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Lexusgs430:
You have only just started..... It gets worse, before it gets better....

Have you had a chat with your youngest, to find out what the main issue is?

Sighs unfortunately as the only girl in the midst of two boys. I realised early when I was very little how my last brother will always bully and fight my elder brother. And when our mum will come in to check what's happening, my last brother will start crying, saying my elder brother is just beating him and it's all lies. My mum will beat my elder brother, who is calmly protesting that it's a lie.
Because my youngest brother has very innocent look, my mum will pounce on my elder brother and beat him. I will scream it's a lie o.
My elder brother was on his own and the other is always pushing him. Or hitting or kicking him. But the deed is done already. My elder brother will be crying. When my mum turns her back and head to the kitchen. My younger brother will be laughing silently at my elder one.

He bullied my elder brother for years who is sicker. As my elder bro grew up and him as well. My younger one hated my elder one with great passion. And the elder one just ignored him and cut him off around him. Until Later my elder brother died of sickle cell anemia.
Immediately after his death, my younger brother started bullying me. Lol

I was so mad and I warned him one day and said the way u bullied and fought our elder bro and eventually made him die. You want to kill me join Abi? Your plan won't work! I stood up to him, face to face, while we snarled at each other

One-day he was angry with me and he blurted out! Why didn't God made him come first to this world! And look For your information Sis, am your elder bro, whether u like it or not! Cos am a man!
I will reply angrily, then go and beat God and warn him why he created me first! U can do nothing!

Ha! God!

It was so terrible. He's like a thorn in our flesh.

But last last, where is he now? He's evil and jealous mind had eventually placed him where he belongs. Karma is always there waiting patiently for wicked people.

Anyways op, I just pray u can handle those boys. Cause trust me, if u don't handle them well, especially the younger one and beat him well for bullying his older one. He may become uncontrollably later on in life. Use iron hand and force him to be respectful whether he likes it or not!

And that's where your husband comes into play. He must enforce respect from the younger one to the older one. He must! For sanity to rein later on.

bigplayerz:
Lol okay post wat u know how to prepare you wey get cow brain .... see monkey calling her bf ewu ...I cant continue my friday with a silly bithc like you Bleep off from my mentions

I can see you are jobless,ranting all day!

Well news flash! Am back!

Fucckk off fish brain!

Idiot!

bigplayerz:
Lwkmd you are obviously a fighter and troublesome too ....I have seen how many people you are arguing with because of moi moi Its obvious you want some ...Bitch be humble and beg for the moi moi before you go get problem... That`s all Happy friday...you can come lemme take you out so we fight well Physical #just kiddin'#

You are the troublesome one and not me

Am not fighting with anyone. Just standing on what Av said.

And explaining better on it.

If your brain cannot comprehend and understand what am saying? Don't blame me.

Blame your dull fish brain for failing you at this hour.

Ewu.

bigplayerz:
I spot a MINISTER OF HATE, madam take a chill pill before you choke ooo try and be happy its friday TGIF things ...Who even said you insulted her i just said u dey beef d moi moi which from the way you responded i can tell #Stop Hating#

There is no beef in what I said to her moi moi thread.

That's why I said u are simply hallucinating and seeing things that are not there.

If i hate her or her thread, I would have said the moi moi is rubbish . That's hate.

I even said she tried but only 3table spoonful of oil is not enough for it..

Is that hate?

If u, as a man can't take correction, well that's too bad. What a shame.

tunezvic:
just look at you! I don't blame you when you only know how to boil water.

Talking like a demented fooll

You are the one who taught me how to boil only water, abi?

Mtchewwww.

Carry your useless self away from my mentions!

bigplayerz:
I smell the beef lol why do girls complain anytime dey eat another girls food

Sighs, why do guys always smell beef, when a lady is trying to advice another lady on what's right?

So because shes a lady, I shouldnt criticize positively or advise her again?

Na wa o.

I didn't even Insult her. Anyone looking at the pics knows the moi moi isn't looking palatable.

Why didn't I beef other ladies posting their moi moi pics? Or are the rest not women?
Are they aliens?

