₦airaland Forum

SaintAY:
And the people who are richer than you, will also move away from you

Correct, Dats it!
I See so many Emotions-driven or maybe Poverty mentality caused criticism of What the pastor said!!

But Really, We humans have an unpredictable and jealous mind!
When A Close Person is Progressing Astronomically and we re Stagnant, Envy tends to Creep in!!

All dis Nairaland Critics will learn Sha, wen dey get Rich!!

osuofia2:
SMH. PENTECOSTALISM HAS FINISHED CHRISTIANITY. HEARING THIS KIND OF MESSAGE FROM CATHOLIC ARE RARE. EVEN ME AS A MUSLIM FAITHFUL I CONDEMN THIS.
MUCH RESPECT TO THE CATHOLIC FAITHFUL. JUST IMAGINE THAT EVERYONE LEAVES ALL THE PEOPLE YOU ARE DOING BETTER THAN. WHERE IS THE LOVE?

Bro
I Am also a Catholic
But I don't have Any issues in Motivational Messages by Pentecostal Pastors!
Infact, some Rev Frs also give some of kinda Messages during Mass here in S/south!

We need Wisdom in dis Life! Everything Nor be Scriptures and Bible Verses!
Remember dat Jesus Christ told us 'To be Wise as Serpents and gentle as Doves'!

There is great Truth in What She has said here!
Man is Jealous and Bad in Nature!!

Even me, d Day I won small N7,500 for Bet9ja and announced it on Facebook due to Overexcite..
I Smelled Jealousy in the Comments section!

kmcutez:
It’s called entitlement mentality. A lot of Nigerians have it, especially the men. That’s why men can beat up their wives or get annoyed if they don’t have a meal prepared for them or to their taste, instead of going to the kitchen and preparing their own damn meal, as if someone came to this earth to serve them.

I Agree with you!
But
A Married man is Fully Entitled to Good, delicious Meals from his Wife!
If he complains, it is justified!

Same Way, A Married woman is Entitled to Good sex from her Husband!
She must be well Fckked and Satisfied@All times!

promiseland245:
You did say if Whitemoney wins Big Brother show then you would stop.
Why the conflict of decision ?

Oh No!
Dat was our other Brother, Mr Falseprophet1..
He had to eat the humble Pie and chew his Words!

For Righteousness2 or Holiness2100, the Way he Links Normal events with d Rapture or EndTime messages is so Tiring!

Kobojunkie:
Those aren't fake stories[b]. It is possible to have memories of events even while still in the womb.

[/b]


I Can't Believe Dat!
Never!

I Suspect maybe d Adult has Hallucinations or Flashes of the events of his/her Past life!

OP..
This ur Question confused me@First!

Ok, It has to be 3 years old for Most Peeps!! Dats when You re in Kg 1 or 2!

Like me, I remember my early childhood in Army Nursery School, Effurun inside the Barracks!

Anybody claiming to remember events b4 his/her parents put him/her in Kindagarten is just Fooling around..

Righteousness2:
Life is Full of Battles!
Spiritual battles, Physical battles , Animal battles, etc. it's all about Battle for Survival of the Fittest!

If you show any sign of Weakness in any of these battles, you will be trampled on and you become a Casualty of Life.

There are many Anacondas and Crocodiles in Human form looking to Swallow and Possess others.

But if you Have JESUS Genuinely, they Sight what you carry and they Give way!
They Sight you and they Submit!

It is a Huge risk to Live life Just Empty!

Bros Righteousness2 Aka Holiness..

So even simple Anaconda matters is connected to the EndTime?

Na Was for You oo!

CSTR2:
Eden hazard at his worst is better than coutinho has ever been.

What an insult.

What a Bigger Insult for you to Say this!

Phillipe Coutihno! The Master of Freekicks and Long range Curlers!!

He is in same Bracket as Hazard!!

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Lol..
Mosdii
You Did not Address my concerns o..
Does It mean that You will not Get married to a Woman?
So ur Dicck is Gonna be Flaccid and unused for a Long time?

And BTW
I have not seen MannaVultureGriller here oo..

Who will now Play Chelsea penalties if he comes Back?

because Lukaku is a Clinical Penalty Master! Better dan Ronaldo!

chatinent:
If it's the girl making sexual advances and trying to “coerce” him, my comments would be against her too.

All I am trying to say is he should flee from premarital sex.

Owk!
My Point is when most 22,23 year old Guys/ladies go into Romantic Relationships, They are not Thinking Marriage!
The OP and the Girl in Question seems to fall in d Age category!

It is termed a Casual Affair! Can't be called Courtship!

So in such a State, Why can't d Guy look Towards Sex or Demand for it?

SmellySperm:
So what were your sexual advances and coercion for? For preaching?

You and Chatinent!
I seriously Don't Understand how a Guy is Guilt-Triped for wanting Sex from a Willing Babe..
Any Relationship a Young Girl and Guy Starts that is not Heading for Marriage, It's Fcvkk Dey both Want! Simple!

How bad that Society paints Guys as the Only Ones Desiring sex!

Hahaha..
OP..
It's Pretty Normal..

Some Girls are Masters in Toying with Guy's Feelings!! E.g Angel of Bbnaija who used some of the Male Housemates to Catch Cruise!
They give you Signals and once you ask Dem Out, They start playing around!

If You can, Blank Her! Focus on your Normal activities or anoda Babe!
But If You Cannot, dat means you Don become her Mugu be dat!

OP
Though I Agree that we Guys on Nairaland bash Females here most of the time..

