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adekhingz:
To be very very realistic, I don not like to lie, i don't KNow.

Hmmmmm

adekhingz:
How did you know she's a full time house-wife??

Hehehehehehehehe


Why you take am so personal like this?

Are you AY?

And seriously if you are sure she is not a full time housewife, name the company or group of companies she owns.
Infact I even go too far sef!

Just name any business, u have seen her handle since she became Ay's wife till date .

With a blog or website promoting her services or company's works online.

Give me a name, lemme search on Google.

Shikena!

[quote author=adekhingz post=66195722][/quote]Why you dey look me like that?

Did I say anything out of place?

Housewife is now the entrepreneur of the year.

Possibly the entrepreneur of the year in her house and to all the parties she had attended and still attending.

Rubbish.

jadyclem:
helpless women in what sense? who said a woman can't av her own dreams and aspirations and work to earn good money for herself? alimony is not helping d American society in any way so it will do more harm Dan good in the African society. you don even check d meaning of alimony sef? child support no bad, but alimony, divorce rate for naija go pass America own d moment Dem implement something like dat

I never said all the women in Nigeria are helpless and weak and at the same time there are weak helpless women, also there are strong self reliant women out there.

Am talking about protecting the rights of a weak woman who unfortunately become entangled with a terrible man in sheep clothing in marriage . Such women should be protected if thrown out of their homes or abandoned with children to cater for.

A man cannot just go Scot free, use a weak woman, leave her with children and take another wife. He should be made to make provisions for the kids, they both had together, when the going was good and especially if he earns more than her.

Or if she is just an housewife Immediately they got Married. Whereas she was working somewhere, taking care of her bills single-handedly before this so called knight in shining armour, strolled in with his sweet words. And most annoying part is convincing her to drop her job or close her business to become his wife at home.

Such women must be compensated and their kids provided for by the husband who feels he has seen a better love elsewhere.

Some men can be so convincing in their seemingly sweet promises and innocent smile masking the opposite of what he's putting on, that even the devil will shudder in excitement and wonder .

amakadihot87:
postinor shouldnt be used all the time na........u better find a proper contraceptive..

True and that's why a woman has to be conscious and insistent on either she uses condom or her man uses a condom at all times at least against infections.

Then postinor can come up once in a while, not everytime.

This Society sef

Op it's a good idea but trust me, it won't be enforced in the law.

Nigeria is where helpless weak women or ladies are used and dumped. From the grassroot to the top level. It's that bad.

stanluiz:
madam d madam I hail you!!

Thanks dear .

M2dX:
Why cant they kill the monkeys and make money from them Or catch them alive and sale to zoo owners

You said what?

Didn't u read where a resident said he tried to catch one of the monkeys and it punched a hole in his neck and scratched his face, while he screamed and ran away for help

Hehehehehehehe
Oh lord! Am just laughing so hard here, just thinking about it

What a community.

See this doctor.. A woman still need to wash the vagina very well with shower head or bucket , so that the pussyyy will not smell like dead rat. Lol

But with all said, to avoid been pregnant after fucvking without protection, simply take postinor 2 , and u are safe from unwanted pregnancies.

Ladies wash the thing wella, after every rounds. so it smells fresh and nice. Even if he's using condom.

The father is evil. God forbid!

Ladies whom God have destined will have successfully career or successful life afterwards, God made sure, He brings up girls with big ukwu to divert guys roving eyes and fcuvk and drop nature from His chosen children. Make the boys no spoil the future of the girls, He has chosen to love and bless


So Mr man, God knows your way Na to fucvk and give her belle, so he jejely remove your lustful eyes from Fatima side. Just forget dreaming, you could be the one marrying her.
It's only in your dreams.

Bloody gold digger!
Ole jati jati

He has seen the wealth been displayed, he's now wishing he's the husband.


Mtchewwwwww.

Only the very rich in the north and some part of south south like the rich deltans, especially urhobos, itsekiris that loves matchmaking their rich kids with rich family friends and club friends Of the same class of children together for marriage.

