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Goddeywithme:
Good plan you have there. Thanks ma'am

One line in your comment caught my eye. You said he is a man who knows how to spoil his woman. And it seems you enjoy that. Which is excellent.

Just remember men like to be spoilt too (I know you have plans to do that).

You see, I am a man who loves and respects women as my equal. This has made me to enjoy the best of women. It has also meant I have no time for a woman who has entitlement mentality, who believes in equality of power but not equality of responsibilities. I believe women are equal to men, in power and in responsibilities.

From your past two comments, it seems to me you are a rare woman. You know what you want. You go for it. You treat men as your equal, in power and in responsibilities. THAT IS RARE. Kudos to you.

I hope young Nigerian ladies will learn from you. You are an inspiration.

Awww thanks dear
But I don't see my man as my equal. Nope, I see him as my head and someone to respect and cherish. Not my equal.. He's not. Even though we are agemates, and I'm from a royal background. I still humble myself and give him his due respect and I don't even have time to rub shoulders with him.
In my family, we've been taught a man is the head and should be respected as such. That's the values I grew up with.

Do you know when I made up my mind, no more broke or struggling guys, cos I have seen pepper and great deception in their hands!

it's either a rich humble guy with good character or no one . I rather remain single God, if I don't have such a man in my life.
So I started evolving my looks, my personality and my character.
Because I know rich guys want value for any money they plan to spend on their women.
So I made myself better in every way possible and also worked on my spiritual life.
I'm so pretty and so flashy now ehn? That both men, women , children stare at me when I stroll down anywhere.

I respect this man so much, he doesn't brag. If I mention the real amount of money he transferred to me, you all will scream and say I'm lying. Thats why I mentioned 100k. But it's extremely more than that. He's my last bus stop
I love money that's the truth about me and I thank God I'm not a lazy woman. I also thank God I have tasted how it feels dating a broke guy, a hustling guy and now a rich guy. It's good.

Another beautiful thing is that he's so humble and from my state again, which is so reassuring. There is this peace of mind when u date someone from your state. It's peaceful cos u know what to expect and u know the kind of person u are dealing with.

Sighs God try for me. It's good to be close to God.

All glory to God in making everything possible.

LINTUNE:
Must u fabricate stories..is it even possible for a woman to be that submissive to such man...don't lemme swear for u this night.

Swear o!

It will bounce back to you, because I'm saying the truth.

I wonder why you single guys find it hard to believe?

Anyways married me don't really divulge the sacrifices their wives go through for their sakes to single guys.

So I'm not surprised

Goddeywithme:
What was your Xmas gift for him please ma.

Hope it was as good as what he gave you ma.

If not.....

I thought of buying him a designer wristwatch but he has 5 expensive designer watches.
I thought of perfume, he has some collections of designer perfs. He even gave me two out of his collections .
Then he made a transfer of 100k for my Xmas celebration!
In a split second! I was like wow!

It's good to date a real man who knows the value of spoiling his love with gifts and money.

Hmm I'm thinking of gifting him designer shoes. Even though he made it clear, all he wants is my loyalty . That's all he needs from me.
And I solemnly swear I will be faithful

But I will still buy those pair of designer shoes next week and gift him. He deserves it.

I love her shape!

She looks so happy and relaxed, tell me why won't she age backwards?


That's one secret of youthful look. Be happy from within and watch how u glow naturally.


She's fine.

Mindfulness:
So you would also sleep with your ancestor and live in a polygamous marriage for money? Just curious.

Personally I cannot marry or date an old man, not for anything or any money

But I have a childhood friend, she's 35 married to a 90years old billionaire. The husband is still alive and their marriage is clocking 5years now. Although she was once a divorcee with 4 kids.

But me? I'm serious with a rich young chap, same age like mine. Very handsome dark looking guy, he's based in delta state and he's Isoko!
I'm no longer dating the igbo rich guy, due to irreconcilable differences.

My new bf ,a delta young millionaire , is just perfect for me. I don't waste time in relationship that doesn't head anywhere. Time is short for me.

So he simply blew me off my feet this festive season. Complete gentleman with great taste in his choice of food, drinks, interiors and lifestyle . He's so calm and quiet. He doesn't talk much . And when he makes a promise he fulfils immediately. No come tomorrow or don't you know I'm a salary earner

First time ever I'm dating and serious with a delta rich young guy.

