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But the baby who won, fine nah, with cute smile, even with natural open teeth Haba! and a glowing skin ontop. Is that not all?


Nigerians sef!

Am not surprised. Na Nigeria we dey, where Every dick Tom And Harry will claim they know ones life history .

So what these pastors are doing., is what most people here do on Nairaland with other people's lives. Na today?

Pastor carry on with your lies. We are waiting to hear more.

Even if it's accidented car or nija used, the moral of the story up is this!



The guy try and he values his woman.. QED

She wont be jumping bus and bikes again.

If you no get money, hide your face says Davido, not me o

Before broke and stingy guys start to chew me up..


Hehehehehehehehehehe

Chimo!

[quote author=Veetee post=66836000][/quote]She will only render him useless if he cheats on her and perhaps beats or maltreat her in marriage.
Apart from that, the man will enjoy.

Men sef, they can't do without cheating either publicly or codedly

Na wa.

The look on her face



I pray the marriage last.

I just hope she wasn't sweet talked and cajoled to say yes. Cos those eyes are revealing alot .

i just dey feel for the guy.

Pierohandsome:
This post has granted her another license to stay longer in her father's house.

Priestess, may u live long in ur father's house!!!

You will be shocked, she will see her kind and marry.

Do you think it's only maammy water ladies full Nigeria and other countries?

Pappy water exist as well. So when they both jam each other. Their love no be here o.. He gladly follow her into the water.

She's simply placing an awareness to other pappy water guys on earth, that here she is o..

Search no more

I won't be surprised if one has contacted her already.

Have seen a dashing cute guy who is pappyy water, way back in school

University days. But I run o.. When I saw his weird ways at home.

kullozone:
I was just about to ask the Op what his dad contributes to the family apart from making babies, before I saw your mention.

If he doesn't have the money for admitting her in a hospital, I think there's also an option of seeing doctors, getting prescribed drugs and constant follow ups/appoitments.
He has to start somewhere though, because it'd be bad if she gets really old in this condition.

At the bolded, God bless you jare.

He is not disturbing his dad who married a second wife without catering for his own son, who is ranting up and down, that his mother didn't train him to university level.
He is in cahoots with his dad.
His dad is a saint, while the mother is the unstable one.

Sighs what a mentality.

And true he has to start somewhere than lamenting all day and night about his mum

kullozone:
Stop advising the op wrongly... OP, please don't accept her that way, she's not mentally stable. Take her to a hospital(psychiatric) and get her back to her senses, so she'd be able to enjoy the rest of her life.

OK maybe am advising him wrongly , let's assume. but do u think op is ready to spend a dime on pyschatric hospital? Cos news flash! pyschatric hospital is not free.
To admit a patient there, he has to deposit 50k first, after she has been strapped on one of their beds. Before other bills of toiletries, and other utilities she will need there comes up, so at the end he will end up spending 80k with things she will need there and her daily drugs and injections.
That's one.

After 3months or so, th hospital will call him that they are going on break , so he should come pick his mum and with the look of things, shes well and OK.

Trust me, he will go back and pick up a very quiet and trancelike mum
That will just be staring at him blankly .
When he takes her home, she will be like that for like 6months or so. Then maybe she may think of working again but I honestly doubt it.

So op, take your mum to pyschatric but hold. N80k with u For the bills and admission, that's if u even have sef .



But what of his dad, no one is mentioning the dad.
Or fathers are not meant to pay children school fees and provide financially for the home.. It's only mothers Abi?

Smhhhhhhh.

My late dad, God bless his memory. Single-handedly trained 17children to University level. All graduates. At the end only 5 are successful, the rest are just there. But at least he tried his best as a man during his time. No child or wife could fault him.

But only one child or even two sef, nowadays men will complain, gnash their teeth, grumble to take care of. But if it's to marry second wife and have side chicks, here and there. that's where u see their strength. Smhhhh.

