₦airaland Forum

kerzhim:
How on earth does this woman feel so comfortable wearing such outfit forgeting the fact that she is a mother, role model and an influencial person?

I taya for these sets of people o.

Her job requires such outfits . All for the money and fame.

Na money she go make, and that's all she is concerned about.

Beyonce wears worse and she's also a mom .

asunaobi:
You are very smart! Keep it up and watch your life graph on the rise with every new day. You are one in a billion.

Awww ,thank you.

Usanga35:
Just count yourself lucky cos no better man with potentials nd money ever met u b4 dats why u think dt u re differnt from others...
A man would think that he can never steal ....dats because he hasnt seen where millions is b4

Smiles, i have met few men with power, money, and great potentials. But like I said, I don't get swayed by such, I didn't loose my head over them. I have told a couple of few ones like that to go to hell with what they think they have and is shacking them in their heads. They were shocked but that's me. I will never be a slave to any arrogant rich man due to my wants or desires. No way I won't . I rather starve for days, be patient and work around my needs by myself than to be such puppet. God forbid.

Although I'm dating one currently ,he is all that thank God but humble . His humility with his wealth, potentials and power humbles me in return . I'm calm and at peace when I'm around him. He's peaceful and godly too. Can u imagine?

Anyways I feel this one I have is enough for me. I'm not greedy. How many of such men do I need to be with and satisfied? Before someone falls in the hands of evil ritualists. So no need doing runs for me o.

I'm happy and blessed, he came my way. I don't talk much about money because he knows what he's meant to do after our first one on one talks. That's how it's meant to be. I don't need to waste saliva talking all day , all week about taking care of some of my needs. With our first discussion he has already pinpoint where he's coming in to make it better for me. When your woman is happy, the home and relationship is so peaceful and communication is on point.

When a man is the head, and has wisdom, experience, money and power around him, life becomes so much easier to handle.

I cant do runs that's the bottom line. And thank God I have the inner strength to resist other temptations popping up.

Abeg in life just think with the brain, be decisive, wise, focused, be a team player and back it up with prayers and the rest comes accordingly.

My prayer everyday: God please don't place me at the mercy of any man or woman before I can live a fulfilled life in Jesus name, amen. And it's working .

UniQue84:
okay Vicky I got your message clearly, in this particular case she can't be tagged a prostitute since the willingness is coming from the man to do whatever he wants to do with his money on her ...No No she can't be called a prostitute, infact I will say to her enjoy 'Na ya day break ' .lol

However, we pray the goodies continues cos if (conditional) there is economic downturn on the part of the man, and the lady changes in behaviour drastically or even left him, then it is not out of place if the lady is tagged a gold digger and most gold diggers are prostitute if not all .

Ciao

Yes u are right in that aspect, if she leaves him when things go down for him, then shes no less than a gold digger.

But any wise woman should always pray and stand by her man spiritually to make sure he doesn't go down in life.
A times comes in one's life after the struggles, then winnings come? It's win win win while the process to keep such winning in place becomes consistent.

So for me, I'm supporting my new man 100% and by Gods grace He wont go down and he won't loose his wealth and power, amen.
God is great.

Zionista:
Better than runs that you girls use to survive

I don't do runs, I'm bigger than that.

I don't even have the time or strength to sleep with different men. You wan kee me?

If my type is the only type of woman on earth, cheating and sleeping with different men won't occur. Men will be forced to be faithful.

Anyways his cleaning job is honorable. More success to his story.

Hmmmmmm

The first day she walked into my office like 5years ago or so, she was well dressed, boyish looking,holding tightly to her backpack , with a smile and Introduced herself as a beadmaker in costumes especially. I liked her approach back then.

But today fast forward, I don't know what happened must have happened to her during that space of 5years for her to become like this

What on earth must have taken possession of her mind and body?

MGab25:
YES! He's favoured sorely because he earns more than most top employees in the company you work, even as a cleaner

Lol

How many views?

22 views! And everybody just kept quiet looking at him! And in their mind saying :

Ode no bobo yi ke!

Dance ontop cleaner work! Jeez!

And he thinks, he's favoured!

ImaIma1:
Slavery

God bless you dear.


Seems nairaland guys want every man in Nigeria to be broke! Every girl who do not love or marry a broke man is a prostitute, labelled by Guys on nairaland.
What a sour twisted minded guys we have here.

May God help them o

If they want and wish to be poor forever, that's their problem.

julybaba:
Marrying Or Dating Someone Because They Are Rich Is Same As Prostitution.

My dear, English is an easy language.

The Travails of Broke struggling guy.


Anyways Story for the gods
I have made myself clear too in simple English.

Call it whatever you like.

No longer available. Thanks.

