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RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 4:20pm On Dec 30, 2019
Telemon:
Nice.but no offence what's the name of this movie?
It's true life.

It's no movie. Don't mind guys here saying they can't spend a dime on their babes. All na wash! Although some guys are extremely stingy, I won't lie but some are also very generous when they are in love .

There are men and there are also men. If you know, you know.

Wait, how old are you?
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 3:57pm On Dec 30, 2019
Telemon:
funny. just curious to know if you did gave him anything back,maybe as a surprise gift too.
Nothing yet, until he's back in town.
He's not around. He simply made a transfer to my account
But when he comes, I plan to gift him a designer wrist watch, then a complete overhaul massage.
I know he will love it.
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 2:34pm On Dec 30, 2019
biGDhAp:
.... sure I agree to that .. the reason for going bankrupt should even be one reasonable one not one that makes you look stupid like spending on your gf or so..

imagine the way people around you will look at you when you tell them 'I went bankrupt because I was trying to please a woman '
Well he loves her so much and was ready to do anything to keep her

Kris Humphrey that's stingy or lemme say not rich like Kanye had to bow out.

Now they have three or four kids, I think?

And Kanye is very happy, she's still his wife and mother of his kids.

People will always talk, so if it's that one. It's not new.

My new bf gifted me 6 digits , this Christmas . I don't see him as Mugu or maga but I see him as angel sent to make me very happy. And I pray every day for him. If he should think of what people will say, he won't even give me a dime. That's some Nigerian men mentality. Naija men think of they are stingy to women, the women will stay. My dear, the woman won't stay and another man out there who's ready to spend will wife her.

I don't date broke guys or guys who can't afford to gift their babes anything.
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 1:54pm On Dec 30, 2019
biGDhAp:
... you see, he went bankrupt before she decided to start contributing. money they're suppose to save somewhere for their kids.. I'm pretty sure she would have left him also if he had stayed bankrupt..






I wish we could use voice note on nl.. I can't imagine typing this long epistle
Any human being, not even man now o.

But any human being, who cannot pick him or herself up to bounce back again financially but rather prefers to stay broke forever is not meant to be called a human being.

Why should Kanye West stay bankrupthuh

If he stays bankrupt and not do anything about it?
The whole world will mock, laugh at his face and even spit on him.

Not even his wife leaving him.

As in the whole world will spit on him, if he does not bounce back.
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 1:50pm On Dec 30, 2019
HVILLE:
yes am pained that u claiming what u aren't and forming one high class successful,meanwhile u are on broke bitch, Oprah Winfrey no get two head ,she climb her way to the top not waiting any man ,u better shut that ur bitter yeye mouth and face ur hustle
Anyways I'm not the cause of your poverty. You can rant all day and all night, in fact for many years to come.

Guess what? I'm less concerned. Lol

Wailings of a frustrated broke guy.. Lol

cheesy
Christianity EtcRe: 4 Reasons I'm Considering Becoming An Atheist by victorian(f): 1:47pm On Dec 30, 2019
englishmart:
1.Jesus is the only way to God, John 14:6
This invariably means those who don't believe in Jesus have no business in heaven.
Christians worldwide have an estimated population of 2.4billion people
Islam records an estimate of 1.9 billion adherents, Hindu has an estimated 1.1bn adherents. The remaining world's population have their own beliefs which includes atheism.
If Jesus is the only way to God, what happens to those who don't believe in him? Hell? Well, the Bible suggests so.


2. There are a lot of complications and contradictory remarks in the Bible- a verse says don't drink, another says "Drink for your stomach sake", or "Do not drink wherein excess."
Malachi 3:10 a famous Bible verse on tithing speaks about bringing your tithe to the storehouse (church, maybe)
Deuteronomy 14:22-26 says otherwise, it says "you should drink and be merry with your tithe". I'm seriously beginning to doubt the credibility of the Bible. Maybe the translators' fault or God told writers different stories on the same issue. Read Matthew, Mark, Luke and John's account of Jesus and see real contradictions.


3. Does God answer prayers? Well, I'm not really sure about that. Someone might be suffering from malaria, the person takes drugs and still prays, the drugs work, but the person thanks God. Or a successful surgical operation, instead of thanking the doctor, they thank God. Some illnesses that would have been treated led to deaths because a certain congregation who were supposed to take the ill persons to the hospital, circled around praying. Faith without work isn't it still dead?
I remember when I had stomach ulcer, it was really terrible, I prayed and made several promises to God that if He took away the ulcer, I'd drink no more alcohol and will be more devout in worshipping Him. That didn't solve anything though, I stopped drinking and took to taking my drugs more seriously. Weeks later, I was well. I returned to drinking and after a few months, the ulcer resurfaced. That was when I realized I really needed to quit drinking. Prayers wouldn't have solved that issue.
I spent 80% of 2019 at home because of my misgivings about God's existence.
I really wish I could be convinced about God's existence because I'm not even happy to be away from Church because of the views of friends and family.

