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LikeAking:
Nonsense!

I dislike pastors wey too de seek for notice..

Wetin Merci wan cum gv na?

It is obvious you dislike pastors generally. A pastor didn't force him to testify, he testified out of his own will.
Your hatred for pastors was clearly seen here, your comment was out of context but since pastors will be dragged, you do not care.

EriMma1:
This may sound weird but it's my situation now.

I have been a single and independent lady for a very long time. Though I really looked forward to settling down in my 20s and thirties but because I was the over careful type, I couldn't as I kept being picky due to men's character and behavior.

Fast-forward to my lat 30s, I began to lose interest and started getting more comfortable as a single. The upheavals in today's marriage also got to me. As in the way marriages are packing up, the cheating aspect, abuse and domestic violence in marriages all further affected me and changed my whole perception of the union called marriage. So I unconsciously resolved to remain single as long as I'm happy, comfortable and financially independent.

Some of the reasons I also made up my mind are.
As a single, Im very much at peace, with no one dictating what and when I should do things or get out of bed. I love my bed.
No one is body shaming me when I add on some pounds due to excessive eating and no one is questioning my eating habits as its sometimes the case with some married women. Also running errands when you don't feel up to it just because hubby wants you to do it. Some men can send their wife on errand like crazy and me I hate running errands.

No one is disturbing me when I need time alone which could last for hours. I love my space and privacy. So the thought of having to give up all that scares the hell out of me.

Now, back to the matter.

Recently, some close spiritual leaders in my denomination have been trying to match make me with a single pastor and that one too is shining teeth that he has seen a jimjim sister. When they now openly mentioned it yesterday with the said man around and he too was nodding and agreeing to the proposal, it dawned on me that these people are not joking. When I got home, i sank into my comfy space and began to fret. I mean... The thought of giving up all that freedom is just so scary. I suddenly discovered that marriage no longer excites me and my inner self was fighting it.
Also, the thought of carrying pregnancy for nine months with all the stress of looking after babies, tending toddlers ( poo poo) and that motherhood life made me sick instantly. The thought of joggling my job with family life gave me the chills. I see how my married mates struggle with this. Huh. Men...

I don't know. I don't feel cool about this cos it makes me feel like I'm about to be put in a cage and everything about me is going to change.

Now, before you talk about me not loving the man, I think I fancy him and can love him cos he looks so much like my ex of years ago. So that is out of the question. He is a happening lovable man but....... I no longer feel excited about marriage. at least, from what played out yesterday.

Do I need any form of therapy cos my family won't hear of it but this is my situation now ooo... Hmmm

Please don't get married because someone you respect was behind the match making. Don't marry someone because he goes to church, I'm saying this as a Jimjim brother.

Let marriage be solely your decision and not that a person pushed you into it.

Please make sure whoever you are marrying has the fear of God, no be because say him wear tie and carry bible.
For the abuse and infidelity you talked about, a man with the fear of God and who's willing to make his marriage work has sorted this part of your fears.
Pray seriously about it, don't be sensual here, allow the holy spirit to guide you.

And for the responsible you're trying to run away from, nne you CANT't. You can only minimize the stress by having lot's money to get you a house help.
Thank you.

Good day nairalands. Please guys I'm really frustrated at the moment and I will be needing help on what to do. I lost my phone and I've tried doing welcome back, went to MTNs office and my NIN was throwing error on generating vINN (photographic error precisely) and I was directed to go to nimc office for verification/validation. At the nimc office my NIN was fine(Went there twice). I caney back to MTNs office and the same error keep coming up. The number that got missing is my main line. Abeg, what will I do from her??������

Jesus heals. That's all I can say

I thought Peter obi was in Canada as of yesterday.
Hmmm ikuku

Kobojunkie:
Why does the man need to drive around in a bulletproof car and with an entourage to begin with ? Is he some sort of drug Lord, or cartel boss?

You should have asked why the number of David soldiers increased when he became king and why some of his foot soldiers were willing to die for him.

Why shouldn't you go to church?

Corridon:
The guy did well against united. He doesn't replicate such form for the national team.

How much Una dey pay am?

WhiteRuler:
Lol. May be he's praying for people to die

. He musnt pray, it's natural.

