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somalianprince:
Sex transaction gone wrong.

Mercy definitely tried to play smart with people that made it possible for her to win BBN. She has to pay in kind or they will rubbish her even the more.

That's one deal, she can't argue with.

Sex must be involved.

Smhhhh

partnerbizn5:
If you like last for 2 years.

If your account balance no last you go know.
Tonto needs money for more surgeries..


lol

You wicked o!


But u are so right!

He think say sex Na Tonto problem. Lol

She needs more money as the air she breathes.

He Neva know anything yet

He's a fucvkboi, hoping to use Tonto 2 become popular and leverage on his career.

slam7000:
Do you think they got invited just like that? Otedola would have donated a handsome amount of pounds sterling to the ‘Save the children’ charity. You think say the royals no de chop bribe? If you want to eat at one corner of their tables, you’ll pay.

Btw, where are the Royals. Where are the host? Ms Florence has complex issues. The card display and the photos seemed like someone taking photo in front of the White House.

The Royals might have disappeared because they didn’t want some awkward moments later.

Don't mind them

Only them dey snap pics in a decorated room, claiming its Buckingham Palace. No hostess, not even the face of the Queen's Butler behind them at least.

Lol, Nigerians shaaaaa

Her eyes never still clear yet.

She had better stop being desperate or else men will use and use and use her to their satisfaction.

Lol.

Better be calm!

Such a handsome dark boy.

Carbon2Oxide:
Hehehe! Even if the guy has incomplete set of teeth, she must love ni o

Lol!


Well it depends

Incomplete set of teeth can be fixed nah. It's all about understanding

Carbon2Oxide:
That fall in love part got me

OP must fall in love kia kia

Hehehehehehehehe

You are funny!


But Yes o!

Emergency love is allowed in this case.

She must love o!

Very crucial at this level.

Desperate times calls for desperate measures.

nlPoster:
Op did you check any of the links at all to see if at least one is workable?

https://globalfreeloaders.com/memberlocations.php?city=lagos&code=NI-05-1675833

https://erasmusu.com/en/erasmus-lagos/roommate

Oh that.

Well If she has the money, she can contact them.

nlPoster:

What is it?


Why the frown?

Nobody is ready to help her, at least church can!

So why frown?

Carbon2Oxide:
lol..

Hmmmm, Why are u laughing?

Did I say anything funny?

Antoniosmile:
Thanks sis.

I think I'll have to follow this advice at a point, if all seems not to be forthcoming or I'll just have to stay back in Benin

You are welcome dear

I'm trying to be realistic as I can be

The white garment Church will help.

If you are a good person, they won't turn u down and they will even help in other spiritual aspect of your life that needs prayers as well.

So it's a win win situation.

After work, search for a white garment church in that area on the island and do your findings and be ready to be humble to the people u meet there. Ask of the Alagba and open up to him Or her.

Church is your best bet In this situation.

Carbon2Oxide:
Good idea too...
I know about the white garment assistance as well..

But will the O.P buy the idea?

Is the OP a responsible girl too??

Who knows

Don't worry if she's responsible or not

When the Woli or Alagba starts praying, he will see vision if she's good or not.

And If she's a responsible lady, then they will accept her to be staying in church with other members who also live in church. She should just be ready to clean and help in the church activities that's all.

So, Op there lies a great solution in front of you

And if within a month, a single upwardly male church member falls in love with you , then glory be to God. I hope the feeling will be mutual. You will graduate from sleeping in church to moving in with a trusted church member, who will be willing to court and marry her.

By then Alagba can vouch for her and other church members.

That's how things happen sometimes

But if she doesn't fall in love with any man there or none falls In love with her? She can stay as long as she desires, until she has saved money to rent a place of her own.

Easy peasy!


Problem solved.

NwaAmaikpe2nd:
Ok,I will do just that so that we can always keep in touch.

Wow,never knew such good people as you are on nairaland.

I am happy.

Awwww


I have replied.

I'm happy too

Carbon2Oxide:
Stop confusing the girl based on your emotions

EXAMPLE .... IF I AM HUNGRY NOW, ISNT IT BETTER I GO STRAIGHT TO A CANTEEN AND ASK FOR FOOD OR LEFTOVER SEF......

THAN BEGGING YOU FOR CASH..... THAT IS HEADING SOMEWHERE

Now you understand what i meant by BEGGING THE RIGHT PEOPLE


If she were your family, would you give the same advice to allow them pass the night in a strangers house..........A TOTAL STRANGER WITHOUT A TRACE

Well u are right too but if she's my family? I will tell her to locate a White garment church in Lagos. Join them. Explain to the Alagba about her predicament. When he prays and see vision, and he sees she's a good lady?

He will allow her sleep in church and she will become a full member for as long as she stays there.

At least I know white garment church do assist in such to anyone who joins them or some few Pentecostal churches.

But white garment Is sure banker, if she's desperate about it than total strangers.