Men always knocking women heads together.. Smhhhh

Abeg guy! Carry your hallucinating self away from here. Biko.

Op nice meal but it doesnt look appealing cos the 3 table spoon groundnut oil is not adequate for the quantity of moi moi u made.

Looks dry

KushyKush:
Everyone is now a professional in relationships matters. *Roll eyes

Cause we've all had terrible love experiences, that's why.

Some people learn, talk about it and move on, while some get stuck in the past.

So don't blame the op, she's had her own fair share of how it goes in relationships .

Successvibes11:
Wow!
I'm not up to twenty. I'm still schooling.

Then don't fret.

You still have a long way to go. And those boob's will keep growing till u get to your 20s

Enjoy jare. It's your gift from heavens above.

Successvibes11:
I laugh in Chinese. That's totally false.

Hehehehehehehe


Over false gaaan!

AmiciLord:
You are Victorian and you are also Successvibes11. And most of all you are a man. Na God go judge u.

Hahahahahahaahahah

Nlders have such vibrant vivid imagination

Lol

Successvibes11 come and see o, someone is saying I am, you!

Successvibes11:
Epic!!!!!!
Respect!

thanks

Successvibes11:
Thanks so much for this comment ma.
That's the problem I'm facing. No matter how decent my dress is, many guys still drool and see me as olosho. The verbal harrasment alone made me question God at a time, asking him why he made me busty. But I'm glad I now know someone who overcame. God bless you.

My dear I understand you perfectly well cos have gone through such scrutiny and looks before. Especially while I was single. Guys coming to woo, have only one though in mind : Bleep her and move on, not caring to know her personality.
It got to stage, I always frown when am walking. Lol

But at the end, amongst all the men coming like flies to woo.. I became strict and defensive. But last last, I married a man who appreciates me for who I am , appreciates my body, my brains and everything that made me complete as a woman. So don't give up.

Are u in your twenties? And are u done with university or u are still in school?

AmiciLord:
Make una upload pictures na. I no understand all these talk talk.

Why must I upload my pictures?
This is a faceless forum. I can't reveal my identity here cos of boob's.

Am not advertising anything, neither am I selling.
So don't bug your mind about my pictures or our pictures.
Be content with Roman goddess pics online. She loves displaying it for all and sundry.

Op the good thing is this. Not all men think alike.
True most men see ladies with very big boob's as olosho ,just judging her from afar. But there are also another class of men who love to have such ladies as wives.
My three closest female friends are all very busty, including me. And we are very pretty. And we are all married.

When men look at us, initially they drool but looking towards our fingers they see wedding bands and come see shock on their faces, reveals their thoughts ,as in who on earth must have married these buxoms pretty women. Hmm their husbands have mind o. A neighbor across my street, a lady said one day to one of my male friends that any man who will marry me, must have strong heart o. When he told me I was
enraged, I almost went to her shop to demand what's the meaning of that statement but my friend calmed me down and said i shouldn't bother myself about her. She's simply envious with her flat chest.
Later after some years she heard have gotten married . So just be good to yourself, appreciate your looks and boob's. Let no one tell u otherwise. Cause there is someone out there who can't wait to wife you and have those huge boob's to himself everymorning and night.

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I don free am already..

His wahala, his problem, his choice.
I have better things to do with my time.

prechbills1:
My fiance and I have been dating for the past 3years. I attained 24 last week, I wanted to get married to her last year but I just wanted to wait till I attain 24.

The problem I have now is my mom. She is opposing our marriage because my fiancee is 5 years older than me, I'm 24 while she's 29. My dad has already endorsed the marriage, I'd have liked to go on with the marriage but I don't think going into marriage without both parents blessing is sensible that's why I need my mom's blessing and endorsement.

My fiance has good character, she's very kind and intelligent, I can't afford to lose her because of pressures from my mom at least I'm an adult.

I don't know what's happening, my mom endorsed our relationship but she doesn't endorse our marriage just because she's 5years older than me. The thing is, I can't leave this lady ,not now not ever, she have done so many things for me.

in fact she even promised to provide 80% of the things needed for the marriage!. She is rich, yes she is, the house I'm in living in now belongs to her, I moved in with her in 2016.

