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millionboi2:
thy mayb malnurishd in look base on dia gene but far more healthy than d fat ones

When a boy is genetically slim? He looks healthy slim. He doesnt have to be fat or average shaped.. But he will appear slim, fresh and healthy.

These ones are almost bag of bones with rough skin. Or they don start to smoke weed like wizzzy?

Let's call a spade a spade. Those boys need nutritious food and healthy drinks, Biko..

Tuface if u are reading this thread, pls abeg do the needful. Seems their mum is not capable enough.

I can't stop laughing here

Oh Lord! Chai! Such Savagery!

Men una see una life for outside so?

Whether we like to believe it or not.
The two sons look malnourished

O ga o.

[quote author=ImaIma1 post=67942749][/quote]My dear, nairaland is the least place to meet husband materials.

Husband materials here is just 10percent. The rest? Just forget it.

Am happy for you

msylva2147:
it is women like you that makes guys to go into kidnapping, robbery, money rituals and yahoo yahoo because you can't respect your husband simply because God has not open his way. Is it everybody that will be rich? You are using rich people to generalize. To think that men's eyes will soon clear I guess you must be in China to have said that. On the contrary it's men that doesn't want to get married because of people like you, if every man decides to marry ten women, women will still be surplus to requirement.

Those category of men shouldn't marry nah. You think women are so eager to marry as well?

I repeat No man is doing me any favour in marrying me, that's the truth! Take it or leave it.

ImaIma1:
They just try to quote the part that suits them. They don't read thd other part where it says men should love their wives.

They demand submission but do they love their wives the way the same Bible they keep quoting says: love that is not proud, not self seeking, love that covers all wrong, love that is KIND and PATIENT,etc. But they keep shouting "SUBMIT".

Don't mind them., they want submission but cannot even fulfil one simple rule : Love your wife.

I repeat, I will NEVER marry a man who pretends to love me but doesn't give a hoot about me but expect submission because he's the head?
Head my foot!

ImaIma1:
The highlighted is what makes a lot of men lazy and laid back. The wife can foot the bill on "behalf of the husband" and still see him as the authority while he does what? Sit around and being the head with mouth.

So true, no woman will see such man as a head. I repeat no African woman.


FreeConCiencE, I disagree with u on that.

Some Men should man up and do the needful, if they so much desire to be the head.

msylva2147:
I guess we soon see your tears here for that same purpose, stop pretending.

Tears indeed.

I don't need to pretend. I rather be single than be desperate to even date or marry a clueless irresponsible man.

And inbetween

msylva2147:
we will only get tired when you people stop requesting for a man to settle down with.

Are u for real?


Who is requesting? Maybe the women u roll with.

FreeConCiencE:
Whether you take it or leave it, the truth is that men are the authorities in their homes and the wife and children should submit to the authorities. That is the teaching of the Bible, the Quran and even the culture of the land. I don't believe in maltreating the women or relegating women to the background, but let us call a spade a spade. Like I said, your husband is the authority, he is the head and you should submit to him if you want to have a successful marriage. For your information, I don't smoke, I don't womanize, I don't take alcohol. I just bought a new venza for my wife and I am still using my "" drop light camry ". This is so, because my wife see me as the head and the authority. She respect me. I don't fail in my responsibilities and she doesn't fail in hers too. Our children are doing fine. If you want to have a home please see your husband as the authority and the head. Where there is need for you to be carried along in decision making, he will do. And don't inculcate the mentality that women are equal partners with their husbands in your daughters. If you do, it will affect them later in life.

Haba! Boss! This is what u would have said since nah.

Now you are talking

You bought her Venza, you fulfil your responsibilities at home.. You don't cheat or disrespect her. Tell me, which woman won't be submissive to such treats.. She will naw?
Na Now you arrive.

She will be as quiet as a mouse and complete her wifely and motherly duties everyday.

When wise men take care of their wives and kids in all ramifications, peace and order is restored automatically.

Now I also respect you. That's it. No long story.

Not those men who feel with just dick alone they are automatic heads..

FreeConCiencE:
This is where you are getting it wrong. The husband can command his wife. That is the simple truth. If the Lord can command the church, husband can command his wife. If you cannot take to his instructions and be submissive to him , it's better you don't get married.

Do you think all men are authoritative and a dictator like you.
News flash not all men.. And the matured ones who treats their wives with respect last longer in marriage than people. Like you.

Go to the village and marry a maid u can talk down on. Not nowadays women.

And people are marrying every Saturday. You can't stop them from. Marrying.

Suko110:
It is this type of ignorance that we are trying to purge outta some women, but no dey run everywhere shouting wen no one is asking them to, they prove they know all and in reality they know absolutely nothing. Pure ignorance, just keep quiet and learn.

There is nothing to learn here.

You men screaming women no longer respect their husbands are just wasting your time.

