₦airaland Forum

prechbills1:
oh God

you guys shouldn't make me deactivate my account


I said I'm not broke.
we both are from wealthy families.
you said it's a husband responsibility to take up most bills; sorry, who made that rule?

I'm marrying for love not to gain control.
I've two cars bought with my own cash. The Samsung S9 I'm using now ,she was the one who bought it for me even though I never asked.

guys need to be cared for and pampered sometimes, you know.

I met her in south africa when I was doing my M. Sc.

prechbills1:
sorry, I'm a rational male.

like I said earlier, I'm not broke.

4FACEADELEKE:
Bro go ahead and marry her if you think she is your kiind of woman.Stop listening to some of this enemies of progress on nairaland,who would jump at the slightest opportunity,if they were in your shoes.Bro know these today that,Nigerians are the greatest hypocrites on earth.Remember when you get married to her,hustle harder so that you can provide for her as well,not just only her providing for both of you.Close your eyes off your to be's wifes wealth and work hard like a street hustler who has nothing to his name.Remember if tomorrow your hustle your way up and become rich,her respect for you will rise to its peak,she will truly be convinced that she indeed made the best decision by marrying you.

prechbills1:
your comment is highly appreciated, this is the best advice I've gotten so far.

now to the bolded post, if you read my post carefully you'll notice that I never said I'm poor!, I've my own money. I have enough resources to sponsor the marriage but she insisted to do that.

prechbills1:
bro at least at 24 I've achieved basic things in life.
I just want to know if I should go ahead without my mom's endorsement and bleasings.

herveze:
Thanks so much ganie, I think this is the best advice that I can take though it will be costly but at least i will be able to rest,for those that are insulting me that I suppose to take her when u are in my shoe ,u will understand better,but before that time let me say this, anything u know you cannot continue doing until u die for ur wife,don't ever start it.

rex444:
I don't know but test for hepatitis

thedondada:
Just go.for the hiv test and rest

ClumsyFlimsy:
Same here dear; nice chatting with u too

I admire your brilliance

Please kindly impact this knowledge to your close pals and any female relative it will save them from stress and enable them control their man to some extent

ClumsyFlimsy:
Spot on

You have a very effective strategy


With this your strategy any reasonable man will have no choice but to comport himself or at least upgrade his game ( that's if he is a chronic cheat)


Person like me dey fear silent woman pass anything..I can tolerate a nagging woman and probably put her in her place if need be; because she has given me leverage through her nagging and shouting but a calm one

Jesus I go just run mad begin pet bribe and beg am

jericco1:
if not that you're married and other things I'd have recommended you.

ClumsyFlimsy:
Beautiful

Mehn I dey fear this kind woman


Then go just use calmness hold u for work...u go just begin explain yourself

poseidon12:
Really? Then I wonder why she tolerated disrespect from the animal, talk less of battering. She should have kicked the man out when the beating started.

poseidon12:
Great, resolute lady you are. I love you for the action you took. I hope other ladies in abusive relationships will learn from you. Thanks for sharing your experience. No nonsense.

AntiBrutus:
Forget these fake alpha males parading NL o.

Offline, one girl just dey press dia mumu button as she likes

So, we are talking for the Nigerian men you know.
Not all sha, some...

irepnaija4eva:
NNE...E di SHARP.

Oya collect...

IamaNigerianGuy:
Good girls rock. Real men yearn for good girls in their lives

Windflower:
Unfortunately, that's the world we live in,being a good girl sucks right now

martineverest:
u won't understand my point....I know too many Nigerian women that are married to white men,who later divorced them after getting much from the men.....even when married,they still keep black boyfriends......a close relative of mine is doing same thing.surprisingly,she divorced the man last January to finally get married to her long time naija boyfriend.unfortunately the white manused her name to acquire many wealth since he is a mafioso.we fear the man might revenge.

sherrylo:
this is not his wify nah?

martineverest:
no ma....m not chauvinistic...linda ikeji has a house in banana island

Brightgem:
The world is full of stories. You have an old post something about not supposed to be married. Was all that before you got married then?

Brightgem:
wow! wow! wow! Standing Ovation for you! You have sure learnt much.

martineverest:
are u sure? the minimum amount for a house in banana is ₦500million

RaptorX:
She owns the house in banana island but decided to carry a 53 year old white man inside. Either she is very desperate to have a white man or you are lying.

martineverest:
u can't say.... her husband might have used her name to register everything

bebanky:
A whole lot of that has happened and the men later changed. This death is just a one off thing...can you give me a good count of 1000 women who have been killed by their husbands in Nigeria in the past 10years? No be you can't.
So its not every issue of domestic violence and battery that you will be screaming divorce. Over 1 million physical assault has occurred this year alone and over 2 million verbal assault on the part of the women has occurred too... If you keep splitting families based on that,then you do the math's.