The truth is I love her and I can't afford to lose her because of my mom's wish. Both her parents and my dad have given us go ahead for marriage but my mom still doesn't want me to marry because of age and my fiance is beautiful.

I don't know what do now ,that's why I think I need advice from you guys,.I don't know if I should go ahead with the marriage without my mom's endorsement/blessings.

please advice

prechbills1:
sorry, we did our traditional marriage in December. my mom only started this behavior this year, if not for her we'd have done our wedding.

it seems it's high time I ignore you, because you ain't worth my time.

U don't need to be sorry. One thing I hate is inconsistency. If you want to lie, please lie well!
Read what u said all over again.
Every parents knows traditional marriage is the main marriage, wedding is just for ceremony, excluding court marriage. So calculate the lies all over again. and calculate when your mum was not in agreement with her marrying u.

Your mum cannot cry foul when the marriage has been done already.

Infact you are a pack of lies

Try, calm down, think deeply and come up with a more definite and calculated lie this time. If not? You are just burying yourself deeper with all these lies.

prechbills1:
stop talking trash with your useless vagina.
leave my thread, your advice isn't needed.

I paid her bride price by myself.

kindly getout. you're not welcomed here.

Where u get money to pay bride price?

Someone u are not even married to?

Lies will kill you!

Lazy demented animal.

prechbills1:
God punish you.. shameless woman

You are the one God will punish. Cause am blessed and settled already.

Imbecilee! Shameless idiot!

Op you can lie o!

Tristan is not married to Khloe, they are lovers and intending baby mama and babydady. And Hes not cheating on her.. Get your facts right!

Beey:
Gbam this guy is obviously a gold digger.Am sure the car was also given by his fiancée.While I asked what he'll be taking care of because it's also his wedding, he was quick to dismiss.

Don't mind him.. All he is bringing to his marriage, is just his useless dickkk.
He's fooling himself.. He's not ashamed, a woman wants to pay his groom price with her own join.
He is here making mouth.. It's true o, it's her cars he is driving that's getting into his head, claiming them as his own. Let him keep dreaming.
He go shock am later.

prechbills1:
lol, dad's car.

I stopped living with my parents when I turned 19.

your husband paying your dowry is his business not mine.

your husband gave you range Rover and so so, what have you given your husband yourself?

my birthday is just a few days away and I'm expecting a big surprise.

you want a man to spend on you but you don't want a lady to spend on her man.

I don't know what's your business with my marriage, get out from my thread.

my life, my choice.

the range Rover you're talking about if I want one it won't be a problem.

because we don't make noise doesn't mean we are broke.

your so called husband might actually be broke in reality, .
now kindly leave this thread.

Dream on.

Do u think I care?

Inshort come and make my husband broke. If thunder will not strike u dead in a second.

Stop clicking on my mentions gold digger! And face your front!

Lazy broke Kid.

prechbills1:
do you even have a car?

I have a Range Rover and a Sienna SUV.

go figure.

And what's the brand of these your two cars, u no wan let person hear word, I can bet it's tiny light 1975 .
And Mercedes Benz 190

And you claim, u are a car owner. Abeg go and seat down.
When women like me with machines are talking about Jeeps and SUV, don't add your toy to it. Claiming it's a car.

prechbills1:
I'm a lazy broke guy but I've 2cars, I have my own job.

can you even afford a car? poor people just like abusing that word.

you are insulting me because my fiance insisted she would provide 80% of the stuffs needed for our marriage because she loves me.

were you the one who single handedly sponsored your marriage?

lazy women want to come here and start giving advises too, ,,smh

Lol, I have a 2012 Range Rover mint black as a second car given to me by husband.

Before I got married, I was driving a Sienna Suv 2007 pure white.

So I change cars at will.

Am not like you.

I bought my Sienna at the age of 28.

I bet your cars u claim to have is daddy's car or imaginary ones.

