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Kennedyiheme:
don't deceive yourself... rich women are good side chicks.. how many rich men marry rich women

blackfish56:
21yrs old nd u dae find love **in osu voice** " ma sister you're lucky oo but you do not know"

You still too young (21yrs) to undastand life
He's
*final year student
*alot on his head right now probably
*project to defend
And you ungrateful bitch is here blabbing nonsense you're just thinking only about yourself..

Fareee123:
he doesn't go clubbing, I see texts of girls giving him green lights,but he is good at ignoring them,I'm not saying he's perfect, but I haven't caught him cheat

Amumaigwe:
Where are such women na? A woman can easily marry as a moderately rich lady, who can easily find more powerful suitors around, then grows within the marriage to become richer and more powerful than the husband. The likes of Alakija, Dora Ajunyili, NOI etc fall into this category. But it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a billionaire spinster to get herself a serious date let alone husband. Ask Linda Ikeji et al if what I am saying is untrue. The only exception to this rule is if the lady is less egoistic and chooses true love over the ladies' traditional hypergamy. But unfortunately, wealth come to most ladies accompanied with pride and egoism.

geraldinai:
Nairalanders, this is a long post but please read till the end.

My bf just broke up with me over what he termed incompatibility. This guy and I have been together for two years and we both loved each other. It was a long-distance relationship, he stays in Lagos while I schooled in another town in the west. I had no problem with the distance because I'm not the attention-craving type and I like my space.

He's a complete extrovert, while I'm an introvert(not to the extreme though) and this has been an issue most of the time. He complains that I'm too quiet and not on the same social level as him. I don't do social media like that while he's uploading new pictures every minute. I also didn't like the fact that he relates too well with girls; he had a lot of female friends and easily socializes with new ones. Well, I blended with that so well as I didn't see any trace of unfaithfulness in him.

Fast forward to late last year, there was a breakdown in our communication, he stopped calling and chatting as he used to, I asked him what the matter was but he said there's nothing. I was a bit scared if something went wrong with him and I asked again after some days, that was when he said he would tell me when the time comes, so I stopped asking. With all the signs he showed me, my mind was telling me he wanted a breakup but I didn't ask him further as I was preparing for my final exam and him breaking up with me that period would leave me devastated so I focused on my exam with the hope that after then, we would talk about it.

After my exam, I sent him a text apologizing and asked us to continue as we were but he didn't reply. He invited me over to his place and that was when he told me he's no longer interested in the relationship, that he has no feelings for me again. He gave one thousand and one reasons for us not to be together anymore. He said I'm less expressive, I agree with anything he says and does and that during the break in our communication, I didn't make efforts to find out why he did so and challenge him. Funnily enough, I didn't react when he told me, I just said it's all right as I envisaged it earlier. With the reasons he gave me, my heart was broken and felt there was no need to push further. He was surprised with how calm I was when he told me, personally, I don't believe in forcing someone to love me.

I moved on well but after a week when I was alone and reflecting, the feeling of guilt overwhelmed me that I probably pushed him away with my seemingly “not too caring” attitude. I see myself with him and I never thought we could separate. I showed love and care in my how way and in the best way, I know-how. I did love him wholeheartedly and he knew it but he seemed unable to cope with my private/ less emotional lifestyle.
Nairalanders, did I actually push him away?

Amumaigwe:
The OP is saying that wealthy women will find it difficult to find a date because women generally date upwards ie they date a man who is better than (richer, more powerful etc) they are. The question is this; how many of such wealthier or more powerful men will want to date a woman of equal or even near equal status?

2buffagain:
I don't understand this thing about successful men not wanting successful women.
I like babes who are doing big things.
That's all I date.

2020 is the year of power couples... Not parasites.

IyaTola:
DELAY IN MARRIAGE
Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.
1. I'm too young for that.
2. Who cares about marriage.
3. I'm focused on my books.
4. I want to gather some money first.
5. Marriage is full of problems.
These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.
But these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to have sex with boys.
No problem, God is watching you.

At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;
1. How far?
2. Don't you have any one yet ?
3. Are you not planning to get married ?
4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married ?
5. Don't you know you are getting old?
But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.
With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking and asking herself things like: My mates are marrying,
1. Does it mean am old enough to marry?
2. Hmmm, how should I go about it?
3. My boyfriends are not serious about asking my hand in marriage.
4. They are not even ready to marry yet.
5. Well, Allāh knows the best. I believe in Allāh.
See oooh...!, she has started putting her blame on God. "Allāh's time is the best" OK, I agree for argument sake.
At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with again.
They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage, but unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 not all men will be asking their hand in marriage.

You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don't want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.
No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.
My sister, it matters a lot.
Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 and your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes, that's how it feels like in marriage too.
Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?
That's why some men go back to their villages to find young girl to marry when the city ones are not serious about marriage and those that are serious happen to be old for them.
At age 30-35, her friends will ask her:
1. Why are you not married yet by this age of yours?
2. Is it not getting too late for you ?
You will hear her asking you some silly questions like...
1. Are you Allāh?
2. Or do you want to marry me?
3. Is it a crime to be single at 30 or 35?
4. Did I see a man willing to marry me but I refused?
5. Allāh knows the best for everyone please.
At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she's a Muslim, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.
If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say:
1. My brother, I'm not like them.
2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating.
3. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage.
4. I can't do anything with you without my parents concern.