4. Children of God, or so called children of God tend to suffer more tribulations, hard times and desperate moments, a lot of them scream "Vanity upon Vanity" when secular people live in luxury or spend extravagantly. God tends to turn his back on those who worship Him especially when they need Him most.
The 1933 Holocaust and mass murder of Jews to the tone of 6m was a clear indication that God turns His eyes against His people
Repulsive comments are highly welcome
Anyways, I don't regret serving and worshipping God.

My life has become much smoother and easier when I changed and place my mindset solely on God .

And I have no regrets.

You can become an theist nobody is stopping you.
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 1:22pm On Dec 30, 2019
@ HVille, I know you are pained I'm successful but such is life, I wasn't expecting less from your irrational and vile comments

cheesy

Eat your heart out, there is nothing u can do about it.


Ntor!!!
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 12:55pm On Dec 30, 2019
Mikecold:
My dear we all have different motivating factors o, that is mine.

The trash our "posh" girls go to do to arabs in dubai is it not for money?
OK o


I don't look at other people and how they make their money, as long as the other person is not my man . Then they can do whatever they like in making money. It's their body. It's their mouth.
Na dem sabi. I don't judge. I face my lane and try as much as possible to be successful.
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 12:49pm On Dec 30, 2019
Jewessgratitude:
Be waiting for the naija girl that will come and be booking a surprise vacation for you; all expense on her. Hehehe...
Abeg just leave me alone biko.
Don't mind him
Lazy man, looking woman to feed and take care of him. Typical of most Nigerian men.

Kanye is the one taking care of his family financially not Kim his wife but she supports sometimes.
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 12:43pm On Dec 30, 2019
biGDhAp:
... Kanye foots the bill.. this one thinks females abroad possesses your godforsaken mentality.. you should watch keeping up the kardashians. she pays for her sh1t herself.. she even booked a surprise vacation for she and her family one time , all on her expense.


which naija woman wan do that one
Kanye foot most of the family bills. I also watch keeping up with kardasians too.
She spends as well but Kanye spends more on her and the kids.

Don't u know its because of money issues, she divorced Kris Humphrey her ex husband? and Kris her ex husband has badmouth, which she could not take anymore. His mouth is just too bad. He says things to make her feel less of herself ,she kept quiet for a while, wondering how will people feel if she divorce him but later with Kanye's love and support, also her family's support, she divorced the morraffucker!

The wedding ring, Kris supposedly bought for her, was bought by Kim. But nobody knew
Everyone thought Kris bought it and when the divorce was over, she didn't return the ring to Kris, cos it's bought With her money.
She got fed-up taking care of Kris and making it look like Kris was the one spending but it was all her money.

Kanye came into the picture and was spending like mad on her, giving her attention. Kris her husband then was too busy and too handsome to create bonding time with her. Any minute he spends with her, he always either grumble or talks sarcastically to her and her friends.
She couldn't take his shit anymore. His fine face and huge height no longer appealed to her again. His basket ball feats sef no longer make her shake anymore
Kris was more of a pest than a doting husband.

Do u know Kanye went bankrupt one time in their marriage
He was spending way too much on his wife.

I think after being bankrupt ,She then decided to be spending as well.


So. Don't get it twisted.

Kanye spends like crazy on Kim and his kids.
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 12:33pm On Dec 30, 2019
tellwisdom:
One can own all that still be a liability. Still doesn’t justify anything. I hope you are not one??

RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 11:56am On Dec 30, 2019
Mikecold:
Nice one, i actually notice as you said love doesnt exist but affection.

Affection is a sum up of the things you find attrative to a person, thats why a broke person who was sh!t can become attrative when money comes.

Money and comfort is what brings affection from anybody.


I sha know i wont be falling for that love crap, the only fulliment i would find in a woman then is to yab this money back and trash back women with it.

Thank God you took the right decisions sha, nobody is worth the distractions
Nobody is worth the distractions but that does not mean u should treat women as trash when u are made o.
It's not advisable o
If you know u won't treat a woman right when u become successful, just jejely stay clear from them. Cause u don't know if she is your guardian angel u are about to treat as trash. The more successful we get, the more envy people tend to envy and they will wish they can pull one down.
In such scenarios, God tend to allow our guardian angels come around us in human forms.

