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 Travel › Re: Share Your Nigeria To Abroad Stories Here by victorian(f): 6:07pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
charlesELIKIBA:Huncle, my friend is not a scammer, nor into drugs He traveled to the UK, got his visa through British embassy. And works in a factory. He doesn't have fleet of car to flaunt ! he's got no dollars to flaunt!, his apartment is so simple and neat. So why call him. Fraud?  And thank God for the last thing u typed. Do u know Infrastructure and basic needs will make most Nigerians live longer and not commit suicide at every sight of despair. If electrical bills is not tampered with and skyrocketed by phcn officials whenever there is light, don't u think it will also make businesses survive longer and flourish? That's even if there is even light sef. Light or no light, officials are slamming one with 20k bill a month! But since I started using prepaid with my neighbor, with just 5k card, I use it for close to 6months! Yes 6months! But with analog reading? They've billed one 25k or even 30k we've abandoned analog because phcn was bringing consistent bill of N20k, in one year, they claimed we've consumed N240k!!!! Mind you, no one has been using the light for the past one year! When I got back from my trip, I simply dumped the analog meter stuff and moved to prepaid. With prepaid I only buy card of 10k and I use till one year!!!!!!! Those bloody pchn thieves! No wonder they don't want to distribute prepaid meter all over Lagos!  We Nigerians are the cause of our problems! Stealing from ourselves and making life unbearable. Smhhh Later we will blame government. As if na another breed of human being dey that government house! There are so many instances. If I say it here ehn? Honestly u will hide your face in shame! Anyways I don't have time to argue with you. Nigerians abroad if una like come back. You guys will run back abroad with frustration ,completely broke! and in a depressed state of mind within 2months! Those who have ears let them ear I'm. Done with this topic! 15 Likes |
| Travel › Re: Share Your Nigeria To Abroad Stories Here by victorian(f): 4:32pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Preetychina22:I don't jump into conclusions . I mention more about the life here in Nigeria, how some Nigerians can deliberately hold down money meant to be paid for services rendered. Whether it makes them happy the service render is always asking for his or her balance I don't even know. Or companies withholding salaries. I know of one next to my office. They owe this new secretary money after like two months, she couldn't bear the suffering anymore, she had to arrest the manager of the company and file a report at the police station. Police came, sealed up the office and invited the manager to the station, cause the OgA has traveled and not always around. Mehn, they paid her money in full before the gate of the company was opened up again. She is one lady who didn't take rubbish from her employers, because the company is known to always place advert on Guardian, people with suits and tie will queue up there during interview, not knowing the company only uses people. For a month or so, then only the employee will leave by himself. It's that bad. So I'm talking of what I know Then I have a friend living abroad, before he left naija, he was suffering Even though he has a job. When he travelled and started a job abroad. Come and see this guy now, we always video chat. He looks so frosh and fine, I almost proposed to him. Not too long ago, he recorded himself suited up and dancing on his whatsapp status. He looked so happy, robust, dancing and singing . I was like wow! I was forced to pray for him through whatsapp call., that his joy will never be cut off! His joy will be complete sooner than he expect in Jesus name. I was so happy in my spirit seeing him very happy and robust unlike when he was in naija. As in that's when I realised Nigeria is hell fire! Na hell fire ooooo! I will scream it loud for all to hear, if it's possible to scream online sef Nigerians abroad don't believe the lies. Some people say here o! It's terrible here, except u know God that's when ones path can be soft and rosy. That's for me anyways. I have said my own o 20 Likes 2 Shares |
| Travel › Re: Share Your Nigeria To Abroad Stories Here by victorian(f): 3:10pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
spiceadole:My dear, you and hubby will enjoy so much over there with your kids. Nigeria is hell fire on its own, I tell you. If not for God's grace and prayers every week! coupled with my talents. I would have become a shadow of myself. Sighs that's why I will serve God forever and ever. 6 Likes |
| Travel › Re: Share Your Nigeria To Abroad Stories Here by victorian(f): 2:53pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
iCauseTrouble:It's not easy truly over there. But abroad, u work hard, get paid well or averagely depending on your skills and enjoy your money in peace and harmony with better saving for account While in nigeria, u work your assz of for peanuts. If it's biz u own, it's either u are struggling with your clients to pay their balance and running after them upandan to pay up or Put them for serious prayer and fasting make God touch their mind not to be deliberately wicked and hold down your money or God should open financial doors for them and they pay up.  . Mean it's that bad. Or you work for a company and don't get paid at the end of some months. Nigeria can be that frustrating to people who are skilled and know what they are doing to satisfy customers wants and desires. Abeg it's better working abroad than to come back, struggle and still suffer another round of suffering before one is paid peanuts! 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by victorian(f): 9:44am On Nov 08, 2019*. Modified: 10:22am On Nov 08, 2019 |
