himself or you are Eniola.

Cause when Eniola was celebrating her birthday, and both of you were snapping pics on TV station, and other places with hugs and smiles, posting online. And people here praising both of you, as lovely couples and that shes full of beauty and u chose well.. You no complain o.. I bet you were all smiles like Agama..

Now the wife pics is attached to this thread, u are screaming like a lizard.

Why didn't u snap with your wife?
Why snap with side chick only?

Ode! You are not even proud of your wife! That's if u Are odunlade. Shior!
Thank your Stars u have a gentle wife!

But if u are not either of those two? Then thunder fire you there!

Hmm! Madam and Side chick all smiles

Hmmm
Hmmm.

gforce5:
Nairaland is full of ignorant people. I know Tania's family well. Her surname is Teller not Omotayo. Omotayo is her middle name. Her dad's Austrian hence why she looks the way she is but trust nairalanders to say that she is bleaching. You lots are really ignorant & silly.

We are not silly. This is the first time am seeing Teller as her surname. She hardly mentions it. What we see, is what we identify with. If she had been adding Teller to her name, all this while like the rest people eg genieve nnaji, adesua etomi, Lola omotayo, we won't be this surprised hers is Tania omotayo teller.

It's that simple.

nowpresence:
omotayo is her native name not her surname

OK, so what's her surname ?


Cause we've never heard her mentioning her surname, as omotayo is her native name?
I wonder how someone will avoid adding her surname to her name. Am surprised anyways.

Very beautiful..

KillaBeauty:
My dear that’s what I don’t understand. Maybe she prefers to identify as strictly Nigerian. She flaunts her dad a lot on her Instagram so I know he’s white.

If the dad is truly white. Then she's bearing her mother's maiden name.
That's the only rationale behind it.

KillaBeauty:
Her daddy is white

But does a white man bear Omotayo as surname?

My question is this : did he kidnap those underage girls? Where they forced ,tied and bundled into his house?

When parents fail to train their daughters not to answer any strange man , beckoning on them to come closer , or handing cash or chocolates to them on the street hence luring such girls into the car. The parents won't seat one place and train their children well.
So if this story is true, the only person I blame is the parents of those unfortunate girls. We all the kind of country we are in. Why can't parents just do the needful?

soberdrunk:
Love in the age of Keke part 2....

Ps---Looking at these pictures, one cannot help but wonder what this gentleman with his head like "Made in Aba padlock" told this beautiful woman that she agreed to marry him..........

Very Simple.

The man said baby I will take care of you. Forget my looks, what matters is living in comfort and u with our kids won't go hungry. I promise you with his eyes begging her.. He may even be kneeling down when he's promising her in his apartment. And I will even open any biz of buying and selling u desire. Just say Yes! That's all. Her mother will assure her, after the guy don bribe the mum with wrappers , bags and perfume. That's how ugly guys propose. Lol

Unlike some slay kings, wey think say there looks and 6packs is all and all. They will even start ringing it in the lady's ear. Lemme tell u babe, ladies are the ones taking care of men now o.. If u don't take care of me, another woman will o!
Chai!
Smhhhhh.

One of my friends who is living comfortably, she's a house wife, averagely pretty. Her husband is so ugly ehnnn No be small thing o. And this man was so jittery when she was heavily pregnant, I will just shake my head and smile. When he's out of our sight, her face showing discomfort will turn to smiles and she will say Victoria, don't marry fine boi o.. You go just suffer
Ugly guys go all the way and hustle more to make sure their wives are comfortable. Be wise o.

Fine tall guys no dey pay bills o.. And moreover ladies outside won't allow him concentrate at home. You see how he's doing, making sure am OK. I eat what I like, he drops me wherever I want to go in the morning before he goes to work, later.
If you wan enjoy marriage, forget looks o.. You are fine already, so what do u need fine man for? U don't need it, at least your looks will compensate your kids looks.
I just smile.

Life.

Money is good. With money and respect, the home is peaceful and filled with love and romance dey sweet die!

MrHandsome2013:
op, you are very correct....as a child i went through emotional and social trauma...my parents made life not worth living for me...my childhood days were indeed very horrible and miserable....now in my late twenties...still finding it hard to relate with my peers.....i dont even have feelings for my parents...each time i set my eyes on them i feel like killing them..they deserve death

Eeyah I understand how you feel.
Sighs the society is the main problem. Friends, family will push people whom they know are not financially OK, to go get married or have kids. If the person is weak, he or she succumbs to pressure of peers and family. Knowing fully well, they can't even feed twice a day how much thrice a day.
That's why u see some children, cutting off their parents head, out of annoyance . Am not saying u should do same o

It's just an example we read everyday in crime section.

If as an adult, u cannot conveniently take care of yourself and bills, Biko don't bring a child to suffer and hate u in old age. Nigerians should just use their brains and think deep.

May God heal your heart and mind for all you've gone through, amen.