God bless

FatherBona:
no doubt she did, that's why Victorian is so pissed.
I believe she can relate to what moyo said

Whether it's annoying to accept to broke struggling guys but the reality is this middle aged rich divorced or widowed men spend money, I mean money that will make progress the life of a young lady they desire, without her asking for it.

All they need is, tell me your story young lady. I want to know the real you.

Shikena

And that's where God's favor starts smiling on that lady from that day henceforth.

I don't need to date any broke struggling guy who's waiting to fucvk all the nutrients from my body then move on to the next victim. I don't need such vulture of a young man in my life.

Moyo she's saying her own in the angle of meeting guys in night clubs and charging them for sex? Well she could be right on that category.

But me? I'm way above such level. I don't clubs and I don't meet with young guys to charge money for sex or tfare. Nope! Not me

My level high and more sophisticated than the level she's coming from.

So that's me

UniQue84:
her focus is on the financial power of the individual... Just that she didn't arrange the words well.

Be that as it may, let me help arrange those words well and in detail...



If the sole aim of dating a guy is cos of his money then these possible outcome will credit her as a prostitute.

1). If she refuses to open her pussy until she sees money in her hand ( the money for hand back for ground rule) then she has gone commercial, she is an olosho ..infact this is the core of prostitution.

2). If she demands for money after sex in whatever form then she is a prostitute.

3). If she exchanges sex for material gifts such as houses,cars, Gold neckless e.t.c she is a prostitute.

4. This may seem light but can still hold water : if she uses sex to appreciate favours done to her CONTINUOUSLY she is prostitute.

Moyo wasn't wrong afterall cos majority of ladies today are dating purely because of cash.

As for your above question for a lady to date a broke guy were money is not the underlying factor here is either the dick game is good or love. She can't be called a prostitute if there was no exchange of sex with money or material gifts .

I hope she didn't strike a chord tho

Well she didn't strike a cord.

What I feel is this :

Assuming I'm a rich wealthy man, divorced with kids. And my kids are well take care of, but I need a companion, a young wife I can come home to, a woman who can give me the warmth I need. And I saw a young pretty homely lady who I would love to have for keeps, even though weve met once.
Now I take such lady on a date, pick her up with my chauffeur, we had a lovely time at my expansive home. I bought her gifts cos i just want to spoil her on that memorable day, then I asked about her life and career. I looked at where I can add value in her career or biz, and yes I willingly agree to invest in her biz with my own money, which she didn't even ask me of but it's something I want to do for her.

Will u call such lady a prostitute for accepting my gifts and monies?
Will u call such a lady a prostitute for accepting to be my companion?

Should I as a divorced man of mid 40s be left lonely and alone in my spacious massive home because my teenage kids are all. In the university. Should I shy away from Having a chosen woman's warmth and laughter in the four walls of my decorated house? Because I don't want people to call any lady I chose to spend my time and money with as a prostitute?
Cause I know there are rich lonely men in their 40s and 50s who genuinely care and wish to spend this money without the lady asking sef . They simply want to add something to her life. Not just sex sex sex and go home.


If you can answer this questions sincerely then I will say my next and final concluding words.


I'm coming from the path of a lonely rich matured man who simply wants to enjoy the remaining years of his life in the arms of a woman he desire, after acquiring so much wealth but still goes home everyday to an empty cold decorated shining house not home. But house.


So answer dear, also fatherbona answer as well.

How about dating someone that's broke and poor? What's it called?


Ode!

She had better say Yes.

Officialgarri:
As long as a guy's money is long, have a house and a car, then marriage can happen in a pace of 3days.

What will happen in the next 3 days after marriage is what I cannot tell.

But judging from the girl's looks, she don suffer for this life. Things are just getting better.

There is nothing wrong marrying a rich guy.




Mine is coming up soon

dangotesmummy:
It's like almost all the men in Nigeria are always horney 24 hours

You dey mind them?

Lemme not talk, it's early mo mo

Jcole1985:
By the completion of this bridge,Seun,Pocohantas/Antibrutus,Victorian would be married IJN.AMEN

Hmmmmmm

afroniger:
When will he marry/wife this woman? He should honour her by marrying her already.

Lol.

Na dem!

Marriage wailers!

ImaIma1:
Funny thing is that things don't always happen in a particular order. 35 year old ladies still marry in their age range. My cousin that I mentioned that is getting married is over 40 and the guy is younger. Everyone has their own story and eventuality.

Besides, not all ladies are unmarried because of their wild ways or the "hot akara syndrome". Some were just unfortunate with wrong guys, too focused on work or career, too introverted,etc. But people are quick to conclude and label older single ladies.

Still, everyone should make hay while the sun shines, not only ladies. Because even for men, they lose their youthfulness as they age. Not only women age.

Correct !

