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bongolistik:
You sounded so experienced! Are you speaking from experience, I mean is that what you really do?

Lol, I know someone will say what uv just said.. That's why women don't like saying the truth here. Cause men don't like the truth. They prefer to be deceived and live in a world, they created with their tiny minds. I will say the truth if u like hate me! I don't fucvking care. Ko kan Aye mehn!

Anyways Whether am talking from experience or not? It's irrelevant.

The issues remains there are many ways in catching a monkey so says my elder brother.
Kikikikikikiki... Una think say una smart. Lol.

Some. Men can be so gullible

You people are just deceiving yourselves. Even Fresh wife wey man marry put for house, he still find it so hard to maintain. Until she looks like a shadow of herself, sucking and over using the poor woman, without replenishing, that's if she's trying to stay faithful and suffer in good faith. Hoping one day, she will make it in life financially. While the ones who cannot suffer in silence and smile as if all is well to the public, help themselves to other men who has eagle eyes watching out for weak women who need food to eat, or money to buy drugs.

Why won't there be divorce cases and butchering in marriages?

You butcher your wife Or gf? Cos u caught her red handed with another guy? It's either the streets will Lynch u and skin you alive or You end in jail, while the key of the cell is thrown away.

The choice is all yours

Above average number of men no longer fulfil their financial responsibilities. The men need women they can be fucvking without maintaining or spending a dime and perhaps the woman is desperate to marry. So she manage the stingy/ selfish morrafucker And help her self by the side to another guy who's generous with his hard earned money. It's as simple as that.
The selfish guy will be happy he now has a lady who doesn't demand a dime, so he boasts to his friends and families, my woman is so independent with a smug smile, she can hold her own. She loves me so much, even all I do is drill her pussy and give her romance and sweet words . She cooks a new pot of soup with her money every weekend. She pays her tfare to my place. She even stocks my beverages at home, and sometimes buys me gifts on my birthday! Mehn am the man! That's how u treat women and they will handle u like egg.


Na so... Lol

After a long or short, either few days to wedding or engagement, or even after wedding sef, he catches her pants down with her so called uncle, she claims is from her maternal side

Isn't life so wonderful?

Moral of this story: stinginess and selfish only brings heartache and ruins in a relationship. Learn to share with your partner. She is not a dummy, even if u feel she looks like one or speaks like one.

Elder001:
Young leech looking for who to devour


Change your attitude and a man will propose to your old ass

Dream on! Divorced man. You are not ashamed of your self.

Tueh!

kneehighbootz:
Abi o. But the bobo in question hasn't answered us oo. lol

My dear, he's overwhelmed. More women are clamouring for him. He got more than he bargained for. he might be a shy guy.

While some guys are here, no babe even want them. No matter how hard they chyke babe, upon their display of wealth. Cos of their annoying attitude and mindset.

2buffagain:
@Boland, it is prudent to be mindful of compliments from women.
Most tend to only do so to further their selfish agendas...in this case, making sure there is a steady supply of "real men" (in certain circles this clause is an insult) who will support their lazy lifestyles.

It is the language of females. They understand themselves and that is why if you notice, it is hard for a woman to accept a compliment. They know it is but a tool to further an endeavour, and nothing more

Mr. Adviser! Face front!

Xiadnat:
Duchess of Susex didn't give up her life. She upgraded. She was in a show called Suits where she wasn't even a main character. And she was only worth 5 million + royalty. She was at best, a C-list celebrity.

After May 19th, she is now a Duchess, still a feminists, an activists and a humanitarian on a regal platform (talk about upgrade, eh?).

AND

She is now worth 25 million with Duke of Susex.


Now tell me again, how is this "giving up her dream life".

Please, go back to school and relearn maths. AND get common sense.

Side note: love me this Duchess of Susex to bits.... she is living a life (that I envy and envision one day). And did anyone watch the Royal Wedding? Talk about simple, elegance, classy eh? My type.

Don't. Mind them, which man will one marry, that will make the wife worth 25million pounds..
They are all talking from their anus.

