₦airaland Forum

martineverest:
what a goldDiggin father..... and u allowed her to stay in the marriage?... just because he stays in banana island?

Shes even the one that own the house in banana island, with the cars and all.

So what are we saying here?

She is the one with the money not the Oyibo husband.

delishpot:
Dont Nigerian men also kill their wives? Even poor ones too kill their wives. Women stay because of reasons such as societal stigmatization or economic reasons but not because he is oyinbo.

That's true and exactly what I said earlier.

Thinking of what people will say, if I leave my husband.

They should keep thinking o

The same people will say why did u go back, when such voilence has reoccured before.

I can't be beaten to a coma by my husband and I will still go back? Am I crazy?

Smhhhh.

chigoziri2403:
now she is dead,he would be regretting

Of course, he will be regretting.

She has more value alive than dead.

chigoziri2403:
He beat her to coma, and you didn't get him arrested, all these Fathers that only accepts rich dudes as in-laws, he must have been receiving good supply of moet,Hennessey and coconut liquor

That's Nigerian family for you.

Only the victim can save herself from such terrible situation called marriage but she chose to listen to people who will say, don't worry pray about it. He will change, you cant divorce him o, what will people say, people will laugh at you.


Until we stop thinking of what people will say, if we divorce

Until we stop listening to our parents , who will say it's for better for worse

Until we take full control of our well being.


Before all these violence and deaths in marriage will stop.


Marriage is not do or die.

Run for your dear life and don't return back when the slaps and beating begin to rear it's ugly head.

I love the gown.. So lovely with the hair

She looks supple and pretty.

Sighs

He should have simply walked away from the marriage and file for divorce.

See im life nw

The late wife lovers will surely hang him by the balls.

Blackfire:
You wouldnt know her.

Very energetic anf intelligent, i was suppose to date and marry her, but i really cant understand what happen... I dont have her number,e mail again.
Anger is such a terrible thing

Awwww
I understand the feeling.
Trust me anger is indeed a terrible thing.
I used to get angry in a flash years back and in a flash my relationships ended.
As the years go by, I realized I use to have anger issues and I worked on my innerself and ego. It took me a while but I got to a calm and serene level in life. I also can decipher quickly when any quarrel is about to brew up between me and any other person.
To curb quarrel and insults, I will play cool and innocent . Then later after some hours I will say my mind in a firm quiet voice, that will make the other person feel, he or she shouldn't have feel slighted by anything have done.

Moreover I make sure am always on the right.
I make sure. If my case is judged, I will be found innocent and not guilty.. Even if I apologize when an angry person confront me. I will just smile in my mind as the person will look lost and short of words, then the person will shake his or head, mumble and grumble away. But few hours later, I will address the issue calmly again. And thats the end.

Am even kind to a fault sef


So hope uv worked on your anger issue?

Blackfire:
U remind me of someone i cherish on NL, but....

Do tell!

Who?

[[s]quote author=mikolo80 post=66519630]weekend[/quote][/s]











Hmmmm?

Blackfire:
Keep the flame.
Cherish what you have.

Winks

My dear, yes o!

Thanks

mikolo80:
weekend
if you like don't receive sense by then
you will find me to apologise you will not see
then you will learn to watch your mouth in public

In your dreams..

We are not mates.. Get it into your thick skull.

mikolo80:
just smh slowly
so much hate
so much anger
only good for kerewa
not wise to marry ur type
let's see who thunder will strike bfor weekend
shebi you don't have home training
we will teach you outside

You will know who will teach who outside.
You think it's by am a man. You honestly don't know whom u are dealing with.
When a man does not want to acknowledge his age, people like me will make him remember his size and reduce him to nothing!
Carry your fish brain away from here

No single grain of sense.

Am done with you in all ramifications. So rant from now till you slump!
You rat!

[[s]quote author=mikolo80 post=66517184]

you are trash


you r senseless


you are a hypocrite


you are as useless as the woman


i spit on your grave[/quote][/s]






You are delusional and useless as a man.

Where is the grave u are spitting on? Ode

Your grave, your 4wives will end up spitting on and cursing on later. U are there deceiving yourself.
I spit on your grave. Oponu!


Click on my mentions again, and let thunder strike u dead this week as u do so.

Imbecillle!

[[s]quote author=mikolo80 post=66515008]

why


how do you know i don't have 4


depends on what we agreed before marriage

how do you know the wife is not the evil one



depends on if i'm giving her what we agreed to when marrying


there are 3.5 billion women on the planet if she no like me again


it is nature and i will accept it
what i will not do is harm her when she did not attack me violently
not everyone is brainwashed like you are[/quote][/s]






Just listen to yourself? All trash.

Deep down u feel, you are making sense? Lol

Most Nigerians and hypocrisy are like 5 and 6.

And you! Mr man with 4wives, that's if you are not lying? Then you are no different.

All cut from the same tree.

Tueh!

mikolo80:
una get choice


nature is not stupid

you are a fool for that statement
what do you gain by killing him
now you end up in jail and your kids vagabonds
or paying bills alone


wwhy d first wife no give birth to creature
you are a terrible person
so full of hate



na you kill dem?

they smarter than you sha

I pity your wife, that's if u have one.

You don't even feel any remorse betraying your wife in such way.

Evil thing.

How will u feel, if your male Neighour , a vibrant bachelor impregnate your wife of 2years, right there on his bed.

Will u forgive, and allow her keep living with you and manage the situation, while u watch as her belly grows with another man's seed in her womb.
Then sometimes, she can go visit the bachelor in his apartment, spends hours there and u wait like a hegoat for her to return back to u?