Take a look at a comfortable home and marriage, where the man is the head of the house... Not just head bceacuse he has prick o! He's head because he takes care of his home and financial responsibilities. Where I live, the married couples there, live peacefully, everyone is happy. Bills are not split in their homes. The wife assist when she wants to add extra value to what the husband has dropped for weekly meals and running of the home.

Both husbands bought their working wives car. They don't share children school fees. Their husbands pay the fees solely by himself.

So tell me, why would such wives disrespect their husbands
Their homes are always peaceful and quiet with laughter and joy coming from the kids, wife and the husband. Their friends visits and they entertain them well.

Such women will always respect their husband and guard him jealously.

But you! You marry wife, u will tell her rent? She will pay half and u pay half
Food, is splitted into two
School fees into two

Sometimes the husband sef doesn't drop anything.

All you know how to do is fucvk and lash out orders, which she will look at u disdainfully and walk away.

You virtually split your title of your position as the head into two. What we now have in such homes are two leaders handling a ship. She starts rubbing shoulders with you. You talk! She talks back! What do u expect? Your wife to worship you?

Until u men starts behaving Like responsible men, your wives will start taking u serious.
No wonder women are no longer desperate to marry especially to men who are not ready to be men. They rather stay single, be single mums, be free and take care of their kids and biz.

Don't worry una eyes go soon clear. Alot of stingy men are dying of loneliness and coming online to pour out their frustrations. Have u seen rich and comfortable men complain their wives don't respect them? Only struggling married and single men complain everytime online
.na una sabi..

Keep been frustrated.

Don't you people get tired?
Women this, women that!
Women are leeches, women are whores, women are evil, women are lazy.

Now, Women are now doing their own thing, you men are still complaining.

Smhhh.

When una taya, you people will go and rest. Life continues.

I think he's the only human that understands her

What do I know sef? It's her life.

ubunja:
so "nobody is a saint" only after your icon has failed?? when the icon Ijeki was preaching somehow you never saw the need to pass her the same message you're passing me now??

She's not my icon.
I just feel no need crucifying her anymore. The deed is done already .
When I first found out about her pregnancy without marriage, I was highly disappointed and am still dissapointed but at the end. We've bashed her enough. She is only human, that's all I see.

Powerexpert:
But I did not complain, neither did I request for your permission to do the do. I'm not against you hussling anyday anytime; just telling you that the idea you purported is a probability of 0.00001 success

OK.

ubunja:
you should have told Ikeji that when she was raising her voice against other sinners since herself she has proved not to be a saint.
dont preach what you cant do.

Even Pastors preach what they cannot do.
People make empty promises they cannot fulfil
Even you, yourself must have preached to someone or a younger ones things u cannot do.

So why is Linda own so horrible?

People lie everyday and say what they cannot do.. It's the norms in Nigeria anyways.
And my motto in life is : believe no one.

And mind you nobody is a saint!

ubunja:
no one is comparing single motherhood to abortion. stop this trick of yours to lessen Ikeji's immorality. she's a whorè that one.

Then go and stone her to death nah, cos u are a saint yourself.

swiz123:
If a beautiful rich woman such as Linda couldn't get a husband, something must have been off about her.
Instead of working on herself, she chose to get preggy out of wedlock. Most feminists are too opinionated and that's a huge turn off for men.

Now matter how you might want to paint it, it is completely wrong up get pregnant out of wedlock - both morally and biblically.

What if her daughter grows up someday to get pregnant for someone, what would be her reaction?

Nigerian feminists are bunch of hypocrites with abysmal mentality

You are too narrow minded..

I will tell your for a fact! Not all women are destined to marry, no matter how good and amiable she is. If it's not in her destiny then it won't happen , except she goes an extra mile spiritually.

I can tell you for a fact not everyone is destined to marry. This life and what surrounds everyone's destinies is deeper than what u think.. Not everything is black and white.

Don't be myopic.

swiz123:
The most important thing is: Don't make a bastard out of innocent foetus'. Give them a real name just like your parents gave you

That's also something to look out for. But as marriage is not forthcoming to her, the next available option is having kids, instead of staying single without even a child. Such kind of living can be frustrating.

Kids bring a different kind of joy and fulfilment in one's life. She cant lonely forever, if husband no come, pikin must enter the equation. And who says, her child won't bear the father's name? The child will.

For me? She made a choice and she's going ahead with it.

It's better to be a single mum than to be a murderer killing the innocent child all to appear perfect in the eyes of the public. Single mum is much more better.

Op you are right in a way, we should leave Linda to her choice. It's not like she's suffering . She has it all in abundance and with the kid coming forth in few months time., it's all good.

Anyways not all women desires marriage, she could be in that percentage of ladies.
She's an adult and we should all stop castigating her.. She has made her choice and good for her. She won't be the first single mum, neither will she be the last.
Nadia buhari chose to be a single mum with twins biracial. And she's happy with it.
It's cool though. At least they have kids, which is the most important of all.

Powerexpert:
You are living in fantasy/disney land

Don't go and hustle you hear? , dey wait for woman wey u go dey fucvk every minute until u make am.