So Pls be very careful with people, when u become successful. Not all are human beings.
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 11:41am On Dec 30, 2019
Osobi32:
are u trying to make understand that u are waiting for a man that will support ur dreams or business? Madam u better wake up to reality and get ur lazy ass up..... Come 2020 go out there and get a job else men will continue to see u as a intimacy gadget and nothing more. Men like women that has standards. Davido's baby mamas are not local street girls ok, they all come from a good family with a name ok. So don't compare yourself to them.
Lol
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 11:39am On Dec 30, 2019
HVILLE:
no Sabi lie ooo,for your dream who dash u 30m
I know u very well don't form big girl here
let respect ourself ooo
Na your papa dash me! A broke guy wailing again. cheesy

You don't know me. But u feel u do, because we've chatted few times or so. Did I tell u my networth? Did I disclose to you how much assets I have?


My lawyers who are close to me, don't even know my networth. How much more you.

My bestie whom I love so much, the Alhaja doesn't know my networth

My family don't even know me that well.

Then u now claim u know me very well.

Lol how u wish!

Na so!
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 11:35am On Dec 30, 2019
EhisChelsea1:
Taken but not owned yet.... How about we have you untaken so you can be retaken by my humble sef?
Lol cheesy



Very funny grin
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 11:30am On Dec 30, 2019
Mikecold:
you are right, as a guy i have sticked to this so far, i want to develop myself, i know i must make it but if i may ask how possible is it to find a good woman after you make it?

Alot of these girls would love you only because you have made it, the so called love, wife material in them would manifest then but ordairly they wont near the dude as a broke ass. My believe is you only meet the true girls when you broke.

Infact my extra motivation for success is to use money rubbish these gold digging women
It's possible with prayer and due diligence.

I found the same mindset of individual or should I say a companion after I've made it.

Whether we like it or not, we just have to make it. And to make it in this country, just place love aside for the time being.
For me, I told myself when I make it, as I have now. I will never date a broke guy or hustling guys, because none stood by me when I was the university and none stood by me by the time I graduated trying to find my feet.
Inside the broke guys tried using me for rituals

Yes rituals! If not that my head is strong and God is with me. I would have been six feet below by now.
So technically I don't believe when a broke guy Is saying I love you.

For me, it means nothing.

With the drive and disappointment I felt towards my past relationships when I have nothing. I placed all the drive in trying to make it by fire by force. I spoke to my mum about my dream thank God she wants the best for me and age supported me wholeheartedly.
Anyways I only believe in compatibility and good heart. Forget love.

Affection 's will be there but don't bank on love.

So make it and look for someone who believes in you, your dreams and have same mindset with you, that's all.
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 11:20am On Dec 30, 2019
HVILLE:
The 4m that was invested in your business 13years ago what has it transmitted to ,is your business worth 30m now.
Yes.
FamilyRe: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by victorian(f): 10:26am On Dec 30, 2019
Liposure:
well said sis. compliment of da season.u look asian by d way.
Thanks

Sighs that's what everyone says. And that's how God made me look. Smiles I can't complain. I'm surprised myself too but I've gotten used to it

Compliments dear.
FamilyRe: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by victorian(f): 10:12am On Dec 30, 2019
LoyalRccgMember:
Thank you brother!!! you just said my mind
I'm a lady.

And that's the only way, it can work and she will stay with him.

I don't trust the real father one bit!

With the way Some psychotic men are raping their daughters and using them as sex slaves? Na I don't trust him.

angry
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 10:06am On Dec 30, 2019
lebron7:
Hmmmmm
Wow, very very very nice
Thank God people like you exist. I pray I'll find someone you
Awwww smiley

Amen.

God will do it for you.
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 10:03am On Dec 30, 2019
tellwisdom:
Which business you de do?? sad
I own a fashion company and also a fashion school. We are into HR services as well. And we've been in business for the past 13years. End of this month will make it 13 years, we've been in existence .
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 10:00am On Dec 30, 2019
Jewessgratitude:
I know not all of them are like that here dear. As it is commonly said. " empty barrels make the loudest noise"
Of course.

Thank God you know

So don't let any of them get into your skin. They are simply frustrated.
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 9:57am On Dec 30, 2019
mujibson:
This same shit keep coming out of their gutters they call mouth every time.

Before asking another guy this dumb question, have you ever thought of starting from your home? Your father? Brother? Uncle? Everyone, what have they achieved? If your father has made so much like Davido, you won't be here pressuring an innocent hardworking guy to lift you from your abject poverty.
Well sorry to burst your bubble
My parents are wealthy.

God bless my mom for investing 4 million naira in my company way back 2007 after graduating from one of the best universities in Nigeria.
My company and Fashion school are both doing marvellously well till today.

4 million naira is no beans

I doubt if your parents and even yourself can boast of 10k

So go figure! Broke wailer! No be only depend on guy!

Ekpa!
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 9:54am On Dec 30, 2019
Uniquekriss:
Davido isn't 24, he's 27 according to him.
Wharever! He's still in his twenties.
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 9:51am On Dec 30, 2019
Jewessgratitude:
Bless your sweet soul dear. You just took the words right out of my mouth.

Shey Kylie will give the money to her guy.