Im not worried about rushing to marry , i just want to marry right, so i dont look a shadow of myself later in marriage and people will be like ,ha! Is that Princess Victorian? Damn! What happened to her

Come how she look old and worn out !

God forbid o!i wont marry a man who kill me before my time.

They almost did but my God pass them. Im still alive,kicking well and bouncing good.

Infact im in a great relationship as i type. So my dear dont mind the op , let him wail forever .

We no send am work!



Oh ! The op is even a lady sef!

Bia! Lilyval no need crying more than the bereaved ,focus more on your life and make it work, biko

carter009:
Nice one, but I hope, Safitu, marialavina, Victorian,
ebonygurl will listen to your advice.

Even at my age, they are stil trooping like bees on honey.

So dont get it twisted dear.

Moreover i have chosen someone already . So relax on my matter

Emeraldgist1:
am between 20-24

Oh ,dont worry dear more years for more heartbreaks if u dont choose wisely .

Such is life .

Sighs its well

lordskid:
NL_NATION

Our intelligence and consciousness depend on many factors. And very often smart people prefer to keep quiet about their knowledge and live an ordinary life without drawing attention to themselves.

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Luckily, there are a few signs that give away these covert smart people even though they may appear pretty “normal” at first sight:

i. YOU'RE A NIGHT OWL

It appears that people who are most active in the evening and night hours have a significantly higher IQ level than the “early birds.” It might be because it’s easier to relax and think through ideas at this time rather than during the daytime fuss.

ii. YOU ARE REALLY FUNNY

Smart people tend to have a great sense of humour. During a study carried out by the University of New Mexico, it was discovered that people writing funny scripts for cartoons possess a high level of intelligence.

iii. YOU DON'T CONSIDER YOURSELF EXCEPTIONALLY SMART

The Dunning-Kruger Effect causes people with lower competence level to greatly overestimate their abilities, while an intelligent individual rationally assesses his or her abilities and is able to calmly analyze the situation.

True intellect isn’t put on display for everyone to see – it’s used in case of necessity, not to brag about it.

iv. YOU PROCRASTINATE

Yes, it turns out that constantly postponing important matters is another sign of a great mind. A psychologist at Wharton Business School, Adam Grant, considers particularly this character trait to have helped Steve Jobs focus on more important goals and became the key to innovation and development.

v. YOU ENJOY BEING BY YOURSELF

Quiet and calm introverts are considered to be one of the smartest. But that’s not always this way. At the same time, many intellectuals prefer spending most of their spare time alone, as it’s a lot harder to reflect on anything when there’s loud company around you.

Smart people feel complete; they don’t need communication to fill in space. They enjoy talking, but don’t strive to constantly have people around. Remember that your brain needs charging, and it can always be developed and improved.


HAVE YOU FOUND A SIGN THAT FITS YOU ON THE LIST?

This is something i can relate to


Nice one

TheGreenLand:
Go Dakolo house go ask. him house address dey everywhere online

Lol Does Coza pastor now reside in dakolo's house?

mrAMG2:
Lol you want his fans to eat me raw abi

Wow

faithfull18:
You guys don't get tired.

The guys are frustrated and depressed thats why always lashing on women online.

Leave them , let them continue to wail on our pasts.

Guys crying more than the bereaved . Smmhhhhh

mrAMG2:
Millions o, thousands o, the brotherly respect is there. CB turned up and turned up well.

Unlike someone else who did two videos with a ghost

Lol who is that artist? And who is the ghost?

Emeraldgist1:
Forgive any grammatical error please. My relationships don't last and am yet to pinpoint the problem out..

I grew up among boys as the only girl child, I tried to study out what every guy wants from my brothers and cousin brothers too.
Since I think I understood guys better, I have ventured into 2 different relationships that never worked out.
Am not the demanding girlfriend, I can so strongly say it anywhere that I have never demanded anything from d guys in my previous relationships.
Am so heartbroken right now that I don't even want to have any emotional attachment with any guy.....

N.B- mumu comments are allow�

My dear , there is nothing wrong with you.

You are simply undergoing the harsh realities of life most people go through in relationships.

So dont beat yourself up abeg.

Relax , ponder on wbere u went wrong , make amends and move on jare .

No man is worth killing your self mentally for.

And also to remain Sane in this part of the world , i beg you stay away from any intimate relationship with a guy for like 6months up. Im begging you dont jump into another just yet! No.matter how convincing he sounds.

If i may ask? How old are you?

Hsurdbespoke:
Interested

Ok cool. Pls click on my pm or call the number above .

As if nah free?

No be millions of dollars u pay am?

Hes working for the lamba!

domino4211:
''Nigerians do not support anybody''..
''A few Nigerians support but majority don't''..
What exactly do you mean?..
You can't give two contradicting opinions on just one topic.
Do Nigerians support people or not?

90percent of nigerians do not support our own.