Why do you want to lodge a complain?,
That ur friend earns higher that you do. If that be your reason then u don't think at all. If your reason is that you deserve to earn higher based on your qualifications and the number of months you've have worked vat your workplace, then that is fine. No mention your friend name for your complain I beg!!!!! Life just happened to you.

Sltp:
Scammer. Keep deceiving Africans with your fake religion and keep cashing out

This is a brother speaking from his darkened beclouded mind. Scammers and people from around the globe joins the prayer channel daily. What you don't understand is bigger than you brother, some things are too genuine to be fake.

DaddyFreeze2020:
Most of Tinubu's supporters are majorly the conk Yorubas with high level of tribal tendencies and hate for the economic successes of the Igbos. They see the Igbos as a threat to them because the Igbos are quite rich, are also well educated and informed.

You cannot easily deceive the Igbos like it would have been if it was 'awon Mallam' as they call the Hausas/Northerners

Nna this one wey u talk no follow....

When has relationship become a source of income? Confused beings everywhere.

LagBlogger:
Jesus was clear about what he meant.

Divorced people can only remarry based on marital unfaithfulness which is not adultery or on the death of your spouse.

So marital unfaithfulness and adultery is not same ?

Which of the Bible said u should forgive and forget. Those that forget are those with memory lose, but so far ur memory is in shape forgetting will be a difficult task.

Brotherman just take time to pray about it first....I will go with #620k job offer buh just pray about it first

Observe her well, If this is her only challenge my brother kongrats. Her anger issue is workable.

Assume she's your sister and a guy of your age wants to ask her out. If you can allow that, then shoot your shot, but if you can't, brotherman pocket your shot biko.

APC picks a southerner as their candidate,
The votes from the south get shared between Peter Obi and whoever the southerner might be, all the north will now vote Atiku. Northern Nigeria gains again.
Politics1960

She should locate Koinonia or Remnant Christian Network. The demon will definitely leave her.

Forgive her buh don't leh her go(u Gerrit ) . Keep her as a side chick and get someone else period!!!!!!!!

Brother you are 27 and still living with ur parents under same roof, it will definitely generate insult. Just leave the house, visit once
them once a while. You will have ur respect to the brim. I know is not easy out there buh man, you've got to make that move. You don't know the opportunity that awaits you out there.

Lots of Christian folks buh lame in doctrines

Heard about the book too , I searched for the PDF online, this was around 2017. It was very hard to get, luckily I got the book. The lady that posted the book on that platform told us that reader's discretion is advised. I just opened the PDF, read about a page and I also saw some Jewish inscription abi Hebrew and some recitations I was to do. Na so I close the PDF and I deleted it.

kaygreeno:
Why I'm asking you this question is basically because I sell laptops" I mean used London and USA laptops and with your situation" I'm willing to help" in summary I have a laptop of 50k in market price but I will Swap it with your present laptop and then you will add money.

Want to know the model and probably you location too

kaygreeno:
How much is your own budget to get another laptop and what's the model and screen size of your present laptop.

My budget is #65-70k, my laptop model is Epson endeavor NJ3300, my laptop screen size is 14inches.

Good evening house, I am viktor by name. I'm currently sharpening my skills on programming. I am at an intermediate level in React and Python (Django precisely) and I want to master this skills Well and position my self for better offers next year, But I'm faced with a challenge of a laptop. I bought a second new laptop from a well known online vendor, Shpinverse but with a bad battery which I was told before purchasing the laptop. Why I bought the laptop was because of it price #30k, and I thought I can get the battery easily. This is over 2months now that av been searching for the battery and where I reside I barely see light, and is looking like am wasting my time. I way billed the laptop to awka and onitsha buh still couldn't get the battery. I can sell the laptop for a lower price and add my savings too, buh it won't be able to get me a good laptop that I want, please am soliciting for help, biko help a brother .

Like the way the so called democracy gave us a useless president.

udemzyudex:
No pictures of what you're looking for or the laptop model number, how do you want someone to help you?

Pls i made an update to the post with pictures.
The model is Endeavor NJ3300

Please I am in need of Epson laptop battery, if you know where I can get it, please help me with the info.
Epson
Model: Endeavor NJ3300

Please I am in need of Epson laptop battery, if you know where I can get it, please help me with the info.