Dear parents, they have started knowing your worth. When she was 18-24, she was doing everything without considering you as parents.
You don't expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there.
Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you.
Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.
Everything in life has its own season and time.
There's no lady at age 30-35 seeking for marriage who haven't been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE.
Not everything is about prayer. Allāh who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don't disturb the peace of Allāh. Because, He will be busy planning for your younger sister.
Why do we have high rate of single mothers and single ladies? Does it mean there no men but only boys?
Thousands of working class ladies are out there confirmed single. Your Master's of PhD is ZERO without a husband.

Yes, Education is key but don't neglect a marriage proposal all in the name of your studies. Both of you are matured enough to wait if you're serious of getting married.
It's never too late to ask for forgiveness or have a second thought of mind. For our God is a merciful and gracious Lord.
Change your mind..

realokopi:
I don't really know what happened to Cynthia Morgan.
As for Emma Nyra she has given up in music I believe all she have in mind now is to take care of her twins.
Stormrex is now in abroad studying and am sure she ain't coming back to the industry.
As for Chidimma, I don't know if she's married to Flavour now or they're just servicing each other.

Jodha:
Amen to that sis..

djoe21:
Madly. Getting to the point of obsession.

djoe21:
You that opened a thread just last month saying no NL guy should dm you or follow you again, now you are here pleading to hook up with NwaAmaikpe.

Like someone said on that thread, you will still fall in love

Mouthgag:


Yet, she never fit to attract any RESPONSIBLE man



Her days are numbered...

StarUp:
From that video, you can tell why her husband decided to leave her and go for a "calm side chick"...THE DIFFERENCE IS CLEAR...no wisdom whatsoever on the part of the so-called-wife...SMH

efewizey:
Wow you gat talent dear

GidiWoodsMan:
A lot of families are like this! Smiling in each other's faces while secretly working for destruction via diabolical and other criminal acts!

Abdulquadrimuha:
I no even understand the stature of the boy!!!

XaintJoel20:
Happy Sunday Nairalanders.

Often than not, I have heard people say, "That house did not favour me. I almost sold all the property I came into that house with. In fact, I think there are forces working against development and progress in that house".

Some people also have different stories to share about their rented apartment. Some believe that in contrast to the opinion of the former, that the apartments they rented has in one way or the other contributed to their success, progress, and financial uplifting.

I have heard people also say, "when I packed into this house, I came with just one mattress and two pots, but today, I have been able to buy a car, married my wife, send my children to choice schools, and got multiple promotions at my place of work", while those in business will say they now have multiple shops.

The big question is this:

Can the apartment one rents contribute to his financial prosperity, uplifting and greatness and can a rented apartment also contribute to the downfall of one that was previously "doing well"?

While some think it's just superstitious hype, others think otherwise.

What's your take on this?

Jodha:
Y'all pls get it straight I'm not the lady in question...I only posted a story...

Chikenah

Jewessgratitude:


My dear see me ooo . Boyfriend my foot!

Jewessgratitude:
Babes. Ntorrr ..
If you gave that Money to your mum to cook soup wait you, momsy too for see small change gain inside.
You now wasted on a common boyfriend who doesn't even regard you and now see the insult.

Abeg girls, this mumu should end this January. Stop behaving like men are about to go into extinction. Men yapaa. Stop being men pleasers all in the name of 'I get boyfriend'. If a guy loves you, if na pure water you give am, he'll gladly collect. Highest he'll tell you to sit on his laps and both of you will drink the pure water in love together. Dont mind NwaAmaikpe.

Collect that watch and send to your granpa in the villa and he'll pray for a good husband that by the middle of this year,youll be dancing to the altar with your loving husband.
Leave all this chingum I feel alright boys you're messing around with.

Wise up.

Puregold3:
She said she just wanted to say HELLO... regretting

Skelewu:
I knew you would deny it is you. But I know what I know...

Since you have rejected my sincere prayer of marriage for you this year, It's okay, suit yourself.

Michellekabod2:
if after a year,a man has said nothing about marriage,walk away...cheating ain't the way

eni4real:
He is getting carried away by the help kindness and beauty!! His 'intelligent' wife-to-be!!!

The girl will notice his affection and seduce him more!!!

OP needs to be restored to a default setting!!!

He is trapped

eni4real:
Your comments tho I can't stop laughing here!!!

OP should get his priority right!!!

eni4real:
Respect the guy's Local Government na

Well, I don't think that girl needs Marriage, she needs help, something like financial assistance to boost her chance of getting back to school!!

You, of all people, know that it is not compulsory that you must date all your helpers!!!

OP should render assistance if he can... But he should stop linking it with Marriage!!

That is premature and make him sound like a desperate man!!!

Puregold3:
Yes he is...
� I really love him and i don't want to start regretting...