I shake head in disgust at the kind of young me we have these days. They don't want any responsibility, only to fucvk and impregnate, that's all they know. Smhhhh

SoapQueen:
Pay him no attention, if he can speak ill of his mother, how much more you? Imagine him calling you names.

Men with no respect for women.

Abi?

I pity the mother for giving birth to such ungrateful son.
Better to have female children than such a son!
He's talking about not been able to bag a degree in the university. When there are so many graduates out there without jobs, trekking with torn shirts and battered shoes.
He should go and see his mates who didn't go to university, how well off they are and enjoying life. Cos why? They think out the box and outside the norms of the society.

Any man who dispise his mother will suffer in life. It's not curse but what God has ordained already from above.

That's why he's suffering. So much hate in his heart towards his mum.

Na their he go dey ,no going forward no going backward. He should keep hating her. He is doing himself.

chloride6:
you are a lazy bum..

Thank you

Sparkle777:
I tire for this poster ooh wit one proper kolo friend and supporter there. All they want to hear is for us to encourage them to kee dia mama. Issorite.

No mind the op, he should go and strangle her for not working anymore.

nuattitude:
Lmao!

Fancy you logging on to trensdsvivi to come to the defence of victorian. Then logging on to victorian to like the comment! Just the way you used victorian to lament the banning of alexialin, and how it wasn't fair because alexialin had been complaining about papanwamaikpe but the mods didn't do anything only to ban alexialin! Hilarious!

Vickie, your cover is blown already so let's not belabour the matter anymore. Victorian is also trensdsvivi, and it's not about the similarity in the monickers.

Anyways, I'm sure you've heeded my advise to the victorian monicker to quit lying that you're a married lady. I'm sounding it again to you here, Vickie. Don't use those lies to abuse or belittle others as though you're better than them, whereas you're actually a SINGLE, struggling, 38-years old lady seeking a husband.

Be advised, otherwise I'm going to expose you finally.

Till then....

:DHow come it's taking you so long to expose me?

I thought u had the evidence with you already ? And you know everything about me.

Expose nah!

We are waiting o! Nuattitude!

Please expose me that am single. You are not backing off that easy. It has not ended. Biko expose Victorian.

Mtchewwwww!

She's fine

Growing fast already.

nuattitude:
Lmao!

Fancy you logging on to trensdsvivi to come to the defence of victorian. Then logging on to victorian to like the comment! Just the way you used victorian to lament the banning of alexialin, and how it wasn't fair because alexialin had been complaining about papanwamaikpe but the mods didn't do anything only to ban alexialin! Hilarious!

Vickie, your cover is blown already so let's not belabour the matter anymore. Victorian is also trensdsvivi, and it's not about the similarity in the monickers.

Anyways, I'm sure you've heeded my advise to the victorian monicker to quit lying that you're a married lady. I'm sounding it again to you here, Vickie. Don't use those lies to abuse or belittle others as though you're better than them, whereas you're actually a SINGLE, struggling, 38-years old lady seeking a husband.

Be advised, otherwise I'm going to expose you finally.

Till then....

I now know uv finally lost it.

Please reveal all the proof that am single.

Expose me !

What a laugh!

Am here, please expose me! With all the proofs, pics and all.

I dare you. Show me proof that am single!

Ntor!

Show proofs that Victorian is single.

Ezkid:
What a fool you're, " If ur mom is alive I believe you will take care of her only after you've been taken care of, right? I don't hate her but I think u misread or u lack understanding to comprehend the story. She stopped working when she's young and her kids need to be taken care of, I was unable to attend university because all the burden rested on my dad's shoulder. Now, tell me how can I help her when she didn't help herself in her prime by supporting her husband to invest in her kids education? What a fool you're, " If ur mom is alive I believe you will take care of her only after you've been taken care of, right? I don't hate her but I think u misread or u lack understanding to comprehend the story. She stopped working when she's young and her kids need to be taken care of, I was unable to attend university because all the burden rested on my dad's shoulder. Now, tell me how can I help her when she didn't help herself in her prime by supporting her husband to invest in her kids education?