And with my royal background, my company, my status in the society, he's so smitten with everything about me . That's why I said ladies keep working on your goals and self. Your right Prince will come your way.

I'm a living testimony.

ivolt:
I bet you love poverty?
Na jealousy go kill you.
You see, she is free from toxic boys who would only come online to ask what she has to offer them.
She doesn't have to put up with an insecure afa male.
She doesn't have to put up with losers who brand themselves red pillers.

Ned will never hate her.
He will never call her names for simply being a woman.
He would never set traps for her and brag about it.

Living in poverty and jumping from one partner to the other while crying in the process is not
a normal life.
Living in poverty is not an achievement.
Regina won a life lottery, she married a secure man.

God bless you, you will live long amen.

Don't mind those ones castigating her.

They truly love to be poor while Regina is touring round the world enjoying life and money in five stars Hotel .

ambassadorgozie:
how can we ascertain if its true?
you just wanna use it to score cheap points
smh

Maybe if I give you her Personal phone number and house address, then u can either call her on phone and ask her personally with a tape recorder if her husband has absconded or not.

I bet she will gladly invite you to her house ,entertain you and explain the full gist of what happened between her and husband.

Smhhhhhh

ambassadorgozie:
lies

The Pure truth from a reliable source.

I even know the woman sef.

[quote author=Raalsalghul post=85106847][/quote]Cat cut your tongue?





Mr fastest finger to insult.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. I don't know why this comment is making me to laugh but,women has been jaaing since 18 BC,so let a man jaa! for once. Jokes apart,this is a very wicked act. I don't support it when some men treat their good wife's bad.

As in ehn?

The lady has been the one taking care of her husband, hoping one day he will land a job. But job is not forthcoming . So she was like OK, my husband this is what I made today, assuming it's 100k, take 70k while I keep 30k.
That's how she's been running the home.
No-one suspected she's the one taking care of the home. And do u know the guy was always sleeping, she will. Leave him at-home, go hustle, she will come back at night still see him at the position she left him on the bed chatting. He will then say he's hungry o.

Most times she complains, she takes the kids to day care, come home tired and he will expect her to cook. She will still cook. But lo and behold ,he has other plans. He's gone.

Later men will say women don't hustle, women are lazy!

Really?

Anyways such men dont suceed in life, no matter where they run away to and no. Matter how much they steal from their trusting partner.

Marry a broke jobless man at your own peril!

News reaching me an hour ago

A young married lady who has the been carrying the family responsibilities for the past three years, when she collects her money clients pay her for her interior decorating biz, she usually give her jobless husband 70% while she keeps 30% for herself. All to make the man feel he's in control and still the head. Food, clothes, shoes, house rent, baby naming all on her neck.

Just last weekend, the husband has quietly parked out of their home in banana island, which she rented with her money not too long ago. He left his wife with his two kids and also cleared her 15million naira, which she has been keeping account of, everytime she gives him money from her business proceeds.
The plan was to build their dream home with it.

The husband is nowhere to be found with a his clothes, shoes and passport with her 15 million naira!!!

He don ja!

God abeg o!

Atikuorbuhari:
Lol...you vex oo...but it's really deep

Yes I vex!

And yes it's deep.

Y'all have time arguing this topic every day.. I swear una get time.

Ladies! Work on yourselves, hustle, make your money, upgrade your lives. And in the process of it, don't manage or suffer with any broke guy, cause broke guys are just there to use y'all.
When uv tushed up yourself, your character, your career to a certain level, rich matured guys will come your way, and beg to spend the rest of their lives with you. They will make you feel like the princess you are.

Forget story that guys no longer spend or take care of their responsibilities. Some do. Forget about anyone saying your age is going, that's story of the birds. If your don't over use your body and u take good care of yourself, u will always look young and adorable.
I'm in my 30s, I date only rich guys. Not yahoo. But correct rich guys who struggled and made it to the top. If any rich guy I date and his character is zero I break up, I don't have time to teach a grown man how to be husband material. If you are not husband material from the day u start wooing me, and after checking your character for like a week! then forget it. Because I'm 1000% wife material and Ive paid my dues accordingly.
My man is 1000% husband material as well. He spends, he balls hard and works hard. And he's so amiable. His wealth doesn't get to his head. He has already given me my Xmas gift, a lovely bank alert. That's the beauty of dating a rich understanding guy. But it took me many years, to meet someone like him and I was patient. And I'm still patient. I will never ever date or marry broke guy., God forbid! I will never even marry a rich arrogant man who doesn't respect me , God forbid as well! I jump them pass!

