₦airaland Forum

Lukepeter:
You can't be serious, this is the best place for him to post that as long as he is not spamming the thread.

It's marketing, is all about knowing your audience.

stop defending nonesense guy. This is not the right place to post such.

Rooneyx:
My phone suppose feed your whole fam till year end. Rest sissy go work. Ode

Ewu gambia typing trash. Your cheap phone and 50MB data cannot save you

Rooneyx:
You’re a bat, like 🦇 no wahala, let me rest nama

go rest. Stop typing rubbish with your cheap phone biko

sukar886:
All the people supporting jamb are tribalistic , is it Becos she is Igbo? How can this small girl enter jamb site and change her result , she printed what jamb gave to her, you guys should stop, you as a guy man can you enter jamb site and upgrade ur result

I wasn't in support of JAMB though but that result slip the little girl is holding a is fake bro. JAMB had stopped the issuance of temporary result slip since 2021. You can only get notification of result online after making about 2k payment

That her slip do not exist anymore

Rooneyx:
Lol she’s not a virgin so your guess is right. Girls of nowadays

how on earth do you know she isn't virgin please? Stop using social media to type anything you wish please

Carcholce:
But where’s the lie in my response? Abi you think it is every man with a dlck that is a man? Some are women, behave, support, and join the feminist community. You are one of them

Anyways, back to the topic. You guys are getting me wrong. Before I continue I have to tell you that your family did a poor job while grooming you. They ought to have taught you how to show love and respect to humans and even animals. Equally. If you were taught to be nicer to only women, it means your judgments are biased and sentimental. I was not taught to show love and respect to women. I was taught to show it to all. Irrespective of gender.


Back to the topic again. My first response was only saying, both men and women should take the blame equally. Isn’t that a fair judgment? If I were a court judge and you stand before me with a woman you impregnated, I will tell you two that you are irresponsible. Shifting the blame on one party is a biased judgement. I don’t want to know how the dlck landed inside the pvssy.


Another question I have for you is, why would a woman that is not irresponsible become a baby mama? Where’s the morals? Let’s blame men too. Where’s the home training? Like you that grew up in a home that was selective in showing love and respect. Perhaps majority of these single mothers are also product of these flawed upbringing. They were taught to be nicer to only women, then use men for gains, at the end they get trapped with pregnancy.

See the way you are making me type so much when I am supposed to be washing plate before my mother gets back from the market.

Both are responsible but Men will obviously take the financial responsibility in nurturing the child till adulthood. Only dumb Men would say a woman uses pregnancy to tie him down, uses pregnancy to hook him down, uses pregnancy so he can marry her

I guess those calibre of Men didn't suck their mother breast. They lack sufficient nutrients to know and understand what EJACULATION means

You had sex with her, YES or No?
Did she rape you, YES or No?
Were you forced, coerced or had sex with her under duress?

Why then are you preaching up and down claiming she wanna tie you down with pregnancy? Did you expect her to tie me who didn't had sex with her with the pregnancy?


Your long epistles is flawed long ago the moment you think any opinion contrary to yours is from a woman

As for single motherhood, i wouldn't want to engage you further on that. Your initial comments had nailed you completely already.

Carcholce:
😩

“Women supporting women”

I am a confirm full fledged guy. I am liberal and unbiased. I don't support evil nor bad things. I am neither a feminist but humanity.

Change your mentality guy. Don't think every guy out there reason like you. I am from a family where i was taught to show love and respect to women.

fortunechy:
The girl is looking for federal olosho work..... I mean federal hookup to do...

learn to be civil. Stop using demeaning and condescending words to address women. Na woman born you, you may have sisters and hopefully daughters.

Carcholce:
Lies.

Nigeria women, immediately they meet a new man they are always the one pushing to do STD tests, so that they can start riding that thing without condom. I have never met other nationals women that loves raw sex more than Nigerian woman. Most of them will not get wet when condom is involved or they’ll easily lose interest.



Some will tell you to pour it inside because it’s healthy for them.

There are some that will tell you to continue emptying it inside, when they get pregnant, they’ll abort it after some months, the gain here is the robust look it gives them because early stages of pregnancy makes a woman glow.

Some women actually experiment with pregnancy. In most cases, the consequences far more outweighs the desired result, which then results to single motherism.