Well no need stopping low to your level of trading insults. That's all you are good for.

Am done with this topic.
Bye.

Ammy5565:
She was a successful hairdresser for years and the breadwinner those years and all was fine, your dad assumed his supposed responsibility for a minute and she becomes a liability? Even married another wife when he can't take care of the family and you think she is the problem? Ok oh.
May your eyes open sooner or later.

Don't mind him. They want to kill the poor woman will work.

Cause it's because of them and their dad, she came to this life.
How can someone's grown up child not have human sympathy for his own mother.
Na wa o.
If my mum were alive, she wont lift a finger to work. I will make sure I care for her until her dying days.

And the father went ahead and married a second wife.
Can u imagine?

tribalmall:
Thank goodness you stated what negated your entire comment. How can someone poor not want to work when some rich enough to have a house can manage side businesses.

If the rich were lazying around do you think they will have the wealth they have mcheeeew !

I know u are angry cos she's not slaving away. But anyways,
The side biz is managed by her son and one of her daughters. All she does is wait for them to give her the proceeds of the day or week. She isnt working .
And her lifestyle is OK for her.
If op mother is not wiling to work, nobody can force her.

Ezkid:
She's 51 now and she stopped the work over 15 years ago and she's tired ever since? We tried setting up other cake business but she always squandered the money, give her 100k today and she won't be able to account for it the following week. We've left her to become what she wants to be.

Not every woman can work till 80years or 100years old.

Every woman body mechanism is different. So let her be and appreciate her presence until God calls her.

Do u know there are some young wives who do not wish to work. Have seen young married women who prefer to stay at home, breed kids, cook and simply attend to home duties, than go out there and hustle. Women of 26, 30,35,40, etc. They are everywhere world wide.
They just want to be housewife and there is nothing there husband can do about it, than to manage the situation.

So it's good, u all have left her to do her own thing.

My landlady she's 50years old, her husband is late. She doesn't work. All she does is collect rents from houses the late husband has built down. Then her grown up children, who lives abroad and also in Lagos. Pays her ticket fee to go spend vacations with them in UK, for like 3months before coming back to Nigeria. She has maids, she has some shops her daughters are handling for her.

All she does, is keep tabs of her rents and small businesses by the side, then sometimes organize birthday parties for herself.

What will u say about this one? Is she not a woman? Is she old? Just 50years. She doesn't work but enjoys life. While their is a 65years old lady cleaning our surroundings three times a week with other compounds on the street. This woman will work her heart out, after cleaning I will see her carrying bottles on her head, she's heading to the market to sell palm oil.

U can see the difference. Every woman with her own kadara, as Yoruba will say it.

So just accept your mum like that.

Ezkid:
Yes! Her inability to contribute to the well being of the family is the result of her decision to stop working, She's been jobless for two decades under the pretence of becoming born again, and she's not really serving the God she left everything for cos her intolerance for others is far from anything Christlike.

Has it ever occurred to you and everyone at home, that she's tired of working?
She simply need a break and she has finally hang her boots on working all day for the upkeep of the family.
She simply want to rest at her old age. So let her be.
Go and hustle. You are still. Young and vibrant.
And lastly don't compare your family with others, or else u will always find faults in your mum.
Everyone in the home, should Appreciate her, love her, respect her and see how she will change from been troublesome to calm and soft mother.
She is simply tired!

Toks2008:
Well we are all different....dont let what anyone says define who you are.

G nite

No one can define who I am. I simply need to protect myself.
I witnessed how some people here attacked Alexialin endlessly until she deactivated. I read everything. I won't make that mistake here. Some people here are not normal.

It's better this way. I don't have strength for endlessly bickering and quarrels. I am a very busy lady ,mother and wife and my life does not revolve round Nairaland.
It's better to be anonymous.

Goodmorning

Toks2008:
I just checked your profile to see the face behind this intelligent post but too bad no face...

You made so much sense.