Pappy2000, from the depth of my heart and for everything I hold dear in this life, I take God beg you, don't go ahead with the wedding. Calculate how much her sister and your fiancee has spent on you and your uber biz. Calculate it to the last kobo, even add 10k untop and call a family meeting with your family and her family present. Tell them, u will refund their money back in the next year or two years, when u feel u are certain u will be able to pay them. And be firm about it. Let no one plead or start crying, if your fiance starts crying or pretend to faint, please stand up and walk out of the meeting. Before you walk out drop the list of amount u will refund on their table. Make sure u sign and date it at the end of the total number area. Then call your parents, please let's go. If they refuse to follow you? Leave them there! This is time for a military action on your spouse and her family. Especially the bride. And let them know u will foot the bills of the pregnancy, and even after she gives birth but u cannot marry her. I repeat u cannot marry her! Because your peace of mind and mental health is at stake here. Do you know my late brother died because of pressure from his fiancee, due to the pressure he invested all his money in a biz that's meant to give him so much profit after a period of time. Calculating how he will meet up with the date and marry her. Before he used to be careful and wise with investing of funds but because of her pressure he invested all his life savings. Lo and behold he lost everything and had stroke! The useless girl left him, just on the first day she help me to sleep in the hospital. Just that first day she slept and watched him for me, she broke up with him the next day on his sick bed, saying she can't marry him anymore and she can't wait till when he gets better. And I warned him when he was dating her, this one is not wife material. She's not good for a wife, he almost fought me because I warned him to stay clear from her. I was like so woman for make u fight me! Your only sister! It's alright, go ahead with the wedding. I will be here and u will come and meet me when your eyes clear. I met my stroke stricken brother crying when I came back from work to take over from her, but I didn't meet her there. I looked at him and said shebi I warned u, I warned you but u no dey hear word. I know a good woman when I interact with her and I know a bad woman too but u didn't listen. Even our late mum didn't like her as well. But all these warning didn't deter him, he went ahead and started planning his wedding with her. Can u imagine!!!! A useless girl pressurizing him to marry, she no give am breathing space, now she has caused him to have stroke and left him! He died after three years of trying to get him back on his feet. Which also left me completely broke ,in huge debts And shattered ! Due to his treatments and all. Everyone deserted him, except me. I was thrown from Grace and success to Lack and Poverty. I can't watch my only brother and leave him. So I use God beg you! Don't marry under pressure! I repeat don't marry when your mind is no longer in love with her. Don't do it. Your life is at stake here! I'm a woman and yes I'm saying this! Any man who pressurises me to marry I will cut him off! Likewise I won't pressure any man to marry me. I hate stress with a great passion. I hate it like mad!!!!! May God help u to stand on your feet and protect yourself from that woman, u call fiancee. 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Celebrities › Re: Kim Kardashian Flaunts Her Infamous Curves In A Leather-denim Jumpsuit At Event by victorian(f): 10:18pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Lovely denim outfit. I love it |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To This Guy (photos) by victorian(f): 10:09pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
justtoodark:Lol Thanks Bros. Goodnight.. Gats 2 go. |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To This Guy (photos) by victorian(f): 10:01pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
justtoodark:God Abeg o I'm tired Bros. I will marry only one man not two not three or several. End of interview biko
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| Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To This Guy (photos) by victorian(f): 9:49pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
justtoodark:Hian? I didn't say I don't like black people. Where did u read such. I like all colours of people. I don't discriminate, Pls. As long as a human being is good, I like such person.. I have dark and fair female and male friends. My Man is fair does not mean I should hang around only fair people. He's the only one who shows passionately and consistently that he needs me in his life and I accept. I be with who's good looking, doing OK careerwise and determined to have me. He will always say, he chose me. I didn't choose him. That's why he's determined to stay. I will reply OK cool  Las las I don't discriminate. |
| Romance › Re: Why Nigerian Women Are Mostly Single by victorian(f): 9:41pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