And why will I sponsor my marriage?
Am not unfortunate like your fiancee who is paying her own bride price, instead of a real man paying her bride price and sponsoring the marriage. She chose to marry you with her hard earned money, that's her problem not mine.
My husband married me and paid my dowry with his own money.. I didn't marry myself.

So go and seat down, kid

prechbills1:
you don't know what you're talking about

We've seen your true colours already.

No need pretending.

Lazy broke guy! All he's contributing to the marriage is dickkk!! You are not even ashamed of yourself.

No go look for work or buisness do

U think say, maga don arrive Abi?

E go soon shock you.

prechbills1:
I don't know if you think me for a weak broke guy.

your write up says a lot about you.

I wonder what you're gonna do to your husband if eventually you get richer than him.

she can't kick me out, seize my kids or whatever.. you must be living in nollywood fantasy.

if I need a house, that's no big deal, it won't take time to build one so kindly take your advice to another person.

Well news flash, I and my husband we are comfortable and rich.

And he doesn't leech on me, like you are about to do to your gf.

I pray your gf sees the kind of leech u are on-time.

I was wasting my time and megabyte on a useless broke guy.

He's dreaming he's rich.. Rich indeed.
In your dreams only.

Keep. Fooling yourself, if only your mum knows the kind of son shes trying to protect.

I just pity any lady who marries you.. She will just enter one chance.

And I pray this your fiance show u pepper in marriage

I will be so happy! Lol

Don't go and look for work. Smhhh

prechbills1:
lalasticlala you caused this and you know that.

dear, my fiance and I would be going for court marriage okay.

I'm not a gold digger.

only black people reason this way, I'm not surprised.

there's nothing wrong in a man footing a woman's bills, but you think there's something wrong in my fiance/wife to be footing some of my bills.


she cares for me, same way I care for her.

my birthday is coming soon and I have high expectations!

sorry dear.

Lol, I didn't say u shouldn't marry her o

I only advised don't expect her to take care of your bills all throughout your life.

Cos if that's your expectations, hmmmmm
Hmmmmmm
Hmmmmmm

Lol, you are in for a bumpy ride later on


She will marry you, she will have kids with you but when she is done and tired of you.

She will simply kick u by the curb , collect her kids and fling you out of her house.

Cause the kids, will then be all that matters and precious to her.

Truth is bitter.. Ogbeni, that's the truth.

Hml in advance. Best of luck .

prechbills1:
leave me alone. there's nothing wrong in showing your man love by footing his bills and pampering him.

I regret being an African

Then u are a gold digger and very selfish.

Be waiting for a woman to continue footing all your bills in marriage. Your eyes go clear in the marriage. Whether u marry 19years old girl or 40years old woman? If she foots the bill in the marriage, just know she will dump your assz at any time, she pleases.
And that's the truth.

You can't run away from your destiny of being a man.
It's not even about being an african

Oyibo rich men spend a fortune on cosmetic surgeries , tummy tuck for their wives, so their wives keep looking young after giving birth. their wives don't work, while the ones who work are just for fashion.
Oyibo men spend alot on vacation trips for their wife and kids.

Do u think Nigerian women or black women love money?

My dear marry Oyibo woman, then your eyes go clear.

If Oyibo woman marry u as a broke man that's different but u are from a wealthy home and u expect her to take care of your bills in marriage?

Lol

Oyo Lo wa!

khiaa:
Untrue. Do you know how many elders have given the wrong advice. Look at your own politicians.

Don't mind him.

Elders that have ruined this country with their insatiable greed and reducing Nigeria to what it is now. Smhhh

khiaa:
Untrue. Do you know how many elders have given the wrong advice. Look at your own politicians.

Don't mind him.

Elder that have ruined this country with their insatiable greed and reducing Nigeria to what it is now. Smhhh

And with the Pampering of the husband. She will. Pamper u, or is she not doing so already?

My late dad was pampered well, during this time. God bless his memory, he married 5 wives . Yes 5 women! Paid all their bride price and took great care of everyone with all his 17children. He loved my mum more, cos she knows how to make him feel he's in heaven.
Everyone he took care of that's why all his wives stood by him till old age. None divorced him.. I mean none.