Marry man of today, if u are not financially OK, the woman will just die of ordinary illness or dies during childbirth, cos he's not capable of taking care of the financial responsibilities..also whinning and complaining how their wives should share bills with them.

Is that the kind of man, I will forefeit my career for? God forbid!

Look at a thread where a fresh woman married a man, ordinary appendicitis, the man cannot even handle, she now look like a ghost. Smmh. I bet she must have given up her career for the man.

kneehighbootz:
Loool

Yes o!


When a woman sees the right one, no need wasting time for too much long things.

He's a rare breed

kneehighbootz:
Wow. Do men like Boland exist on nairaland? I'm impressed
Marry me boo. I swear I will pay your groom price. loooool

Honestly am impressed too. Never knew guys like him exist!

Biko Boland, marry me too o.

Am single and not married
You are the just best suitor in nairaland right now.

What a beautiful woman. She never knew she was dating and even thinking of marrying her killer.

If only she was spiritual, she would have avoided this death called demonic fiance abi demonic husband.

I was dating someone sent to kill me in the past because he's obsessed in making it by all means but God opened by eyes and revealed his evil plans to me, mehn I quickly cut off straight up.

olayinks007:
Babe i will advise u 2 play along nd never i repeat never ever expose his secrets 2 anyone close 2 u abeg cos u knw nw. Nd again if u can try as much as possible 2 mk d relationship a coded one just in case his in trouble.

You may think it's coded but there is nothing coded under the sun. Someone must know and when that someone knows? By the time it's pay back, she will definitely be killed as a souvenir.

Op, call him one on one, and tell him, u can't date him anymore cos your life is in great danger and if he truly loves you? He should be concerned about your safety. And after graduation, both of u can still date outside school environs..


So if he truly loves u, he will agree and stay clear from you.

I once mistakenly dated a cult guy in school and I had to seat him down and tell him the dangers surrounding my life, if we continue. He agreed and kept clear from me all through my remaining years in school. We became friendly strangers and that's how it ended. No hard feelings.

You date a married man, that one no do you. Then u decide to get pregnant for him. What do u expect before, a heavenly relationship afterwards?

gentlegenius:
Chei...
Your choices of good food got me almost fainted...
Anyway, you've made your choice. But remember that the privilege you have to enjoy good sex anytime you want is something most ladies desire but they can't have.

Because they choose not to have it, anytime they want.
Life is all about choices and how one goes about achieving those choices.
And trust me it's not a Privilege having good sex anytime, I want. I placed myself in a position where I can choose from varieties of men who want me and I Chose the one that suits my sexual preference.
Good sex is not a big deal jare.

missyadorable:
That woman deserves to suffer.
Women don't learn.
Husbands have shown how wicked, disappointing, unreliable and hard hearted they can be towards their wives.
Yet wives refuse to learn.
Many women still go into marriage without any source of livelihood.
Even in the marriage, they have no source of income.
They are just comfortable with "I love you" scam,depending on a man for everything.
Then when the man begins to act like the real man, the woman becomes a poverty stricken foool.

I am happy with myself today. I worked for 6 years after graduation from law school and got married at 32 despite societal pressure to get married much earlier.
God forbid.. Marry when I no get money?
Not me.

I needed to achieve some form of financial security. I saw myself as unqualified for marriage as long as I couldn't survive on my own financially.

My husband met me living in my own apartment and riding my own car.
I have 2 sons and 1 daughter including a set of twins.
I am 35 now and am done with child bearing.
My husband can have more outside, if he so desires. I am not bothered. Men will always be men.
What I am concerned about right now is MAKING MORE MONEY and raising my kids.
I will NEVER allow a man in the name of husband to frustrate me.
The day he kicks me out, I will live in the house I built and my life will continue beautifully.
No time.

Ps: I don't pray for bad but I plan for the worst. With the way Nigerian men are in marriage, anything is possible. The most loving husband can turn to a terrible monster tomorrow.