ornicus:Lol As in ehn? I'm lost Here. I never imagined the real world is like this o! The Op is enjoying o! 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To This Guy (photos) by victorian(f): 9:28pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
justtoodark:Nothing is real. Even though it looks real, until wedding day. Before I can beat my chest and say I'm ending up with my fair Bobo. He's assured me though but until then. That's why I said whosoever I marry, one of my kid will look me. Im certain about it. And if it's him? Our kids will be very fair and fine  |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To This Guy (photos) by victorian(f): 8:56pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
justtoodark:Yea I would love them to look moi! Well if all things go well, I'm dating a fair guy at this moment. One of the reasons he says why he's dating me, is he wants his kids to be fair and pretty like me. He doesn't like dark kids. Lol. But for me, kid Na kid. But one must look like me. So hopefully if we get married? Our kids will be fair. If not? If I end up marrying a black guy? I know at least one of My kids must look like me. I know that from the depths of my heart. I can feel it sef, no matter the colour of the guy I end up with. I will have a mini me. God owe me that favour. God Himself knows |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To This Guy (photos) by victorian(f): 8:43pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
justtoodark:Yea. Very painful and heartwrenching one. Story for another day. |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To This Guy (photos) by victorian(f): 8:36pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
justtoodark:Yes. Although I use to look like them when I was lil They don't have sincere love to share, even when I stretched out my hands of love and affection towards them. But after our parents demise , it's only Fake lip service they have to offer. One of my step brother warned me about the fake love Coming from my dad family side. I didn't want to believe back then. But later I saw it live and direct When my late only bro needed everyone of us most at his dying period . They didn't dissapoint ,they showed their true color. It was painful and a great shock when I realised. After my only Brother demise, if I had funds to change my face back then I would have done it. But God changed my face by Himself . And I look like Chinese, Abi Korean. Smiles it's good. So yes, I'm so happy, I look different from them. Thank God I have God, I'm not at their mercy and I'm doing well on my own! Before I use to care about it but not anymore. That door is shut. Thank God they are doing well too. All man for himself Bro! All man for himself. Let everyone bear his or her mama name. |
| Family › Re: I'm Struggling With Love In My Marriage by victorian(f): 8:22pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Almaigaa:But he married her as a Virgin nah How can she then be loose woman? Shebi men says virgin women are the best to marry, so why criticize her so hard as she's not experiencing love in Her marriage? And want out. All I see is a selfish husband, who feels marrying a virgin wife will make his wife not request any emotional and extra care and loving in a marriage. Such men expect such women to be robots in marriage. Well news flash, a virgin lady When disvirgined becomes a typical woman who wants all the works in romance, care and love. Nature cannot be cheated. The Op feels empty in Her marriage. No spark, no feeling, No emotional care, simply nothing. Soon she will divorce her husband when she meets a passionate loving man out there. It's only inevitable. Clock is ticking. |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To This Guy (photos) by victorian(f): 7:56pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
justtoodark:I think why I look the way I look, very fair with some specific features, I'm not cool with my late dad's people. I don't want to look like them. Im not comfortable with their mindset. Too controlling for my liking and they like to compete and compare. I don't have the patience for such attitude. I just want to live a free life, without envy and competition from family. I don't need it. Sighs I just thank God, I look different from them. And they say it sometimes and it's good like that. I'm at peace , they are all different from me. I'm the odd one out, which is perfect by me. My cousins do ask their dads and mums, if my mom is white Or if I reside abroad. One even asked me one on one, same question . I laughed and said nope, I'm based in Lagos and he was like wow! And you so different, I said Yup! It's God. |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To This Guy (photos) by victorian(f): 7:49pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Oma307:Thanks on the compliment. I'm plain because I dont have the patience or time to pretend and play games it's annoying even to myself ! Likewise I find it annoying also when some guys are evasive. If as a guy u are evasive, I quickly cut off and close his chapter,no time. And life is too short, I want to enjoy it to the fullest in being real. No time jare. |
| Romance › Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by victorian(f): 7:42pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
truthsayer009:Yup As a human being, it's good to be adored by people of the opposite sex. Then later choose one. Who cares if you are labelled as a player? We talking of your happiness here 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To This Guy (photos) by victorian(f): 7:33pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
