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Creamish:
Its coming down from what it was ...datz some progress. When there is progress, acknowledge it. Were u hoping it'd get as bad as 500/$ by today?

You are intelligent. Thumbs up

Can Religion be tagged as Habit? especially the fanatical kind.

funny people...lolzzz

Amberon:
That means sin still has power over you. By doing so, you're tying yourself down. I used to always go back to watching pornography but nowadays whenever the thought comes into my mind I say this, "why should I watch porn, I am a child of God", and say a prayer and cover my thoughts with the blood of Jesus. Nowadays, I don't feel the urge to watch porn anymore.

It is difficult for an average entity driven by hormones to resist sin.
Testosterone leads many men to sin.

haryomikun:
am tellin u man. they just want you to believe without facts. even atheists sef arent different from religious people.

i believe this topic on my blog will interest you.....

Help Cure An Irreligious Man's Belief

http://www.themchub.com/2016/02/help-cure-irreligious-mans-belief.html

Thanks Bro.

haryomikun:
I used to be like you bro but one day I asked myself something.... if there is really hell does it mean all Africans from the time of Jesus down to the 20th century went to hell for not believing in Jesus?

I decided it was a lie and it was bullish*t

I was expecting a non existent rapture

You see, one issue I have with most conventional Christians is that, they are averse to questions that has to do with logic. When curiosity triggers one to ask a certain question they tag it as blasphemy bla bla.

Up till now, no one can tell me where I was 1000 yrs ago.

This is a front page material

This is deeply insightful.
I live almost everyday with the hell fire mentality.

sex before marriage nko?

sonofthunder:
you should be telling me... you seem to know

And you believe you will go to hell or Heaven after you die?
Mind you,I am a Christian but not the fanatical type like your lots

sonofthunder:
... God is Spirit and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth.

Where were you 1000 yrs ago?

I don't believe the loving merciful God I have come to know about, will burn me in hell, for having sex,because I am not ready to marry.

. Lolzzz

MrCork:
....today u want me..toomorrow u hate me.....Make up yorr mind gademmmit!!

Lolzzz.

You forgot to mention Mr Seun.

ColinAdua:
YES!!! Tyler Perry's movies are one of the life scripts I use. The major script is the Holy Scriptures (The Bible) which is not crazy about marriage today, but crazy about Christian EVANGELISM (1 Corinthians 7 : 8, 26, 38. Mark 16 : 15 -18)

I like Tyler Perry's movies because they are mirrors, they are reflections of marriages in our societies today. They exposes the ills and challenges in marriages in our societies today, to get us fully aware, equip and prepared, if we after all wants to tow that uncertain unnecessary path.

Tyler Perry himself is not married at 45, despite being one of the richest African American movie director and producer.

I wish I had watched "Temptation: Confession of a marriage counselor" by 2003, ten years before it was produced and released. I would have been properly prepared when I found myself in almost the same situation like Brice, 10 years before.

Very soon, your eyes will open and you will know that marriage is no JOKE, by then we will know who is a joke between you and me. You will come back here to find consolation in this thread, and if you are sincere and truthful to yourself, you will tell me "I envy you, I wish I can be strong like you"

A lot of my pro-marriage friends with all these unrealistic, unmet, unfulfilled marriage bliss fantasies, usually come back after arguing with me to tell me "Colin I envy you. I wish I can be like you"

Am an old man and I used to be a Christian Marriage counselor, especially in the area of sexual maladjustment/incompatibility. Most people I counseled do not even know that am not married.

I heal marriages. I have been in the forefront. I know the problems/foolishness of marriages. They are three;
1) Selfishness,
2) Frustrations due to unmet expectations(selfishness),
3) Unwillingness by couples, to bend down, sacrifice and working on their marriages(this is the worst caused by selfishness).

These three problems, are very difficult for a lot of people both Christians and unbelievers to work on. That's why marriage is not worth it today.

People are too selfish today (even the so called born agains) to bend down and work on their marriages, so am better off the way I am. A single.

So, from the experiences of people I counsel, my Bible and my personal target/aim in life, I have come to the realization that marriage doesn't worth it.

Believe me, it doesn't!!

God bless you. [

Bros since you ain't gonna marry, how will you cope with sex? remember body no be firewood sir.

killjoy:
@ColinAdua. NYC idea. wud create a bachelor's group one of dis days. more power to Ur elbow

Bro I am still waiting for this group.