Smiles thanks

But I prefer to remain anonymous. It's better biko.

And for the records, lemme use this avenue to say this:
Nairalanders here with bad belle, won't allow me rest, if I reveal my pic.

If they don't find fault in my looks, they will find fault in anything which does not even concern me, linking it to me, without proof. And they will talk as if they were around when I was born and around when I was growing up and even talk as if they were the ones who created me.

So for peace sakes, am perfectly OK, with no one knowing how I look like or who I am.
I won't answer pms. So people clicking on my pms and sending me messages are wasting their time.
Anything anyone wants to ask me, please ask me here.. No back door messages. And I will reply accordingly.


Thanks once again Toks

Toks2008:
In other words...if a man has all these qualities he is qualified to get a second wife...

Well it's better to have a husband who loves his wife, takes good care of her and their kids. Even if he marries a second wife, as long as his care for his first wife does not stop, I don't see anything wrong if he wants a second wife. The two wives will cooperate and be calm.

But a husband, who does not take care of his wife but hide to sleep with mistresses outside, spends on lovers outside but doesn't drop a dime for his family at home, always claiming hes broke or not been paid salary is a very wicked and evil man.
Last last his only wife will leave him, especially if she sees a better offer outside.


Example : Owner of Elizade motors, he has more than one wife. We've not heard any slander or fights amongst his wives.. Why? Because he takes care of all his women. Everyone is content, so why fight?

Evans may weather the boxer as many baby mamas and wives with kids. No fight between the women, why? He takes care of everyone. So none of his women feel cheated.

Well there are some women who will never share their man, no matter what. While there are some women who are willing to share, as long as they receive good sums of four zeros / five zeros alerts every month and their husband satisfy their sexual needs and eat their meals in rotation.

Why fight? The women will be peaceful.

That's what our fathers did way back, that made them marry and keep many wives.

Marriages having issues is because of selfishness, distrust from both partners.

When first wife never chop well and her kids are not taken care of, she labours day and night to take care of the home, then the husband wakes up one day and wants to marry another wife? Cmon! It can be very annoying!

Such wife can kill her husband sef!

Seems the man takes good care of his wife.
Second, seems his love for the first wife didn't change since he started relationship with the 2nd one.
Then third, he has to be rich and he's definitely refilling her bank account as at when due.

So, Invariably he's generous and kind with everything he has.

And the first wife must be a calm and no wahala lady.
She try.

This is lovely

nuattitude:
Hehehehe!

Even a halfwit knows you're one and the same V.T.P ( Your real name initials ) behind those other amelian,trendsvivi and alexialin monikers.

I read you cussin out that dude, prechbills1 on his thread the other day and I shook my head in wonderment at the lenght you always go when you lie. You made him feel small whilst elevating yourself with your lies. Meanwhile, you're the total opposite of how you described yourself. Little wonder people like papanwamaikpe was on your alexialin case before you were banned. Even lefulefu your buddy on that monicker must have found you out today as victorian.

You should set up a new monicker and present your REAL self as V.T.P ( Your full names ) a very single, mature, hardworking lady. You never know who might meet on here.

Sorry to burst your bubble dear, am not VTP. Am not Trendsvivi,Amelian, Alexialin etc. And I won't give u a clue of who I am.

And if u feel, u want to use this gimmick to know who I am? Then OYO, I ain't revealing myself. So cry me a river, I don't care. It's your choice.

What a psycho!



And lastly am not a fashion designer, am not a tailor.. My profession is far different from all that.

nuattitude:
Lmao!

Are you new to Nairaland? Don't you know victorian? Her reputation goes ahead of her as Nairaland's best liar. Something close to dual personality disorder in psychology. She has been busted many times but she's not stopping anytime soon. Notice the inconsistencies in her old posts? Now, her latest lie is that she's happily married to a rich husband but in actual fact she's SINGLE ASF! Note the emphasis? SINGLE TO STUPOR! She's a seamstress with a fashion shop at Onipanu axis in Lagos.