justtoodark:Lol It was a friend of mine who saw me for the first time face to face, and asked wow! I look better live and am I half cast? I smiled and said nope. But white looks run In my mum family, he said then I'm Quarter cast I asked whats quarter cast? He said if my grandma or great grand mum is white, so it means I'm quarter cast. Lol. I was like maybe? I don't remember how my granny looks like. So quarter cast stuck in my head. |
| Celebrities › Re: Nollywood Actress Nkechi Blessing Twerking, Slaps Butt On Movie Set (Pics, Vid) by victorian(f): 6:48pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
She's not fluid enough to even twerk well sef! She should travel to the US and see how babes with huge fufu, twerks! 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To This Guy (photos) by victorian(f): 6:28pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
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| Business › Re: How Do I Raise Fund For My New Business? by victorian(f): 3:03pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
adaperry25:Forget investors.. No investor anywhere. Except your parents. Anyone coming as investor will want to get you laid and they still won't invest. |
| Business › Re: How Do I Raise Fund For My New Business? by victorian(f): 2:59pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
obillyj:Sell your idea to your mum or dad, those are the only two people that will trust and invest in your business proposal without ulterior motives. Any other person would want to take advantage of you, as you are a female. They will promise, make it look like they believe in your ideas but all they want is to have sex with you in the guise of sponsoring your business proposal even if they will have any percentage in it. They don't care. All they are gunning for is your pussy. Forget Tony elumelu, that's a pure waste of time and effort. So stick with your parents. Then get a job by the side and save, then start small. With time. U will grow if u are consistent and focused on growing. |
| Business › Re: How Do I Raise Fund For My New Business? by victorian(f): 2:59pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
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| Romance › Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by victorian(f): 2:16pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
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| Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To This Guy (photos) by victorian(f): 2:14pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
justtoodark:I'm quarter cast. It runs in my mum's family. |
| Romance › Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by victorian(f): 11:58pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
obembet:Eeyah I understand how u feel, sighs. That's life. But the beautiful thing is this : he's never meant to be yours. And if he had date you out of pity or out of Lemme not break her heart. My dear he will. Still break your heart in the worst ways u can ever imagine. Assuming he accepts your love and date you, don't you know u will be the one dating yourself in the relationship because he won't love you like the way another man who is inlove with you will love and cherish you. Then along the line frustration and hatred sets in from you to him. The love u once felt will become hatred, las las divorce enters. So it's better to end his chapter in your mind. Stop contacting him , even as a friend. Open your heart to other men out there whom are so ready to love and adore. When u open your heart, u will definitely love someone whom u find attractive but loves u so much. That's the way I handled the man I once loved. I closed his chapter and soaked my self in lives of men who were wooing ,but I didn't really get close. But I allowed myself to be adored by other men. Let them adore me and pamper me, then I looked at all of them in my mind remembering how they all behave trying to make me fall inlove , then I said to myself Victorian, Men truly love you forget that one who's confused and don't know what he wants in life He has chose his path, so bye bye to him. I won't look back anymore! It's over! Choose one of these men , open your heart to love and accept him back. Las las u will be fine. But pray about it , so u don't get heartbroken later Don't worry jare This is just a phase. You will be happy and in love later with someonelse. That's just phases of life we go through. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Traditional Wedding Photos Of Lynda Ebigwei And South African Husband by victorian(f): 11:24pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
kestolove95:And so? Is it your gold? Is he complaining? Smhhhhhhhh. Better don't go look for your own gold to dig . Hypocrite! 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To This Guy (photos) by victorian(f): 11:10pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
macho44:Hmmmm OK o 1 Like |
| Celebrities › Re: Fans Gift CeeC A New Office On Her 27th Birthday by victorian(f): 5:48pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Solomon8144:But Pastor Udumej posted online with pictures of stacks of 4million naira, he wants to gift the victims. He said he has gifted them naw? Then back to CeeC, she's deceiving herself. Na audio office she launched with her fans. 1 Like |
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