Gluthatione:
I'm sorry for the late reply truly man is has innate nature and desire to always want to have sex but man is never polygamous in nature that's wrong notion bro! When God created Adam he created only one woman which is eve .Even those u mentioned above are involved in polygamous but is never the will of God for their lives, when u study your bible very well u will see clearly that polygamous life they live have negative effect over their lives. Don't let me bore u with words go to new testament non of apostles or early Christians were recorded to have many wives. we can tame our sexual desire but we cannot do it alone that we need d power of Holy Spirit that's reason d bible says we can do all things through Christ that strengthened us.
In conclusion brother go and marry if u are of marriageable age.

Nice assertions Bro, I need not dabble more on the polygamous issue,but concerning the marriage aspect ,it amazes me whenever a conji pressed guy is advised to go marry if he is of marriageable age because not all guys in that stage can marry,even though they wished too. Well I believe in the Holy Spirit ,and hope its anointing will shower upon us so as to enable us enter into the institution without facing much wahala.

BrightEye:
I hope so too... cos I've already purchased their DLC form... lol.

We are together. It is well bro

So UI also owes its staff?

I hope this won't affects its Dlc students.

UyiIredia:
Ol boy I go dry happy o. If ddm like make dem call me psychopath. When we were spending on r precious time to plead and warn them they were laffing and feeling Behind so if they roast I go dey stroll from heaven reach their side to laugh at their stupidity.

lol, this must be a joke.
Moreover, how you take know say you go enter Heaven where be say you don taste puna

Gluthatione:
Brother is not that easy to put ones sexual urge in check because man is sexual being but let me share this little thing that may be of great help.I don't know your religion but for me I'm a Christian . The first thing is to surrender ur life to Christ and be a committed Christian in your local church by joining a unit.It doesn't stop there avoid pornography and any sex related story.Sex is a thing of d mind engage urself in meaningful activities and don't just invite any female in your house lastly fast occasionally, pray and read ur bible daily.Finally flee from any appear of lusful act.Let me give u example of what I experienced today there is this lady that lives opposite my House she has been stalking me and she has even visited me several times.I was standing in front of my house because I didn't go to work today, she saw me and invited me to her room . I entered and I sat down and she slept on d floor facing me @ a point in time she was looking @ someone how I know something is about to happened I know she want me to make some move.Immediately I told her I'm going though she vehemently opposed this but I left her room before it happened oooo. konji is bastard that is d reason that bible ask us to flee!

This is serious Bro.
Well,I am a Christian like you,albeit I have tried most of what you mentioned to suppressed it,but still d drive keeps coming in a voracious thrust. Back then as a teenager I used to think it was the devil factor of manipulation. But now, I believe its innate, man is polygamous in nature "Abraham,King David,Solomon,Jacob etc" .
I do ask myself how long do I think I can overwhelm this urge. I feel my body system is saturated with lots of semens lol.
But ,finally God made man this way.Why should man burn in hell for indulging in an act endorsed by nature?

KingMEXX:
My dear friend, truth be told dat every religion claims to be right even atheism and so dnt bring in d blame game here. Yu atheists have been on d neck of Christians not becos of yur excuse stated above buh becos yu believ dat Christians have seen d light and are followin d right part. If yu feel its a lie, why arent yu atheists obsessed wit Islam or Hinduism d way yur obsessed wit Christianity? Whyt haven't yu atheists attacked dose religions d way yu've attacked Christians?? It is obvious dat yu atheists were former Christians who deviated, and nw are lookin for yur own members. Yu atheists tink dat convertin as many ppl to your belief wuld make such beliefs ryt and just? Am sorry my friend, it doesnt work like dat. We are deep rooted to our Religion, and on d last day we wuld knw who ws right or wrong. God bless you my friend!

Will you be happy seeing your fellow species burning in hell? Moreover are you married?If no are you a virgin?thanks

Gluthatione:
thanks

I don't mind if you can elucidate me on how you tend to control yours,because I am kind of finding it very difficult suppressing those killer urges

marcopollo:
O yes, my dear, I've considered it and I'm fully persuaded that there will be resurrection of the dead. Bros you don't have anything to lose believing that Jesus died for your sins and he was buried and God raised him up from death to gift us eternal life (1 Corinthians 15.1-4). Any other thing in addition or subtraction you hear out there is man made. His resurrection is a proof of our own resurrection. Amen.

