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Richdad50:

Dear Vicki,
A good, loving, and caring husband is a woman's best shot at graceful aging but a wicked hubby shortens her life and beauty span.

You are right.

Toks2008:
He chose polygamy. Single Women sef too much..make the guy help reduce the number abeg.

Na so

kay29000:
Lol. I was just kidding na

OK o

Toks2008:
He is still married to the second lady Vicky.

Wow!


Na WA o


And he's about to marry the third one

Hmmmmm

kay29000:
You feel like kissing her lips?

Ha!


Kiss loun loun.

Abeg o! I'm not a lesbian biko


Don't read meaning, to simple compliments. It's unnecessary .

I complimented her, that's all.. Nothing there.

She's pretty
She has sexy lips.

Let him keep changing and marrying different beauties of women upandan.

What's my own

1Sharon:
You've missed the point

Oh, OK what's the point?

Joro is right and that's why there are increase rate of divorces these days.

Most rich ladies or ladies from rich homes are not ready to be submissive to theirs husbands. Only 3 out of 10 rich ladies are somehow submissive to an extent. Her family too won't rest the man marrying their daughter, because they all know he came to dig gold , a bloody good digger and wants to live an easy life off their daughter and their names in the society.
I know of one like that He married his wife because she came from a very rich home and he was awe by her parents house, even he's comfortable on his own o. But he was ready to do anything it takes to marry her and he did.
The parents and the wife showed him pepper! Insulted him and disgraced him. In his own home. Saying he's less of a man. The MIL even slapped him lol

He's divorced now Back to square one.
Lol

So guys make una dey look for Rich Ladies that will foot your bills for life. You all , with your egos, Will still Come back to square one , either become fed-up of women, end up as singlr dads or marry an average lady who is a wife material. They no dey tell person twice. Experience is the best teacher.

And when women know u are a divorced man, it makes everything about u, unappealing and different questions keep popping up, as in why? Why? Why?

niaralandtopuser:
I don't know her. this is my first time of chatting with her on nairaland and I don't like Long distance relationship.
I thought you wanted to hook her up with someone that is why you asked her to leave her bf

Oh! You thought I wanted to hook her up with someone and that someone u also thought is with my bf.

Hmmmmmm interesting. I like this your thought process o!

You don't know her
You don't know me
You don't know my bf
But

U just thought out of the blues, I should share my man with her, nice one.

Well let this same thoughts go a little bit further for her, as you are so concerned about her, and you can offer her any friend u have where she's based. Or if possible log into a match make dating site with someone and search for any guy around her region. At least your thoughts can extend to that level.
Then chat her up, that you've gotten a new guy for her.

It's very simple.

When one has peace of mind all around , they always look young and at peace. It's not about beauty but total peace of mind.

And so?

We will all age, grow very old and wrinkled on day. It's just a matter of time.


People sef.

One cannot age gracefully in peace again. Smhhhh

niaralandtopuser:
does she know him? you can hook her up with him

I don't know her. I don't know u either. Both of you are complete strangers to me and bf. So I wonder where u got your idea that she wants my bf. She didn't tell me so

Are u not a man? You dey forbid to date her?

Hookup with her. Since u know her

Budline1:
You are very right. That could probably be the case. I'm aware of a similar occurrence. The man even has his own house but he owed a lot of ppl, he took his life because he believed he couldn't pay them back again.

That's it. They realise they can't pay back and the interest is increasing monthly


I will never borrow money to travel abroad or open biz. Worst mistake ever.

He must have borrowed funds to travel and as he's back, his creditors are breathing down his neck. They don't want to know why he was deported, just give them their money. Such thoughts and pressure can make one have heart attack, or commit suicide.

Rip young man.

purples25:
thanks babe.

You are welcome dear

sweerychick:
I've thought about locking her up, but my sis guy said we should ignore her, let's not go to that extent

I wonder.

Just ignore her and continue with your sister's marriage.

Una get time sef.

Locking her up is pure waste of time, she will simply tell more lies and embarrass you all there. At the end Police won't lock her up.

Una really get time, I swear.

niaralandtopuser:
will you share your boyfriend with her?

Does she want my boyfriend?

purples25:
i got unhappy cuz i would have been okay with just calls and texts and a little attention but nope. And i brought my money so he would know that i wasn't after being over spent on. Though i hoped that would make him lax to just spend very little without feeling robbed or cheated. I would've been okay with a park where you enter for free, walk round come out. I just wanted us to do simple things as a couple.

i reacted due to the reasons above though. Now i am there but i am not there - dont try to understand it, cuz you wont. Anyway, not bringing money? Make sure you bring other things.

He's not in love and he's not on the same page with you.