Story

Provided you had sex with her without condom, you're responsible for her pregnancy. Provided there was no evidence that she forcefully raped you. You're liable to take responsibility of her and the pregnancy and baby after birth


Stop hyperventilating over your emotions. Emotions doesn't win in law court

Jman06:
Some ladies claim they're on contraceptives and encourage their guys to have sex with them without condoms. Then once they get pregnant they capitalize on it to get the guy marry them. However, not all guys allow themselves to be played in that manner so they refuse to marry such ladies.

you may be right but you and i know that an average Nigerian man prefer having sex without condom right? What do you expect afterward. If you as a guy cannot abstain from sex or at most use condom, i mean good quality condom then you should be responsible for any outcome after sex

Lol, you think in the law court they want to hear she wanna cage me with the pregnancy, she wanna hook me with the pregnancy bla bla bla. Provided you had sex with her, you're responsible

Even if a guy uses condom with a lady and the lady accused him of impregnating her. He would be hold responsible truly for her pregnancy because condom isn't hundred percent safe. Until DNA proof otherwise. He's responsible for her pregnancy

Jman06:
Shifting blames as usual! Why can't you ladies accept responsibility for your actions for once Even in cases where the lady deliberately wanted to trap a guy with pregnancy but got outsmarted you'll still blame the guy!

no lady trap a guy with pregnancy. Did the guy truly had sex with her? Did he ejaculate? What else are you expecting after ejaculation if not pregnancy? Was the guy raped? How did a lady trap a guy with pregnancy please

Are you seriously serious

THUNDER4real:
I had issues with your phone number, I don’t mind sending another 2k to another of your number. Enjoy.

please help me with airtime. Any amount is okay by me please. I came late but please consider me even if it's just #200 please. I will drop my number if you wouldn't mind considering my plea

Happy independence America
God bless America
God bless you
God bless me

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Ekehwinz:
Comot mind. They are yet to complete backlogs. The program is remaining four months to wrap up. No too put mind

3 months.

Goldmaxx:
You checked your sister's virginity to insure?

her husband confirmed it through white piece of cloth

Tunde835:
If what they're teaching is useful then they can contact their alumni network to donate money as many universities get funding but if they're wasting people's time then they get what they get. If graduates of geology are struggling to get by doing POS or jobs that don't relate Geology cause it's useless and can't afford to donate to their Alma matter then department deserves this.

Most graduates in Nigeria today don't practise what they study bro. Should they close down all higher institutions in Nigeria because of that?

Scarrr:
all this obedient ppl and fake fake nonsense and figures 😂😂. Which schs abeg? I wan check something ... Naso una Messiah Obi dey go online , take unverified info's ,dey cap nonsense as facts on international tv😒

education is free in Germany, Norway, Finland etcetera. It's even free to international students as well

Tunde835:
Let them lose the accreditation. If the department can't afford N2.5m how are the graduates of the course expected to fend for themselves. This is just showing that what they're teaching is useless

how do you mean please? Is the Department responsible to provide jobs for the graduates they chun out yearly? Or the Department is responsible for providing enabling environment that would attract foreign investors?

I don't seems to understand you seriously

odenkirk:
but nobody go disturb u as his father. but if ur daughter LovePeddler around or get belle from one useless man u too go sufferer am

the highest that could happen to a girl child is pregnancy right? But boy child get plenty wahala. Drugs, armed robbery, rapist, Yahoo, fighting, pick pocket, thieves and many more. Boys are like 95% of prisoners in our correctional centres

efficiencie:
Define "dating" and "boyfriend". Are you asking for the age when you daughter can start having random sex? If that is the question I think you should already have the answer. Your daughter can start having random sex from 18 years of age. However if you mean at what age do you start preparing your daughter for marriage, then you should by now have known that such training should start from day 1. By observing both you and your husband, she has already started learning what it means to be a wife and what it means to have a husband. At age 13 she should start getting comfortable with serving her household, following in your footsteps - if indeed that is what you do. At age 19 she should have answered the purpose, destiny and GOD questions and understood the concept and relevance of a "good fit". At age 20, let her live her life and make her own decisions.

If you excel as a parent, your daughter will not need your direct intervention in her conjugal life at age 20.

I disagree at bolded. You make it sound like it's normal to engage in sex once she's 18. People still get married a virgin you know? Your daughter can be one. Why can't you teach her the importance of Body Autonomy and being celibacy? Why can't you teach her the danger of having random sex as you claimed? Even though i understand most youths now engage in series of sex, there are exceptional. People still keep themselves till marriage. My sister was one of them. She was married a virgin at 24.

zedegit:
He will value her. Believe me. Atleast she doesn't have any extra dik to compare with his.