She doesnt deserve to suffer but women should stop believing that their husbands will be there for them thru thick and thin. Percentage of married men standing by their wives is extremely few. Majority is just mouth.
I said to myself too, I will not get married until am financially OK. And I don't care I married late too. I must be financially OK before saying "I do".

I thank God am not helpless in his arms and waiting for him to sneeze before I can eat and wear lovely clothes and jewelries. I plan on buying a land too, and build a house just incase of the future. Cause anything can happen and the last thing I need is to be left stranded or at the mercy of a man.

Assuming she was financially OK, she would have taken herself to the hospital, paid her bills even admit herself for surgery, and call her relatives to come assist her in the hospital, and give her some emotional support. And she goes back home safe and healthy. No need waiting for one husband.

Man married woman looking this fresh and supple. He marry her finish, but to maintain his wife when she fell ill he couldnt, should we call him a man? Smhhh.

I bet when she had the appendicitis, she would have been in pains by then. And complained about tummy ache, but the husband will say, take panadol or agbo. Have just spent some money on my goods. I don't have any money for now until end of month. Foolishly she will listen to him, instead of her going to meet her people or friends to assist her to the hospital for checkup , she didn't. So that people will not ask, what of your husband. And the useless husband sef has ran away at this late hour. If they had gone to hospital on-time, the appendicitis would have been cut off before it becomes ripe and ruptured.
Chai she miss road marry . Married the wrong man. God abeg o!
She now looks like skeleton, such robust fresh woman.

DonPiiko:
Dreams come true

Mtchewwwwww!

DonPiiko:
You wanna offer me some pussy?? You can PM me

In your dreams!

UDUJ:
How konjivities go wan kill a whole DonPiiko

The Don that always has a bevy of pretty damsels at his beck and call

Perhaps the ladies don wise up lol

Gcpc:
Hi all,

I'm a single mum to a 2.5 yo girl and I'm about to turn 39.
My baby's father is out of the picture. He bailed on me while pregnant and only came back after 2 years and me taking him to court.
Now he wants to "take things where we left them" but my understanding and gut feeling is he just wants free passes with me.

I made so many mistakes with my dating life that I find myself in this horrible position of being a single mother about to hit the big 4.

I have a great job, a career, enough money to be comfortable, a wonderful child, family and friends but I still feel lonely and depressed at times.
I neve envisioned this life for myself and never imagined never marrying.

I've been working on myself, working out, finding new hobbies, building up my self confidence but I don't know how in the world I would or could find a man.

Is there any chance someone like me could find a decent man to share my life with ?

Op, sorry to butt in your thread. But with the bolded, you've just opened yourself for fuckbois and gold diggers to take advantage of..
Guys are not smiling, there is great hunger in the land.

Mehn, you shouldn't have said u are comfortable, except all u want is just sex..

But if you want a stable relationship with a sincere man, don't talk about how comfortable u are, cos bad guys are ready to use and dump and collect your hard earned savings and dissapear. They don't give a hoot about your feelings.

Don't fall victim again second time, I know what am saying.

If you are the friendly type with a friendly face, u look sweet and homely then u talk with smiles to people around you?
Trust me getting a companion will not be hard and difficult.

Not here biko. . And that's the plain truth.

Staying away from your gf for one month, after fucvkin her mercilessly with different styles over time. And yet u still Feel, u are entitled to a tight pussy?

You've overstretched this thing, above its elastic limit!


Guy u no serious. Stay away from her like a year and see how tight it will be.

Not a month.

Elder001:
Do you know you're a fool?
You contradicted yourself by coming online at 6:47 am.

I don't know who're you playing childish games with.
No married woman will login social media at 6:47am.

I know more than 14married women on nairaland..
you played yourself okay.
you made a big mistake when you lied that you're married.... Amarabae can confirm the first line

There's no way a married woman will login social media account at 6:47am... you once more proved me right.

I don't know if by lying to people on social media you'll be relevant or suddenly get a man to propose to you.


Cutehector.. can also confirm the first line .


Kid go and propose to a man and stop waiting for Mr right because you'll get to menopause soon...