Are you a virgin? Just curious. no offense

Gluthatione:
No, I'm not a virgin but I have never had sex for past 15years though d urge is high anyway

I like your sincerity sir

doveda:
Yes now
Blame the society and our culture

Lol. Babe now you are being realistic. But I don't think society and culture should be blame. Instead blame poverty and greed.

doveda:
They should not marry na

Marriage for me, is pleasing God and doing a favour to that lucky man

Lolzzz, for real See subjective idea . "Marriage for you is pleasing God" yet all you seek for is to marry a very rich man? issorite.
Well I am not against marriage ooo. But the way most of these women carry relationship and marriage is as if its a job opportunity. Make una no dey frustrate men Biko.tanks

Toks2008:
I can show you the way to the lagos lagoon.

You dont like my threads yet you keep visiting them.

What is my own with ladies?im only stating the obvious and i sense its touching somewhere in you.

Bro, bring it on. The truth is bitter.
This lackadaisical attitudes of these women is the main reason most Nigerian men are becoming Gamophobic.
More or reason I don't blame killjoy for creating d thread "seven reasons why guys should not marry"

mayorall:
Walk with God and forget walking with men. deal without emotions. Emotions is sometimes used by the devil to make us fall into sin. Only God's commandment can keep us on our daily endeavours.

What did you just typed up there?
Emotions is used by the devil?
Karl Marx was not speaking gibberish when he stated that Religion is the opine of the mind

Humblebloke:
Its not an opinion......its a proven fact


Back in the days,in some societies , people killed to survive....it was the norm.....'' Kill or be killed''
.......Its no more a way of life in this age and time

People were burnt alive for breaking the rules....... That doesn't happen now..... There are new laws in place

I could go on an on......


The two faced bible confirms this........the jews(god of the old testament) were cool with offering sacrifices,killing people who did not adhere to their laws.....


Centuries later.......the laws were 'reorganised'..... Perhaps, the men at the helm of affairs were not cool with the old laws
.....


So you see ma'am...... Laws, just like religion are societal constructs......we(humans) made them and we can change them.


No god made laws for mankind....... Mankind made laws for mankind.

If the law of having sex before marriage as yardstick to be in locked in hell is revamped. Broke bachelors or men that don't want marriage would be happy.

uchkochi:
A LIFE OF THE SPIRIT.

WHEN YOUR SPIRIT BECOMES STRONGER THAN YOUR FLESH THEN THE FULLNESS OF GOD WILL BEGIN TO MANIFEST. IT IS CALLED THE HIGHER LIFE. IT IS A RHELM WHERE YOU GET WHATEVER YOU SAY INSTANTLY. TO GET TO THIS POINT YOU HAVE TO KILL THE FLESH DAILY. YOU CANNOT KILL THE FLESH TODAY AND EXPECT IT TO REMAIN DEAD TOMORROW. YOU HAVE TO PUT IT UNDER DAILY.

SOME TIMES YOU HAVE TO SKIP MEALS BY FASTING, YOU WILL HAVE TO REDUCE SLEEP AT NIGHT. STOPPING THE THINGS THE FLESH LIKES THE MOST WILL START THE LIFE OF THE SPIRIT IN A HIGHER FREQUENCY.

THE PLEASURES OF THE FLESH IS NOT AS PLEASURABLE AS THAT OF THE SPIRIT. GODLINESS IS PROFITABLE UNTO ALL THINGS. THE LIFE OF THE SPIRIT IS THE LIFE OF THE WORD, THE LIFE OF THE WORD IS THE LIFE OF FAITH AND THE SMALLEST FAITH CAN MOVE THE BIGGEST MOUNTAIN-SIZED CHALLENGE. PRAYERS AND FASTING AS A LIFE STYLE IS A PLUS, STUDYING, APPLYING AND THINKING THE WORD REGULARLY WILL BOOST YOUR ACCESS TO THIS RHELM. TO BE CARNALLY MINDED IS DEATH, BUT TO BE SPIRITUALLY MINDED IS LIFE AND PEACE.

THAT PRESENT CHALLENGE WILL TEAR OFF ON ITS OWN LIKE A MAN TRYING TO WEAR A TWO MONTH OLD BABY'S DRESS WHEN YOU ARE SPIRITUALLY ROBUST. WELCOME TO THE HIGHER LIFE. 1st Timothy 4:8, Romans 8:6.

Bro nice one, but if I may ask ,are you a virgin? just curious.
Moreover, I tried all the fasting and prayer ,still yet, spiritual conji is still disturbing me. My flesh needs to offload some semens as a result of hormones. So if I finally starts having sex i will be tagged a sinner abi? issorite