So that will be my advice

Carbon2Oxide:
See ehn, let me tell you the blunt truth. I live on the mainland but i work on the island

This one youre travelling all the way from Benin to work in Lekki,Lagos, and you have no accommodation. Im not trying to discourage you babe.... but


Do you think you can get an accommodation easily after you get your first pay? Think about your expenses for the month(Tfare,feeding, e.t.c). You might not even get an accommodation in your preferred location cos of cost or other factors.

I am not being negative here

Any reasonable person will know, she will stay more than one month before finding her feet in lagos and renting an apartment.

Except she joins a church in Lagos, become a worker in the church, explain to pastor and let him allow her live inside the church. She can be their cleaner.

Some church do it.

Carbon2Oxide:
Seems you are advising her based on emotions

YOU SAID HER COLLEAGUES DONT KNOW HER?? Well youre wrong..... THEY KNOW HER NOW SINCE THEY ALL WORK IN THE SAME FIRM

THE FIRM has all her data.....

Aint that safer than she begging for accommodation on NAIRALAND .....

Even if you want to beg..... BEG THE RIGHT PEOPLE

Firm having her data does not mean they know her. She's still a stranger to them and they will see her as one. I'm NOT trying to be pessimistic here but that's the truth.

I'm talking from experience anyways.

Shebi she will come to Lagos on Monday and ask them politely, she will hear with her ears


And moreover is the label : IM THE RIGHT PERSON, stamped on their foreheads?

Sighs human beings sef

NwaAmaikpe2nd:
And you too,how can i reach you.
I mean how can we be friends offline,you are a good and nice person victorian.

Awww Thanks dear

Yes we can be friends offline. I don't have issues with it.

Simply send a mail to vpuegeren@gmail.com And I will reply , then we can always keep in touch through whatsapp and calls.

Carbon2Oxide:
Basically, you saying that a total stranger is safer than her colleague at work?

How do you know her colleagues wont allow her even if its to pass the night?

"Divine connection"? Lets be realistic here please

Monday is a little over 48hours from now

Let's be realistic, shes not familiar with anyone at new place of work.

Her colleagues are also strangers too.

And trust me, no one in her work place will agree to accommodate her except a Randy guy who is single .

Abi? Uv forgotten that women don't want any other woman to come in and sleep with their bfs or fiances or husbands. That's how most women brains are wired. If a fellow female colleague needs to squat with them for a while. Except they've been friends for donkey years, if not forget female colleagues helping her. They will see her as competition. What if my man sees her and want to bed her? Will she resist him because most women know u don't give cat, a roasted fish to keep and hold for you.

Even Pastor wife will not allow a stranded female to come sleep over in their house, how much more colleagues she has not met before. They don't even know her.

Her best bet is online.

And if none is forthcoming from now till Monday. Let her come to Lagos, talk to her boss and see if there is staff quarters available.
Simple.

Op, the job is not a do or die affair

Nothing in life is do or die

Just keep an open mind, whatever happens at the end, just thank God.

NwaAmaikpe2nd:
Thank you so much for your advice and sisterly or motherly love you have bestowed on me via your good words.

Yes,no marriage=no pussy or cookie.

You are welcome dear.

I try as much as possible to help ladies with advice when needed.


At the bolded! Yes!

God will lead you all the way amen.

Antoniosmile:
Thanks so much for this.
I'm grateful.

It's indeed a difficult time as I may loose the job if not in Lagos tomorrow

Eeyah I wish I can help , I would have invited u over to my place. But due to circumstances beyond my control I can't.

But remember one thing, if no one comes up to assist with the accommodation online , just know the job is not meant for you, or the job could bring sorrows instead of joy at the end.
And any dissapointment in life after exhausting all efforts is a blessing.

Pray this evening for God to touch a good person's heart and let the person send u a pm. If no one contact you, then just thank God. Other jobs will come, a better job that will Not place u in a disadvantage like this. A job u will prosper in and grow to become someone better.

So whichever way tonight ends, just thank God.

Also let your boss know u don't have anywhere to stay in case they have quarters for staffs coming outside Lagos. But please don't live with him o.

The Lord is your strength.

flokii:
@OP you should go with this option to be on the safer side.. you might be lucky to get accommodation from the company or your boss.

Even her boss if Na man, will request for sex every now and then. If he were to accept her live in his place.

Times are terrible.

Never pray to be at Mercy of any human being.

Never.

Carbon2Oxide:
It would be safer if you resume work on monday, discuss with your female colleagues at work. Im so sure one of them at least will spare you accommodation for a week. Then you can start from there

It's not that easy. Her female colleagues dont know her, she's a new employee. All of them will be sceptical to allow her live with them. None of them will agree sef. Too many complications with women living together, how much more ladies who are strangers to themselves. They will say no.

Sighs the only option she has is this medium.

And she should pray very well, that bad people won't contact her as helpers. Only the good ones should see this advert and help her.