Imagine someone faking marriage.. funny people

Lol


He's seriously pained... Thank God am not a divorced man like you.

My case is far better than yours. I can sustain a home and keep it flourishing. But simply task to stay married, you can't even do.. You are here ranting of child support. Ode!

You've failed yourself, failed your wife and failed your children.. Are u not ashamed of yourself? Shameless goat.

Scream from now till tomorrow that am single.. I don't fuccking care cos am NOT a failure like you.

Ordinary marriage, you can't even keep and sustain. You are there ranting like a mad man without control.

Scream all you want, you bloody failure. Gerrout of my mentions.

I don't mingle with failures like you.. Don't rub it off on me.
Keep. Deluding yourself am faking marriage.
Do u think am a full time housewife with no job.
So uv not seen married women wake up early like 5am to start preparing her husband and kids for work and school before heading off to her own business.
How would u even know? When u are the type who wouldn't stay at home with your wife and kids.. Smhhh.

God punish you, if I reply u again.
Idiot!

gentlegenius:
There's something you all need to understand...
A man can have good sex anytime, anywhere and with any woman he chooses. But to ladies, good sex doesn't come easily. This is because women are sexually complicated beings, but men are not. For this reason, A man should always choose good food over good sex whenever he faces this option.
But any woman who for once in her life, has experienced great, sensual, mind blowing, knee jerking sweet sex will certainly not miss the opportunity to have such uncommon experience again at the expense of good food, after all, with less than a thousand naira in your hand, you can walk into any choice restaurant and enjoy any good food of your choice anytime, anyday.
The point here is that good sex means little or nothing to men because it is easily achievable, but it means a whole lot to women because it doesn't come to them easily.
A wise man once asked another wise man this question: IF YOU ARE TO CHOOSE BETWEEN A BAG OF MONEY AND A BAG OF WISDOM, WHICH ONE WILL YOU CHOOSE?
The excellent reply he gave was: I'LL CHOOSE THE ONE I SELDOM HAVE.

That's you talking your own. You can't choose for me what I love most.

Good sex comes easy for me, am drop dead gorgeous, with a nice, funny , flirty personality, so I would say am lucky, I have a man who satisfies me well on bed, with earth shattering effects. It's something I eat almost every week.

And moreover, am not hung up or fixated on which other guy fucvks better or can take me to the moon and back with crazy orgasms. Am content with what I have.

But with Good foods, like Banga, saddled with goat meat, huge fresh catfish , the whole fish, not half o and periwinkles eaten with starch , my dear this is not common to eat anywhere.
Then my second best meal, huge prawns and supple shrimps prepared with peppered stew sauce eaten with white rice mixed with shredded carrots and hot dog , with peppered ugu leaves by the side . This meal cannot be seen anyhow or anywhere on the streets.
Then my third juicy meal is isiewu, double plates. Then wash it down with a sweet sour wine or fresh cold palmwine straight from the palm tree.

Sighs ,Am in heaven already just thinking about these foods.

Mehn u just don't know what it means to eat these kinds of meal.. You will be take straight to the 7th heaven, sighs. U just don't understand.

Make I no talk too much.. I vote for good food. End of story

*shakes head and walk away with tears filled eyes *

Elder001:
Kid doesn't know what child support is
child support is paid when a marriage gets dissolved

well... lemme allow you to wallow in your delusional dreams

I don't need child support because we are NOT divorcing..

You are even a divorced man sef, no wonder you are so bitter.
Your brain dey touch since yesterday. Your ex wife really do u strong thing o

Anyways don't forget your meds.

Me and you, we are not in the same category.. You are a divorced man who has failed in his marriage and well me? What can I say, that will sink in? I Will gladly say am happy and very happy in my relationship. And we ain't contemplating divorce or child support, cos we've got it together as a couple.

So Sorry looser. Ain't my fault this time. Lol

Go and look for your fellow divorced men and gang them up along with u to advocate the Child support thing.

Have a great day.