I bet u will say it's nature and accept everything like that.

Smhhhhhhh

I don't think she's related to him.

Perhaps, she's the one, he truly loves but due to the fact that she's Inlove and possibly engaged to her own man. She can't date or marry him. But their friendship afterwards transciends into brother and sister kind of relationship. Cause he simply cannot let go and cut her off from his life. It's better she stays as his best friend, due to their easygoing relationship.
She became fond of him but she can't marry him.. Fond in a brotherly way.
There are such relationships like that anyways. It simply shows she's a very nice lady with a good heart. Hml to the couple Cheers!

MissRaine69:
Let’s back track a bit here
That post I made was not because I am in that predicament it’s a response
To the original post

Oh ok

Sorry for the mix-up.

MissRaine69:
Please what do I do?

I am struggling to find words

There is something u can do.

Your husband is useless sha.. Sorry to say.

Just keep praying, that God should remove the strange woman trying to break your home. Because your neighbor is indeed a strange woman.
While your husband? A strong prophet should tie him up spiritually so when he sees another woman, his manhood won't stand, no matter how tempting.

So Who knows she may end up having a miscarriage. So go to a white garment church and do the needful.

Cutehector:
Its so easy for people to say forgive...ok what If the woman was the one who got pregnant for another man and the husband caught them in the act.

Don't mind them.. Forgive and move on.

Making those kind of men always getting away with their stupidity.

I don't pity men, whose wives kill them in their sleep after finding out he has a concubine outside.




And for the useless 40years old neighbor, that's how some women end up giving birth to terrible creatures wey no look like human being. Or some even end up dying During labour time.. Smhhhh.

Do these desperate old layers know how many of them are dead trying to share another woman's husband or how many give birth to animals in unusual forms in the name of, am smart.

Khonifer:
How do we expect anything to change when we have people like this that think they are wiser than every Nigerian female because they have over 76 unread messages?

Abi na fùck you dey fùck wey we neva fùck before?

Don't mind him.. He's ready to fucvk anything fuckable

He came to this life to fucvk all and sundry.

That's his main motive in life
.lol

Only God knows how many diseases and curses full e bodi remain.




And op, I don't agree with your theories.. What works for A, definitely will not work. For B.. So don't generalise

Smiles, the guy look so Inlove , innocent looking, unassuming, full of life and happy.

Sighs


May God bless this union abundantly Amen.

GeneratioNext:
No body dey apply. Thoroughly use goods.

She has four kids already.

What does she need a man to apply again for?

Na just to enjoy her youth, her children and wealth dey go.

I bet she wouldn't have problem, having a man of her choice to warm her engine.. So whatelse again?

She has experienced marriage and that's all, there is to it.

She will look old and wrinkled after series of pounding from all and sundry.

Only God knows how many billion different sperms have been deposited in that body of hers.

Smhhhh.

That's the evidence of fucvking anyhow.

Pusyiter:
Did I hear you say Crush? I now know your age

Yes crush! Even till date!
So What's my age o!

Mr Creator!

They were just screaming like mad people.

Looks like they are already high with Ciroc.


Diddy Yo! my crush way back!

Op, you've cursed yourself already and remember your child will beat you more than u can even imagine .

A neighbor, the guy is always stubborn and always give the same flimsy excuses u are spewing here about his mum.
One day his mum died of heart attack, we all knew Na im wahala, threats and stubbornness kill the old woman.
Come and see how his life is now.. He now looks like a mad man, murmuring to himself, with a haunted look in his eyes. He has been evicted from the compound he used to stay with his mum. I heard his mum cursed him, when she was gasping holding her chest as she slumped and died.

At such teenage age, she can die for love and end up committing suicide.

Op you no try at all.

Don't let Pastors or imam dictate your future and present. Follow your heart.
The love your gf has for you is rare, if not extinct. Don't mess up your future happiness by prophets of doom. Tell her you love her and miss her so much, then relax and watch how the relationship grows.
Then If she's not destined to be your wife? Don't worry the relationship with die a natural death when she becomes an undergraduate in any of the tertiary institutions.
She will jejely breakup with you at that period and fall Inlove with a new die hard player in school. Guys of different looks, and boyish charisma full school remain,all waiting to date and confuse newbies like your gf.

So relax, enjoy the moments of true innocent love. Cause in the near future, having such love again, might not be so easy. I tell ya.

So relax and flow with it. Enjoy your youths. You have a long way ahead of you to experience series of future breakups and heartbreaks
So enjoy for now

Blackfire:
Anyways how your oga hope things are lovey dovey

Yeah everything is smooth sailing here.

He travelled though and I miss him a whole lot! Smiles

donsimoniiblog:
Wickedness

Hahahahahahaahhaah

prolog2:
Seems you are a bastard

What's my own?

Why attack me?

Oh! All the men placing curse on her, u didn't attack them.. Na me your mouth strong ontop.


Idiot!

U think I have your time this night.

Imbeciile!!

Blackfire:
And you my dear is smilling to that wickedness...

It's so funny and very mean reply


But the babe no try at all in the looks department.

Sighs Na wa.

prolog2:
The only person who is going to be sent abroad as sex slave is your mum.
And the guy pretending to speak on behalf of Edo is actually igbo.
So it is the igbo who accepted her and want to send her abroad as sex slave alongside your mother.

Heheheheheeheheheheh

E pain am.. Lol.

Seems you are from Ghana .

Sorry o.

But it's Fine by me..

Hope you have digger and shovel there to dig my mum's grave and exhume her bones

Her bones will gladly follow you to Europe , visa no problem