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Women simply believe the lies of men, during dating. And at the end get pregnant for him but he later turns his back on her, saying he's not ready to be married cos he can't marry in a miniflat, where he's currently living in.
And most ladies hate abortion. So they keep the baby, and that's how it grows everyday.

To meet a single lady who doesn't have child or children is like a rich fat man walking through the eye of a needle . Babymamas are just everywhere, it's incredible.
Ladies who are single with no kids, please keep it that way, don't fall for the lying sweet tongues of men. Or else Oyo Lo wa! And u may end up settling for crumbs at the end of it all, in this life race.
So many deceptive men out there, who wants to milk a cow for all its worth for free and not ready to buy the cow.
Men are no longer men, it's disheartening.

She's very pretty.

I hope their parents know what they are doing, allowing both of them marry and have kids

BabbanBura:
Dey fuxk am, do video how to fuxk am show us for here first

Hahahahahahahah


Oh Lord!



Op, Oya o...show us a tutorial video as u dey fucvk am.

It's well.

I knew the car of 45mil, was just for show.

Celebrities with lies and fake lives...smhh

Wow!



That's so fast


Not advisable at all.

It's so true. Alot of married women fucvk married men with reckless abandon in hotels , parking lots and cars. Some get pregnant and transfer the child to her husband as his own.

It's well known. People should stop pretending as if they are not aware.

Only few marriages are sane from this madness.

So true.


Chioma came back to Davido fully loaded with double assurance, and Davido who cannot refuse pussy, fell for it.

He's now madly in love.

Hmm OK o

One day, the jazz go clear but meanwhile she should save as much money, as she can before the jazz clear.

Some men are so wicked and heartless.

What kind of animals in human form do we have these days.


Such evil.. God forbid!

johnwell:
those are irresponsible men, that is why we have broken marriages everywhere.

Exactly! That's also one of the reasons divorce cases is everywhere.

Op trust me, if all you've written up there is what Single mums is all about, and what prospective boyfriends would go through just to have a date, Mehn the single mums will wait forever.

Most men we have these days are not ready for such protocols or moral responsibilities.
With this write up, you've scared them away.
They are just not ready.

ebube123:
You got me wrong, I never say I won't spend on her rather it should be mutual. What you just described is the the kind of relationship am praying for. Some of Nigeria girls no work abeg, you will send airtime for a girl and she will flash you to thank you

Oh OK, that's perfect then.

It's good for both couples to share what they have between themselves, It increases the intimate bond. You don't need those kind of girls who flash after sending credit. Nope u don't need such.

Best of luck!


Also indicate the age bracket, u prefer.

I hope you will meet the kind of Independent lady you are looking for.

Note: Kanye still spends on Kim, changes her wardrobe, pays for some of her trips round the globe, even though she's successful in her business.

That's just one example I know of.

So if u need an independent woman , don't think u wont take her for trips, Buy her gifts sometimes. Don't think you will just tie your money around your waist with padlock! . Both of u would have to spend wisely on each other. All independent women want their men to share with them, when spending. Especially if the man is working. Don't expect her to use her money alone to prepare meals and buy B-Day and Valentine gifts for u. While u seat back and smile like a Cheshire cat.
It's mutual spending. Or else it won't last.

Relationships based on lies, I hate it.

Be plain and open to yourselves.