So if you are patient babes and work towards your goal, u will get the best of men. That's what I told my best friend. I told her, Alhaja I must marry the best of men out there. My husband must be It! If not I'm not marrying.
She replied, insha Allah God will do it, I replied in Jesus name Amen.

And that's the truth. I ain't settling for less!

Honeysweetest:
I understand u,but know there are men that derive pleasure only when is aggressive,mentally unstable people,and no rapist is a mental stable man.

That's where I'm hitting the nail. OK most are mentally unstable and they drive pleasure through aggression. Still similar to what I'm saying. Don't struggle. Don't be aggressive, so it won't trigger his excitement.
Confuse him by playing along and acting all loving and sexy. He will be confused. That's not what he's expecting.
He expects fear, then series of struggles, hitting, biting, scratching. Don't do any of it. When the victim is relaxed and plays along, he is thrown off balance in his mind, lowers his attack and make sure he's already lieing down on the bed or cushion or floor waiting for the sex of his life before the victim escapes. Because they are always calm and agreeing when the victim is calm and willing to play ball.

PrinceMajestic:
lol! Idiot ashawo. U supported him that men patronize him nd we shud do whatever to make money b4 age come knocking cus we live once so in that same idea of urs i wish u to have sons like him so that they will mak enuf money for u by gaying with gay politicians so y u cursing me in d name of ur gay jesus that spent all his life wit 12men no woman. I knew u christians re d most horrible pple in nigeria. U supportd d gay nd i wish u have sons like him then u start cursing in ur fake gay jesus name. Haha, go n kill urself as long as u've supported him, all ur sons will be as worse as him including all d males in ur family. It will happen to cus u supported d bastard gay but urs cant happen to me cus i didnt support d gay bastard nd ur jesus u cursed in his name is not in existens

Do you think I'm an hypocrite like you?

Lol

You will still go back and fucvk him. It's in you already.

Ekpa!

I can't stop smiling at the third pic.

Gangsta mom

She no wan gree

Too much money

meobizy:
Anybody who takes this advice as fact is ready to enter psychia in a few months time.

So you think but not true.

Not all women are bad and not all are too expensive to keep and maintain.

Anyways follow the kind of women that suit your style and leave the flashy ones for men who can afford to marry them.
At least not all men think like you.

At least he try and a good sizeable number of men will still patronise and fucvk him, clearing their banks accounts for him.

It seems his olosho work is paying off


Let him enjoy, we live life but once. He's trying in anal sex, thumbs up!

Do what you have to do ontime, before old age comes knocking. Time waits for no one.

Boringdraw1:
Can he maintain Nancy? The girl has high taste.

She's a woman and all women need their men to adore them and spend moderately.

So yes he can afford her. All it takes is love, understanding and communication.

JBoss25:
but what if the man overpowers you from the onset? Not all men will start with touches

They first grab with so much strength first. And try pin down the lady either on the bed or cushion. Immediately he grabs both hands or grabs the waist with strong hands. She should curb her fear and tell him, haba relax! U are feeling me shey?
Smile coyly and he will be shocked, as in she's not struggling, she's not trying free her hands but she's smiling and telling him to relax.
I want you too but didn't know how u will feel if I make the first move.
No need being rough or holding my hands. Let's have sex properly and I hope u can fucvk me very hard? He will be like hmm, are u sure or u are pretending jor! Then his hold will loosen abit.
She will reply pretend ke! Then try kiss him and whisper I want you.

All na acting.

He will relax and let go reluctantly but surely.

But if she struggles with his firm grip? It makes some crazy men, who are mentally unstable so excited and thrilled. It gives them more strength and naturally a man can overpower a woman easily.

So the best is don't struggle.

Romanoff:
There's this neighbour of mine that calls herself a "Semi widow".

She'd tell my mum who is a widow that " mummy, at least, you know where your husband is, you can point to his grave. My own husband only appears like Christmas and I don't see him again, no school fees, no house rent, no upkeep money, no be semi widow I be".