Move on jare ,dust yourself and forget the guy. He doesn't deserve you. Simply put

purples25:
yeah thats why i want everyone to have their money. Honestly, any money a woman gets from any person asides her family always invites degradation, control or insults. I wish we can all have our own money so that no guy will treat a lady as if she's not someones daughter - just cuz of some money which he wasn't forced to bring.

My dear not all guys treat ladies like that.

It's unfortunate u met the kind of guys who can wail one a river just to give a treat to their babe . They prefer to date a baby who will come ,drink only one sachet of pure water, then fuckkkk the living daylights out of her until she starts emaciating and looking a ghost!

And I bet you, they will still fucvk the ghost.

Relax, soon a better guy who knows his onions will come your way. Just keep retushing and packaging yourself and worth. That's all

niaralandtopuser:
not everyone should have a companion. God should have created same number of men and women if that was his aim.
we all know the kneeling down by a Nigerian man is just formality. we don't even understand what we are doing. we just dea copy oyibo

Lol but even it's copy copy, with the billions of naira, they still did it.

And many more will still kneel down and beg woman to marry them.

Including you. But as a faceless forum u will be forming jagaban.

I bet you will beg your gf for sex this night!

niaralandtopuser:
with all your money you will still open the hole for Mr he

Too many kids in this thread.

If she doesnt open the hole for Mr He, how will she have a companion.

Do u think life is just work work work and nothing else?

With Davido and his elder brother massive wealth. They still. Knelt down in front of a woman and beg her hand in marriage.

Life is not all about work 24/7 son

Better she is now cut loose 2 continue her business from where she stopped.



If you know, you know

Haryoureendey4:
u better marry him if u are still single and if he's also yet to get married

I would have love to, I even proposed to him, heheheheheheheheh cos he never says no, whenever I ask for money. Na pounds straight up!
I'm really surprised about him. His kind, I never see And we've not met, and we have no plans of meeting each other.

Well he simply wants us as online best of friends. It's cool anyways and we both laugh it off, when I stylishly said its seem I'm the one u will marry o.

I think hes determined to marry a gurl in the UK, that's where he's based.

While I have recently shifted my heart to a nice cool younger man here in Lagos, who has a great biz and generous with funds as well . This one shuttles US and naija and my new man is based here. We even look alike.. Lol. It's all good jare. God knows best.

It's not all helpers we are destined or suppose to marry. Some are simply angels sent from above in human skin.. to soften our rough paths for us.

Haryoureendey4:
u better marry him if u are still single and if he's also yet to get married

I would have love to, I even proposed to him, heheheheheheheheh but he simply wants us as online best of friends. It's cool anyways and we both laugh it off.

I think hes determined to marry a gurl in the UK, that's where he's based.

While I have recently shifted my heart to a nice cool younger man here in Lagos, who had a great biz and generous with funds as well .

It's not all helpers we are destined or suppose to marry. Some are simply angels sent from above in human skin.. to soften our rough paths for us.

She's so fine.

She dey try, keeping fit and frosh.

She try

This lady have sense. She's getting married with dignity.

That's it.

End of story.

ufotty2001:
That woman beside chioma!! Her mind is telling her " I wish my husband is davido I wouldn't have been passing through all these family problems "

Such is life sometimes.

A married woman envying a woman who's yet to be wedded to the father of her son.


Inside life.

Marriage is not for the feeble mind.

I rest my case.

kikuyu1:
This! Sis,you're wise:the thing is its not just envy but a deep misunderstanding of the way the world works! In their under-exposed,-educated mentality its a zero sum game,ie you have because they do not. There's only a finite amount to go around so your possessions no matter how acquired explain their own lack.
You can help them for years but will only hear ingratitude and more increasingly loud demands! I've been shot at thrice and missed by strangers and sabotaged by poor friends and acquaintances and long ago made a pact with myself-he who sabotages me in any way or steals and/or takes mine will pay at risk of collateral damage to his loved ones,life is too short to struggle with haters! Let me just say I've done terrible things to my haters you can't imagine! There's no other way-until and unless they pay for their crimes they'll never stop-appealing to their conscience,discussions and prayer meetings are like talking to a tree. Take your justice/revenge/retribution and stay silent. Be happy that the poor hater has learned a lesson and protect yourself 24/7.
Rmbr,what Mike Tyson that most misunderstood Black Man once said:"as hard as you work people are working just as hard if not harder to take your money ".

Wow!

Phew! That's huge. It's a pity u had to go through being shot at. It's crazy.

Of course people are working harder to take what u have . That's where being careful comes into play.
Don't allow just anyone into your home. Help from a distance but don't bring the help home. That's my motto in helping.

May God help us all. Our being helpful won't take our lives in Jesus name Amen.