Elder001:
Alexialian at 37 you know why you aren't married?

your bad character.

change or be ready to die a spinster.... in the end you'll get a sperm donor so you won't be without a child.

stop deceiving yourself online.. deceiving these kids that you're married won't make a man propose to you

Na you sabi. I know you are so pained this morning. Lol

Am off to work. Keep ranting o


Lol

ModelX:
Lwtmb so you sef know say Nigerian men are indifferent/hate y'all. And instead of you wicked women to adjust, una still dey do strong head. Oya na! Na ya body e go tell you finally!
Pretentious lot.

Seems you are jobless, you no get work to go this morning.

Abeg go and sleep! Am off to work.

Lazy Nigerian youth.

Byeeee

Elder001:
yeah

No time to argue back and forth on who I am. Call me alexieialin, call me Enable, call me any handle your little brain think I am. I care less.

*sips tea * and looks at their moronic faces..

Elder001:
I'm not surprised... you're a Nigerian lady

You obviously don't have brain because if you do it won't be hard for you to comprehend my posts.

If Nigerian women are told to take responsibility alongside the man they'll start insulting you.

So you expect only the man to take responsibility while you sit down and watch.

My friend, you're a mistake.


She's here telling me I'm lazy and irresponsible because I said kids are the responsibility of both parents.. imagine

even at 37 I thought you had sense and somehow liberated but I was wrong.

Yes am a Nigerian lady and I will not accept your useless thread..


Ode jati jati.


Running fingers like diarrhoea.

Get da fucvk off my mentions! And go and look for work to do. Lazy Nigerian man

If u don't have job, go and sleep! It's not byforce to be relevant online.

Elder001:
Lol....

Nigerians ask these ladies why they're insulting me
; because I said they should also take responsibility.

Lol! It always resort to insults whenever ever Nigerian ladies are told to take responsibility.

You threw the first stone of insults and you expect me to listen to you and accept what you are saying?
In your dreams!

You don't insult people and expect them to hail u at the back.

Who are you! What's your pedigree? What do u think u have?

Go and seat down! And stop disturbing us, since yesterday.

Elder001:
common get away from here.. fool
back then in 2017 you were always advocating for equal rights on this forum.

You don't want to take responsibility but you know how to open your legs.. lazy ass

Your child is the responsibility of both you and his/her dad.


If you don't want to take any responsibility don't give birth to a child.
lazy fool

Shut da fucvk up! You cretin!

You are less than my shoe..
Gerrout!

And go home and cry to mummy.

Idiot!

Elder001:
why did you edit your post?

Worthless human being.

You better go back to sleep and forget about your "illusion marriage " you're still single.
dunce... you are afraid of taking responsibility alongside the man but you aren't afraid of dragging equal rights.

If you say I'm lazy because I said both parents should take care what are you? when it comes to finance issues it becomes the responsibility" of the man.. very funny
please I've something to do this morning
useless woman... you're synonymous to laziness

You are the worthless, useless thing. I can edit whatever I like. It's not your editing.

You can rant like a mad rabbid dog from now till eternity, am not buying your useless thread and idiotic statements. Better get used to it.
Old man wey think say, he's still a child. Talking through his anus.

If u don't have brain, go and borrow brain.

Am out of here.. Diseased goat!
Ewu Africa.

Good food. In fact serve three of my best meals.

Elder001:
Lazy asshole so you've to disturb my notification this early morning.

Y'all will be advocating for equal rights but when it comes to taking responsibility you'll start saying nonsense .

Both wife and husband must take care of the kids.

Nigerian women are laziness are just like 5&6.

I never for once said men shouldn't take care of their kids but y'all deliberately keep misunderstanding my words.

I SAID BOTH PARENTS SHOULD TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS are you blind or just don't want to accept that?

Smh

You are delusional and blind one.

Lazy thing!

Mtchwwwww.

Elder001:
are you not equal to men anymore?
Thought you were always advocating for equal rights

Laziness is what is wrong with Nigerian ladies

Can u see this nutcase?

U don mad finish but nobody to tell you.

Lazy man.. Don't go and work and take care of your kids.

Keep ranting online like a demented fooolll.

Ode.