You are the one on fantasy land instead.

Toks2008:
This 8s why many ladies will die single..so in your mind you are doing a hustling guy a favour by marrying him...ok ..continue..

Look at 2baba...psquare..AY and many more and you will see the advantages of starting with a guy.

Love affair is a risk and beeing with a hustle is no favour cos you are also fit to hustle whilst the guy also finds his feet.

Most ladies won't die single.. You know why? She hustling on her own, the guy too is hustling on his own.. When both make it, one day somehow somewhere they get to meet by chance in a top shopping mall or an event meant for upcoming entrepreneurs or top executives in various companies and guess what? They both like what they see towards themselves, a successful single guy and a successful single lady trying to mingle and have fun.
Don't u know such social meeting is so sweet, and intriguing. Love sparks, both can hold it on their own.. No one is leeching on anyone..
It either goes south or it ends in the alter.. It's a win win situation.

In fact let everyone hustle on their own and meet up after when they've made it. There will be mutual respect and appreciation from each other..thats the best deal ever.

Love dey sweeet like honey when both parties are comfortable.

Toks2008:
Stop deceiving yourself sis...guys are ready but ladies don't want a hustler but the so called "financially stable guy" as if anything is guaranteed.

The best time to get a guy is when he is still hustling.

No lady is ready to hustle with any guy.

Guys are no longer loyal to ladies who hustles with them. We've seen so many heart breaks happening to our friends who hustled with guys and they were dumped like hot bricks as soon as he's made it.

It even happened to two of my friends who hustled with their boyfriends even helping the guy Financially to set up biz but at the end the Bf dupes them and runs away.

So no lady wants to fall victim anymore .

Toks2008:
Go to the various government paralstatals a,secondary schools and in churches ....you will see ready guys who are still h8stling their way up..

Ladies fooling themselves saying guys are not ready...

Most single guys are not ready, all they want is someone they will turn into baby mama, dump and move on to the next victim.

And the ladies now understand, who need such guys anyways. Don't blame them biko

It's simply : The ladies are tired and done with Nigerian guys.

That's y.. They don't want any guy wooing them and they are no longer searching.
So no need for the insults.

It's their life, their choice.

Pusyiter:
I am more disappointed than you.
This is what excessive shakara can led to.
I wonder what is her legacy to the unborn child in teaching him/her legitimacy.
When there is the absence of a father figure in a child's life, he will not learn how to be a man and treat a woman and if it is a girl, she would not understand the role of a husband/father to treat as such.
End product? EMPTINESS= GAY

Am telling you.. You are so right as well.
The role of a father is very important in the life and well-being of a child.

Silvermoney:
Linda was in the perfect position to make a real statement on behalf of liberated Nigerian women (don't want to say feminists). She has self-made money of her own, she is made for life, so she doesn't need a man for money. With the kind of money she has, it would be impossible to find a responsible man that is as rich or richer than her to marry. That's the truth.

I expected her to find an honest correct responsible working class guy in a far lower income bracket than her and marry him for love for goodness sake. That would have been a big statement. Prince Charming doesn't always have to be super rich and full of flash. Prince Charming can be a pauper. It's the love and the story of romance behind it that matters. Linda should have been the only female I know to take that step and redeem Nigerian women from this nasty tag of money craving and materialistic vultures.

I am hugely disappointed.

So true, am highly disappointed too.. I wonder what she needs a rich or richer guy for sef

Now the so-called rich has played a fast one on her, by making her a baby mama.

Smhhhh. Upon all the Shakara. See where she land herself.

Being rich, does not mean the woman is sensible and wise in the matters of the heart. A woman is a woman whether poor, average ,rich or very rich.
But she herself, should have known better. Na wa .

Most embarrassing thing is begging a jobless man to marry her, all because he leeches on rich magnates like Femi otedola And Co.
Na real WA.

olaboy1:
Everything you wrote looks like the guy suffers more for the sexual sins of the woman....kikikikiki the joke is on you just keep living in denial, Na your body dey suffer am especially if you f$$kin one old hag you call UNCLE.

Also once your guy finds out you are no good, he kicks you out and you are back to square one. By the way why do Nigerian women feel they can’t survive this world without financial help from men, do lesbian couples also have this same financial dependence on their partners?

Am not talking about me. Don't take it personal. The topic of this thread is : why do women cheat more than men.. And I simply gave reasons why..

So don't turn it on me.. It's not about me. Take it easy.

And about lesbians? Seems you don't know what's going on out there. The dominant partner in a lesbian relationship spend well on the receptive partner especially if the receptive one is well endowed and pretty. . It's well know fact amongst lesbians, especially when one of the partner is very fine and sexy. She always av the upper hand in a lesbian Relationship. The plain Jane lesbian spend well on the prettier ones.

And I hope u won't say am talking from experience and am a lesbian? Cos that's all u guys know. One advises and open your eyes to reality check and u turn it Personal.

Upon all the wait, she ends up as a single mum to a guy who doesn't even care.