The rest will just leave their children like that, to marry whosoever, which is not ideal.
It's clear DJ cuppy is more inlove. I just hope asika won't fall hand sha on the long run.

PoliticalChinex:
Really? Did u marry a younger guy or ready to marry one?

Hehehehehehehehe, not really
Although I wanted to marry a younger guy, was even dating one, before but an older guy came along and swept me off my feet with his kind nature and flamboyance.
So I chose the older guy, got married to him .
He's not perfect but he has a kind soul.

PoliticalChinex:
Fatima Dongote is obviously far older than the groom

So?

She is not the first to marry a younger guy, neither will she be the last lady to do such.

More older ladies are marrying younger guys these days.
Nothing spectacular about it.
And the guys marry the ladies willingly and ready to please.

It's part of the recent norms.

Na wa o

When a woman's survival is dependent on a man. Shiit happens.

Smhhhh.

Cos of staying in one room! God forbid!

ajademola2000:
Even when you are married?

In that one, and in omosexy case, it's then a personal decision from her.

Her husband sef is not complaining.

Everyone is happy with the alliance in the family.

Isnt this world , a beautiful world.

Papiikush:
Lol... You just typed a whole piece of trash.

Rich babe snatched your man and you wanna revenge on me?

HHahahahahahahaha

Where the rich babe wey snatch my man?

Which man are u even talking of?

My man who is his room working on his laptop?

Abeg take good advice and don't live in a dreams world about rich girls from North.

You are only a dreamer.

Kikikikikiki

rawpadgin:
I ain't talking infidelity & shiit

She look like the kinda woman that will want to be making all the decisions in the house

She look like

Uv concluded already cause of her looks.

Men like you end up marrying the least kind of ladies they expect.

My dear, looks is deceiving. And totally different from what's in the heart.

I have two family friends, guys. They bought huge and tall.

One looks like a thug, mean and fearful
The other one looks like he can never ever hurt a fly. He looks like the perfect gentleman.

And ladies like rushing to the second guy. But guess what? He's the worst guy a lady can ever think of settling down with. He's a pathological liar, he cheats on his main chick, even give her stds join, cos he confided in me one day about it, Then he beats his gf, insults her terribly when he's angry. But in the public hes a caring doting, funny , gentle soft loving man who cannot hurt a fly.

The first guy who looks like a thug, he's faithful to his gf, maybe cos ladies don't like his terrifying hard face. He's generous, kind, he has a soft heart and his gf basically have him round her finger tips.

You can see what looks have on these guys. And they are both successful guys.

So please don't even take looks that serious.

It's misleading.

rawpadgin:
This bride does not look like a loyal woman 1 bit

Don't ask me how i know

Because she's fine, shey?

Some guys and their mentality

What will u say if u see my voluptuous sexy married female friend?
Alot of guys still woo her thinking she's easy to lay, cos of her looks.

But they are shocked when she turns them down and shows off her ring.

she's faithful to the core. And her husband trust her die!

Papiikush:
I am going to marry a rich girl.

I mean a girl whose father is rich in dollars Mehn... Fück all these island broke girls.

Getting prepared to impregnate one in my area...I'll just pour the thing inside and her dad will arrange the wedding. (one time)

We will live happily ever after in the US. It becomes a win-win situation and everyone is happy.

Kia.... Sense will not kill me

See you!

Ode!


Lady wey u wan pour all your thing inside, tell you say, she no sabi postinor 2 Abi?

If that's easy? Why are their daughters not pregnant during the process of getting married to another rich man son? Or why are their daughters not heavily pregnant like the daughters of average homes, wey na belle guys for area go use take hook them and marry them cheap
Think!

Cos it's easy to impregnate an average girl or a poor broke girl does not mean u can do the same with the rich ones.

The rich girls are smart and very calculative
They want to enjoy more good and rich lives even during marriage.