I always find it funny but it is true.

Lol @ at least you can point to his grave and know where he is. But the living one is semi dead man. Jesus!

And one wonders why ladies like me are wary of getting married.

Some men no try @ all!!!!
Chai!

The actress eyes is filled with so many shed tears and regrets .

God abeg o!

jakandeola:
I nearly cried reading d story I now see why some women attack men.why rape a girl if not wickedness. I feel sad for d girl

As in, I read the story and Im still fuming with anger!

Some men are so terrible and wicked, and it's not stamped on their forehead.

I was almost raped in my office by someone I trust
I was almost raped in my home again by another guy I trusted
I was almost raped another period when I trusted a guy whose my friend at his place.

It was just God that gave my ideas on how to tackle sticky situations like that.

Since those different periods, I don't invite any man to my home except he's my bf. I don't invite any man to my office during close hours. I don't visit any man, I don't want to date, not even if he's a friend. No visit anymore.
I always lock my doors when I'm home or alone in the office.
I'm always security conscious. And I don't walk alone at night or on only path ways. I'm home, all doors and burglary are locked up by 7pm except I'm going on a date with bf.

So please ladies, also u can do the extreme by grabbing his balls, smile and massage it to make him lie Down while you pull off his trousers and shirt, and u are full dressed o. Then as he is lied Down waiting for the Mouth Action of his moraffuckin miserable life. Tell him u want to remove your own dress so u can balance well and suck him like he has never been sucked before. You will give him the bj of his life and u are a Pro!

The animal will be so happy, lie down on the bed naked waiting for u to UnCloth and quickly fiaaaam! Run!!!!!!!!. I repeat Run!!!


He won't be able to chase u outside with his naked body and dick dangling like a reptile.

Mehn! Babes u all have to be wise and sharp.

I pray he rots in jail! Amen!

Ladies how to escape from a rapist house or room.

First, assuming you are the sales girl and Oga ushered you into his room. Then starts touching you, don't fight him, don't say ha!. Don't hit his hands away.
Let your Brain quickly start working. Smile at him and say Oga, u sef? And giggle then if he grabs u around the waist and say girl I'm hot for you since the day u came to my shop to work, I can't bear it anymore, please lemme have you.
Tap him on his shoulder and say calm down. Relax, I don't like to rush sex. I want you too but u need to calm down, so both of us can enjoy it.
Lemme remove my dress , and panty, then kiss him and withdraw and smile again. Cmon let's do this well. I will fucvk your brains out, I'm very good. Just take it easy.

The useless Oga will be so excited, he will ask are u sure u won't run?
U hit your chest and say run ke? Oga I'm in love with you! I want u too, lemme pull off. He will release his grip from you while he smiles in excitement waiting to be fuckved! Ode oshi!

Immediately he loosened his grip , step back abit, pretend u want to unzip your blouse or gown and with all your energy in your body, I say : Pick raise! Run! !! Like your life depends on it! Straight to the door! Open it and just keep running, don't stop!


Then assuming the door is locked and he kept the keys in his pocket. Run straight to the bathroom! And lock the door! Don't ever Open the door. Then climb the toilet seat, Open the small window and scream with all your voice that Oga Ken wants to kill you o! People should come o! He is about killing you! People should come o! Please help me o! He's holding a knife at the door, help o!

My dear people will rush and come to your aid. Break his doors and rescue you.


Let your brains starting working from henceforth, don't trust men easily! I repeat don't trust easily especially if u are alone with them. Guard yourself! Use your brain , legs and eyes for quick movement.

Too much enjoyment.

I'm sure, he was high when driving.

Anyways rip.

Chuukwudi:
I sincerely hope that my prayers get answered just like yours. I want to be done with the expect of my life that consists of finding a spouse. I want to find her so I can focus on other things like career and other things.

Time will tell. Let's watch and see.

Thank you once more for your kind words. It shows that you really understand how it feels to be treated in such a way.

Awww, you are welcome dear.

And God will do yours and give you peace of mind concerning those aspects u worry about in your life . No matter how long or short the journey in seeking the right woman meant for you takes, God will fulfil His promises in your life. God has never failed me, since I held onto Him and He won't fail you too in Jesus name ,amen.
I'm so happy this morning. Thank you Jesus.