If to say Bomber was her ex, Baba won't be able to feel himself.

he does value her o eh..he always say it whenever the need arises. He loves her throwaway.

ChristineC:
when in college is fine.

more importantly though...
sex education - with a clear instruction that if she get pregnant, count me out of any abortion plans.

She can get abortion herself or through friends. Teach her how to keep herself till marriage. You guys are making it look like it's normal to have sex before marriage

zedegit:
Most African parents shy away from such discussions. As a matter of fact, they don't believe in boyfriend girlfriend relationship because most of such relationships are not moral.

They believe that when a girl is of age, she should bring her intending suitor to them. Girls who actually do boyfriend stuff do it on code.

Let me ask you straightforward questions which requires an honest answer.

How many boys want a boyfriend girlfriend relationship without sex? Of all those who slept with her, how many would ask for her hand in marriage?

To be honest. Men who are serious go straight to the point without much drama and meet the girl's parents for consent.

Unserious boys would be sneaking about looking for who to devour and leave. Their appearance are usually flamboyant to portray affluence but don't be deceived.

my sister was married a virgin at 24. I can't say if she once had a boyfriend before marriage or not but her husband confirmed it himself. He was the one who deflowered her. But to be honest my dad was so strict on her o. If you are claiming to be western and not strict a little on these girls eh..hmmmmm

Benwallt:
Rest. It's not yours to decide. Just guide n advise them. Girl child dey try. That some of them made it to university without being pregnant calls for celebration. Boys,guys, and men give them no chance from age 13 upward. If that gender narrates their experience from age 13 till 50, you will buy them gifts. The pressure is real

I swear down. I was on my way when i heard a secondary school girl shouting at a mantrying to woo her. The man should be in his 40s

Girls are really trying seriously. Yet, some do keep themselves till marriage. They deserve an award seriously

SLOVFO:
What on earth does she need a "boyfriend" for? She is free to have friends both male and female. But boyfriend ( romantic friend) is a no go area until she is ready for marriage. She doesn't need a boyfriend to make her feel complete. She has her father and God.

even the so called Male friend is somehow

Reminderz:
the thing is that you can't even decide if she has a boyfriend or not believe me... unless you restrict her and lock her up inside... men will always come for her especially if she's beautiful... that's nature..

the only thing you can do for her that won't make her go astray and end up as a damaged or frustrated feminist later is to instill good values in her... starting from marrying a virtuous wife and also teaching her what she needs to know about men and relationship as she grows.. don't be too harsh on her and don't be too soft either...

with your guidance, teachings and her mother's love, she will learn to understand what needs to be done... if you marry a bad woman, you'll regret it... because she will be the one to spend most of her time with her and she will definitely transfer her bad energy and personality to her and she will end up miserable and damaged...

teach her how to say NO to any admirers

odenkirk:
pray to god to give u male children it comes with peace of mind

I disagree

Pray to God to give you obedience children. My neighbour has a grown up boy in his 30s but tormenting the community and family

Those prisoners are mostly boys you know?

garriAndsugar:
allowing her have a boyfriend or not wont stop her from having sex.. like the other poster said, sex education is very important.

I disagree. My sister was married a virgin at 24. People still keep themselves till marriage

Don't make it look like it's normal like food and water having sex outside marriage

mrvitalis:
I drive automatic so I didn't really learn to drive just say 2 days

The rest was when I got my first car... Driving is easy

I can't drive o. Although I've not learn it but i feel i will be scared to drive.

Cassa93:
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C1 never see anything, but na only 3 months you don collect...and you no get any hope of collecting another payment.

You should be more concerned about your C2 that may end up receiving only 3 months, instead of C1 that collected 15 good months.

Bitterness, no dey allow you see facts.

seriously C1 are just lucky. C2 came at the wrong time when Bubu administration is getting to an end. It's so unfortunate.

Meerahbel:
Lies from the out of hell.

I don't understand you please

Is it a lie that the best of jobs are gotten through connection?

Is it a lie that a 3rd class graduate with solid connection will secure reasonable job than a first class graduate in Nigeria?

Is it a lie that some ladies do get job using their body as a collateral?

Please where is the lie in what he said?