That's how one ex said he has lost his job, and since I knew this guy, his ten kobo has never dropped, when he claimed he was working.. He's always having one issue or the other to spend money on , while on facebook I get to see him balling with his friends in club. Even when am ill and broke back then, he will still say he's broke. It's my male friends whom I friend zoned that will come to my rescue. And they will inreturn say, what are u doing with this guy sef?
What's he good for anyways? I will sighs and give excuse that hes not in town that's why. The guys will just shake their head at me and still help me anyways. It got a stage I had to breakup, cause it was like am dating myself, no support from him whatsoever whenever am broke. But when he noticed I have money,he wil come up with one story that he needs to pay his cousin school fees, me sef will say Eeyah sorry dear, I just paid my rent, am just left with 5k. We were like cat and dogs, no one was ready to drop a dime to assist each.
I got tired of the toxic relationship and called it quits. The day I called it quits, I he laughed and said he was testing me, to know if I love him. I looked at him with disgust! You are sick upstairs! Abeg bounce off! Am thru with you. Go and date another girl and hold your money like iron bars. A relationship where we can't help each other financially is no relationship. Do u think sex is my problem? Am tired! Its over! This relationship was based on lies and I opened up everything about myself to u. So get off my case!
I was so relieved breaking up from him.. He can lie for Africa.

After a while, I realised he truly lost his job when he said he has been sacked.. Can u imagine? And he said it wasn't true and he was just testing me. Such guys I hate for life. God knows I hate lies.
You have, your babe no taste your ten kobo. As you are fired, won't his situation be worse off? You weren't a source of solace and help to me when u have. Now u don't have, u now want to depend on me bah? God forbid! I don't pity such guys. They can go to blazes for all I care.

TheUpsetGirl1:
that's the truth..

I know a guy that has SS

he spends 50/30/20k on drugs every month... he's been like that since 1996

wonder what'd have happened if he isn't rich.. he would have been buried many years ago

I know

That's how their lives is.

To live long, they spend much money on drugs and dietary pills. It can be so frustrating.

I pray God makes him whole completely and grant him his heart desires amen.

TheUpsetGirl1:
no 1 isn't relevant because if he doesn't have cash for drugs he'll die before 40.

Lol



Oh my God!

Such Savagery.. Even though you are unfortunately right.

You sef

Have a Lil mercy.

Meedass:
are you interested?

I have someone, who might be interested but you need to answer these questions sincerely :

Are you rich financially?

Do you look presentable?

And how long does the crisis last when it starts during cold season?

And what's your Age?

CaptainG00D:
Lolz babe I dont mean bad I love ur comment.
And I think its the best choice if therz money
Becoz thats what I will do.

U are family oriented and I love that about u.

you try.

CaptainG00D:
U mad sense... But na money matter

anyways it's well.

Am not even the owner of the millions sef

So no need arguing from now till tmrw.

Have heard o! Everyone

Make una lemme hand

shizzle1:
now you are sounding very foolish

How many times will you be told that he can go with only ONE person? why are you so incorrigible?

If he wants to pay for a third person then he must wait till he's back from the payporte sponsored trip

Am not sounding foolish.

OK if it's the rule, that he can't even pay for an extra person, then fine he can take his mum.

Then gf some other time.

For me, I no dey forbid to enjoy especially if I have the money.

TheUpsetGirl1:
you've started again


a trip to Dubai will cost him up to 450k.. so you want the boy to start spending money anyhow

Will 450k finish the 45million he won?

Stinginess is bad.

Am not saying he should spend all his money on the trip. But spending 450k to someone u care about is no big deal! Once in a lifetime for trips won't make him poor.

Do u know how much some celeb musicians or artists pay on gold chains and bling bling! It's even more than the 450k, u are so concerned about. Do u know how much a guy pays just to travel to US or UK to go fucvk a babe, he claims he's dating online?
You wey be his babe in Nigeria, u are scared of asking him a dime, while he secretly travels abroad and spends on his abroad babe. Or even travel to obudu ranch with his side chick and trips her.. While u are there, saying to yourself, u want him to save

Abeg enjoy your life, while it last and invest for tomorrow.

Anyways If you don't know, you don't know.

victorvezx:
He has all the time in the world to Bleep Nina, having sex with her in Dubai should not be special, or not taking her there considered waste of money. after-all it is big brother that will pay for everything he enjoys there, not him

When a man sees a woman he claims he loves as a sex object only , he won't even spend 10kobo on her even when he has money.