If u like fucvk am from now till next year, if u are not in her sights for marriage, and you are not a billionaire? forget it!

Oyo Lo wa!

Na your sperm dey waste.

ladycomfort:
Please will jamil marry a second wife?

Keep dreaming.
Second wife ko, 17th wife ni.

He has to be as faithful And loyal as fucvk!

He dares not look at another lady when they are together.

100percent concentration on her.


Money and power is good.. I swear.

Number2:
That something between Omotola and Dangote Is strong

When a rich man is very generous ,humble and friendly with his monies and connections to a fine lady, he has his eyes set on. What do u expect the fine lady to do?
When he transfers nothing less than 2million naira into her account, if she simply says am broke and I need a vacation. While pouting those lips and battling the eyelashes while the back view is clearly in sight. Will u assist me dear?
He then smiles and transfers without blinking an eye.

My dear, na to hold the man like gold.
That's what we call favour in all ramifications !

A humble, generous rich man is meant for keeps.

Abi I lie?

thunderbabs:
Vici, men don do her too many strong thing run ni. Now, She wants a man dt will do her strong thing on a permanent basis.

Kikikikikiki

No be small thing o.

Chai!

It's photo shop.

thunderbabs:
Plz, tell her if you know her.

She only asked for a man o. Not a husband or a good husband, or based on her need.

She only asked God for a man. Be careful what you ask too..

Hehehehehehehe

And she got herself a man, who's hiding behind her

Na wa.


But inbetween, what does she mean she has suffered enough?

shallysgirl:
You were blaming the victim for her own murder.
No one has any excuse to take the life of another.

Some. People have different ways of handling anger and disbelief.

She simply handled hers, the best way she knows how.

And she will pay for it as well. By going to jail.

Next time, she won't have close friends, she will simply keep her life private from all and sundry.

She doesn't have a crush on him.

Must there be feelings involved?

All I see is ego from your part op.

U could have quickly called out her name as she was talking to the guy, Rita am off, are u coming or not?

Simple! And she will bade the other guy goodbye and quickly walk towards you. It's that simple! Anyways u behaved like a jealous somebody.

AlphaMajestic:
lol...no be lie u talk finally...amebo pple get the same mind as person wey fit kill

Of course.

She use her mouth kill and destroy her friend relationship.

Her friend in return killed her and destroyed her life


Even though one does not pay wrong with wrong.

shallysgirl:
Why are you people like this. So because the victim is of another tribe what the Yoruba beast did is now right. Tufiakwa ndia.
There is no excuse for murder.

Chill! Did I mention anything about Yoruba?

If you feel only Yoruba people do Amebo, well that's your problem.

Amebo doesn't come from a certain tribe in the country. It cuts across all tribes.
It's an individual thing.

Any one from any trive can be envious of you and want to spoil your joy.
Not only Yoruba people.

I didn't even look at the names sef.

I don't look at names, I look at character.

Whatever the Yoruba lady did is not good but at the end of the day, it will teach bad belle people lesson to mind their damned fucvking business and remove eyes from their friends or neighbors joy.

Amebo and envy has caused her, her life.

If only she wasn't so obsessed in breaking up her friend plans to get married . She would have been alive by now.

Next life time, she won't meddle in other people's affair.

Op if you are not ready to get married now, please don't go into it yet.

We have instincts that warn us deep down not to undertake an unfruitful venture but due to society pressure, we ignore our inner voice/ guardian angel warning us of the danger ahead.
And for the op to be in doubts means, she and her man are not in the same frequency in fulfilling her desires in either furthering her studies during marriage.
She has doubts lurking deep at the back of her mind.

If not? If her bf is convincing enough and sincere with what she wants out of life. She will gladly marry him without blinking an eye or asking us here. Op some men can promise heaven and earth but only your inner being will know if he's sincere or not .
Don't go into what u might regret later. Marry when u are ready emotionally, and materially. So that your in-laws will not even say u are a drop out freeloader.

It's not about how far but how well.