Op just pray for divine connection . Cause nobody trust anybody anymore.

NwaAmaikpe2nd:
Victorian your good advice is very weighty back with reason and true life happenings.

I don't think is a ritualist or sadist because i know that he is not one for he is financially and religously okay.

But wait you are right on men been wicked and ready to destroy a girl's life despite spending much on her.
I will confront him on his love that if he love me as he claim then he could wait after the wedding.

My dear i have seen Alot in this life, when it comes to trusting a man for marriage.

I'm alive today, Hale and hearty by the divine Grace of God. I'm even saying divine Grace, my dear it's a miracle! If not ? this marriage thing ehn, Would have ended my life years back on several occasions. I would have been 6 feet under with dust by now. That's why I don't rush anymore into marriage.

So I know why I'm saying all these. Some men are not who u think they are o! Men are deceptive o! Be careful o and prayerful

Smiles. My eyes don see o! .
That's why I will serve God for the rest of my life!

One thing I'm happy is you are ready to stand your ground . Be strong

No wedding, No Pussy!

If he truly loves you like he claims, then fast-forwarding the wedding shouldn't be a problem and after wedding he can have sex as much as he wants. But for now? Please I beg you in the name of God, don't waiver on your stance.

It's very important.

NwaAmaikpe2nd:
We are both good christians.
He worship at winners chapel while I worship at a st.leo catholic church.

I don't understand why he is not against pre-marital sex for christ sake.

If he's not patient? Please cut him off, for your safety.

Some men these days can do anything for money, especially in spiritual terms.

I know what Im saying.
Don't let his going to church deceive you.

It's a scripted lie. No patience, then the wedding is off.

Behave angry towards him and let him know u ain't scared of cutting loose from everything he has started.
When u behave angry, and defiant. He will have a rethink and either wait til after marriage to have sex if he's sincere or cut off from you knowing his evil plans no work. But before cutting off, he will act some drama of wanting all his money back. Lol

NwaAmaikpe2nd:
We are not depended on him or anyone rather he is because i don't see why he is depended and hellbent on breaking my virginity on the basis or reason of me been fertile or not.
Men i must say are selfish,always dictating and bossy when it comes to relationship.

They tend to forget that women too has equal right too in any relationship.

You may think u and your family are not dependent on him but he thinks otherwise.
With your write-up, I can deduce from his state of mind, that he feels he has cornered you already.

Cornered you by going through the introduction process, sponsoring your brother's school fees, taking care of your needs financially. And in his mind he feels, if u don't allow him taste your cookie, he will drop all the financial assistance he has been offering all these while.
And definitely your brother could drop out of school if he's no longer sponsoring him and you will not be able to bear the shame if he cancels the wedding except U do as he says.

My dear, he has cornered you already.

So choose one! Call off his pestering for the pussy and plans on knocking u up with pregnancy because that's the new deal going on in town now. Some devilish men don't mine spending so much to ruin a girls life by impregnating her and disssapearing into thing air. It gives them great joy.
So think very well.

As for me? I will tell him to go to hell if he can't be patient to marry me before getting one pregnant. You are a virgin for Christ sakes! Which one is fertility issues again? Is he God?

You might even be surprised he could be a ritualist waiting to use your virginity for wealth. Or a bloody sadist, waiting to ruin your life.

If you can ? Cut him off! And let your family think of how to sponsor your brother in school and take responsibility immediately.

That man is bad news! Don't place yourself at his mercy.

Goalnaldo:
would you marry me?

That's so sweet of you.

Would have said Yes!

But don't mind me, I have made up my mind on someone already.

Though thanks on the offer.

Toks2008:
E be like dey the mods on nairaland get serious issues. Abeg what is the big deal in catching fun.

Can you believe that they deleted my post? Which rule I break? Smh!

Wow! It seems they want it to be all about gushing on RMD.

All eyes and thoughts on RMD
,

No mind them.

Na Rmd page we dey, that's why

Toks2008:
Barbie doll. You wey look like doll baby.

Heheheheheheheheh

You were surprised I'm real

I thank God for my looks. God try for us!

Toks2008:
Let me seek una opinion too..

Oya nairalanders how una see my new look

All of una nland babes wey dey call me granpa una see as I young pass una boyfriends...

The day I did video call with Toks, I almost propose to him

His frosh looks Na die!

Obodo Oyibo land good o!

That's when I know Nigeria itself is hell fireeeee!!!!!


Imagine if I'm based abroad? I would have turned into an angel within few weeks!

Sighs

Toks! U look frosh!!!!

Lol



He try.. He looks cool

He can't confuse me anyways. Let him confuse those who wants to be confused.

Team my age mates Biko.

Madam go and seat down.

There are men who adore and marry fat women.

Everyone has their taste and desire in a woman.

Yours no be story.

Come and see my fat married friends. You will know yours is just by the side.

And moreover I get wooed every week. I'm even confused whom to Choose and end up with.