Some guys don't really have the money but the little they have, they share and make it worthwhile between him and his babe.

No wonder relationships crumble like pack of cards these days.. Selfishness abounds.

TheUpsetGirl1:
lady payporte paid for him and any other person he wishes to take.

you can't take two people..

you can only choose one person so it'll be unwise choosing a lady over your mom or your dad.

Then I will pay for the third person going with me.

At least I now have the money.. No big deal there.

TheUpsetGirl1:
Nina have turned to a sex object... must he fvck during his trip to Dubai?

even if he wants to fvck, with little cash he can fvck cool white babes there..

you can only go with one person not two people.. so he should take his mum

Lol, Its not whether she's now a sex object. They are in a love relationship. There is nothing wrong, having fun and making love through the trip. It's not a bad thing, neither is it awkward. At least they had sex several times in bbnaija.. So no biggie to continue in a luxurious hotel , on a luxurious bed with all the works. Cmon!

And moreover not all guys like to sex any random white chick they meet on trips. Some guy won't even be moved, unless they know who they are fucvking.

I support take both!

His mum will sing his praises during the day, while he watches as she looks happy or bemused eating her meals. There is so much joy, when u watch how mum either looks shocked at some meals been served and would be like, ,do humans eat this kind thing? Na wa for oyibo o.. Chei!
And he will just laugh at his mum's expressions and satisfied smiles every morning and evening as she's about to sleep.

Anyways u won't understand, so don't worry.. For me, I will take both my mum and my man. End of story.

TheUpsetGirl1:
take both indeed

Yes o!

During the day, he will share his time with mum and Nina
That's if Nina won't be all jealous.

Then at night, he spends it with Nina.. It's that simple.
Cause he can't fucvk his mum at night or even during the day.. So what's the use?
For me, I see nothing wrong taking both.

Take both, biko.

lefulefu:
the man should take her along when he's exercising or working out and not necessarily telling her to exercise alone. See,e dey sweet wen two couples are exercising together...it even cements their togetherness strongly. On the issue of body type.... My correct paddy DonPiiko just said dat a guy who loves slim girls should get married to a slim girl while a guy who loves chubby babes should get married to a chubby babe. It does not make sense when a guy who is married to a chubby babe be forcing her to loose weight and body shaming her. As a guy he should go for what he wants.

At the bolded, what if she doesn't like exercising?
I don't like to exercise But, there is a but with me.. I watch what I eat and I drink green tea and Detoxifying tea almost everyday to feel and be healthy. I take small walks at times but nothing spectacular jare.
I can't come and kill myself

So that's it marry slim if u like slim. Then marry fat, If u like fat.

Simple..

Isn't life simple?

The only problem, is when the man has crises during cold or rainy weather.
Can the gf cope seeing him in tears over unbearable pain?

But if he has outgrown the crisis stage, then fine.. Any AA girl who's attracted to him can marry him.

Crisis and money for drugs everytime is only the itch there.

In other words, you need to be rich.

lefulefu:
though i didn't see anything in the writeup were the guy said she should exercise...but then there's nothing wrong if he encourages her to engage in physical activity. If ur man exercises and ask u to join him.i believe he's doing dat cos he loves u and cares for ur health. So na cos d man say make she dey exercise ...na dat one come vex her and make her sue for divorce?. Wetin we no go hear.

When a man keeps reminding his woman to always exercise and workout, makes the woman feel undesirable and ugly. That's the truth. If as a man u don't like fat ladies? I then don't go for one.
It's that simple.

Am a robust lady from the day I was born till date .
There are some guys I met in my past, the ones who like slim, wil say and you are so nice and lovely but your weight? Its something I can't deal but can u try and work out and be slim. My reply: I can watch my food intake but I can't assure u, I will become slim.
So we remain friends.

There are some guys who like Orobo, see the way they will praise my Orobo looks, I will feel like am the most beautiful in the whole world

So you see the difference