But It is Not Deep, ok?
It's just some Temporary venting of Frustrations!!
Guys Don't hold Hard feelings!

Most of us intend to Marry a nice Lady!

Even Mosdii sef will Definitely get Hitched with one Fine Girl laslas!
Who knows if Baba is Happily Married with Lovely kids and he is Deceiving us Here!

Iamtoyosii:
Starting from the part you said "they envy us and wants to be like us'........the only type of man a woman or lady envy is a rich man or a man of high social status, I mean someone in a post of power not just out regular or average man.......... I'd like the talk very much more about my point here but not really in a typing mood, to type nah stress.... thanks

You Just can't Understand as a Woman..
Give it a Rest!

I know dat
MannaVultureGriller, Helinius, Sirjamo, Bosstrevor and other Active members of the [b]Nairaland Zombies Association (NZA) will [/b]congregate Here!!

To Spill Trash and Falsehood!

Iamtoyosii:
Please, explain a little bit more, I'd like to learn... thanks

Though a Man
But
I know that Being a Woman is Damn HARD!

All those Menstrual flow and Cramps, high cost of maintaining personal hygiene, Pregnancy, Labour, etc..


If All Women had the Chance, They Would Become Men!!
Part of this is seen in Modern Feminism! They ENVY Men and WANTS TO BE LIKE US!

OP..
Abeg, the Kids u talk about are Gentle in Nature!!

If you Jam Troublesome, Restless Kids, you will run out of the House for Dem..

As dey say in Warri, they can worry pass Ekpan Flies!

It is simply because Many Guys/ladies in Nigeria today marry themselves due to convenience, NOT Love!!
They couldn't get dier Spec and had to settle for the Available Guy/lady!

Many Nigerian couples DO NOT have Romantic feelings for dier spouses!
They Just Pretend!

So when any good, small opportunity comes, they quickly go get d Taste of a New Dickk/Pussy!

Iyaebe:
I want nothing but a kindhearted man who treats people well,respects people and love his parents and siblings to stupor but very strict and commands respect.I also observe a man's relationship with animals, it tells a lot about him.A jovial and overly friendly man is a big turn off for me especially those ones that shines teeth to every lady they come across. I like men who hates been friendly with women,like those ones with very unfriendly facial look but he should only be weak before me,his parents and siblings.

Nice one From you!!

Our Nigerian Ladies Should Never Lack a Man@all..
I always tell my Female friends, Once you see a Guy with 2 or 3 Qualities you like and he asks you out, Quickly move in and Start a Relationship!!..
We Men/guys are very easy to Manage!

But Shawarma, 1Phone,Urgent 2k and Human Hair will not Allow our ladies to make gud decisions..

OP
For me,
the Hardest Part of being a Man is Balancing between Ruggedity/Gentlemanliness!!

When you are too Rugged like Pere of Bbnaija, society slams you..
When you now decide to be cool/Soft, they still Bash you!
Some ladies will call you Effeminate!

OP
It is simply because Virginity is a great virtue, Particularly Female Virginity..

When a young lady is a Virgin, It is assumed dat She has rebuffed several attempts from Bad Guys to have sexual intercourse with her!
It means She has resisted Sexual Temptations and will likely do so After Marriage!

Dats y We Guys desire or Appreciate Dem!

virginprincess:
Mtcheeeeeew, I thought you had something reasonable to say

Hahaha!!
I Talk am!!

AdesewaAde:
So do you want me to use my hands to multiply my brokenness?
I’ve been in poverty,I know what it feels to be poor or broke,I’m working my ass out day in day out to overcome poverty, you can’t expect me to open my eyes again and run into another misfortune . Take a look as yourself the way your are broke,are you happy with yourself?
Poor people that are getting married to richer men doesn’t have two heads .

Just laughing@your Comment!
If you are a Poor Lady, don't live ur Life waiting for a Rich Guy to Marry you!

You will just Turn to Old Spinster For Nothing!!..

One of my Female always say 'I nor wan Suffer again' But She does not Have even 1 Boyfriend@28,29 yrs..
Waiting for 'Mr Rich and Handsome' When you are Poor and maybe Ugly!

You ladies Should be Wise ooo!

Kai!
See Blasting/Finishing!
And it's coming from a Lady ooo!!

Our NL Females/Feminists when Dey read this..

Lol..
OP dey Vex...

Anyways..
I expect some our NL Females to come for you..
To be Led by Iyaebe Aka Area Mama!

Oppy2k2:
Is mental health d same as werey?

No, Sir!

kolafolabi:
Seriously i need someone to enlighten me about the so called mental health stuff because i am not understanding. Thanks and be blessed as you do.

May have Different meanings and interpretations..
But
In Nigeria currently, many peeps are suffering from Job Stress, family pressure, marital burden, etc..
All of this Strain can make them act Abnormal some times! This means their Mental Health is in DANGER!

This is the Meaning of the Mental Health Hullabaloo you have been Hearing!

Optimistguy1969:
Sickness no good o.

This man no come resemble Jomo Kenyatta again

It is Old Age, Bro!!

Almost 80 Years nor be Beans!! He was born in 1942!

How many pple live up to 70 diz days?

Congrats and Happy 60th Birthday to Joke Silva Jacobs!!

Hopefully, we will wish Olu Jacobs a 80th birthday next Year, 2022!

As for MannaVultureGriller Papa (Buhari), If he fails to reach his own 80yrs next Year, NOT MY CONCERN!