StagethemTVee:
Any man asking a woman to shut down her dream and passion is undeserving of her. Real men support their wife's aspirations and versa.

God bless you.

You will live long and fulfil the role of a real man in your wife's life and your wife will not dissapoint you in Jesus name Amen

You are a good man.

Riele:
They won't see this one to tag him bitter .

But if it's a lady , you'll see them crawling out of their hole to tag her bitter feminist .

Dont mind nairaland men.

E dey their body.

I use to wash my mom's clothes and wrappers but she had never given me her pant to wash since I was born till date. I don't even know how it looks like sef.

She washes her pants while bathing, I guess?

Chuukwudi:
Thanks dear. I find your response very comforting! It's not easy though. I'll try.

I know it's not easy.

I was once in your shoes as a lady too.
I felt heartbroken, I knew the guy I was in love with back then, only need me as a friend. And he has everything I desire in a husband. We became friends, cause that's what he want.
Do you know his kind of woman he loves, is a matured maybe same age or lil bit older than him but she must be dark, with a masculine tall frame body. There are ladies with such shapes. That's the kind of lady he falls in love with.

Not my kind of feminine, baby faced, Chinese plump look. Lol

When I got know through the lady he started dating after we met, I was sad but I accepted my fate and moved on. He's married to her now. When u truly love someone, and they are not on the same page with you? Allow them to go peacefully .

Later your own will come. Do you know the guy I'm now dating and who shares the same dream and thought process with me is dark from delta state. I thought in my wildest dream, I will. Never date or take a delta man serious but lo and behold, he's 1000% husband material. And funny he looks like my late brother best friend They look so much alike and he behaves like my late brother and they operate the same occupation.
Can u imagine?
He has sacrificed what so many men who came my way could not sacrificed .
I'm so overwhelmed with emotions that I have even forgotten about the guy I wanted to be with before sef. I call him my angel, cause he's indeed an angel.

God is great o! When u think its over and u won't be able to meet the one meant for u anymore. God will just make them stroll towards u with a smile.

Ha! God I will. Serve you forever!!!! Ti ti lai lai!!!!

So my friend be cheerful. The best is about to come your way.

Chuukwudi:
Bruder! I am in exact same situation as you are. Except that I know the reason for her saying no to me.

I'm a Grail Adherent (if you know what that means) while she is a staunch Church person. We are age mates too.

She knows I'm about travelling too yet she says no to me.

It's painful Bruder.

I feel like leaning on your shoulders let's cry together and summon up the courage to dump them once and for all..

But she's too good. I can't leave her still. Maybe distance will help us detach. That's where I've placed it.

Eeyah

I understand the feeling . Such is life but don't worry. You and op will end up falling in love with another women who truly loves both of u back.
If you only u guys can let go of these ones u have right now.

Your gf only see u as her last resolution in case the kind of man she wants doesn't show up. That's the honest truth. Her last bus stop, just incase.
There is no romantic feelings in their hearts towards u and op, that's why they can afford to be friends for so long and not having a care in the world if there is intimacy or not.

And if make the mistake of marrying her, mehn u guys will suffer in marriage. It's not swear o! But real fact.

But the good news is this, as u guys travel out. You will meet women whose character u cherish in a woman. She could be white, she could be African or Nigerian. But trust me u will meet that one woman who will make you guys feel happy and content once again.

So don't cry! Be hopeful and relaxed. Una own will reach una hand.

There is man for every woman. And there is a woman for every man. Be calm and leave it to destiny.

freecocoahubby:
To be honest I blame these jobless housewives who litter nairaland with useless threads.. it's like they derive pleasure from watching bitter feminists ridicule their home, spouse and marriage - anyway, what's my own sef

Don't blame the jobless housewives.

That's what u get, if you refuse your wife to work and have something tangible doing with her time and brain. Every dick and Harry will hear their matter outside.

She will have enough time to step on toes, quarrel and table everything going on to people.

So don't blame them. They are confused on how to handle extended fmale family members who are also jobless but ready to cause strife wherever they go.


Anyway op try make peace with everyone. Fights, bickering, quarrels, anger does not yield anything good. That's all I can advise. They are his sisters, you can't drive them away.

It's either you make peace or you kill his sisters

Choose one!