Kim the elder sis too was rich but she landed herself a multi billionaire husband (kanye) who futes all her bills.

This Nairaland guys are not worth arguing with most times cos this forum has beclouded their sense of reasoning and affected their ability to man up to their responsibilities, hence their exchanging words with women every now and then.
Don't mind the broke guys here, wailing and comparing themselves to women. He wasnt even ashamed mentioning Kylie, a very young girl who made billions from her brains.
Mind you, not all the guys here are broke. There are successful guys in this forum but they don't say a word. They simply read comments behind the screen.
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 1:44am On Dec 30, 2019
boiz2men:
cheesy

So now that you don make up...

We should start dating na

I have been looking for a rich babe. See eh, I'm already in love
Don't bother to fall in love so quick, I'm taken.
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f):
Rebelworld:
Since when did being a baby mama that is being catered for (spending their baby daddy’s money) become a measure of success instead of women actually making their own money.
At least he has opened businesses for them to make their own money!

Instead of depending on him for every lil thing.

cool

With such financial support from one's man, why won't his woman succeed in life?
They will both grow and succeed together.

That's life.

Davido is a success with the help he's giving out to people and his loved ones. And he's just a very young man
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 11:45pm On Dec 29, 2019
Martinez39:
Men that are chasing women instead of developing themselves are doing themselves. Las las, the man ends up having no value and the woman goes to a high value man. grin
You are completely right.

I concur.

There was time in my life, even though I'm a lady. when I shunned guys wooing me, especially broke and hustling guys, including rich guys who have nothing to offer than just sex.
I told them, I want to develop myself and biz before Dating any guy. I'm not interested in any sexual relationship until I'm balanced financially and my biz is stabilized. They thought I was joking. But I was serious.

I don't need distractions back then. I want to be focused to make money aggressively. Now they can see what I was saying back then. They are now like wow! You be man! You've done well for yourself. Babe I still love you nah. You are wife material.

Na so! I'm now balanced to be in relationship and thank God I'm in one.

So hustling or broke guys should leave babes one side and try make it first! Because if u are not financially OK? Babe go Waka!
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 11:45pm On Dec 29, 2019
Martinez39:
Men that are chasing women instead of developing themselves are doing themselves. Las las, the man ends up having no value and the woman goes to a high value man. grin
RomanceRe: My Opinion On Broke Guys by victorian(f): 11:25pm On Dec 29, 2019
Millz404:
Be saying nonsense, and keep having a dependent mentality meanwhile Kylie Jenner has become the world's youngest self-made billionaire, according to Forbes billionaires' list. According to Forbes magazine, Jenner's net worth is estimated at US$1 billion, making her, at age 21, the world's youngest billionaire as of March 2019.
Are you a billionaire yourself?

Davido is reeking in billions from his music, all his three kids are American citizens, all his baby mama's are well catered for and have their own businesses sponsored by him and he's just how old again? 24 years old!

How about you? Sorry to ask but what have u achieved so far?
FamilyRe: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by victorian(f): 11:08pm On Dec 29, 2019
Biafrareform:
.

Who is even talking of paying up. I don't want him near my baby girl
Op, the time has come for you to tell your baby girl, the truth about her father.
Let her know she was rejected from birth and u accepted her and took care of her like your own. Let her mother too be present when both you and your sister is opening up to her .
And let her know, the father now wants to claim her and come back to her life.

If the communication line between u and your baby girl is good.

Talk to her like your daughter, let her remember those lovely moments both of u shared while growing up. Let her know, she can vouch for your love for her and to keep training and taking care of her till she marries but she cant vouch for a man, a stranger coming up from nowhere claiming he's her father.

And she can forgive him. But she can also choose whether to keep living with you, whom she knows inside out than to live with a stranger who wants nothing to do with her in the first place.
So she has the right to choose whom to be with. And if she wants to see her dad? Her dad can come visit her in your home. So she has to choose but she should remember the devil she knows, is better than angel showing up all of a sudden.

There are fathers fucvking their own daughters, And Mehn I don't trust the motive of the father towards the girl. He may want her as a sex slave. He doesn't have any fatherly connection towards her. So why want her at this level. I don't trust him one bit.
Only she can decide to stay with you or leave with him. But if uv been good to her, she will choose you.

Op try to open up to the girl, and let her know some twisted fathers do rape their daughters. And no one knows motive of this dad.
RomanceRe: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by victorian(f): 10:46pm On Dec 29, 2019
Ilekokonit:
Men, if you want your marriage to last, marry an illiterate.

Thank me later.

Illiterate women are more amenable to peace and are more open to being corrected and have a teachable spirit compared to the stubborn educated vampires who think their education gives them the right to be first class neurotic psychopaths.
And you, yourself?

Yes u!

Are u not a First Class chronic neurotic psychopath, already?

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