She used to go by different monikers. She was known as amelian which she deactivated in embarassment after her lies were busted by people she fought with on Nairaland. She then created a new one known as alexialin which the mods banned for flouting the rules.

You can search the above monikers and you would see the threads about her. Range Rover! Balooney!

Seriously?

Who is Amelian?

Nairandlers and their hallucinations.

Sorry but am not Amelian

That's how someone said, am one moniker like that.

Please get your facts right Biko.

Amelian indeed!

Then Alexialin too? Lol

I can't believe this.

Nuattitude or whatever u call yourself.. Am not all those monikers. Believe it or not? It's none of my biz.

saintade01:
Eeyaa, despite all he has done to you and the family.

Amen. God help us all.
Reach me on the number in my signature, I have an expert you might want to talk to about him.

Oh thanks. I appreciate.

saintade01:
Hmmmm. It is well sister, the Lord will surely intervene. I pray he gets his healing fast and learnt his lesson.

I believe parents should learn from this as well. Because all these just started like the story up here and so many parents commenting here are having similar issues. Before it all degenerated into this.

Amen! That's my fervent prayer too.
I want him whole and back to his senses again.

Exactly! That's how it always starts. And Parents do overlook it. He was even the most pampered from childhood to University level.

Hmmm, May God help us all. Amen.


You are welcome.

AxceX:
Your story is really touching

My condolences

Am telling u

Thanks.

[quote author=PqsMike post=66691929][/quote]Amen and amen..
Thank you

He's 33years old nw.. And still in his trance.

PqsMike:
Lol....whats his present predicament

and how old is he presently

When he was done with his youth service, he started bullying my mum in her old age. Anytime I come back from work, I find my mum in her room crying that what has she done to deserve this kind of son.
I will be so pissed and very angry. Cos this woman is frail and old already. What's wrong with this guy! I will calm my mum down and ask her what happened, she will tell me, that he brings ladies to the house and the ladies will come to where she's watching TV jejely o and he will come to the parlour and change the station she's watching saying his gf will prefer another station and she will look at him with shock, are u OK? He talk rudely back to her, and that she should go back to her room infront of his gfs. They end up exchanging bitter words and the girls will. Leave with embarrassment.
After calming her down, I will go to his room and quarrel with him. Do u want to kill this woman! Our own mum again! And u know how frail and old she is!
After shouting at him, he will say get out of my room! I will leave then go back and console mum.
One day she had an heart attack cos of his bullying and wahala. And she died 10mins as I and neighbors were rushing her to hospital. Infact she died in my arms. I was so distraughted. On the day we buried her, at night. She came to my dreams and lunged at my brother that he killed her. Trying to strangle him in the dream.. I tried removing her hands from his neck. I did eventually and dragged her outside the house, she then slumped in my hands, saying he killed me.. He killed me.
I was crying as I held onto her tightly, then she slept in my arms and I woke up!
I confronted him, he said its a lie! Enemies are confusing my thoughts abiut him. I just shook my head as I kept crying..

So After her burial, after selling her houses and sharing everything she owned immediately , cos he wouldnt let me rest about relinquishing her property papers to him. He even trhreathened my life sef.
So we sold everything. I told him the day he was itching for her property papers, that so it's because of mama houses, u were so troublesome and wanted her dead! No wonder! uv succeeded in killing her. He said am saying rubbish. He just need the houses sold!

Last last sha, we sold everything. He squandered his share, with drugs and women then ended up in the village.. He's not himself anymore. Sometimes he talks to him, while he walks.

He's like in a trance. I brought pastors, even alfas to pray for him, they all said he has been cursed by our mum on her dying day and he will suffer for many years before he gets himself back again and nobody can deliver him until the curse has run its course and duration.

So he's just there sha. A shadow of himself but alive and kicking.

One day the spirit of mama will set him free.

Rest in Peace mum.


It's a curse to give birth to a bad child. And don't ever over pamper your children. It has terrible repercussions in the future.